Age and Sex

Like fine wine … or vinegar?

Has sex changed for you with the changing of years?  I'm an older person and I know my own sexual feelings have evolved with age.  I'm sure others have experienced changes in their sex life as they get older too. I'd like to hear what men and women have to say about how sex has changed for them with the changing of the years.  —Anonymous

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From Goldie
Of course it is better as we age!! We are more experienced, skilled, less fearful and certainly more adventurous. I can do things now that I never thought I would as a young person. The problem is finding that person who awakens desire. More often than not, a toy far exceeds what most can give at this age.

From Anonymous
Has sex changed for me over the years?  In a word, yes.  It went from occasional, when I was married, to non-existent, now that I'm not.  At first, I missed it, a lot.  But then I was also perimenopausal at that time and my libido was in total overdrive.  But I'm not the sort of person to go out and have flings, or one night stands, just to satisfy the physical urges.  I did try it.  I didn't like it, and I especially didn't like the way I felt afterward.  At first, I thought I'd go crazy, but a very good friend told me to be patient, it would pass.  That friend was right.  When it got too bad, self-pleasure worked to relieve the tension.  Then self-pleasuring became a sort of sedative when I had trouble sleeping.

But even that waned.  Now my energy and interest go in other pursuits. Now that I'm older, I'm no longer willing to settle for less than what I want. But then, that's just me.  Your mileage will vary.

From Trixie
Anyone who thinks sex is the province of the young has got it all wrong. In the 50,60 and older age bracket we know what we want and we know how to express our needs. For the first time in my life I know the joys of lovemaking with an uncircumcised male - a man of infinite talent who meets my every need. No 20-30-40 year old bloke would have a clue!

From Del
I was very pleasantly surprised when I met at a computer show an old business partner for the first time in almost ten years.  She was now 45, married with children, me 67 and now divorced.  Cut a long story short we had dinner followed by some amazing sex.  We started with a 69, progressing to two very satisfying fucks. 

The pleasant surprise was her genuine appreciation for a very exciting evening, complimenting me on my ability to get a fresh erection, a large one each time, so quickly after climaxing and producing such a large amount of cum on all three occasions.  As a gentleman I said it was all down to her being so sexy and arousing me so successfully.  I also said that at 67, bald and with a paunch I wasn't totally over the hill!

From Anonymous
I am a 51 year old and the older I get, the better it gets and the experiences are mind boggling. Give me a older man any day compared to someone I have to teach something.

From l
I'm only twenty-five, so I still have a bit before I hit sixty, but I have worried that life would be sexless at that age. Thank you so much for posting your thoughts. You've reassured me! Keep it up! 

From Gussy
I was married to a lovely lady who just passed away, she was 27 yrs older and was  a lovely woman. Ben Franklin, America's 1st electrician, was right when he said,"Prefer older ladies to younger ladies." And for a guy with a fetish for ladies in 1/2glasses like for reading, well this lady did a lot of great things with hers, which she kept hooked to a string of pearls, and her heels too! She was so loving and willing to mess with her hubby's fetishes. I miss her dearly.

From Marilyn
I'm 66 and as horny today as I was when a teenager.  Hubby and I have sex in one form or another every evening and weekends.  We are not swingers but if our friends are in the mood then we'll invite them to ours for the weekend, enjoying some very satisfying couples sex.  I also have my figure and looks and a regular model for lingerie sessions at hubby's photographic club, the younger guys stunned I can exude sex appeal at my age.

From Jessi
I'm 34 and recently had sex with a 66 y/o work colleague.  Although retired he works as a consultant at the ad agency I'm with.  After the Christmas party  I went back to his apartment.  When he fucked me he shot so much cum I began to wonder if he was some form of sex freak, his stuff was still running out of my pussy five minutes after he'd shot.  The second time was a lot less, I was giving him head but didn't want to swallow so he shot over my boobs, just a few blobs.  Still, a great experience but it had me wondering if old age did really mean less cum.

From Ted
We're both 59 years old and having a better time than in past years. We've got the house to ourselves, fewer distractions and definitely fewer inhibitions. Neither of us is bashful about what turns us on and gets us off. Being more open is proving to be very erotic.

From Dan
What sex?  Several years ago my wife announced she was not going to suck me anymore as it gave her a sore throat.  I checked with my Dr., found no problem so problem had to be wife's.  Several years later I became impotent, tried the various cures, etc. nothing helped.  I have discovered I can still have an orgasm via fellatio but of course that's not happening now as my wife suffers a non - existent sore throat afterwards.

I can of course bring her to an orgasm via use of my hand or mouth, but with no reciprocation it ain't happening. I repeat, what sex?

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