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From Nancy
I tried anal sex several times, my husband and I learning the recommended way to go about it without pain, only pleasure. Well, no pleasure here, didn't feel sexy, no orgasm, just a mild dislike. To be honest, my thoughts on the matter is, come on already, you guys can fuck a vagina, a mouth, between lush breasts, and let's not forget hand-jobs. And now you want to fuck ass? I think anal sex proves the saying 'if there's a hole, fuck it'.

From Sue
What are you thinking! (I sure hope you're not getting your info from adult movies or internet porn) Good grief, Maya, most people do use condoms during anal sex. Especially people not in monogamous relationships. Think about AIDS, and STDs. [see Maya's entry below]. Another good reason to use condoms during anal sex is that they prevent the god awful 'leaking' afterward. Think sperm dripping out of your ass as you go about your day. Yuck.

People who don't use condoms either have no problems with the messiness of, or if they want to avoid any possible mess, they use an Anal Douche (also called an enema) before anal sex.

From Maya
Ok, this may seem as a stupid question but I really want to ask this. Most people do not use condoms during anal sex. So, what do you do to clean your anus so that a penis, once it is out of the hole, doesn't get all messy. What do you use for cleaning and how do you reach deep inside because I can clean as deep as my fingers length which is, of course, shorter than the penis.

From Anonymous
I've had anal sex three times and could never get used to it. I wasn't very fond of doing it that way in the first place but did it for my husband anyway. I thought it felt as if I was going to the bathroom in reverse. It was horrible all three times.

From Greg
Anonymous - yes, of course it is a health hazard!  Don't try it unless you want to get some pretty nasty illnesses.  Whether your partner is your wife, girl or guy friend, the ass is where the waste leaves the body and it's toxic!  Fingering and fisting are both great but be ever careful.  Fucking ass is much better and if you know your partner then go bare backed but if you don't always consider using a rubber.

From Anonymous
I'm curious as to the appeal of "ass to mouth" in porn films - 'to each his own' and all that, but, besides the "ick" factor, isn't it a health hazard?

From Debbie
One night my husband was giving me oral sex and I was really turned on with his technique that night. His fingers had been in my pussy and he pulled them out and then used his tongue. He moved one finger to my anus and it felt so nice. He lightly pushed and applied pressure. I wanted him to go inside me it felt so nice, but it was not sliding in very easy. I suggested some lube and he took the hint and got some lube on his finger. He then returned and slowly inserted his finger in my ass. It was a totally different feeling and it felt nice. After a little bit of anal play, I just needed to have his cock in me to finish me. As I think about anal play, I have no desire for it. But when I get turned on and he gets down there, I sometimes desire it.

A few weeks later, we did a joint anal finger session which was very hot. One of these times I think I would like to feel his cock at my ass and see how it feels to be penetrated with a big cock in my ass. Just haven't come across the right time yet.

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