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Fox Tail Butt PlugOkay...I've only ever tried a butt plug once in my life, and it sure as hell was troublesome! Damn thing wouldn't stay put! I suspect that's because it was a rather slender one (a beginner butt plug, so to speak). But did it ever feel good! I liked it! Wanna try it again! I see many butt plugs have rather wide heads and narrow necks. They look rather intimidating to me, but I'm willing to give it a try if the end result is worth it (living and learning).

What I tried and don't like is anal sex - being buttfucked. I found the in and out motion seriously uncomfortable. Don't ever want to try that again. So butt plugs rock my world, but actually buttfucking not so much. I'm sure there's plenty of opinions on this. Tell us about your butt plug experiences, the good and

the bad. —Anonymous

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From Gary
What will they come up with next? I never cease to be amazed at the selection of butt plugs when I visit my local adult toy store. I recently bought the Anal Pacifier (advanced) and, while not huge, it hits the prostate just right and I highly recommend it for anyone wanting to enjoy anal play. It will absolutely stay in place and you can wear it all day without fear of it coming out and embarrassing you.

From Anonymous
I'm another female that likes anal stimulation with butt plugs very much. I have a lover who inserts a well lubed finger in my butt while he licks my clit. The feeling of fullness is incredible. When we can't be together, we indulge in email erotica. We both self pleasure using butt plugs, dildos, vibrators, etc. and write to each other how it felt and how we imagined each of us was using the toys on the other. When I'm self pleasuring now, I insert a dildo in my butt, one in my pussy, then I "ride" both of them in a squatting position, while I hold a vibrator to my clit. The orgasms are so intense, I feel like I could pass out! Great site, thanks!

From Dutch
I wear butt plugs quite often. One of my favorite things to do is to wear one underneath my suit at the office. It can become quite challenging because in a sense, the plug is locked in. Going to the bathroom, taking the plug out, cleaning it, and bringing back to your office is not really an option! My favorite plugs are metal ones, with my most recent being one with a rattle on the inside. As you walk, you feel it clanging within the metal plug, sending quite an amazing feeling through your prostate!

From Teresa
I have never used a butt plug, but now, after reading some of the comments here, am thinking I might try one. I have had anal sex, willingly, and I do like it, but it is very bad for the rectum. I had to give it up. That part of the body really wasn't meant for fucking!

From Mike
The difference between a butt plug, and being buttfucked:  The butt plug fits snuggly. It leaves you feeling full. It stimulates very sensitive membranes. BUT it doesn't do anything unexpected. Once it's in, it stays in. It doesn't move in and out. The butt plug has a waist shape that allows the anal ring to close behind it, taking the pressure off the muscle. The butt plug will also compensate for loss of strength in the pelvic floor during sex, making the vaginal penetration more effective.

Compare all of this to being buttfucked. No control. Constant stretching of the the anal ring. Lots of friction - even with a condom. Not the same thing at all.

From Dave
My wife occasionally likes a small one in her butt as we screw doggy style. It seems to heighten her orgasms. For variety, we frequently masturbate each other and I enjoy having her stimulate my prostate with one of her vibrators as she pumps my cock. Creates a huge orgasm.

From Sue
Hey Amy, you're not alone. [see Amy's entry below] I'm sure there's lots of us ladies that like Butt Plugs. I love mine, and I have a few that look very girly, which I enjoy. I'm not into the humiliation thing, I just think butt plugs feel great, and it's damn sexy wearing one as foreplay, like during dinner or some such. Gets both of us wildly excited. And yes, indeed, I agree it does feel really good to fuck while wearing a butt plug. However, I dislike (read that hate hate hate) anal sex. The pumping in and out is uncomfortable. But a solid in there butt plug - yes! Fabulous. 

From Amy
Seems like butt plugs are mostly a male thing, I guess because of the prostate, but I'm one of the rare girls who really like these butt intruders. There's a fun humiliation aspect to it, and it just feels really good to have my man screw me in my pussy while I've got a plug up my butt. Not very ladylike, I know.

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