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Butt PlugOkay...I've only ever tried a butt plug once in my life, and it sure as hell was troublesome! Damn thing wouldn't stay put! I suspect that's because it was a rather slender one (a beginner butt plug, so to speak). But did it ever feel good! I liked it! Wanna try it again! So...are butt plugs prone to popping out if you don't hold them in?

I see many butt plugs have rather wide heads and narrow necks. Will those kind stay in regardless of other activities? They look rather intimidating to me, but I'm willing to give it a try if the end result is worth it (living and learning).  —Anonymous

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From Fister
I have been into anal sex since I was 27. I have worked myself up to using a 3 1/2" x 18" dildo (inserting 10-12" in my rectum). I have long thought about wearing a butt plug in public, but once I get anything in (I like the LA Special), I automatically start working it in and out. It's not the wearing it in public that bothers me so much, but the fact that I start to seep rectal fluid as soon as I start to work it. I also have a heavy flow when my ass comes. I have used diapers to contain the fluid, but they become over soaked, especially when my ass comes, and sag between my legs, until the dildo falls out.

 I would like to hear from either male or female, that has this problem, what they did to solve the situation. I would love to use the Extreme-Humungous butt plug. I have come twice on my LA Special (in public) but once I start to come, my butt doesn't know when to quit. I have gotten to the point that I don't use anything in public, for fear that my special will shoot out (during an anal climax) and the flow will soak everything from the groin down. Please help my rectum return to it's happy-watery-climaxing in public state.

From James
For all of you out there who haven't worked up the guts to buy a real plug, here's a suggestion. Rather than walking around your house looking for good objects, why not walk around a drug store (the shampoo/bodywash area is usually best suited)? I have found that if I go in to the store with a means of measuring the circumference I want I end up happy with my purchase at home.

As with anything you would find around the house, make sure there are no sharp edges on anything you intend to put up your butt. I also find bottles full of warm water are best because they don't deform as easily under pressure and the warmth is a nice sensation.

I am 20 and have been into anal since grade school, so I did my share of exploring in the area of plug-alternatives. Right now I'm looking for a reasonably priced harness, so if anyone could help me with that, I'll go for anything <$40. I really want to try wearing huge plugs around all day, the thought to me is really hot, but then again, I'm into extreme stretching back there. Whatever.

I love anal, my one and only (long term) girlfriend has a huge aversion to everything anal so I have to keep my activities private, but someday I really want to explore my desires with a girl whose into the same thing. Why aren't girls as into anal stimulation as guys are, at least they don't get labeled as being gay for even bringing the idea up!

[Uh oh! Be kind to your colon and do not mess with bottles, etc, which can easily slip into the rectum and cause serious and embarrassing  problems. The flared base on butt plugs prevent that from happening. And, the price of butt plugs are reasonable. Try Butt Toys at Adam & Eve]

From Paul R
I recently purchased the Deluxe Wonder Plug, (also known as the Anal Balloon Pump) and would like to thank you for the recommendation. [see Paul's entry below] I really enjoy using it, the full feeling in my ass is great. The nice part is I can really fill my ass up and not continue to stretch out my rectum / sphincter as I have with some other anal toys.

After I purchased this amazing toy I had to wait for some alone time before, I could take it for a ride well it was worth the wait. I lubed up the plug and my ass before I slid it in, then the fun started, I turned on the vibe and the Pre-cum started dribbling from my dick. I would pump it up a little then let the air out then pump it up larger I played like this for about two hours and two sets of batteries I finally let myself enjoy a powerful orgasm. I believe that I shoot a larger volume of cum while using this very fine anal plug. I use it quite often and it seems to be very durable.

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