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From Eva St. James
1) In the real world: I would like to go to my lover's hometown and pass him on the street, just to watch his reaction. Our relationship is on the DL, very very DL, and he lives in a very very small town, where he has lived all his life. It would be interesting to see the emotions play on his face, etc.

2) Under certain conditions: Would like to have said lover at the same time as another man who I have an unconsummated relationship with. I wouldn't have even thought about this, but lover said once he would live up to any sexual fantasies I had, including other men. The condition would be, of course, that no one would ever know. I think this would be a condition of most fantasies, or they would be experiences instead of fantasies.

3)  Only in my fantasies: This is going to sound lame and typical and includes all the things we are told we shouldn't worry about, so disclaimer. But I would like to have sex in a body that is, well, better. Not saying I'm hideous or unattractive, yada yada, but I would like to have sex in a body with a completely flat tummy, firm perky breasts and some type of ass, I have none, so anything would be an improvement. What having this body would do is to allow me to not worry about jiggling and drooping, etc. Its very neurotic and self-absorbed, but, hey you asked for it.

From Bill
1) In Real Life: Have my wife go out to a local club wearing a short skirt with no panties on and a nice low cut blouse without a bra. I would follow and watch her flash some of the guys in the club.

2) Under Certain Conditions: I would act like I was picking her up and would have a nice time dancing with her and letting my hands wander all over her body. Then watch her in the club dancing with other men and letting them feel her nice ass and look down her blouse at her gorgeous tits. I think it would a turn on to watch some other man take her to a secluded spot in the club and watch him rub her tits and then give her a finger job. To finish the night, I would want to watch her give some guy a hand job there in the club.

 3) Only in my Fantasy: To have her invite a man home and watch as he strips her clothes off and suck on her tits and pussy. To watch her give him a blow job and to watch them fuck each other. After he leaves, I want to do the same things to her and fill her pussy with cum.

From ETM355
1) In the real world: I would like to be banged in the ass by three women on the same night and get it all on video. My wife has been pegging me for a while. We get together with another couple a few times a year, and the woman has done me twice. In addition to my wife and her, I would like for my wife's best friend to join us.  She's definitely up for it. We just need to get her out for a visit. A few years ago, she did a nice grind against my ass until she came one night. Judging from how her hips moved, I'd love to experience what she could do with a strap-on.

2) Under Certain Conditions: A lot would have to fall into place for this one.  But I've thought about my wife and I meeting a beautiful transsexual and having a great time together. She enjoys being with women but wishes they had a nice package. I get totally turned on by getting boned in the ass by a gorgeous woman. I've seen some beautiful transsexuals, and often think about what it would feel like to take it up the ass with one of their real dicks.

3) Only in my fantasies: This is going to sound a little weird. I have never had the desire to jerk another guy off or go down on him.  My wife and I were once with two other couples at the same time (and the alcohol was flowing), but the thought never crossed my mind.  The strange thing is that I have dreamed on more than one occasion that I could suck my own cock (at least the first couple inches). And one of those dreams was incredibly real. I guess you could call that narcissistic, even though I've never been accused of that. Still, thought of going down on myself and exploding in my own mouth is something that I have found quite arousing. Too bad I'm not a contortionist.  FYI, this was a very thought provoking topic. Pretty cool.

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