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From Anthony My last girlfriend was ok with it at first, she'd walk up behind me and try to wiggle it some, and then watch me go crazy. Then, when she wouldn't give it up, I would just wear it and she said that I was only wearing it cause she wouldn't give any, not true. I like the feeling of being very full all the time and also the control of holding it back. Don't know how many women are ok, or into this, hopefully lots... From Joe From John From Sins It is made of silicone hence it is very flexible and does not feel uncomfortable under any circumstances (like driving, walking, running....). I usually wear it first thing in the morning until midday when I get back home; that is a good 9 hours... From John From Anonymous From Buttpluglover I have had girlfriends who knew this little fixation and understood and we even had sex with both our butts stuffed with toys. Other girlfriends weren't so understanding - they didn't last long. I get the feeling the women posting here would be more understanding. From Anonymous I've hit a little hiccup though, I wanted to wear the plug all day at work one day, so I popped it in, walked around the house at the speed I usually walk at when going to work to see how it felt, but oddly enough the plug tends to pop-out after a few minutes of walking, which prompted me to remove it, put it away and head out to work, it would be too embarrassing if it suddenly popped out. I read a bit on straps and harnesses for butt plugs, and that would be a solution, but pretty much everywhere I looked they were quite expensive, 50-75+$, which I thought was a bit excessive for what it does. I was wondering if anyone had a cheap(10-20$) solution to the problem, something comfortable to hold it in place securely.
From Thanks_Plug Back then I got a job in another country and would be away from my wife for periods of about two months at a time. Needless to say, my hungry butt did not put its cravings on hold and to satisfy them I ended up buying a huge plug. The base was about 8 cm in diameter and I never got it all the way in my ass, but it was wonderful just the same and it set the "anal stage" for the pleasures that are possible today. My favourite position consisted of getting in front of a mirror, totally naked, setting the plug on the floor, lubing up and then bobbing up and down on it. After a bit of practice it was easy to relax my hole on the down stroke and tighten it to push out the plug on the up stroke. When it was in as far as it would go, the sight of my ass cheeks ballooning around the plug, giving evidence of how wide open my greedy rectum was being forced, was almost enough to make me come! Sometimes I would substitute the plug with my fingers, eager to see if I could get them in a bit further than the last time. All the while my cock would be rock hard, both from the view and from the pleasure emanating from my ass and radiating all over my body. When I couldn’t take it any more, I would often get off the plug, place the head of my dick up against it, give it a final stroke and direct my warm gooey cum all over it. I never told my wife about my plug and I threw it away when I got a new job close to home, probably to avoid questions regarding what I had been doing with it. And maybe it was because of this close secret relationship with my plug that today we don’t have any plugs in our collection of toys. Be it as it may, it was there when I needed it. Thanks little (big) guy. From Pink From Mike I inserted a modest sized plug, this is of course a matter of personal pleasure, and then got on my rowing machine. After adjusting the seat so that it hit the stops at each end I started my workout. When I would bump into the stops it would cause the plug to wiggle just enough to give the most pleasant sensation. After just a few strokes I had found my pace. Now I look forward to my workouts without interruption. I'm actually working out longer than before. As everyone knows, sex has always been good for your health, I feel I have brought it to a new level. From Mike The plug felt so good and when I came I shot my load further than ever before as I felt my arse spasm around the plug. I also purchased some anal beads and I recommend then to anyone as you slowly pull them out as you come. I'm going to try wearing the plug around nest time as I've heard that's a great turn on too. I can't wait to broach the subject with my wife. She's not keen on anything up her arse and I won't press the issue but I would love for her to insert the plug in my arse, in and out next time we have sex. From Jiko From R From Mark The only problem I've ever encountered concerning anal play, being a straight male, is the stigma that so many people attach to it. Because of this, through many years and many relationships, I've hidden the fact that I found it so enjoyable from the women I've been with. It's been terrible because I'm not secretive by nature. So, the only advice that I would give about anal play is never hide it from your partner. Once you find someone you trust enough to be open with, go for it and see what happens. It could open up a whole new world of enjoyment for both of you! From JH From WJD I bought a small vibe while I was there, but it was not great ... I may go back again soon... From Andy I love to lube myself up, all over my penis, crotch, and anus, and then slide a fat dildo right up inside my ass. Sometimes I try and stretch, using anything from police truncheons to beer bottles. It's like nothing I've ever felt before when I've got a massive wooden truncheon up there, I push and pull it, pushing it against my prostate until I'm just about to cum, and then just give my penis a quick 'shake' and I'm sent quivering! I'm horny just writing about this! I also love to show off, I'm constantly playing with my webcam, giving shows online thru yahoo chat or something similar, it turns me on even more, when I have females telling me what they want to see. I love it ! From Ted From M From Brian From Bill Advice for others who have never used a butt plug and would like to try, the feel is great but start with a small one and lube; then work up to the bigger ones and maybe a nice vibrator. From Quest They are a must for anal, especially if the person to be filled with cock, is tight. It seems more and more there are a greater variety of shapes and materials. The only thing that I've seen that was a little odd, was an add for a medium sized plug made of stainless steel. It just struck me as a cold item ... hmmmm. From Charity Some people use them as practice to get ready to have anal sex. If your having trouble with anal sex I recommend using a butt plug first and often. Your butt is like anything else the more you use it the better it gets. Your butt was absolutely made for fucking!! If you're having anal sex and its uncomfortable or is hurting your butt in any way you aren't doing it right. Lots of patience, practice and lube are the keys. And though the plug give you the experience you expect when it comes to sex the unexpected is always the greatest and this applies even to anal sex just don't forget the lube!! From H I prefer the silicone butt toys, but they are expensive. The upside is that that can be boiled or put through a sani-cycle in your dishwasher for sterilization and they conduct heat very well. Butt plugs can be made from latex, rubber, glass, wood, metal, and resin (I'm sure there are other materials too, but those are the most common), and range in price from 1.50 on up to several hundred dollars. From Teresa From Mike Compare all of this to being buttfucked. No control. Constant stretching of the the anal ring. Lots of friction - even with a condom. Not the same thing at all.
From Gary From USB Guy My current Lady enjoys inserting various size and shaped plugs and dildos in me. We both have Dildo Panties, her favorite is a dildo harness (one that holds it in me). The dildo is held in place by a ring. The dildo can be inserted at any depth. With her on the bottom while were fucking, she will reach around and push more and more in me until I come. From Walter Over the last 27 years I have been slammed in the ass by two different wives. Each has only done it once though. So I have had to find creative ways to obtain that feeling. Being straight I have not tried to fine a man to provide this feeling, but lord knows that I have tried everything else. Lately I seem to be focused on size. I have tried almost every round(ed) object in my house. I have a large plug that I use. It seems to have a mind of its own and seeks deeper ground. I have been through a garden of veggies, and a piece of fruit or two. Candles, brushes, handles, door knobs and the sorts. I am always seeking a new household item to play with. but it started with a simple desire to feel like someone was having sex with me.
From Ginger I have yet to try to get hubby into any type of anal play, as he is morbidly homophobic, but he has no problem with my wearing the plug and even suggests it for me - as it helps me to climax much faster for our quickies. With children opportunities are sparse and/or very short. I would love to get him into some form of "P" spot stimulation [Prostate Stimulation], as I think he would really enjoy it - most men who've tried it seem to enjoy it immensely. Any suggestions on "Breaking the ice"? From Bruce From Wondering Male Strangely, I never have a hard-on while stuffing my ass, but I do like the feeling of anal stimulation of various kinds, and the warm sensation in my butt hole afterwards gives me a unique kind of orgasm when later I masturbate. Like some other posters here, I always do my anal solo sessions in front of a mirror, as seeing my ass getting fucked is an important part of the experience. In sum, I think I enjoy both the situation (the feeling of pampering myself and of doing something taboo and "limit-breaking"), the visual of seeing my own ass get fucked, and the physical stimulation itself. I sometimes get concerned that even my current rate of approximately one ass stuffing session per month will somehow damage my rectum, as some of the dildos and plugs are pretty big (about 3 inches wide) - does anyone know? From ButtSlammed I think of my anus/rectum as a "pussy" now. I've always been excited by women and never by men, but suddenly I can't stop wishing someone would bend me over and fuck my ass! From Sue And yes, indeed, I agree it does feel really good to fuck while wearing a butt plug. However, I dislike (read that hate hate hate) anal sex. The pumping in and out is very uncomfortable for me. But a solid in there butt plug - yes! Fabulous. From Amy From Anonymous Also I like to use a large thrusting plug while we make love, I lie on my back and place the plug a couple inches in my ass then my girl gets on top and starts fucking me. The harder she fucks me the deeper it goes into my ass. Once it's all the way in she will fuck me even harder, when she goes up if I lift my ass off the mattress the plug will slide out 4 or 5 inches then as she comes back down fast it pushes back in to the base of the plug. It doesn't take many hard strokes like that to make me come. My orgasm's feel so much stronger it makes my body tremble. Recently I bought a Strap-On for her to use on me. Seems so many couples are doing it lately, I know it will be intense. I guess I am still a bit shy cause I haven't told her about the strap-on yet but once you post this letter I am going to have her read it, and honey when your finished reading come to bed and fuck my ass. Baby I'll be waiting. From Michael The small plug is 4 inches long with a 2 inch diameter. It has two knobs and stays in place nicely and has a flared base so it doesn't slip inside. I try to stop thinking about it and get on with my work, but I am constantly reminded it's there with every movement I make. It's quite incredible really...and I really want more! I'm wondering if the large size will even been enough. I had my girlfriends 8 inch dildo in last night which was great, but it won't stay in place, even with the ridges in it. That's the great thing about a plug, you can wear it all day. What I would really like to experience is anal fisting from a woman. That would be bigger than a plug, more natural than a dildo and a woman's hand wouldn't be too big. Any women out there have any experience with that? Advice? [Might be something of interest over at the Fisting forum] From Anonymous From Glenn Allen If you aren't sure about trying a plug there's a few things to consider: buy a medium sized one, because the small ones are just too thin to feel good, and your butt will be able to stretch. Make sure you use loads of lube and what ever you do, don't rush it! Don't shove it in and make it hurt! Take your time, relax and it really just feels great. I am about to go out, wearing a butt plug and cock ring, all held in place with a tight speedo thong, .mmmm....guess I am a walking fetish! From Greg From Anonymous It also makes cleanup so much easier! Just throw out the condom. From Viktor From Graham From Dave From Satina Silky From Penny From Anonymous Like all sex, anal is something where practice makes perfect. Starting out alone with lube, fingers and/or a small butt plug can be a good way to learn to relax the muscles. I find that the more you do it, the more you become aware of the "how-to" and the pleasures it can bring. So to all of you women out there who never dared - Try it. You just might like it. From Tynda I'm curious about why this sensation is so pleasurable to some and not others. Don't we all have nearly identical nerve structure? I wonder if there has been a psychological study done to determine correlations between people who enjoy anal stimulation and people who don't. From Dutch From Anonymous Anyway we were having a session one afternoon and I handed it to her and said why not try it for what it was (sort of) intended....She did....used the whole 9" on me. It was mind blowing for both of us. From Jay
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