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From Danielle
1) In the real world: Make out with an attractive woman. I only have sexual experience with men (so far) but have met several women I felt attracted to. Nothing's ever come of it because of all sorts of reasons - wrong place or time, already in a relationship, etc - but I'd really like to ... expand my knowledge.

2) Under certain conditions: Harder to decide. Two main ones I think, so I'll give you both: Use my hands - and perhaps mouth - on someone in the train and/or have that other person do the same to me in the train. In the Netherlands, train travel is quite public and respectable so no dark corners, just rows of seats that anyone can pass by. The thrill of other people maybe noticing what's going on, without being sure they do, turns me on immensely. Also, I'd like watch while a couple have sex, people I know well, that I feel comfortable with, just be an open voyeur and maybe afterwards cuddle up with them.

3)  Only in my fantasies: For what I fantasize about but would never do, read "The Story of O" (Pauline Réage, "L'Histoire d'O"). Although I like 'light' BDSM, I wouldn't enjoy some of the sexual acts described there and the submission taken to the extreme. Doesn't appeal to me.

From San Francisco Femme
1) In Real Life: I'm extremely bi-curious so I'd like to have sex with a truly sensual woman, have her be a patient lover who's willing to teach me anything and everything about woman-to-woman lovemaking, someone who's willing to educate me all the way from deep kissing to fisting.
2) Under Certain Conditions:  Finding a bisexual male mate to develop a healthy and satisfying relationship with, then finding another male-female bisexual couple for a long-term committed true sensualist lifestyle, where every hole and every opportunity is open for play. So while the boys are giving each other blow jobs the wife and I are pegging them then she and I are 69ing while they enter us from behind with their natural pegs.  I'd love it if we could rent fantastic homes around the World for vacations and take our lovemaking to new heights and new places.  Imagine a vacation in Greece, a balcony overlooking the sea, couple's massage and then lovemaking for four under the sun until it sets and then under the stars. 

3) Only in my Fantasy: See #2 - is it just a fantasy or could my dreams really come true?   This is, quite honestly, how I'd like to live the rest of my sexual life but I don't know where to begin finding those mates.

From Mark
1) In Real Life: I would like to see my wife bound, ankles to wrists, and then I would spend an hour or more giving her oral sex, making sure that she has many orgasms before I fuck her, cathing all on video.

2) Under Certain Conditions: Bring a female friend into the bedroom and have sex in the doggie style position with her while my wife licks her clit, then sit back and watch as my wife takes care of the creampie I leave in our friends pussy.

3) Only in my Fantasy: Public sex with a group, my wife being the center of attention and being taken by three at a time.

From Debra
1) In Real Life: I've only been married a few years and things sexually are getting a little boring. I know we need to expand things and try something new and different to add some excitement. Last weekend I surprised my husband by wearing a short skirt and a nice blouse which isn't too uncommon for me. The surprise was the fact I didn't wear any panties or bra. I unbuttoned a few extra buttons when we were out for drinks and it gave him a nice look at my tits. I also made sure he noticed my no panties by giving him a few nice flashes. What was nice was I noticed a few other men stealing glances and I was excited to flash them also. One the way home, we parked the car and had sex in the car. We hadn't done this for years and it was more than just the fingering or hand jobs we used to do. He and I were totally naked enjoying a nice fuck. 

2) Under Certain Conditions: To have sex outdoors somewhere. I would like to try a picnic at a park or at the beach and if it was secluded enough, to have him fuck me from behind.

3) Only in my Fantasy: I kind of enjoyed flashing the other men in the bar and I started to fantasies about doing some more flashing. I got so horny thinking about meeting one of these men as I came out of the bathroom and he complimented my on my nice pussy. I would give him another look and he starts to finger me making me all wet with one hand and has his other hand on my tits. I return the favor and give him a nice hand job. When I get back to my husband, we leave and I fuck him right in the parking lot because I am still so wet and horny. 

From Matt
1) In Real Life: To capture my wife masturbating on video. She has just recently been willing to give me a show as I watch her stroke her pussy with her fingers. She gets nice and wet and it isn't long before she inserts two fingers and starts to rub her g-spot. It is just so exciting to watch her pleasure herself and I would love to record it and be able to watch it at other times. I would hope this could also expand to video us having intercourse. Getting the camera set-up to record it all would take some practice to record what we would like. It would be nice to find someone to hold the camera and record the session, but right now, we don't know anyone we could trust to do this.

2) Under Certain Conditions: Trade our video tapes of her masturbating and us having sex with other couples. I would love to know that other couples are getting turn-on watching our tapes. It would also be nice to watch other couples fucking each other as we were fucking also.

3) Only in my Fantasy: My wife has a friend that is a cheerleader at our university she attends. When we go to the football games, I enjoy watching her and have a fantasy of her coming over after the game with us in her cheerleading uniform. She is ready for some fun and we start to undress her from her uniform. Slowly exposing her bra and panties she has on under her skirt and sweater. My wife unfastens her bra and her tits are exposed with nice erect nipples. She lets my wife suck on her tits and then move down to her panties. Her panties come off as my wife kisses her pussy and begins to eat her nice pussy. We then all get naked and start to fuck and suck each other having a great threesome with these two beautiful women.

From Tim
1) In the Real World: Go to a club with my wife and enter seperately for a night of acting single again. She has a very sexy body and I would enjoy seeing her show off her stuff in a nice stretch top and short skirt. I would also insist she wear either thong panties or no panties at all. When dancing she would be free to grind and enjoy it all she feels comfortable with. I would even sneak a few dances with her myself and let her skirt slid up exposing her ass. I also think it would be hot to watch some other guys feeling her ass and tits as they dance and her grinding against their hard cocks.

2) Under Certain Conditions: Invite another person into our love sessions. We both have interests in a threesome and would like to give it a try. We just haven't found the right person or situation to give it a try. She would like to taste another woman's pussy, and I would love to watch her enjoy that pussy. Having a different pussy to taste and fuck would be nice for me too.

3) Only in my Fantasy: To go clubbing and to have sex on the middle of the dance floor. It gets out of control and another guy starts to fuck my wife and I turn and fuck his girlfriend. Before long there are multiple people sucking each other cocks, eating pussy, and fucking on the dance floor with a big audience watching.

From Oxartes
1) In the real world: Recalling one of my recent stories, get buck naked with Mrs. Oxartes & do it on a desk at the office (mine or hers).

2) Under certain conditions: If I weren't married, I'd love to make love with a black or Arab Muslim woman (these themes have popped up in 4 of my older stories).

3)  Only in my fantasies: Now, I'm going tp get all enigmatic & dogmatic on y'all.  There's a well-known debate in classical Jewish sources about kashrut (the noun; "kosher" is the adjective) in which one sage said that he was proud never to have had a craving, or even a curiosity, to try shellfish, pork, etc.,because such things disgust him.  One of his colleagues said that if these things disgusted him so much that he abstained from them, where was God in that equation?  Rather, the second Sage said, we should say that we crave/are curious to try/ these things but abstain from them because we believe that it is God's will.  So, I'll admit that I am curious about certain things and might like to experiment a little but I will never indulge these curiosities because, as an orthodox Jew, I belive God has commanded me not to do so.  But neither can I deny that these curiosities exist way, way down in a small, well-concealed, deeply hidden section of my consciousness, where they will never see the light of day and are indulged only in my fantasies or in an occasional story.  Such is life & its choices.

From Clare Smith
1) In the real world: have a 121 with a master/teacher to introduce me to the delights of erotic BDSM (e.g. blindfolded and cuffed - NOT the heavy stuff), but only if I could do it to him in return.

2) Under certain conditions: Masturbate the guy I was dancing with in a dark nightclub in the middle of the dance floor, providing he did the same to me during a very loud tune being played by the DJ (to drown the noise I might make!)

3)  Only in my fantasies: To be taken, standing on a bus, where I would have no way of escape, but would be shielded by the four men doing the taking and fully surrounding me so that no one on the bus knew it was happening.

From Greg
1) In the real world: To spend a day outdoors enjoying each other and working up to some great sex. Just start out by teasing each other with the clothing we are wearing, eventually removing that clothing and being naked for each other. Then start some light touching of each other, moving to watching each other masturbate, and then just moving in taking turns giving each other oral, bringing her to an orgasm, but her taking me right to the brink of release, then stopping. Later on we would just start fucking each other and finally both have a big orgasm.

2) Under Certain Conditions: My wife and I joining another couple having sex. Not with them, but just in the same location so we can watch them and they could watch us. I imagine this could happen at some resort we are staying at in the hot tub late at night, or on the beach.

3) Only in Fantasy: To do some swinging. I would love to feel another woman's pussy wrapped around my cock and to figure out what turns her on. To have a new experience receiving a blow job. Then to know my wife is handling some other man's cock and experiencing it filling her delightful pussy. Her being eaten by another man so he gets to taste her sweet juices and her sucking on his cock watching him enjoy her sucking his cock. 

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