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From Misha
I find that my clit tends to be moody... in other words, it likes certain things depending on my mood. Which means that what works one day may be too gentle or too hard the next. Very hard with most new lovers which probably explains why I'm not usually all excited to try out someone new—tends to be just frustrating.

The boy I'm with now has a great technique of exploration... he tries different things and can tell by my reactions, tension in muscles, etc how I like or don't like it. Then he focuses on the ones I'm enjoying at the time. I tend to like soft at first, and then I can handle rougher. With the second and third ones I need the roughness to get results.

I do know the jingling bell one you refer to. It's like if they were trying to turn on and off a light switch with their tongue. Flick up, flick down, etc. It's especially disconcerting when there's no other contact with skin... in other words, they're just flicking the clit, not sucking on the labia, or exploring other places. And if they try to do it right at the start it almost hurts... too sensitive. I do tend to like it for the second or third one, though... but by then, I'm well warmed up and lubed and not so sensitive.

From Madeleine
My clit is slightly protruding, but not large. It is not completely covered by the skin and so it shows as a little pink 'knob' - my pleasure knob I call it. I love it dearly, love to play with it myself, I make one finger wet in my vagina and then gently rub it. I do like it when my husband licks it but he has to be very gentle about it, as my clit is very sensitive. Unfortunately, if he sucks or rubs too hard, all pleasure is gone for me.

Before I got married I had a lover. He had an enormous cock and because of that we mostly had oral sex. Now he was sensational in pleasuring my clit. He actually made me come several times, just by licking, sucking, even nibbling on my clit.

From Anonymous
I like it when my boyfriend gently pull the skin on my clit backward and suck it. Does any female feel uncomfortable when your boyfriend lick your clit through "down to up" motion? (cuz I do)

From Barbra
I don't know if I am a lesbian or what. I have been with guys earlier, no problems with that. But lately I don't know what happens with me. From this lovely sites of Erotica I found out that I really enjoy reading participants experiences. And what's excites me more then anything else are those written by women. Can I be frank? What they say they do with their clits, big or small excites me more then ever. So, I masturbate while I read them. And my imagination have no limit at all. If I could watch it for real would be heaven. But I am satisfied with reading. This make my day worth living for. No harm in that?

My clit really likes when I pull my hood back and forth. I simply like to do this better then have anything inserted in my pussy.

From Patty
I like to rub my clit, covered by the hood, back and forth with the index and middle fingers of my right hand, feeling the hard shaft under my fingers. If I press down hard I can kind of make the shaft "snap" as I rub back and forth. If I keep doing that for long I'll explode into orgasm. I love to rub it back and forth like that, and I can literally do it for hours. It's easy to keep the sensation at the right level that I want it, to slack off or make it more intense so that I can start my orgasm. 

I also like to pull the hood back and gently touch the head with my wet fingertip, rubbing gently back and forth. As soon as my fingertip (or his tongue) first touches the head, I'll let out a long sigh because the feeling is so intense. I can't last long doing that until I have an explosive orgasm. 

I like for my guy to also suck my clit, covered by the head, into his mouth and lightly chew on it. I'll groan from deep in my chest as he does that until I scream bloody murder as I come. Sometimes I just beg him to chew on it and not stop until I explode.

From Prairieyoni
My clitoris, which is about average size, is entirely covered by the hood and it never protrudes unless I pull the hood right back. I like a variety of different touches, including a circular motion right on the exposed clitoris and a stroking action very much like jerking off, starting at the base of the clitoris and rubbing upward and downward with a finger on either side of my clitoris. But my favorite is very hard rubbing on the left side of the hood. 

Sucking is exquisite, and a tongue flicking over my exposed clitoris is also very pleasurable. When I'm not getting what I need I sometimes use fingers to guide my partner, or other times I simply ask, saying something like, "That feels okay, but could you try THIS, please?"

From Stiletto Heel
As I get older and more familiar with my clit I find better ways to please it. I examine it and watch myself masturbate in the mirror. I pull back the hood to intensify my self-stimulation and the orgasm to follow. 

I�ve surely developed a preference for the form of stimulus I like the best � because I know it the best and have perfected it for myself. My index finger and middle finger rubbing with a moderate amount of pressure in a circular motion over the very tip of my clit while the palm of my other hand rests on the top of my vagina as the fingers pull my lips and skin taut. By holding the skin taut the hood is pulled back to reveal the source of incredible pleasure and an intense orgasm will follow. Ahhh, it�s a good thing. With that done I�m ready to face the day�now off to work.

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