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From Ghost Rider
Last week I spent part of my vacation at an [clothes] optional hot springs resort. Outside of a few people that had belly rings, it was the first time I have seen another person at a resort with body piercings besides myself. The lady was very attractive and the nipple rings that she wore accented her good looks. A few well chosen piercing can definitely add to a person's attractiveness just like too many can look trashy and take away from a person's looks. 

I'm looking forward to seeing more people at the resorts with tasteful piercing. All of the hot springs that I've been to don't object to body piercing, nipple or genital, as long as a person conducts themselves as a lady or a gentleman. All rude, crude, and lewd behaviour accomplishes is to get the person booted out of the resort. No refunds, no being readmitted, and plenty humility on being ejected from the resort. 

Enjoy your piercing and don't be embarrassed to let them be seen. Just do it with taste and be a lady or gentleman.

From Do it for yourself
I am a very straight man, I studied hard and I overcame stuttering, I never had fun in my life (when you stutter girls stay away), I had couple broken vertebras (I had a divorce with my first wife because she thought I was finished) but I decided I was gonna walked again which I did, etc.. Later I had severe surgery. I was in rage and revolted. I felt I had missed out on everything in life so... since piercing is in these day... It was time that I do something for me.

The frenum ring came on one day after my girl friend called my penis "Little Miss". I noticed a small hole in the ridge so I installed a small gold ring. Well girls (Miss) have earrings don't they? My girl friend was shocked but got used to it.

The nipples rings came on after the first surgery. The piercer from the first piercing shop I went to, ask me if a was in a religious sect and convince me that I was too old for piercing. I was devastated.

Two years later, still thinking about it, I walked into an other piercing shop and I met Julie. She was kind and we discuss my first experience. Julie and I decided, since it would hurt, that it is better have both nipples pierced horizontally at the same time. She explained the entire procedure.

She marked the entry and exit holes with ink and I laid back on a table. She was so close to me that being shy I did not know where to put my right arm. She put it around her waist. I was in my comfort zone. Then she told me that it was OK to use the 4 letter word. She pushed the needle in the marked entry point and pushed it out from the other. It hurt, I saw stars and almost fainted but it lasted one second then put the ring in. She gave me some of her water, relaxed me and then asked me if I was ready for the second one (no turn back) and she told me again that it was OK to use the 4 letters word. This one, it hurt more, I saw more stars and that time I used the 4 letters word, she put the second ring in. The enormous pain lasted only one second. Julie made me look at myself in the mirror, I was happy specially when she said that they were the right size and looked good on me. She then explained the cleaning procedure. Two weeks later, when I showed the nipple piercing to my girl friend she was again in shock but got use to them..

Since then, I had an other major surgery and they removed the piercing. My girl friend told me that I should get them back on if it is what I liked. I got my nipples re-pierced by Nathalie and the size of the 14k gold rings increased. I love it. Sometime I see the eyes of some ladies wondering down on my chess as they are try to see if what they see is really nipples piercing... on a very straight man. They smile... we smile!

Lately, I walked in a tattoo parlor... got one on my upper back ... and one day.. my girl friend washed my back and told me that she love it.

From Tom
I got a reverse prince Albert piercing about four weeks ago and really I just wanted to hear some women's point of view on it, in regards to what they think in general of it and what if anything it "did" for them, if they had been with someone who had one.

From Vanessa
I had my nipples pierced about a year ago. Everything was fine right up until I took the earring off to thoroughly clean it. I noticed a few days later that I had a lump, not on the outside or anything. Can it possibly go away? Should I wait about a week to see?  I'm kinda worried. It doesn't hurt and I honestly don't want to remove them. It's a hella feeling, I love them.

From Anonymous
I recently got stuck with a sadistic dentist when mine went back to school that you lovers of pain would get along with nicely! Personally I have always been sensitive enough, and can't stand pain or dorky looking piercings. I think that people who get them don't like themselves very much or they wouldn't be poking holes in themselves. Anybody for a very painful root canal?

From Maria
Oh my god, my bar through my nipple was accidentally ripped out caught on the metal bit on the door, I am in agony. I have had the piercing for 6 years it just ripped straight through my nipple, and had to spend 5 hours in a & e. They put some sort of medical super glue on it and sterry stripped it and said it will be ok in 5 days! I hope so.

From Chandria
I am a 31 year old conservative female who recently decided to be pierced (besides my ears). I have always found body piercing a beautiful way for an individual to express themselves ... and add to sexual excitement. So one Tuesday my husband came home from work and watched our 2 little ones and I was off to a Piercing Studio.

I had both nipples and a Vertical Hood piercing done that eve. The second nipple hurt more than the first due to anticipation. My Hood piercing was a bit out of the norm do to the piercer having to do it twice because of placement (first was way to close. Luckily I have had no loss of sensation). The second was right on and done with ease. After all of the piercing's had healed with no problems at all, I went back and had my tongue pierced. The piercings I feel add to the sexual experience for both me and my husband (he loves them). He didn't think he would like the tongue but he has been converted ..hehe. Happy Piercing.

From Barry
I have a different story to tell. It seems all the other writers love piercing and the experience they had. Myself, I don't like piercing at all, but it is an individual's choice.

About 3 years ago I met a girl who had the most delicious body. She looked fantastic in jeans and I looked forward to the chance of seeing her naked, and playing with her delicious pussy.

We dated a few times but sex seemed the last thing she wanted to do. Finally I decided to discuss the matter with her. It seemed she was with two of her girlfriends one day and they all dared each other to have their clits pierced. She went ahead with it, but said it was the most painful and humiliating experience of her life.

She said the guy who did it was a sleeze and he took over an hour "preparing" the job, touching, feeling, etc. She said all he was doing was copping a feel, but she had accepted the dare so she put up with it. She said she knew she would have to show herself, but she hated the way the guy looked at her as she took her jeans and panties off.

Then she said the piercing itself was painful, and since then she wasn't able to have sex, nor allow anyone to touch her pussy.

She wanted to have it removed but it was just too sore to touch. She showed me her pussy, what a shame. If ever I needed convincing that piercing was not a clever thing to do, that was it.

The poor girl's pussy would have normally looked fantastic, but it was red and swollen. Finally she had it removed but sex was still not on as it was infected and she needed time to recover.

Sex for us was bathing together and sleeping together. She would give handjobs and the odd blowjob, but no vaginal penetration. Pity.

From Sam
Male point of view. Go for it. I can think of nothing more arousing than the sight of beautiful breasts decorated with rings or barbells. I am putty in the hands of women with pierced nipples. I have my nipples pierced and a side benefit is that sensitivity is increased.

From David
I've had my left nipple pierced for about 5 years now and have enjoyed it thoroughly. Never got the right one done because I wanted to be able to enjoy both types of sensations. It was a short sharp sting with a tiny amount of seepage followed by about 4-5 weeks of tenderness. Didn't actually hurt unless I bumped into it but I had to be careful about that, especially in the shower. And watch it if you have cats, one of the 9 cats I was living with jumped up on me, caught his claw in the ring. I thought I was going to die. So did the cat, oddly enough.

But it was all worth it, my girlfriends over the years have enjoyed it (it's a fun surprise on that date when things get a little more serious) and the enhanced sensation is great. Leave one un-pierced and you can compare, see if it works for you.

From Graham
Hi, I have had a self-pierced Prince Albert since 1990, and I can't describe the pleasure it has given me and my wife over that time. It has gradually stretched, and I now wear a 12mm thick 34mm diameter ring in it, but not all the time. I can go for days at a time with nothing in the hole, and it doesn't close up. The ring was made specially for me, and has a smooth segment which closes the gap - no ball to catch on things.

I'd like my wife to get her nipples and clit pierced, but she doesn't even have her ears done, and I have more sense than to try to force her into anything she doesn't want. She'll just have to manage with the extra stimulation on her 'G' spot when we do it doggy style.

Looked after properly piercings can increase the stimulation for both men and women, so I say don't be afraid - get it done. It shouldn't hurt any more than having an injection, so go for it!

From Cathy
I'm a woman of 55. At 45 I decided to pierce the hood of my clit. It was absolutely a wonderful, eye-opening, orgasmic experience. It was done by a man who explained it all 1st then proceeded. It took longer to get everything ready then getting it done. I sat very still in a fold up chair long skirt held up at my waist, legs spread. Deep breaths John-Paul said and the third one would be it. Well, he surprised me on the second. It was on instant of hot, fire pain. I threw my head back, rolled my eyes around and when I looked at him, eyes glazed he said don't worry all the women come when I do this. I just smiled. It was tender for maybe a few days and then well let's say I could come faster than most.

Now I did this as a commitment to the man I was with. He got his nipple pierced said it was no big deal. I ordered myself a gold ring for when it healed. I kept it in for about 8 years and I also had had 1 nipple pierced. I don't care what anyone says it hurt like hell and caused me off and on problems. We have too many milk ducts and it must be kept clean. I didn't like it pulled on versus my other ring. So. it was the first to come out. When this man and I broke up I kept the clit ring for myself then decided to let it go.

Lately I've been thinking of having it put back. I miss the fun it brought me. Maybe I'll just commitment to myself!

From Anonymous
I got my nipple pierced and I love it, I have my nose, nipple and navel pierced and the nipple was the one that didn't hurt. It has made my nipple super sensitive which is nice and its a sexual thing that's for me and people can't tell by looking at me, I would definitely suggest getting it done, its my favorite part of my body.

From M
I have a female friend who has her nipple pierced. She is thinking of getting her other one done shortly, and is also trying to persuade my wife to have hers done. Me, I am a great fan of them. Shortly I am going to have a PA done to heighten the sexual pleasure for both me and my wife.

From Vikki
Hey! I have my tongue and belly done. My tongue didn't hurt when i got it done but it hurt after cause i couldn't speak! My belly didn't hurt at all! I was wandering if any one would honestly tell me what its like to get your nipple done as i am thinking of getting it done, but I'm a little scared!! plz let me know. thanx

From Anonymous
I just got my belly button done...and I have to admit it has made me feel better about myself. I also think that doing something for yourself is the best way to go. I didn't listen to my friends, they didn't want me to do it. But now that I have I wouldn't trade it for anything.

From Bryant H
I will personally vouch to anyone that is against piercing...you don't know what you're missing out on!!! I began my piercing adventures about 3 years ago, when I went to have my tongue done on a whim. I didn't do my research first, and that was the first and last mistake. I just went in, said 'stick a barbell in my tongue' and the fella said 'alright....' It turned out to be not the best, because the barbell wasn't straight, it kinda sat a little to the left....so I took it out after three weeks. I had retired it for about 2 1/2 years, and then one day a friend of mine told me that I should do my labret. I said I dunno, but the more thought I gave it, I thought 'what the hell.'

So, one Saturday, I found myself once again in the chair, waiting to get stuck. The Piercer asked me what I wanted done, and I told him. He then asked what I wanted done FIRST, so I said the labret, then the tongue. Well, the labret went thru with out so much pain...the tongue, second time around, hurts worse than the firs, trust me! About a month later, I went to a different shop a couple miles away, and got my earlobes pierced. I had always wanted it done, but never thought it would look right in my ears.

Now, I have found my Needleman, and am ready to have some more work done...I am going for some below the belt work, a reverse PA, two dorsal 12's, two frenum 10's....I'll post again later and tell y'all how it goes!

From Anonymous
I am 37, a lawyer with a very conservative law firm in an even more conservative industry. Unbeknown to anyone other than my husband, I have pierced nipples which we both love. Had them done just over 12 months ago when I was considering getting my ears pierced at a time that I thought I could do with some "updating" - I was feeling old and boring. (Yes, didn't even have my ears done, and still don't).

About that time, I happened to read an article on body piercing trends and thought "How exciting would that be?!" After thing about a belly button ring, I began to firm on the idea of nipple piercing as it is more private and extremely exciting. I feel brilliantly sexy (my husband can't keep his hands off me and just loves seeing me topless). I wear a small gold ring with a little gold ball in each nipple and love the look, and the "out there" feeling it gives me.

People who know me - friends, work colleagues and clients - would never guess. And that's something I find really appealing. If you have ever thought you might do something daring that your partner will love, I can fully recommend having your nipples pierced as a surprise that will lift you to a new level and do wonders for your physical relationship too!


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