From Jack
This sudden rise in BDSM interest because of poorly written book (50 Shades of Grey) is a case for how influencial fiction can be. Of course we have to figure it is also good timing with porn and erotica now in the mainstream and out of the 'naughty' underground, the adult industry and publishers need to move into something with that 'sexual shock' thing to keep sales up.

Personally, the rough stuff is not thing. I rather kiss a luscious backside, than smack it. I rather suck on puffy nipples, than clip 'em. BDSM is not my bag-gage.

From Anonymous
I have fond memories of a former girlfriend who liked to dabble in various BDSM scenes. It started out as sexy kinky fantasy talk while we fucked, than moved into spankings, handcuffs, bondage, all sorts of things. Hot hot hot! Like Jose said [see Jose's entry below], it is hard to find a playmate, in the meantime the kinky Internet is were I get my kinky fix.

From Erik
50 Shades of Grey certainly has changed the way people think about BDSM. The author, now a multi-millionaire, tapped into BDSM fantasies leaving hundreds of thousands of people masturbating furisouly to tales of bondage, ben wa balls, spankings and so on, and wishing to make BDSM part of their sexual life. Three cheers for EL James for moving BDSM into the mainstream.

From Anonymous Fem
I don't want a BDSM lifestyle, I want a loveing, kind, gentle man (or woman, hey, I'm not particular) who will cherish me come hell or high water....and who is not shy about landing a spanking or tie-up and kinky sexual torment me every now and then.

From Jose
Now and then I really enjoy getting my kink on. It can be hardcore BDSM, a mild kinky play game, or something that caught my fancy and I want to give it a go. It's hard to find a girlfriend who enjoys, or is willing to try, new and different sexual scenes. But I'm an optimist, and will continue searching and searching and searching...someone hear my plea!

From Curtis
I've played for a number of years with several different women, but I have no interest in a BDSM lifestyle, I just like to play kinky games.  I've played both sides, dominant and submissive and enjoy both depending on my mood. I'm not into serious pain, nipple torture doesn't interest me, (although I think my wife would enjoy some adjustable nipple clamps).

I love spankings, giving and receiving! My first time as a submissive was in my twenties. My girlfriend blindfolded me, tied my hands, straddled my face and made me eat her until she'd come multiple times.  After her orgasms, she tied me with my legs spread and my feet up in the air and proceeded to spank me. After my ass started turning pink, she slipped her vibrator into my ass. The combination of the vibrator in my ass, and the blows from her hairbrush was mind-blowing. After my ass was bright red, and she slowed down on the spanking and started sucking my toes while she fucked me with the vibrator.  She had always liked for me to suck her toes, but no one had ever done it to me.  She finally finished me off in her mouth and then made me swallow my own cum. After she untied me and removed the blindfold she handed me my glasses and pointed to the corner of the room, she'd rented a video camera and taped the whole thing!  The rest of the weekend was nothing but one orgasm after another, all caught on tape of course.

From Anonymous
Never done any actual BDSM, but I am hugely turned on by the idea, and often use it as a fantasy during sex or masturbation. I am not into pain or humiliating domination at all, but the thought of being helpless and completely exposed to my lover is highly arousing. I tend to do what I consider "pretend" bondage, holding my arms up or out, lying spread, opening myself and relaxing completely, imagining myself completely at his mercy, and the orgasms are simply mind-bending.

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