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Blowjobs: pleasure or powerIn the book How to Write a Dirty Story by Suzie Bright there is an exercise you could call "Could You Would You?"  The exercise is designed to free up your imagination. I invite you to read the following 3 questions, and share your answers with us. —Chris Garcia

1) Explain a sexual fantasy about an experience in the  real world you would jump on in an instant if you could have it, no questions asked. Something you would have no reservations about actually doing.

2) Explain an experience you would like to have but only under certain conditions, otherwise not. Under those conditions you'd definitely give yourself to it, otherwise no way.

3) Explain a fantasy you'd love to do in your imagination, something that excites you and maybe gets you off but you'd never in a million years do it in the real world, either because its impossible to perform or too squicky to endure. But something that excites you to play around with in your fantasies.

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From Clark
In Real Life: To head to the beach and find a nice secluded spot. We lay out and before long I start to enjoy my wife's pussy. First some fingering and then going down on her to taste her sweetness and get her nice and excited, and to finish it off with a nice fuck. She returns the favor another time by letting me fuck her pussy and then she finishes me off by sucking my cock. Even though the beach is secluded, there still is a chance to be seen if someone comes along.

Under Certain Conditions: To be on the beach and have other people at the beach, but far enough away to enjoy some sexy fun together. We start out with rubbing each other and eventually get naked. Then we move into enjoying sex not worrying about if the other people can see what we are doing. She gets on top of me and rides my cock letting her tits bounce as she rides my shaft. We finish regardless if some even gets too close.

Only in my fantasies: We are having some great sex on the beach and another couple come along and watch as I fuck my wife. While we are fucking and having oral sex, they join in and start taking off their clothes, then join us in having some great sex. We are watching each other which turns us both on and I finally finish with a good ejaculation and my wife moaning as she orgasms. We then watch as this other couple do the same. We thank each other for the show and go back to enjoying laying out on the beach.

From Raven
1) In Real Life: My husband and I occasionally engage in some light BDSM. He likes to tie me to the bed and fuck me, or bend me over his knee for a good spanking. (And yes, I enjoy being tied up and spanked!)

2) Under Certain Conditions: We are friends with another couple who are active in The Lifestyle and we have a standing invitation to be their guests at the private swingers club they belong to, anytime we are ready. To be honest, I am not interested in swinging with them; they're just not my type. But I am intrigued with the idea of going to the club, just to see what it's like.

3) Only In My Fantasy: I want to be a sex slave for my favorite band. They'll keep me fed, cleaned and clothed (well, some of the time) and in exchange, I must allow myself to be fucked, in any and every hole, by any of them, or all of them, anytime they want. And if I refuse, or try to get away, I will be punished...

From Alex
1) In the real world: Having 24 hours of wild sex with the woman who plays Bones on the TV show, "Bones." Why stop at 24 hours? I'd like to have her for a, a month.

2) Under certain conditions: A threesome with my wife and another woman who is from out of town and we'd never see again. This would be a one-time, no-string-attached threesome. Wait, that already happened! I need to think this question over some more. Maybe a foursome with my wife and three other women.

3)  Only in my fantasies: A gang bang with my wife on the receiving end. I would cap the number of guys at 5, including me. Just a fantasy; I would NEVER want to see this happen.

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