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From Rob Calvert
Anal sex takes getting used to. I've had anal sex with my wife of 52 years now 3 times. The first time we were about in our mid 30s. She said she was sore for days and it felt like she had less bowel control. The second time we had been to a party and they played a film with John Holmes sticking his monster cock up a playboy bunny's ass. She couldn't take all of him but my god she was gorgeous. Well that film must have turned my wife on because the next day she was outside weeding the vegetable boxes and called me to come out there. When I stepped out the sliding glass door she said to my surprise; "I want you to fuck me up the ass!" Well folks she thrilled my dick to instant stiff and we marched into the house and I took her right there on the living room floor on her knees. This time it was better and there was not that loose bowel feeling she had before. 

Then just a few years ago she showed more foresight than I could have mustered when I developed prostate cancer and had to have it removed. So in her thoughtful and mature nature she came into the bed room and whispered in my ear; "Honey, fuck me in the ass one last time." So I did with relish and this time she had a crashing orgasm with me as a fitting close to our last time. So those of you that still can, and want to, please stuff her beautiful ass full of hard cock, and give her one for us.

Now for those that have mentioned that anal sex is messy the following day, I can offer my solution to a painful rectum. I have made what I call a "Poor Man's Bidet." Basically it is a 1/2 gallon bottle, with a windshield wiper motor/pump, some tubing, a plug-in 12 volt transformer and a push-button switch. Don't laugh, this simple device has cured my painful hemorrhoids, has virtually eliminated toilet paper use and will perform a gentle colonic flush. The windshield washer motor is not strong enough to give you a true enema and is absolutely safe to use. It would of course be ideal to flush the lower colon prior to anal sex. So if your able, keep pumping the bum.

From Nobody Jones
My wife and I sometimes have anal sex without extra lube, using only her vaginal juices, at her request. It's great for both of us - no pain, just pleasure, since she gets really wet. I just slide out of one and into the other. It's definitely only an option for people with a lot of experience having anal sex, but if you can make it work, it's awesome, like the best of both worlds.

From Sue
Geez, Bob, don't know what kind of anal sex your wife has, but for most us ladies cum leaks as a result of anal sex regardless of a simple tissue wipe. And panties doesn't stop the leak, they simply catch it before it rolls down the thighs. [see Bob's entry below]

It's the same thing as cum in the vagina; it simply leaks out. So it goes for anal sex. Unless he's using a condom, when a man ejaculates in whatever orifice, be it vagina, mouth or ass, he leaves a little juicy something behind. Where do you think it's going to go? Either it's swallowed, spit, or oozes out. Just more proof that sex is wet, sloppy, and fun. 

From Elizabeth
I have a secret lover...one that only fucks my ass. I call him when I'm in the mood for that special, pleasurable pain. Phillip is a beautiful black man, with a long, but not too thick penis. The first time he took me, he was fucking my pussy from behind. I was all wet and squishy, and to tell the truth, it was starting to hurt a bit. His hard 10 inches was just a bit much for me to take this way. I don't know if he sensed what I was thinking, but he suddenly pulled out of my pussy, pushed the head of his dick against my anus, and told me he was going to fuck my ass. The shock I felt was nothing compared to the desire that suddenly coursed through me. My erect nipples seemed to fill even more and became instant granite. I pushed myself back against him, felt the head of his cock begin to stretch the opening of my ass. The slut that was always buried inside my catholic girl facade came screaming out that day.

I demanded that he do it. "Don't hold back...come on...fuck me hard...fuck my ass NOW!". One quick, hard thrust from him, one painful scream from me, and he was buried inside me. He knew that it hurt me, but knew that it would pass after a few steady breaths. He was draped over my back, and crooned softly into my ear as he started to gently rock himself in and out of me. My ass was on fire, but underneath it all, my need and my want was feeding on that burn, and before I knew it, my soft "no's" were turning into "oh yes". 

Soon, I was slamming myself back to meet each of his thrusts. My ass felt so deliciously full, and my pussy was dripping wet. Phillip reached up and filled his hands with my full breasts, pinching my nipples as he pumped me. That was too much for me, and I started to come. I pushed my ass tight down against him and squeezed myself closed around him. The sensation was too much for his cock, and he came in hot spurts inside of me. I was almost completely worn out, but oh my god, so ready to go again. 

We became somewhat regular for awhile, but while Phillip is fun for me to play with, he does not fulfill all of my needs. I now have a steady boyfriend, but Phillip and I still meet once a month for an ass banging that leaves me walking funny for a day or two. I love my boyfriend, but I think of having Phillip in my ass, and I just melt. I consider this my own personal monthly gift to myself....and I'm worth it!

From Bob
Thanks to an experience while on holiday in August my fiftiesomething wife is now a devotee of anal intercourse. While I am not as large as the man who had her on holiday, it is the sensation of penis in anus that produces much of the excitement and pleasure for her. It is, she says, the narrowness of the anus and the contrasting largeness of the erect penis that causes the initial breathtaking pain and pleasure leading to ecstasy as the male's in-out thrusts speed up through to final climax. 

Cum leaking from her anus is not the problem one of your previous contributors identified - my wife or I will have tissues to hand or if with someone else she will put her panties back on. Hardly rocket science!

From Anonymous
One woman's point of view: I've read some comments about all the lube and semen causing a change in bathroom habits the next day. I would suspect you're either using the wrong kind of lube (astro-glide is very nice and actually tastes good) or using way too much. You really only need to coat the cock with light but consistent coverage of lube and some around the woman's anus, massaged in for an inch or so if possible with the goal being no skin against skin which is what causes the friction. Personally, I've found too much lube lessens the sensations I feel.

I do notice I may need to go more easily/readily the next day but surely have never experienced extensive 'leaking' or bowel problems such as those described by some of the females here. Not to say they're not telling the truth either, ok grrrls? I'm not picking at any of you.

I've tried anal with and without lube and got nowhere with the second option, Way too painful. With lube, I ask my partner to just position himself at entry, then I work myself onto him at my own pace. and, oh, by the way, he may find that he enjoys that quite a lot.

If your mate wants to do you without lube, ask him first to let you stick your finger in his ass with no lube so he can gain an understanding of what he's asking. 

First feller who tried it without lube, just kept saying, it's ok, it only hurts getting the head in—well, I had news for him. Then told him he'd only get to try that again if I could do him with a full sized dildo with no lube first. (hint to fellers here—in case you haven't really gotten the point yet, if you really want your woman to try it, do yourself a favor and use lube. The incident I'm describing is as close to rape as I've ever gotten since I told him no repeatedly but he insisted— needless to say, it was a while before I would try again and I never agreed to see him again anyway.

Fortunately my next partner showed me just how much I could enjoy it, and I do. I'm usually the one who initiates the request now with new partners.

From Lorrie
To the ladies who complain about the oozing of semen and lube afterward and the following day of anal sex, I recommend taking a small enema afterwards to clean out the colon and thus eliminate the dripping problem.

From Jay
Colonic irrigation is an answer, but not necessarily the only answer to, 'clean' anal intercourse. I have an early evening CI session once a week and allow my husband to take me anally a few hours later. It works for us and might work for other couples but does not answer the problems of the female anus suffering problems from penis length and girth but, like me, know your men, then relax!

From Ginger Anne
I am wondering what everyone's opinion is on anal sex in regards to virginity. If a woman has anal sex, but not vaginal intercourse, in your opinion, is she still a virgin? 

From Ernie
My wife first brought up the subject about 2 years ago. We tried anal sex and she loved it and so did I. We have also had 3somes with another man and it's the best to take it from behind. Now me and my wife have anal sex more than normal pussy sex.


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