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From Lil
I am 22 years old and 5'4 and my weight is 112 pounds. People tease me and tell me that I am very skinny. I always had this problem and even in school people used to tease me too. I try and eat all kinds of fattening foods and also vitamins but seems like it not helping. I hate myself and am planning to have kids in future. But with my body weight I am afraid that I will have problems with giving birth and all those things.

I am not comfortable with myself and when I am with my husband I feel worst. When I make love to him, I don't feel secure and think that he is not enjoying it. Even my mother-in-law says that I am too skinny. I hate when they say that. It looks like every place I go, I end up getting the same comments.

I am feeling so miserable and always stressed out just thinking about my body weight. All the clothes I wear don't look good on me. I don't get my size and always having problems in getting clothes. But most of all I hate people commenting on me and telling me that I am too skinny.

From Allie
SWF [single white female ]- almost 30...5'5" and almost 300 lbs. I've been heavy all of my life. I was the fat girl at school, always had friends, but I always knew I was different. I didn't have the boyfriends, sure I had boy "friends" - but no dates. Also, no proms. I was like the comedy relief for many of my friends and at social activities. Then when the music started everyone took a dance, while I watched.

I love my body and I love the sensual side to my body. I am not ashamed of my body or my fat. I tend to lose weight and gain weight. I am not too concerned with my "look" - but I will lose some weight for my health concerns. I don't want to be 35 and have a heart-attack in front of the tv set.

I see myself as a serious, fun-loving, life-loving, gentle creature. I have many facets to my personality. I love to look at all body types, not just "certain" types that the media or peer pressure says we "should" be like or be smitten with.

From Sheena
My body image has always been a big thing to me...I would look in the mirror and one minute liked what I saw the next I would hate it...My boyfriend has always said that I have a nice body but I always thought that I was never thin enough...I have always wanted to be stick thin-

My body has always been between curvy and stick thin...I have always thought that my breasts are too big and my arms were too fat...but than I have a flat stomach and small legs....I have always had a healthy weight and it always goes up and down because one week I will eat a lot the next I wont eat nothing at all...that's just my lifestyle I guess...

I am 5'4 110lbs and I wear a size 6-7. I have had problems with eating disorders as soon as I got into middle school and it's not as bad as it used to be but it is still there...my boyfriend says I am beautiful on the inside and the outside...but I guess I should be grateful for what God gave me...and now I know I am.

From Jolie
When I was a young girl, other children made fun of me because I was extremely skinny. Nobody makes fun of me now. I'm a thin, BUT FIT, woman today. I love my strong legs, stong back and my biceps. In order to maintain what I now have I watch what I eat, exercise every week and I take supplements. I have no interest in being lazy about it. I have no interest in becoming unfit. Taking care of myself is as important to me as my writing.

As a result, I'm a very healthy 40 year old. I work in a restaurant with servers who are in their 20's. Customers assume I'm in my 20's too, because I don't look my age.


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