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From Sue
I find anal sex enjoyable as an occasional thing. I hate, absolutely hate ramming hard fucking type anal sex. Ramming a dick or a dildo up the ass is a really hurts, it's dangerous (delicate tissue up there, folks, be careful), and hardly sexy. Be nice to your butt, treat it with sensual delight and it will reward you with years of good service.

From Jim
My girlfriend asked me to perform anal sex on her.  She said she was a virgin "back there" and wanted to lose that virginity with me.  I was excited about the concept!  I studied up on this practice and was ready the night she exposed her backside to me (doggie style)... asking me to take her anal virginity.  I lubed her up and obliged.  As soon as the head of my penis entered her anus, she shot off holding her buttcheeks with both hands and started crying talking about how bad I had hurt her.  Of course, it left me feeling like a pile of you know what.  

I thought the chances of my having anal sex with her were over, but, a few days later, she wanted to try again.  This time, I relaxed her by performing oral sex on her and by lubing her anus and rubbing it with my lubed fingers.  I then lubed my penis and her anus again.  I had her lay on her stomach and we put a pillow under her hips.  She parted her legs for me and I positioned myself.  Entry was deliberately slow and gentle.  Once I was in her anus up to my balls, I asked if she wanted me to start stroking.  She said "yes" and held onto my hands as I did so.  Needless to say, she started moving and meeting with my strokes.  This time, it was much more pleasant for her and for me.  I was able to finish in her and she said it was enjoyable for her and that she couldn't wait to experience this with me again.  

Men ... take your time ... use LOTS of lube on her anus and on your penis ... be slow, deliberate, and gentle.  She will tell you what to do from there ... ASK!

From Sally
In response to Jack [see entry below], anal sex is not for me either. We tried it several times just to see what the hoopla is about, and frankly neither of us enjoyed it. My husband, he truly does enjoy a backside view, he's an ass man all the way. But like Jack, he has absolutely no fascination with butt-holes and all I can say is thank goodness. 

From Jack
Nope, anal sex is not for me. Maybe I'm "anally" retentive, but I'm just not attracted to the opening of the anus, not one bit! I love a girl's ass, I love to take a woman from behind, doggie-style or standing up, but I have absolutely no fascination for the butt-hole, or putting my fingers there, licking it, or anything, and I don't want anybody fiddling in the area of my butt hole either! 

I'm quite surprised about how many people are into anal sex. I'm curious to know about what the percentages are. Looking at this forum you'd think it was about 90% of people practicing anal sex, but I guess the non-anal sex lovers just stay quiet.

From Sessywench
It took me a long time to agree to having anal sex with my husband.  I was really turned off by the poo factor and how him with his queasy stomach would react in such an intimate moment, so no, just no, would not go there. But he's a resourceful chap and one day came home with an enema kit.  Had me assume the position and that was the start of a whole new chapter. I get incredibly horny submitting to the enema, fingering as the hot water seeps into my ass. An orgasm from anal sex for me is much more intense than any other, it's especially superb when it is simultaneous, clit and anal orgasm at the same that's a religious experience.

From Sue
For most us ladies cum leaks as a result of anal sex, regardless of a simple tissue wipe. And panties doesn't stop the leak, they simply catch it before it rolls down the thighs. It's the same thing as cum in the vagina; it simply leaks out. So it goes for anal sex. Unless he's using a condom, when a man ejaculates in whatever orifice, be it vagina, mouth or ass, he leaves a little juicy something behind. Where do you think it's going to go? Either it's swallowed, spit, or oozes out. Just more proof that sex is wet, sloppy, and fun. 

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