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From Anthony
I am a mostly straight male. I have been into anal play for a long time, starting around when I was 12 or so. I too, was always looking around the house to see what I could find until I was old enough and wise enough to buy my first one. Since then I have quite a collection now and have found one that I like to wear on very regular basis. I wear it at work and around the house all the time. It does stay in with no problem but just for the sake of it I made a harness just for those "just in case's", I have worn it for a whole week straight, ie..24 \7!, a couple of times.

My last girlfriend was ok with it at first, she'd walk up behind me and try to wiggle it some, and then watch me go crazy. Then, when she wouldn't give it up, I would just wear it and she said that I was only wearing it cause she wouldn't give any, not true. I like the feeling of being very full all the time and also the control of holding it back. Don't know how many women are ok, or into this, hopefully lots...

From Joe
I am longing to be 'plugged' by a dominant woman. My wife is totally uninterested in any form of BDSM so I am left alone with my phallasies (phallic phantasies ). I would like to share them online with a strap-on lady.

From John
Well, I've been using a BIG one now for a week, and I love it. Used the medium for many weeks before. I never thought I would like this every day. I'm so horny all the time when it's in me that my sex life has been awesome. At this time I don't foresee a ever going a day without plugging. I just love it.

From Sins
I have bought a small butt plug and I am wearing it in public since then. It feels great! It stays in place, continuously rubbing against my prostate, although I am quite loose for this size. That is of course, as long as I do not "push" it out.

It is made of silicone hence it is very flexible and does not feel uncomfortable under any circumstances (like driving, walking, running....). I usually wear it first thing in the morning until midday when I get back home; that is a good 9 hours...

From John
I've been using a butt plug regularly (almost daily) for several weeks. I like walking around with it in. It's beginning to feel like it's going to fall out when I walk. Is it time time to move from a medium to a large (a fat boy)? Thanks for your help.

From Anonymous
Wow, am I glad I found this website! I thought I was a "select few " that was into anal insertions. My favorite are my string of rubber anal beads - I love pulling them out as I orgasm. I also love inserting a bunch of tampons and walking around for a while before removing them, not sure that is safe but it damn sure feels awesome! Recently I have discovered enemas, water ones. From what we have done so far I think enemas are going to be my favorite anal stimulation.

From Buttpluglover
It's no doubt evident from my name, but butt plugs are absolutely my favorite toy. I have dildos, too, but they require work. At last count, I have 2 dildos, a vibrator, a double-dildo, and 11 butt plugs of various sizes, girths, lengths, whatnot. I'm so into them as a toy, that I'll often wear one all day or all night just because I like the way this one fills me up or that one stretches my ass. 

I have had girlfriends who knew this little fixation and understood and we even had sex with both our butts stuffed with toys. Other girlfriends weren't so understanding - they didn't last long. I get the feeling the women posting here would be more understanding.

From Anonymous
I'm a completely straight male, but I've enjoyed anal self-stimulation for quite a while, using various plastic bottles I found around the house, I've become pretty flexible in that area now, around 2.5" in diameter has pretty much been the largest I've succeeded in taking. I finally got around to purchasing a real butt plug, I chose the large (2.25" widest point) classic but plug from doc johnson, and let me tell you it's was 10 times better then any plastic bottles I've ever used, much better fit and stays pretty well when it's in.

I've hit a little hiccup though, I wanted to wear the plug all day at work one day, so I popped it in, walked around the house at the speed I usually walk at when going to work to see how it felt, but oddly enough the plug tends to pop-out after a few minutes of walking, which prompted me to remove it, put it away and head out to work, it would be too embarrassing if it suddenly popped out.

I read a bit on straps and harnesses for butt plugs, and that would be a solution, but pretty much everywhere I looked they were quite expensive, 50-75+$, which I thought was a bit excessive for what it does.

I was wondering if anyone had a cheap(10-20$) solution to the problem, something comfortable to hold it in place securely.

[Try the Butt Plus at Babeland. There's several inexpensive ones with T shaped base helps keep the plug in place]

From Thanks_Plug
I’m a 37-year-old guy who has been married for ten years. A lot of our sex life has always revolved around my ass. Namely my love of having it "filled" and my wife’s more than willingness to indulge me in my (kinky?) desires. My wife has a small hand and I have the good fortune of being regularly fist fucked. This along with fuckings from large dildos and double or triple penetrations with assorted smaller toys (my golden rule if you can get two in, you can get three in). My little love hole owes the pleasure it receives today to a close relationship it had with a butt plug a few years ago.

Back then I got a job in another country and would be away from my wife for periods of about two months at a time. Needless to say, my hungry butt did not put its cravings on hold and to satisfy them I ended up buying a huge plug. The base was about 8 cm in diameter and I never got it all the way in my ass, but it was wonderful just the same and it set the "anal stage" for the pleasures that are possible today.

My favourite position consisted of getting in front of a mirror, totally naked, setting the plug on the floor, lubing up and then bobbing up and down on it. After a bit of practice it was easy to relax my hole on the down stroke and tighten it to push out the plug on the up stroke. When it was in as far as it would go, the sight of my ass cheeks ballooning around the plug, giving evidence of how wide open my greedy rectum was being forced, was almost enough to make me come! 

Sometimes I would substitute the plug with my fingers, eager to see if I could get them in a bit further than the last time. All the while my cock would be rock hard, both from the view and from the pleasure emanating from my ass and radiating all over my body. When I couldn’t take it any more, I would often get off the plug, place the head of my dick up against it, give it a final stroke and direct my warm gooey cum all over it.

I never told my wife about my plug and I threw it away when I got a new job close to home, probably to avoid questions regarding what I had been doing with it. And maybe it was because of this close secret relationship with my plug that today we don’t have any plugs in our collection of toys. Be it as it may, it was there when I needed it. Thanks little (big) guy.

From Pink
I would love to participate in using a butt plug on a female and her on myself with a set of handcuffs. I'm also interested to find out if there are any people out there who insert plugs and then walk around with them in their anus all day long, like at work, shopping malls etc?

From Mike
Here is an idea that some may find stimulating. I exercise regularly and this activity tends to get the testosterone pumping so much that often I have to cut my workout short. Then I got an idea.

I inserted a modest sized plug, this is of course a matter of personal pleasure, and then got on my rowing machine. After adjusting the seat so that it hit the stops at each end I started my workout. When I would bump into the stops it would cause the plug to wiggle just enough to give the most pleasant sensation. After just a few strokes I had found my pace. Now I look forward to my workouts without interruption. I'm actually working out longer than before. As everyone knows, sex has always been good for your health, I feel I have brought it to a new level.

From Mike
After thinking about it on and off I finally brought a butt plug today. When I got home I was almost quivering at the thought of it. I'm an exhibitionist as well so I got out the video camera, set it up in the bedroom, lubed up the plug. I got on my hands and knees with my bum toward the camera. I was able to look back thru my legs and got a great view of me slowly inserting the plug up my arse. God I was so turned on, my cock was harder than it's been for a long time and I was getting real turned on watching my self in the camera screen.

The plug felt so good and when I came I shot my load further than ever before as I felt my arse spasm around the plug. I also purchased some anal beads and I recommend then to anyone as you slowly pull them out as you come. I'm going to try wearing the plug around nest time as I've heard that's a great turn on too. I can't wait to broach the subject with my wife. She's not keen on anything up her arse and I won't press the issue but I would love for her to insert the plug in my arse, in and out next time we have sex.

From Jiko
I am using butt plug 2-3 times a week, about 2-8 hours each time. I am also wearing butt plug harness. It feels great. Sometime I go for small walk around the block, that sends me flying.

From R
I've always wanted to try a butt plug, but don't have the nerve to purchase one, I'd be so embarrassed should my kids or roommate find it! But I fantasize about having one in my ass and going through my day as usual. When I get a partner I'd like for him to make me wear it all day as a reminder of his control.

From Mark
I have been using butt plugs and one type of anal toy or another for years. I think it started around 12 or so. The feelings are fantastic, and now that I'm an adult and able to buy some of the more exotic types of toy, well, it just keeps getting better! But I remember the days of wandering through the house looking for different items to shove up there that I thought might feel good.

The only problem I've ever encountered concerning anal play, being a straight male, is the stigma that so many people attach to it. Because of this, through many years and many relationships, I've hidden the fact that I found it so enjoyable from the women I've been with. It's been terrible because I'm not secretive by nature.

So, the only advice that I would give about anal play is never hide it from your partner. Once you find someone you trust enough to be open with, go for it and see what happens. It could open up a whole new world of enjoyment for both of you!

From JH
I have yet to try a butt plug but I have used dildos /vibrators and it felt amazing, so I think I'm going to get a butt plug for me and my boyfriend who also likes anal play.

From WJD
I was in the shop the other day and they had a large plug for sale - very large! I like the one I have now, but I want to try the big one, but it looks scary!

I bought a small vibe while I was there, but it was not great ... I may go back again soon...

From Andy
I'm a completely straight young male, with a fiancé of 2 years. Whilst we have fantastic sex, (and foreplay), I still enjoy to 'play' on my own.

I love to lube myself up, all over my penis, crotch, and anus, and then slide a fat dildo right up inside my ass. Sometimes I try and stretch, using anything from police truncheons to beer bottles. It's like nothing I've ever felt before when I've got a massive wooden truncheon up there, I push and pull it, pushing it against my prostate until I'm just about to cum, and then just give my penis a quick 'shake' and I'm sent quivering! I'm horny just writing about this!

I also love to show off, I'm constantly playing with my webcam, giving shows online thru yahoo chat or something similar, it turns me on even more, when I have females telling me what they want to see. I love it !

From Ted
I'm straight and I love the feel of a butt plug. Squeezing down, jiggling, or adding a vibrator stimulates the prostate and the internal base of the cock- two distinctly different pleasures. The plug makes me feel the full length of my cock, as if inches longer. I can maintain an arousal indefinitely, because my cock requires less friction to stay up. If I'm not feeling particularly horny, the plug will give me both an erection and desire. A lot cheaper than Viagra.

From M
I would like to try one, but my wife is not interested at all - shame.

From Brian
As a bi guy who enjoys ass play, I have quite a few butt plugs...prefer the thick ones which hold themselves in better. If you are having trouble, I suggest using a thong to keep it in place. Works great for me.

From Bill
I have been using butt plugs for several years and love having one in most of the time. My wife and I both use them in several different sizes for masturbating and sex. I like the special feelings when using plugs during intercourse and if I want more penetration I switch to a vibe and some times a double dong.

Advice for others who have never used a butt plug and would like to try, the feel is great but start with a small one and lube; then work up to the bigger ones and maybe a nice vibrator.

From Quest
I'm a bi man and I love my collection of BPs. They are an excellent source of satisfaction during masturbation or with a partner of either sex.

They are a must for anal, especially if the person to be filled with cock, is tight. It seems more and more there are a greater variety of shapes and materials.

The only thing that I've seen that was a little odd, was an add for a medium sized plug made of stainless steel. It just struck me as a cold item ... hmmmm.

From Charity
Well, I too have become an expert of late and I have to tell you that I think the butt plug is the greatest invention in the sex toy industry! I prefer a larger size and it is a great way to accomplish the feel of double penetration without the need for another person and all the baggage that ensues with that.

Some people use them as practice to get ready to have anal sex. If your having trouble with anal sex I recommend using a butt plug first and often. Your butt is like anything else the more you use it the better it gets. Your butt was absolutely made for fucking!! If you're having anal sex and its uncomfortable or is hurting your butt in any way you aren't doing it right. Lots of patience, practice and lube are the keys. And though the plug give you the experience you expect when it comes to sex the unexpected is always the greatest and this applies even to anal sex just don't forget the lube!!

From H
I have a <ahem> small collection of Butt Plugs. I seem to find that their capacity to stay put depends a great deal on the size of the 'head' and just how much you are able to relax during use. Larger, thicker seems to stay put better for me. Slimmer and smaller is nice, but needs more work staying put. In my experience they can stay put during 'other things' only if held in place - the pressure of vaginal penetration tends to pop them out. I find that smaller works better for this, because the anus is separated from the vagina by a fairly thin, flexible wall of tissue and larger ones tend to intrude into the vaginal space. It can be uncomfortable (crowded!).

I prefer the silicone butt toys, but they are expensive. The upside is that that can be boiled or put through a sani-cycle in your dishwasher for sterilization and they conduct heat very well.

Butt plugs can be made from latex, rubber, glass, wood, metal, and resin (I'm sure there are other materials too, but those are the most common), and range in price from 1.50 on up to several hundred dollars.

From Teresa
I have never used a butt plug, but now, after reading some of the comments here, am thinking I might try one. I have had anal sex, willingly, and I do like it, but it is very bad for the rectum. I had to give it up. That part of the body really wasn't meant for fucking!

From Mike
The difference between a butt plug, and being buttfucked:  The butt plug fits snuggly. It leaves you feeling full. It stimulates very sensitive membranes. BUT it doesn't do anything unexpected. Once it's in, it stays in. It doesn't move in and out. The butt plug has a waist shape that allows the anal ring to close behind it, taking the pressure off the muscle. The butt plug will also compensate for loss of strength in the pelvic floor during sex, making the vaginal penetration more effective.

Compare all of this to being buttfucked. No control. Constant stretching of the the anal ring. Lots of friction - even with a condom. Not the same thing at all.

 

From Gary
Hi all. Am sitting here with a 5x2 1/2 inch dildo up my butt enjoying reading your experiences. I'm 64 years old and have been into anal pleasures most of my life. I generally use butt plugs to prepare for much larger insertions. I have a 12X3 dildo that I really like to use almost every night.

From USB Guy
My first ass play was when I was about 20 or so. My then girlfriend inserted one or two fingers in my butt. I enjoyed it, she knew I did. Then one day while 69ing (me on top) she removed her finger and inserted a small plug. wow.

My current Lady enjoys inserting various size and shaped plugs and dildos in me. We both have Dildo Panties, her favorite is a dildo harness (one that holds it in me). The dildo is held in place by a ring. The dildo can be inserted at any depth. With her on the bottom while were fucking, she will reach around and push more and more in me until I come.

From Walter
As a youngster I found my mother's vibe stash. I was not very familiar with them but had seen or heard that it was supposed to go inside of you. Once I mastered the controls I found a place that I could put it. It just happened to be my ass. 

Over the last 27 years I have been slammed in the ass by two different wives. Each has only done it once though. So I have had to find creative ways to obtain that feeling. Being straight I have not tried to fine a man to provide this feeling, but lord knows that I have tried everything else. Lately I seem to be focused on size. I have tried almost every round(ed) object in my house. 

I have a large plug that I use. It seems to have a mind of its own and seeks deeper ground. I have been through a garden of veggies, and a piece of fruit or two. Candles, brushes, handles, door knobs and the sorts. I am always seeking a new household item to play with. but it started with a simple desire to feel like someone was having sex with me.

[Uh oh! Be kind to your colon and don't mess with household items which can easily slip into the rectum and cause serious and embarrassing  problems. The flared base on butt plugs prevent that from happening. And, the price of butt plugs are reasonable. Try Anal Sex Toys at Babeland]

From Ginger
Am I the only woman out there who enjoys wearing a plug during normal heterosexual intercourse? The feeling of fullness it provides, without the complications of having a MMF is unsurpassed. Having had multiple children has left that region a bit different than it was years ago, but using a medium sized plug during intercourse has restored some of the sensations for both my husband and myself.

I have yet to try to get hubby into any type of anal play, as he is morbidly homophobic, but he has no problem with my wearing the plug and even suggests it for me - as it helps me to climax much faster for our quickies. With children opportunities are sparse and/or very short. I would love to get him into some form of "P" spot stimulation [Prostate Stimulation], as I think he would really enjoy it - most men who've tried it seem to enjoy it immensely. Any suggestions on "Breaking the ice"?

From Bruce
I started insertions into my ass at age 6, have loved it ever since. A medium to large plug about five inches long, one and one half inches in diameter feels best. I still have not found a plug that will stay in as long as I would like. I prefer all day. Feels wonderful to walk around, doing my daily activities with no one knowing the pleasure I am feeling. Would love to be fucked in the ass.

From Wondering Male
Like ButtSlammed below, I am a straight 30-ish male who has never felt attracted to men at any level. [see ButtSlammed's entry below] Yet I enjoy stuffing my ass (I have a collection of pretty big plugs and dildos), and recently I found myself on my hands and knees in front of my favourite mirror with a lifelike dildo in my mouth and a larger one going in and out of my ass. I sometimes fantasize about getting my ass fucked by a man to see if "the real thing" feels different from the dildos, yet I do not think of myself as gay or bi-sexual.

Strangely, I never have a hard-on while stuffing my ass, but I do like the feeling of anal stimulation of various kinds, and the warm sensation in my butt hole afterwards gives me a unique kind of orgasm when later I masturbate. Like some other posters here, I always do my anal solo sessions in front of a mirror, as seeing my ass getting fucked is an important part of the experience.

In sum, I think I enjoy both the situation (the feeling of pampering myself and of doing something taboo and "limit-breaking"), the visual of seeing my own ass get fucked, and the physical stimulation itself.

I sometimes get concerned that even my current rate of approximately one ass stuffing session per month will somehow damage my rectum, as some of the dildos and plugs are pretty big (about 3 inches wide) - does anyone know?

From ButtSlammed
I'm a 30 yr-old male with an ass-plugging hobby. I recently worked up to a plug with a 3-inch width—I love this plug so much that it is on the verge of turning me into a homosexual! I've noticed recently that when I'm not wearing it, I miss it, to the point that I will squirm in my chair at work and often fantasize about being fucked up the ass by a man. 

I think of my anus/rectum as a "pussy" now. I've always been excited by women and never by men, but suddenly I can't stop wishing someone would bend me over and fuck my ass!

From Sue
Hey Amy, you're not alone. [see Amy's entry below] I'm sure there's lots of us ladies that like Butt Plugs. I love mine, and I have a few that look very girly, which I enjoy. I'm not into the humiliation thing, I just think butt plugs feel great, and it's damn sexy wearing one as foreplay, like during dinner or some such. Gets both of us wildly excited.

And yes, indeed, I agree it does feel really good to fuck while wearing a butt plug. However, I dislike (read that hate hate hate) anal sex. The pumping in and out is very uncomfortable for me. But a solid in there butt plug - yes! Fabulous. 

From Amy
Seems like butt plugs are mostly a male thing, I guess because of the prostate, but I'm one of the rare girls who really like these butt intruders. There's a fun humiliation aspect to it, and it just feels really good to have my man screw me in my pussy while I've got a plug up my butt. Not very ladylike, I know.

From Anonymous
My girlfriend, who will be my wife soon, first introduced me to Anal Toys. I was a bit shy at first but really enjoy the feeling now. Nothing feels better while she's giving me head than to have a big plug in my ass. 

Also I like to use a large thrusting plug while we make love, I lie on my back and place the plug a couple inches in my ass then my girl gets on top and starts fucking me. The harder she fucks me the deeper it goes into my ass. Once it's all the way in she will fuck me even harder, when she goes up if I lift my ass off the mattress the plug will slide out 4 or 5 inches then as she comes back down fast it pushes back in to the base of the plug. It doesn't take many hard strokes like that to make me come. 

My orgasm's feel so much stronger it makes my body tremble. Recently I bought a Strap-On for her to use on me. Seems so many couples are doing it lately, I know it will be intense. I guess I am still a bit shy cause I haven't told her about the strap-on yet but once you post this letter I am going to have her read it, and honey when your finished reading come to bed and fuck my ass. Baby I'll be waiting.

From Michael
I just picked up a new butt plug today. It's a small Severin plug. I am in fact wearing it right now and my god does it feel good. The size of the plug is actually pretty big for a "small," though I'm already wishing I bought the large plug. I really love the feeling of my anus gripping the plug and feeling full. 

The small plug is 4 inches long with a 2 inch diameter. It has two knobs and stays in place nicely and has a flared base so it doesn't slip inside. I try to stop thinking about it and get on with my work, but I am constantly reminded it's there with every movement I make. It's quite incredible really...and I really want more! 

I'm wondering if the large size will even been enough. I had my girlfriends 8 inch dildo in last night which was great, but it won't stay in place, even with the ridges in it. That's the great thing about a plug, you can wear it all day. What I would really like to experience is anal fisting from a woman. That would be bigger than a plug, more natural than a dildo and a woman's hand wouldn't be too big. Any women out there have any experience with that? Advice?

[Might be something of interest over at the Fisting forum]

From Anonymous
I love butt plugs! They are the best thing that happened to me. The feeling of something in your anal opening is just great I recommend them to anybody.

From Glenn Allen
Great to read everyone's thoughts on butt plugs! I love wearing a nice plug and cock ring. If you have a problem keeping it in place, a nice tight thong is a good idea. I find it improves the feeling of fullness.

If you aren't sure about trying a plug there's a few things to consider: buy a medium sized one, because the small ones are just too thin to feel good, and your butt will be able to stretch. Make sure you use loads of lube and what ever you do, don't rush it! Don't shove it in and make it hurt! Take your time, relax and it really just feels great.

I am about to go out, wearing a butt plug and cock ring, all held in place with a tight speedo thong, .mmmm....guess I am a walking fetish!

From Greg
My freshman year at college a girl I was friends with joked about butt plugs a lot and got me one as a joke. I was horny one night and tried it. I told her the next day that I used it, and it felt different but good. She ended up telling her gay friend about it and he hit on me for months!

From Anonymous
When using someone else's dildo as a butt plug, make sure to wrap it in a condom. The bacteria in your ass isn't compatible with the bacteria in your or your mate's pussy.

It also makes cleanup so much easier! Just throw out the condom.

From Viktor
I love butt plugs. Started when I lost a bet and had a rather large Tampon inserted in my ass. I know have a variety of butt plugs. One of my favorites is a metal one.

From Graham
I've been intrigued for some time and so went to my local sex shop today and bought a 3" butt plug. I couldn't believe how easy it was to insert and felt a little disappointed! However, I went for a walk and to be honest it was not uncomfortable. Looking forward to the next time and to be sure will be buying a bigger one too!

From Dave
My wife occasionally likes a small one in her butt as we screw doggy style. It seems to heighten her orgasms. For variety, we frequently masturbate each other and I enjoy having her stimulate my prostate with one of her vibrators as she pumps my cock. Creates a huge orgasm.

From Satina Silky
I've bought Vibrating Egg recently. I must say that it feels really great when it is vibrating next to my prostate. It's really noiselessly so I can wear it in public.

From Penny
I have found several baby toys that work great as butt plugs. I am using a baby rattle right now. It has a long tube that I insert but the fat round at the tip keeps the rattle from going all the way in and getting stuck. Feels great!

From Anonymous
As a 27 year old girl who has been at the receiving, ahem, end of anal sex. I don't understand why so few engage in it. Having something up my ass prior to or simultaneous with other stimulation gives me some of my intense orgasms. Being single for just over a year now, I own 8 anal toys of various shapes and sizes, and use them quite often. I have also experimented with everything from salamis to zucchinis and the sight of an oversized carrot makes me blush.

Like all sex, anal is something where practice makes perfect. Starting out alone with lube, fingers and/or a small butt plug can be a good way to learn to relax the muscles. I find that the more you do it, the more you become aware of the "how-to" and the pleasures it can bring. So to all of you women out there who never dared - Try it. You just might like it.

From Tynda
I happen to have a butt plug up my ass as I write this. My ass has been craving fulfillment, lately. I'm a 25 year old bisexual female who loves the feeling of stretching out my rectum and filling my ass with a plug, dildo, hand, or cock.

I'm curious about why this sensation is so pleasurable to some and not others. Don't we all have nearly identical nerve structure? I wonder if there has been a psychological study done to determine correlations between people who enjoy anal stimulation and people who don't.

From Dutch
I am a gay male and wear butt plugs quite often. One of my favorite things to do is to wear one underneath my suit at the office. It can become quite challenging because in a sense, the plug is locked in. Going to the bathroom, taking the plug out, cleaning it, and bringing back to your office is not really an option! My favorite plugs are metal ones, with my most recent being one with a rattle on the inside. As you walk, you feel it clanging within the metal plug, sending quite an amazing feeling through your prostate!

From Anonymous
We have used all sorts of toys in each other, mostly small (ish) plugs and small vibes. I, in an honest mistake, bought a toy that had a cock and what looked like a butt plug together assuming one would go in her backside and one in her other hole. Turns out it's a cock that is held in by the plug in the woman's vagina, presumably for girl-on-girl games!

Anyway we were having a session one afternoon and I handed it to her and said why not try it for what it was (sort of) intended....She did....used the whole 9" on me. It was mind blowing for both of us.

From Jay
As a straight and engaged man, just bought my first plug. It's medium and sure it was a pain for the first time. The biggest part was very hard to get in. And out.. It hurt as hell but I hope its a matter of practice. Good toys they are.


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