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Everything About Epublishing
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So You Want to Write a Novel
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The Write Stuff
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5 Steps to Success
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Two Girls Kissing
by Amie M. Evans
Be a Finisher ...
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The Manuscript Critique
How to Submit Your Work
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Adventures in e-Publishing
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For the Love of Man
by Laura Baumbach

How to...Influence Editors
by Alison Tyler

Marketing your e-Book
by Brenna Lyons

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Following the Pen
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Good Girl Gone Bad
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Slow, Spare and Sexy

Get All Worked Up
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Raising Daughters
Jamie Lynn
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Election '08
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Pondering Porn
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Masturbating on SSRIs
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Sex Is All Metaphors
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Sex Is All Metaphors
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The Accidental Pornographer
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The End of Innocence
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Get Them Off in High Style
Helena Settimana

So, You Want To Write Erotica?
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Web Gems
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Instant Orgasm

by Steve Bodansky, PhD and Vera Bodansky, PhD

Book Review by Ashley Lister


Instant OrgasmWhen the publicist at Hunter House first contacted me and asked if I would be interested in reviewing Instant Orgasm, I immediately said yes.  It arrived on my doorstep the following day and, when I opened the package, I thought, “Instant Orgasms!  Wow!  That came quickly!

Ok.  It’s a cheap joke.  But it’s post-modern irony and it made me smile. 

The basic tenet behind Instant Orgasm is that orgasmic pleasure can be had instantly.  Speaking as a man, I’ve always believed this to be true and most of the women I’ve known have commented on my impressive ability to have an instant orgasm.  Not all of the comments have been favourable.  (There goes that post-modern irony again).  I shall now put on my serious voice and proceed with this review in a fit and proper manner.

We are not saying the orgasm lasts for an instant but rather that a person can become orgasmic in an instant.  And the instant can be extended for as long as one desires, one stroke at a time.” 

Drs S and V Bodansky are a gifted pair of sexperts.  Authors of Extended Massive Orgasm, The Illustrated Extended Massive Orgasm and To Bed or Not to Bed, they have been successfully teaching the art of sexual arousal since 1983.  Instant Orgasm follows their previous line of teaching, balancing a blend of clearly explained technical information with practical ideas and advice on how best to take advantage of their insights.

The cleverness about this book is that it’s been written by a couple who are both experts in the field of sexual relationships.  This works on many levels, giving insights into how the opposite sex are likely to respond, how the same sex are most effectively stimulated and how to get the most satisfying results from self-stimulation for either gender.

Naysayers are likely to suggest that they already know these techniques—or at least they know enough to get them through those vital three minutes of the night.  And it’s a valid point that most of us have reached our current stage of sexual mastery without the assistance of a sexual self-help manual.  But, as Socrates pithily observed: The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.  Actually, it wasn’t just Socrates who said that.  My wife keeps assuring me of that point over and over again. 

But it should be conceded that, whatever any of us have learnt through the trial-and-error of our previous sexual experiences, confirming and compounding that knowledge with the help of a carefully written manual can prove beneficial.  And Instant Orgasm is a very well written manual.  Copiously illustrated, including chapters on opening your mind, self-pleasure, partnered pleasure and advanced tips for creating orgasms, the book takes the reader on a journey of self-discovery that endeavours to be wholly satisfying. 

The book is not devoted solely to techniques that can be used by women.  There are chapters and subchapters exclusively aimed at men.  But, because it’s usually easier (both physically and psychologically) for men to achieve states of heightened arousal and orgasm, the focus of the book deals with increasing pleasure and satisfaction for women.  This is not meant as a complaint.  The majority of heterosexual male readers will surely be delighted with suggestions and advice on how to improve their techniques to their partner’s satisfaction. 

But, regardless of this minor imbalance, Instant Orgasm is one of those books that every committed couple should read together if they want to take their shared passion to the next level of satisfaction.  In the current consumerist climate that demands immediate gratification, it’s heartening to know that someone is finally applying the Instant Orgasm mentality to our sexual needs.

Ashley Lister
August 2008

Instant Orgasm by Drs S and V Bodansky
(Hunter House; May 2008; ISBN-10: 089793508X)
Available at:  / Amazon UK  / Powell's Books

© 2008 Ashley Lister. All rights reserved.

About the Author: Ashley Lister is a UK author responsible for more than two-dozen erotic novels written under a variety of pseudonyms.His most recent work, Swingers: True Confessions from Today's Modern Swinging Scene (Virgin Books; ISBN: 0753511355), a non-fiction book recounting the exploits of UK swingers, is his first title published under his own name.
Ashleys non-fiction has appeared in a variety of magazines, including Forum, Chapter & Verse and The International Journal of Erotica. Nexus, Chimera and Silver Moon have published his full-length fiction, with shorter stories appearing in anthologies edited by Maxim Jakubowski, Rachel Kramer Bussel and Mitzi Szereto. He is very proud to be a regular contributor to ERWA.
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'08 Movie Reviews

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The Fold
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'08 Book Reviews


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Best Women's Erotica '08
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Dirty Girls
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Hide and Seek
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Hurts So Good
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J is for Jealousy
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K is for Kink
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Lust Bites
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Open for Business
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Rubber Sex
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Rubber Sex
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Seriously Sexy
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Sex & Candy
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The Shadow of a... (poetry)
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Tasting Her
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Tasting Him
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Tasting Him
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White Flames
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Yes, Ma'am: Male Submission
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Yes, Sir: Female Submission
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The Art of Melinoe
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Demon by Day
Review by Lisabet Sarai

Gemini Heat
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Gothic Heat
Review by Ashley Lister

The Hidden Grotto Series
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The House of Blood
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In Too Deep
Review by Ashley Lister

In Too Deep
Review by Victoria Blisse

Review by Donna George Storey

Review by Victoria Blisse

One Breath at a Time
Review by Angelika Devlyn

Out of the Shadows (ebook)
Review by Lisabet Sarai

Review by Ashley Lister

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Seduce Me
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Seduced by the Storm
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Serve the People!
Review by Donna G. Storey

Signed, Sealed and Delivered
Review by Lisabet Sarai

Sunfire (eBook)
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Templar Prize
Review by Angelika Devlyn

The Wicked Sex
Review by Ashley Lister

Wild Kingdom
Review by Angelika Devlyn

Gay Erotica

Review by Vincent Diamond

Best Gay Romance '08
Review by Vincent Diamond

Hard Hats
Review by Vincent Diamond

Review by Kathleen Bradean

Lesbian Erotica

Best Lesbian Erotica '08
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Best Lesbian Erotica '08
Review by Ashley Lister

The Night Watch
Review by Lisabet Sarai


America Unzipped
Review by Rob Hardy

Best Sex Writing '08
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Bonk: The Curious Coupling
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The Book of Love
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Casanova: Actor Lover ...
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Dishonorable Passions
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Flagrante Delicto (photos)
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The Flesh Press
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Geisha, Harlot, Strangler, Star
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Instant Orgasm (sex guide)
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Man O Man! Writing M/M...
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The Not So Invisible Woman
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Swingers: Female...
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Who's Been Sleeping in...
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