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I am intrigued by this question since I have experience in that area. Back in 2004 my wife of almost 11 years left me for someone else she met online. It was the most devastating event I've ever experienced. There is always two sides to everything. She may have found someone else to love (I don't know) but the pain that was and is caused from it is awful.

Nevertheless, my story does not end there. At the end of the year (2004), I started talking more with someone I met online in an online game room. She and I fell in love. She lived about 350 miles from me. I still remember the first time we met in person - I remember everything. She was living with someone. She indicated that she was willing to leave him and that we could make a life together. I planned my move and, yes, I moved the 350 miles from the place I had lived for all of my life to that point. I set all my hopes and dreams on that one singular event. About four months later after my move she told me that she would not leave him. She still wanted to be "friends" with me but that we could not be intimate or "together" like we had been (not that we had that much anyway). She was not willing to hurt him.

I suppose I can understand since I know what it feels like. I just want to warn all of you getting involved with someone online is not a fix to your real world problems and often times will cause it's own set of problems. I still love her dearly. I'm just so hurt. I didn't think I could be hurt again, but it so hurts to be rejected twice by the ones that you love.

From Nina
Yes, you can find love on the Net. My friend has found this super guy who has moved in with her and are very happy together. I have been in a loveless marriage for 26 years and, through Adult Friend Finder have fallen in love with a beautiful man. He is in the same situation as I am. We have been corresponding for 2 years and have met 4 times. We share our hopes and dreams of our future together which will come when our kids are all grown up. We share things that I wouldn't share with anyone else. We support each other on truly bad days and our e mails and cards are precious as well as our time together online. I would have never met this man and my friend would not be happy if it weren't for the Net- I love it.

From Anonymous
Yes, you can fall in love over the internet. and yes, unfortunately, it does happen to people who are not in the same country. Strange things can happen when you get to know someone this way. I agree with those who have commented that, if you are being honest, you get to know people BETTER via the internet, because you have to talk a lot, and it's easier to be open when you are not face to face. The drawback is that you can fall in love with someone that it is difficult to actually HAVE, and that can be painful and frustrating. I have fallen victim myself. I met someone on the internet almost a year ago now. I met her in January of 2000. By May, I was madly in love. In June, I left my husband. Yes, I said "her" and yes, I said "Husband". She is 15 years younger than me. And she is Canadian and I am American. I could not possibly have imagined a more difficult situation.

My divorce was final today. I have a ticket to fly to Canada in 15 days to meet my girl for the first time. I cannot wait to look into her eyes and touch her face. I am testimony. can fall in love with the most unlikely mate on the internet. And there are no ruses here. She is who she says, and I am who i say. I told everyone the truth when i left my husband. Some shirked away, some did not. Most are not as alarmed by my change in gender choice as they are concerned with the age difference.

She is my soulmate. i have never felt this way about anyone before. I am madly, deeply, devotedly in love with her. So yes, you can fall in love over the internet. Is this "global world" good? I think it increases your opportunity to meet a soulmate.

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