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age and sexHas sex changed for you with the changing of years?  I'm an older person and I know my own sexual feelings have evolved with age.  I'm sure others have experienced changes in their sex life as they get older too. I'd like to hear what men and women have to say about how sex has changed for them with the changing of the years.  —Anonymous

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From Nicole
It used to be more often, now it usually only happens once a week.  However, I have more intense orgasms than I used to, which isn't such a bad trade off.

From David
My wife and I are both in our sixties. We have not had a very active sex life for several years. I have not been able to perform very well for a while. I have tried to talk with my wife about her sexual desires. She claims that she has none and doesn't think about it anymore. I really think that she's sexually frusterated.

I have actually talked with her about getting a boyfriend, just to talk with and maybe go out to dinner. My fantasy is that she would find a guy where she works maybe even a younger one. She is very attractive women and I don't think it would hard for her to get a date. I would like to help her shopping for some sexy outfits to go out in. She looks so good in tight skirts, low cut blouses and heels. I can see her waiting for her date, all dressed up getting nervous and excited.

From DBShaw
I think for myself, the intimacy has improved greatly.  When younger, the sexual conquests equated to a "notches on my gun" mentality.  Quantity over quality. Now I find that quality overshadows all else.  It is safe, slow and genuine.

From Emma
I think that accepting sexuality in our bodies as we age is something that creeps up on us. We have to accept it like sagging skin or age spots. Before you know it, it's here.

I once saw an erotic photograph exhibit at a gallery about the aged. These were large photographic prints of men and women in their 60s and beyond in erotic poses. Lots of nodding approval and furrowed brows but everyone was a bit over-earnest the praise. It was uncomfortable. I mean, I hope I am sexually active when I reach that age. Though I suspect it will not make a difference in the grand scheme of things.

From l
I'm only twenty-five, so I still have a bit before I hit sixty, but I have worried that life would be sexless at that age. Thank you so much for posting your thoughts. You've reassured me! Keep it up! 

From Sparklekat
I am 60. Sex at this moment is a complete disappointment. I've always been active sexually and so has my husband. But in the past few years I do nothing but fight with him about this. He says he doesn't feel like it. He went to Dr. for his yearly physical and asked the Dr to check his testosterone level. I'm hoping that this will be the beginning of us regaining our love making.

From Songbirds
I'm 71, my lover is 79 and we have regular love-making sessions. Not maybe the way we did it 30 years ago but, oh man, it's delicious not having to be selfconcious, but to be liberated and playful without shame and with lots of laughter is just wonderful. Go for and love-making has no age restriction.

From Goldie
Of course it is better as we age!! We are more experienced, skilled, less fearful and certainly more adventurous. I can do things now that I never thought I would as a young person. The problem is finding that person who awakens desire. More often than not, a toy far exceeds what most can give at this age.

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