Big Clits versus Small Clits

Does clit size determine pleasure?

I have not done a thorough survey of every sex partner I've ever made love with, but I have noticed that woman with the most intense and frequent orgasms, had a large clitoris. Another, who tells me she has had only two or three orgasms in her life . . . well, damn it, I couldn't even find her clitoris.

What say you Ladies and Gents: true or false, does clit size determine the ease or intensity of orgasm?  —Anonymous

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From Scared
I thought I was the only one out there with a abnormally large clit. I am so relieved to find out I'm not. But it is 2.5 inches and it sticks out like a sore thumb whenever I wear my swim suit. I never knew guys liked it so much. My ex. boyfriend I slept with was completely turned off by it and left and never came back.  :(

From TBR
I am amazed at the insight this has brought. I am in my late 50's and my girlfriend is early 60's. I was devastated when that old dog E.D. hit our love life right in the guts. We both have found oral sex to be a lifesaver now.

My partner has a normal size clit I believe, but most important she has a little stinger I call it that pokes me in the tongue now and then. The shaft of her clit gets hard and hangs out but this little stinger fascinates me to no end.

G-Spot stimulation (by an inserted finger) is getting to be a regular thing too. I'm glad her apartment has good sound deadening qualities cause she will get quite verbal on most occasions.

Where was all this info and technique 15 years ago?

From Sunshine4u
Hi there everyone, I am glad that I found this site. I am a 39 double plus size woman with a large clit. I have always been self conscious of it until a few months ago. I have been married a few times but my husbands never seemed to enjoy it. Recently, I visited a new ob/gyn doctor for my yearly physical and she was amazed at my clit. My left lip turns in slightly too. She looked at it, pressed on it, and even asked me did it hurt. I said no. Then she called a couple of other people in the room to look at it. I was really embarrassed then.

I am only 5"4. My friend introduced me to a guy she worked with who is 6"7. We hit it off and started dating. He is wonderful. We decided not to do the penetration thing but we would sway oral favors until later. He began foreplay and he got my clit all aroused and erect. I have never measured it but it almost two inches, and yes it swells up and hangs outside of my lips after stimulation. Sometimes it takes all day or night for the swelling to go down.

Anyway he got me all excited and it fell into his mouth and he had a fit. He jumped up and turned the light on and said "what was that? I snatched the covers up and said nothing. He pulled them away and opened my legs and looked at it. He immediately started again. Well he told me that I was just perfect and I cannot keep his lips and tongue off of me.

From Paris
I like this discussion. I think its cool. I don't have a large clit, always wanted one once I seen how good they could make you feel. I used to hate for it to be touched. When my boyfriend sucks on it, it takes a while for him to grasp it because like I said, its not long like some mentioned on here.

I wanted to know is there anything I can buy or use to make it bigger? What exactly can we do that will make it larger. Thanks!

[From the Editor: Babeland sells a Clit Pump that has excellent reviews.]

From Lore A
I am so glad for this proper authority for Big or Small Clits.

I can see from reading other participants that there are a lot of girls with oversized clits. I wondered how so many at the same time. But I think just going to myself. As many other it's quite common to be shy or insecure what people say or think about bigger ones. I think we all have been in such situations. Therefore it is very good to have a place like this were openhearted declarations about oversized clits or small ones can bee seen.

After reading the participants and had the honor to see my own words in this site. I will say have been much more secure about my big clit and from earlier shyness I have moved to bee proud of my big clit and I dont hesitant if I am at public bath or such to freely walk through. We all have what we are born with. Big or small.

From Rose
Well I'm so glad to have found this site. I'm kinda worried that I have a large clit, it made me self conscious about how it would look and what my partner would think of the way my genitals look.

I must say my clit is really sensitive and I wouldn't like to reduce it surgically, because that would change the sensitivity, I guess I should be happy with what I have.

I see that big clits are common and mine isn't as big as some of the ones commented here. Thank you so much for sharing , your comments made me feel so much better about my looks

From Lore A
I have a oversized clit measuring 2.5 inches erected. I am mad when I hear people talking about bigger clits as freaky or sickening. Get use to it that we are all different. No one talks about a bigger cock like that. I really enjoy what I got and I am happy no doc cut my sweet clit off. And I love to masturbate.

From Dr. D
In a synopsis I would inject my opinion as to a large clitoris being more easily stimulated and aroused than a smaller one.  Stimulation from early years would create a more sensitive bodily function.  But the ultimate decision would be the persons brain.

From Anonymous
During my teenage years, I was very self-conscious of my abnormally large clit. I knew there had to be bigger ones, and I was right. Still didn't change how I felt. I grew up wanting to have surgery on my clit. I wanted to try anything to make it smaller.

When I got my first real boyfriend, we decided to have sex after a few months of being together. My heart was pounding inside my chest as he unbuttoned my pants.

A few seconds later, my panties were off. I was scared that he would get freaked out and lose his interest.

Instead, he went down on me until I came. I later explained to him how I felt about my clit. He assured me that he loved it, and wouldn't want anything smaller. After that, my sex life has been great. My self-esteem has went up, as well as my ability to come.

From Wellwisher
Sexual pleasure is in the mind and mood and it has nothing to do with the size of the clit or dick. The intense desire, liking of partners, mood and method will result in orgasms and its intensity.

So enjoy the thing which is available to you and feel blessed.

From K
I am a 25/blk/f [black female] - I have a very large clit but I absolutely love it and so does my boyfriend of 3yrs. He compares my clit to Vanessa Del Rio but I am still in training he says (lol). I often masturbate with my bullet (on full blast) right in the middle of my clit. I have explosive orgasms when I am self pleasing and with my boyfriend and have squirted on him on several occasions, on his face and cock. I'm sure a woman with a much smaller clit could do the same. We were all made this way for a reason.

I will say that I did not think that my clit was this big 6 years ago - does the size of your lover affect the size of your clit?

From Sugabrown
I am glad to find a forum about a subject that Ii hold close to myself. I am in love with very large clits and labia. It is a part of loving that deserve attention to detail in the highest degree. Multi-orgasmic squirters who are stimulated by clitoral stimulation are special women who deserve attention to their specific endowments. Any discussion concerning this subject matter will be greatly appreciated.

From Anonymous
Like most women, I have never talked about my big clit because it's not the easiest thing to bring up in conversation. She is very big and though men never talk about it, they love it!

When I was younger I felt strange about it because I thought I was the only one.  Like I've heard people say, "They come in all shapes and sizes." I get an enormous amount of pleasure from men's curiosity about her and I just let them explore and check it out for themselves.  They leave wanting more. 

Couldn't be happier with my BC.

From Maria A
My clit is different, large and protruding (my hood does not cover it up) and as a teenage, I was very self conscious of my boy-ish figure (narrow hips and extremely small breasts). But, it was my extremely large and unique clit that worried me more as I headed off to college. My dorm was originally built as a men's dorm and had large open showers with about a dozen shower heads, so there was little privacy, and I had this big thing sticking out for every girl in the shower to see.

I liked to masturbate rubbing against things. My first favorite was straddling the arm of our couch and rubbing my clit - when I started to come, I would squeeze my legs together tight. I had my first lesbian experience in college with a girl in the room next to mine. We would get into a scissor position, puss to puss and grind till we had multiple orgasms - rubbing our juices on each other. But, her favorite was going down on me. I was very self conscious at first but I loved the feel of her mouth sucking my clit and her warm lips caressing my erect clit. She would make me come really quick, but kept sucking and kissing it till I could hardly stand it and I would have a huge dripping O that lasted, it seemed, forever.

I now consider my extra large clit as a major benefit to my lifestyle.

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