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Lately, I've been thinking about getting my nipples pierced, just to find out about certain feelings I've been told about. If I don't like it, it'll take about six weeks to grow closed if anything like my ears. I could use some feedback - how do the rest of you feel about body piercing?  Do men find pierced nipples to be erotic? if yes, why? If no, why not? I'm really interested in the male POV on this one.   —Brcain9


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From Star
I have 13 piercings... It sounds like a lot but they are all tasteful and attractive. I have 5 in my ears total (one in my cartilage and two regular and 2 6g) my nose has a tiny diamond and two tiny diamonds on my bottom lip, my tongue which at one time was an 8g (I have not wore it over the past 4yrs but its still there), both my nipples, my navel, and my hood.

The one that hurt was my cartilage. I did not flinch when I got my nipples done. My friend (guy I was dating) is a piercer and I asked him if it was going to hurt because I was scared and he said nah I would like it, he was right I loved it. It was actually his idea on the day I pierced my hood (I had been wanting it for years but was always to scared) So I bet you can guess that was much more pleasure than anything. So much that we immediately had to have sex right there on the spot. My hood was never sore or swollen or anything. Once it was in it was like it had been there for years. My nipples gave me no problems either. I bumped into something a few times and they were a little tender. But both give me great pleasure and make me a lot more sensitive which is great!! It is worth it for sure.

I also have several tatts... I think both are addicting because they are such a thrill to get done. I have ran out of places that I would want to get pierced so I guess its just tatts from here on out. Cause I agree as others have stated too many in one area takes away from the attractiveness and makes it look trashy or just unattractive (at least with piercings, not so much true on the tatts) I am working on a back piece now. I have a tiny one on my foot, stars that go all the way down my ribs, three Chinese  symbols and a sun on my lower back that mean Love, Precious and Pain, stars on the front part of my shoulder, and a swallow with horns on my right shoulder blade (getting an angel one on the left side).

Well don't be afraid you only live once. If it is something that you want go for it. I am sure you will not be disappointed!

From Ghost Rider
Anonymous, I am glad to hear that you had your nipples, hood, and labia's pierced. I have enjoyed, for about 12 yrs., having my nipples pierced and also having a frenum and foreskin piercing. If you go to any resorts, to do nude swimming, check before going and make sure they don't have any restrictions against piercings in the genital area.

This will save a trip for nothing as a lot of piercings will start closing up if the jewelry is left out very long.

From Ghost Rider
Dianna, I can't tell you anything about where to go in Las Vegas to get your nipples pierced as I'm not from that area. [see Dianna's entry below] What you need to do is go to your phone book and look up body piercing. Afterwards, go by and check out the different places to see how clean the place is and to make sure that the instruments used is sterilized. As well as getting your nipples pierced, try getting a HCH piercing with a Captive Bead ring. I believe you will appreciate the results. Besides it looks very sexy.

From Doc
In 1956 I read about the Dyak penis piercing, the ampallang, and resolved to have one, one day. I started when I was 38 with a PA. I liked it a lot for the increased sensation but my wife didn't care for it so I kept it but took it out when we had sex. A few years later my wife went through chemotherapy and sex was painful for her afterwards so our sex life ended. I decided to pierce myself since I was not having sex and the healing period wasn't an issue. I gave myself an ampallang that was eventually 10ga with 3/8" balls . If our sexual activity wasn't over before, it was ended by that.

I had a couple partners during this time but they were younger women who seemed to enjoy the steel. After my wife's death I became involved with an older widow. She was very upfront about what she wanted and on our first sexual session she was a bit reluctant about my jewelry. Penetration convinced her it was a good thing and she never failed to have an orgasm when we had sex. She felt like she had not done her daily chores if we didn't have sex every night. If I didn't have the jewelry in she wanted to know where it was.

Surgery necessitated the removal of the Amp but I retained the PA. She likes it but liked the Amp better. I asked her if she wanted me to put it back in but since the hole in my glans closed up quickly it would involve another piercing. She said she doesn't want to be without sex long enough for it to heal. She is very snug (even after 4 children) and a blissfully talented lover. I've tried a Prince's Wand but I don't like it and she seems satisfied with a barbell or very large bead ring in my PA.

At nearly 70 she still wants sex every night and always has an orgasm.

From Dianna
As you can see by my e-mail this is something im very patiently waiting for! I have wanted to get my nipples pierced since I was about 16, then too chicken now finding the right person and place to do it. I get so turned on by the thought of it. I bought nipple clamps and my soon to be ex about shit wondering what I was thinking thus another reason the little **** is getting a divorce. I have been intrigued with S&M for a long time, love spankings and bondage. Bald heads and tattoos are a big thing also so anyone have any ideas of a good place in Vegas to get pierced, shout it out. Thanks.

From Tel
In the UK a fashion trend over the past five years or so has been for younger women to bare their midriff, great sight for most of us, unless the girl in question isn't that slim and shapely. Like all fashion trends it eventually spread to the older women and my wife, in her late forties, succumbed exposing her belly with low hipster jeans and skimpy tops. The belly button jewel soon followed, as did the toe rings and the anklet that matches the waist chain. 

My wife is slim with a lovely figure and sexy 38 inch boobs so she looks great on holiday and at parties in her bare midriff get-up and she is no slouch, but going to do the weekly shopping at the supermarket, well now it doesn't seem to work, despite the army of females of the same age who have also opted to bare their tummies and get belly buttons pierced, tattoos on arms, backs, shoulders, legs and ankles.

From Bink
If you're concerned about your health in relation to piercing get educated and go to a professional. Check out www.safepiercing.com the educational non-profit website of the Association of Professional Piercers. You'll be glad you did!

From Harley
I'm a male. One of the sexiest things I have done to myself is being pierced (actually self pierced). Have been for long before it was common.

Started out when I was (still am) into BDSM. I liked my nipples stretched, but the clamps had to be to tight to hold the weights. So I pierced my nipples. After they healed completely I began to enjoy the weights hung from them. I now have 2 14 gauge rings in each "enlarged" nipple

And My cock is pierced, she loves it. A 8 gauge frenum and a 8 gauge ring in my balls too.

From Annie
For my 50th birthday six years ago hubby paid for my first tattoo, a dragon design on the small of my back. We liked it so much I had a second tattoo done just above my vagina, a red rose design. My third tattoo came along last year courtesy of one of our close friends who paid for a half moon and star design on the outside of my left ankle which he enjoys kissing and licking through stockings or pantyhose whenever we meet.

From Deana
I was still a teen when I got my clit pierced and I felt absolutely no pain at all. My girlfriend is a nurse and she was able to secure a syringe and I think lidocain (sp). After it was numb she did the procedure in a few minutes. No pain at all and it is great. I have been with both men and women and everyone seems to love it.

From Chrissie
My husband is a keen amateur photographer and a member of a local photo and movie club. Soon after he joined a few years back he said they badly needed models and while I have a good bust and figure I thought being early forties was a bit old for photographic modeling. Hubby convinced to do at least one session which I did and as they were all real friendly guys I went back to do more sessions, my confidence and ego on a high with their compliments. Around the fourth session they had me trimming back my bush to a landing strip, me dyeing it blonde, shaving it all off a month or so later. Then one of the guys said I should get a tattoo down there and brought in a rock album cover with lurid red and orange flames as his idea for a design. It looked a bit OTT but hubby liked it and the guy was willing to pay for it. 

So I had it done and it took three sessions with the tattooist who came to my house to do it. The design covers the whole of the area covered by my panty with a little tip of one of the flames just peeking out and I bought some plain see-thru panties so that it isn't hidden by lace designs. It doesn't look like a tattoo, more like it has been painted on. Having it done was painful and it took about three weeks to complete and was expensive ($800) but the guy who paid for it was to first to photograph the tattoo and was real pleased with it, as was hubby and all the other guys at the club.


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