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Does clit size determine pleasure?

clit sizeI have not done a thorough survey of every sex partner I've ever made love with, but I have noticed that woman with the most intense and frequent orgasms, had a large clitoris. Another, who tells me she has had only two or three orgasms in her life . . . well, damn it, I couldn't even find her clitoris. What say you Ladies and Gents: true or false, does clit size determine the ease or intensity of orgasm?  —Anonymous

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From Molly
I am obsessed with clits, other womens as well as my own. I am frequently looking in changing rooms, showers, saunas, just name it to see if any woman have a big clitoris. I know quite good that a common size is what the most of us are born with, with slight differences. But I saw a girl once in a sauna and we even had a beautiful conversation.

She was probably born with a oversized clitoris. I didn't ask even If I wanted too, but I couldn't keep my eyes away from peeping at her clit. She must have noticed that somehow and kind of enjoyed it cause she after a while spreadded her legs, not that much but enough for me to clearly see that her clit stuck out between her labias, so beautiful and to be honest, I think...she must have been excited cause I am sure of that her clit was erected.

I felt how I blushed but the sauna heat had already made my cheeks red so it probably wasn't that obvious. After a while she said good bye and went out for her shower. I was bewitched and goat horny from this the prettiest sight I ever seen. I have been back several time there but still she havn't show'n up. But in my dreams in the night she is there.

From Lady jealous
Wow, is the word from what I have been reading here at this beautiful site about clits. Clits in different shapes and colors. To be honest I am envious of women with big ones. It must be a tremendously big joy and satisfactory to have such a big clit as many of you are equipped with and to masturbate at. I always since I got the knowledge that some girls are born with a big clitoris felt a little irritable that mine was smaller. I always stretch and pull at mine to make it taller and wanting it to grow big like a little penis. I remember when I was a kid my friend and I peeped at the guys when they together was masturbating in the barn. At home when my girlfriend some weekends slept over we used to try to play just as those guys did. We wished to have cocks like they have. Oh this is awkward sorry but those were the times.

From Just big
Hi all! Wow this is a site I love. I have been reading a lot and I may say that I am impressed from what I read. Wonderful it is like I found a place to talk. To be straight forward I can tell that my chromosomes probably went crazy in my mother's womb 'cause I am a girl raised as one but my outer genitalia like my cltoris is much bigger then common girls. To make a long story short I will tell that I am intersexed. There was a lot of confusions of course and also a lot of positions for my parent to face. But luckely they didn't let me undergo any surgery to reduce my bigger clit, I am to day so very lucky for.

The only thing that interferes is that too many people still have a conventional conception about how a clitoris shall look. But we have to learn and in a free and natural way see that we are all different anatomically equipped. It is accepted with guys as penises is very long as well as those with shorter ones but when it comes to girls the roles is different. "Girls shall not have a big clitoris." I am so sad and disappointed. So people learn, behave and be open about that we all are differnet. I love what I am born with and very lucky to have parents that had a open mind and a open understanding about our differences. My clitoris looks more like a small penis erected without going into detail on some dimensions. And I LOVE what I am born with!

From Clit lover
This is really interesting. I always read a lot about big or small clits. But it seems like the conventional way to think or look about clits never will change. Girls shouldn't have clits that show and guys can have a big one cock without any insults. This is horrible.

My clit is much over common size and why shall I feel like a freak? OK I don't do this any longer. But guys as well as girls are still very much indoctrinated with this conventional thought. Even a girlfriend of mine told me frankly "I wouldn't like to have a clit like yours" If a clit shows and stick out when erected, it is just very marginally, it's not big as a cock it's just a clit bigger or smaller. So what all this about. I am nowadays proud and lucky that my parents didn't follow the doctors recommendation to cut it. Many girls have sadly been a victim for the scalpel with pain and afterwards not being able to have a good sex life.

So guys and girls, change your mind and open up for a real world to see that we all are different, not one stereotype female or male model who shall rule the world when it comes to genetical differences. Big Clits versus Small Clits, we all need and love our orgasms, and I have great ones together with my lover or by myself.

From Emma
I never realized that I have a small clit until the last 10 years or so after my home computer allowed me to explore some really great porn.  Mine is very small but extremely sensitive. I don't think it makes a difference though I have often wondered if a bigger one made it more sensitive, how it might feel. Can't see how it could be more sensitive though so I guess that's good!  I too, don't like the hood being pulled back, it's far more pleasurable if the clitoris stays under the hood. When the hood is pulled back it's almost painful.

From Jojo
I don't give a monkey's ass, as long as it works.

From Self-satisfied
You guys/girls are unbelievable.. I can't believe you're comparing your clit sizes like guys do their dicks. I mean sheesh it makes no difference unless the person is dysfunctional to begin with. I have a long yet average width clit and I can get off like crazy.. heck I am a squirter .. not a trickler I mean squirt as in projectile and oh my god big mess clean up after. Wow what a feeling... erm anyway..

From Steve
God I love a big clit on a lady. There is no reason to be embarrassed or self conscious. It is what nature had dealt you so flaunt it accept it and enjoy.

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