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Big Clits versus Small Clits

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From Nora
This site is an exciting place really. So many openhearted individuals telling about themselves and what they got between their legs. I am so many-sided of big clits and to be honest even a bit envious of those girls having bigger ones. Mine is quite ordinary or in between so to speak not big or not invisible either. But from what I read, I would be a lucky girl if mine was bigger. And even meet a girl with a bigger one poking out I can honestly tell that I would give anything to make love to her girl to girl. Please don't judge me for that. Take care you all out there small or big.

From Jojo
I don't give a monkey's ass, as long as it works.

From Liza
This site is just extraordinary and I am so happy to find it. At last a place were I fit in I think. To day I am really horny as many other days too but this day is special and I think this site "Big Clits versus Small Clits" helped me to feel this way. I read so many participants here with small or bigger clits and that made my mind up to participate. To start with I am born with a big clit and through the years I know it have gown even bigger. I love it and I love to masturbate.  Can I be straightforward to say that I am right now nude from in under sitting with spread legs and when I lean forward I can see my big clitoris sticking out between my labia lips.

To people who read this and love big clitorises I can tell when I measuring it (I'm blushing a little when I do and even write here) it measure fully erected 2.3/4 inches. And to you girls with smaller ones I only say that we are all different shaped more or less in sizes don't matter. I only wanted to free my needs to tell when I found such lovely site were I also found that I am not the only one with a bigger clitoris. Thank you !

From Deborha
So nice I found this site. I read with pleasure feeling more calm from (you) participants. It's easy to feel uncertain when it comes to such delicate subject as clit sizes. I haven't done any comparing stuffs lately since school time. I think I was a bit bigger in clit size already then but it didn't show that much those days as it does now. I don't know but I think I am happy for having a bigger clit. It shows quite good when I am really horny and erected. Anyhow I am not so much for inserting anything in my vagina. It always hurts and I'm not that big either. But instead I am well favoured with the size of my clitoris. When erected I can have a nice grip from my fingers and I like pulling my hood when I masturbate. 

I am always worried when I meet a guy. First I do not enjoy intercourse because of that hurting feelings. And I don't dare to say, if you want to masturbate me instead. This have made me a little uninterested of guys. (But) I'm not complaining as long as I enjoy to do it the needful way I like best. "My Way"

From Kasey
I have a large clit, about 1 1/2 inches. I have always been extremely self-conscious even though my boyfriend says he absolutely loves it. When looking at Playboy or other nude models I never see large clits and always envy the way other women look "closed" and "compact", where as my clit pushes open my lips and basically screams "here I am!"

I'm so glad I found this discussion, reading about other women with large clits so I know I'm not a freak or a hermaphrodite as I have joked about with my boyfriend (which he doesn't like because he says I'm beautiful). It helps a lot knowing I'm not alone, and that other men actually like/prefer them! I think I want to start a support group for women with large clits who are insecure.

Oh, and on the debate on whether clit size effects orgasms, I doubt it. I'm big and so are my orgasms, but my friend is tiny and she has big ones too. I don't think it matters at all but I just know my pleasure center is easier to find.

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