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fA friend of mine has been hooked on dating sites since the first day he got the Internet. He met many of his loves in real life. The problem comes when he forks over his hard-earned cash to run off to meet the new love of his life. The lust is wonderful for a few weeks. He's head over heels and they make plans for one or the other to move. Then the wheels fall off. This whole thing gets me to thinking. Has the internet destroyed our perception of what love and lust really are?

Tell us your experiences of finding love, or heartache, via online dating. Lybbe

Is it possible to find true love online? Perhaps...

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From Tony (L.A.)
I have been on multiple sites trying to find an ideal mate. If you're wondering, I'm a well educated, well employed man with manners and a great sense of humor, in great physical shape. I too have come across insincere flakes and am ready to follow my Dr's someone in person at work, hobbies or general interest groups. As he says "chemistry counts".

From Kat
I have had not luck with this. Every man thinks that if they lie and we meet it's ok. I have done this 4 times with different results. 1. not telling he was married. 2. Was bald 3. Extremely overweight. 4. 15 years younger than me. I haven't tried this again nor do I tend to.

From Michae
Reading all of your experiences - most of them positive and satisfying I might add - has only made me feel even worse about my own online dating adventures.  I have actually spent about 7 years of my life tinkering with online dating and online socializing, and aside from make one or two lasting pen pals, most of the people I've tried talking to usually just turned out awkward, disappointing, or even unpleasant and weird.  Is this just me, or are there plenty of other unsuccessful people who are simply too afraid to post here? I'm so envious of all of you.

From WildBeasty
I am intrigued by this question since I have experience in that area. I started talking more with someone I met via an online dating site. She and I fell in love. She lived about 350 miles from me. I still remember the first time we met in person - I remember everything. She was living with someone. She indicated that she was willing to leave him and that we could make a life together. I planned my move and, yes, I moved the 350 miles from the place I had lived for all of my life to that point. I set all my hopes and dreams on that one singular event. About four months later after my move she told me that she would not leave him. She still wanted to be "friends" with me but that we could not be intimate or "together" like we had been. She was not willing to hurt him. I still love her dearly. I'm just so hurt.

From Nina
Yes, you can find love. My friend has found this super guy who has moved in with her and are very happy together. I have been in a loveless marriage for 26 years and, through Adult Friend Finder have fallen in love with a beautiful man. He is in the same situation as I am. We have been corresponding for 2 years and have met 4 times. We share our hopes and dreams of our future together which will come when our kids are all grown up. We share things that I wouldn't share with anyone else. We support each other on truly bad days and our e mails and cards are precious as well as our time together online. I would have never met this man and my friend would not be happy if it weren't for online dating - I love it.

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