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From Dave
Wow... 'sirch smalliwis' [see entry below], you need to seriously lighten up! Ending your lovemaking session with an orgasm in a garbage bag or plastic sac?? Sure, if you're doing it in a laboratory with a robot! Hey, if you're not into exterior climaxing (to anyone up there), please don't do it. I completely agree with one writer - it's only as degrading as you [want] it to be. Get it? I really liked the commentary of another, who said something about the facial being a unique extension of the lovemaking intensity (or something like that). If my lover is so aroused that she wants to see and feel my eruption, I'm the luckiest guy in the world at that moment. What a thrill! 

Experimentation is what takes passionate lovers to new levels. So, if you're into splashes, enjoy. If not, don't worry about it.

From Ed
I love getting off in my girlfriend's mouth or face. We are 8 years together and we love oral sex. I mostly orgasm in her mouth. Last year I've discovered it's a real turn-on for me to come in her face. At first she found it odd, but now every once in a while she lets me give her a face splashing.

From Valerie
I'm 43 and married and I don't get to see porn - darn, darn, darn.

It has been in the last 10 years that I started fantasizing about being on my knees in front of my standing husband while he masturbated, a distance away so I was unable to even lick the head of his penis. He would do this until he came on my face and breast. Luscious.

It's not exactly what I had fantasized about but it was close enough to make me a happy woman. I had been out of town for more than a week and returned home a bit sex crazed. He was playing with my breast which I absolutely love, and then he moved to let me suck on him. After a bit he backed up and I wrapped my breast alongside his penis and he started stroking.

Shortly after the start of this he came on my face, neck and in the grove of my breasts. I told him we need to do this more.

From Paul
I learned to love coming all over a woman's face and breasts when I was only 14. I worked at a local Italian restaurant our family friends owned. I was the dishwasher/busboy and they treated me like family.

On weekend nights after closing they would have a meal and cocktails with friends/regular patrons. I would typically sit at the table beside a stunning middle aged woman from Italy, and she was very flirtatious with me and I would turn red in the face.

One day she asked me to come to her condominium "to help hang mirrors" and she would pay me. I showed up and there were no mirrors to hang, but to make a long story short, most every Saturday afternoon for a summer I would go to her home and she would kneel down in front of me while I sat on a bar stool and stroked my cock and she would open her mouth and I would squirt my semen into her open mouth and on to her face. She would basically come from this without being touched. 

We did this quite a few times until I wanted to fuck her (I was a virgin) and she didn't want that. She started asking me to piss on her and call her names and that was a bit too much for me. I realized she felt degraded and "dirty" from this and that's what the turn on was for her. Wow. I'm very turned on just remembering this!

From Anonymous
For me, its a power thing-ejaculating on a woman's face or giving her the pearl necklace. Another side to it is the feeling of vulnerability I get. A woman with her face level with my crotch and I'm losing control, shooting my semen, grunting and wailing, just totally exposed, raw, and vulnerable at the same time as empowered in a weird way. 

I've also ejaculated in my own face and it's like being totally submissive. But when it's a really big load and it squirts out faster than I'm ready for and its hot and thick, I kinda get grossed out, but turned on too.

From NiceGuysFinishLast
Additional comments I want to add after reading some of the other responses

To compare a facial cumshot to a water-gun blast isn't quite right for a few reasons. First of all, a gun is a malicious instrument, and a penis isn't (in and of itself; if it is used that way is another story). Second, the nature of both the gun's expulsion and water itself are both different from ejaculation; I suppose there are men whose semen is as thin as water or who ejaculate with as much force as a water pistol, but neither of these seem to be the norm. There is also nothing sexual about a water pistol, whereas an ejaculating penis is assumed to be involved at some point during sex with a man.

I know there is a scenario (described in another response on this page as well as portrayed in some porn) or men simply masturbating until they're ready to come and then doing it onto the woman's face. This is, to me, a more extreme and somewhat distancing form of the act, and is generally not what's thought of or desired when thinking of facial cumshots. Then again, some people may find that perfectly acceptable and arousing to both parties, so more power to them.

As far as straight men getting cum in their faces, it happens, and shouldn't be shied away from. It's certainly possible for a man who ejaculates pretty far to come on his own face while masturbating, and if it does, OH WELL. If you want women to deal with that, you have to expect to deal with it yourself - same goes for the feel and taste of it. If you've just come in your partner's mouth or on her face and then treat her like a leper, you're fucked up. There's no reason she should take that from you if you're not still willing to show her as much closeness and affection as you were before. And no, kissing her with your cum on her face doesn't mean you're gay, any more than if a woman sucks on your cock after it's been inside her means she is a lesbian or likes pussy enough to be willing to go for a threesome with another woman.

One more thing "You Are What You Eat" is NOT a myth. This goes for both men and women. No, it's not literal; drinking pineapple juice right before sex will not make your bodily fluids taste like pineapple juice. But an excess of spicy or sweet food or drink, especially on a regular basis, will have an effect on the flavor, smell, and consistency of both semen and vaginal fluid (as well as sweat and other bodlily excretions). I know this from firsthand experience as well as direct feedback. So yes, if all a guy eats is burgers, pizza, and beer, his semen will probably be pretty salty and bitter, and this will probably contribute to anyone taking it on their face or in their mouth thinking it's gross. Fruits, vegetables, and sweet drinks make you sweeter inside and out.

From Living in Japan
My wife loves to watch me come. When we first started dating she would masturbate me and just watch me shoot. After I would shoot she would giggle and call me a good chibi (she's Japanese) and that kind of means good boy. When we first started having intercourse she asked me shoot anywhere on her body but her face (she said not on the face). 

Now she likes me to come inside of her (she says my penis gets really big when it comes and she likes to feel it in her vagina). Once in a great while she will give me an handjob to just watch me spurt (and she still giggles and calls me a good chibi).

From Dave
For an occasional change of pace, my wife will rub my cock on her breasts and nipples as she masturbates me. It's very erotic to watch her stroking and she seems to like having me come on her. It's always her choice and she finds nothing demeaning in it. I've never come on her face. We're open minded and always looking for variety but that seems simply disrespectful and not erotic at all.

From Jason
People like Bob [see entry below] is the very reason I find it degrading and disgusting. As for men commenting about getting wet faces from oral sex. I've never seen a man to get a woman's cum all over his forehead, ears, cheeks, nose and chin from oral sex alone on a woman. If he does, maybe he should brush up on his skills. 

Getting a few messy corners does not equate to purposely taking your load and shooting it all over some chick's face. Nasty, it won't be long to I can't find a chick whose not into golden showers. Give me a woman who wants kinky sex without the degrading elements anytime.

From Barry
I've never done it. I've had the odd blow job, but to me there's nothing better than watching your partner's face as you empty your load inside of her. Unfortunately I don't get many chances to do that any more ... condoms are the pits.

From Greg
I agree with nlj [see entry below]. Even though we see it in porn to a ridiculous degree, I just can't understand why a guy would want to come on a woman's face either. It is degrading, and I think it does come from a control issue if the man wants to do that to a woman.

I have a voluptuous, sexy BBW as a wife, and I must say that an orgasm is much more pleasurable while buried deep between her luscious hips. The warmth and muscular contractions in her vagina increase the pleasure many times over. Although I have "blown a few loads" on her breasts, the pleasure factor was much diminished.

If we do watch porn, I usually fast-forward over the cumshot scene, as it ruins the mood for both of us, and I've heard my wife say that a facial scene was "a real waste of good cum".

From nlj
Never understood wanting to come on a woman's face. Totally baffles me and seeing it so commonly in porn is a total turn off as far as watching for me. Breasts I can understand simply cos so many men are fixated on breasts but the face i just do not understand at all.

From R
I love to have a guy come on my face and breasts! Then I rub it into my skin and let it dry and walk around all day with my little secret.

From Shaun
I have shaved my pubic hair since I was a teenager. Always kept it up because I loved the look and feeling of it. All the girls I have ever been with I have asked to shave and they have obliged. I think the younger girls or generation x like to completely shave, anyway.

Anyway, I think a completely shaved pubic area is the way to go, and I think society is headed that way! Ladies, most men like it completely shaved...the men who "like full beavers" are old, farts whose time has passed!

From Harvey
The first time, with my wife, she's doing my favourite thing of licking my balls, I'm just about to come, and I find myself pointing my cock downwards, i.e. at her face. I came so much, about 8 strong spurts. She came up level with my face, and laughing, showed me one blast which had got her right in the ear, between bursts of laughter, she said it was nice, apart from the "crackling" sound as it moved or dried in her ear.

 Many times since then she has asked me to come on her breasts or stomach. If she's already aroused enough, a spurt directly onto her clitoris can make her orgasm like nothing else. This is about the only time she gets loudly vocal, and I love it.

From Star Traveller
I adore it when my lover cums on my breasts. It is a wonderful part of all our loving. I love to suck his cock, it really turns me on, then when he's almost there he takes it out of my mouth and he jerks off and shoots over my breasts as I rub my clit and we both orgasm together. To feel his cum splatter my breasts is wonderful and then I have him rub it all over. Sometimes he licks them after and kisses me and shares it with me. Strange, disgusting? I don't think so. I find it erotic and loving.

From Anna
I think the reason so many adult films show this is so the viewer can come completely identify with the man in the film. Think about it the viewer is most likely sitting there masturbating by himself. He can enjoy watching the actors having sex, but if the male actor ejaculates inside the woman, it doesn't match what the viewer is experiencing. On the other hand, if the male actor pulls out and masturbates to a finish, it is a much closer parallel and makes it easier for the viewer to imagine that he is in the same situation.

From Anonymous
#1 Degrading
I enjoyed it for years, Then was informed that it was "degrading." So being the nice guy I am, that took all the fun out of it. I started looking at it from a girls perspective and haven't come on a girls face for months. But I still couldn't comprehend the fact that it was "degrading", and set in search for the answer...

#2 Conditioning
By all means, number one was right There are many men who like to take submission and controlling to the next level, but not everyone. In my case I found that it was "conditioning"-Specifically through porn. I was exposed to cumshots at age 12, (and by the way, that's late!) By the time I had sex, I was doing what came natural from watching porn for years. I never thought it was "degrading", I love women. Why would you "degrade" a woman unless you were borderline "homo?"

So in the end, unfortunately, society think it's degrading, I feel like a pussy, and thanks to women haters, the only way I'll ever be able to enjoy my favorite fetish again is if the girl requests it...

From John
I learned to give face or tit splashing, when I had my first sexual experiences with whores. I paid a little more and got entirely safe sex. Now my wife has to receive the sticky shots. I watch her masturbating in the finishing stage of our lovemaking. When she is going to make faces and to shriek I let my wads fly into her happily distorted, reddish face. If she is not in the right mood, her dangling boobs are splattered with thick cum. I love her. We married in 1983.

From Jeff
I really like a good facial ... when the woman is into it. (And fortunately my wife sometimes is!).

Here is my opinion. I'm sure some of these acts are acts of dominance—and I frown upon that. I'm sure some men do intend for them to be degrading or intend to 'mark their territory'. But I'm referring to this act between two loving people who respect each other. And I don't think there is anything degrading about facials. In fact just the opposite. Here is why

Men love sex. And men love women who love sex. Nothing is hotter than a woman who simply loves sex (and most men would think "Nothing is hotter than a woman who loves sex with me!"). Finally, nothing represents sex for a man like his semen—so a woman who loves his semen is very, very attractive to a man.

Hence the facial is a way for a woman to say "I love you. I love sex with you, I love your semen, I want it all over me." And this is extremely erotic for a man to watch. Men are visual and it visually proves the woman is totally in to you. My semen epitomizes me. So if she accepts my semen, she accepts me completely and fully.

I'd had previous girlfriends let me cum in their mouth and ones who swallowed and while that was very erotic, nothing was a sexy as this. My wife (who swallows too) was sucking me but her jaw was sore so she was just licking the end and giving me a handjob. When I started to come, I moved down so I wouldn't hit her in the face. When I was done she said, with a devilish, playful grin, "You could have left it there you know." So the next time in that situation, I didn't move at all and her cheeks and chin were covered. When she looked up at me and smiled, cum on her cheeks and dripping off of her chin, it was the sexiest thing I've ever seen and I've never been more in love with my wife—and why?—because she was sending the message the she loves my semen, loves sex with me, and loves me.

And for women who don't like to swallow or even let men finish in their mouth, it's a great alternative to keep your men happy!

Other take home message to the ladies This is sexiest when the woman requests it! So do your guy a favor and make such a request sometime. Don't be surprised to find him doing something really nice for you shortly thereafter

From JJ
My wife told me a naughty one, she went to give a bag of cloths to her friend mid afternoon some time back, after a short wait her friend answers the door with wet hair. after some girly giggly chat I gather the story comes out that she is seeing a lad a dozen years her junior (she is 34 ish) and in his class, its cool to hose a girl in the face and hair. My wife caught her just after, washing it out.

From M
I think I have to agree with Julie. no matter how we go down on ladies, we always get a wet face, so why shouldn't they. My wife hates the stuff and only wants it in her, but I would like to come on her breasts and lick it off. She is not up to that though.

From Handey 
The story from Yuppie made me smile. This is going back some, I used to work in a cloak room in a night club, and when I say cloak room we had 8 racks isles what ever you call them, big space for hangers. The crack was who ever could get away with it would bring it in the cloak room, or a corner of it anyways. Door staff, any one really, mainly the blokes though. I've seen loads of stuff like that. I saw one woman in her 30's with boy cream on her red polish nailed hands

From Yuppie
My brother has done modeling and was a stripper for one summer. he told me one time, they where doing a show for a hen party, all the women where city types, banking and those types of places. There where on and off shows through out the night, in a place rented out for the occasion, it was like a community hall, it was a women only event. The boys loo where next to the women's loo i.e. no back stage area.

So my brother says he just had a pee and was about ten minutes away from going on again. Was looking for the other guy he was going to go on stage with. Opens door to where all their bags where, kneeling on the floor was a woman in her mid to late 30's, ginger hair. He rekoned he just got there after the point of no return. Guys buttocks where clenched and she had been shot in the face, so public so open.

From Jane Lane
I like it when a guy orgasms onto my breasts and stomach area, the face is ok as long as it doesn't go in the eyes or venture up the nose.

I like a guy coming on my breasts cos then its all warm and he can lick it off if he wants to, it feels great too.

From Zeke
I will be the first to declare do what ever mutually floats your boat between two people having sex. However for me it has never been a turn on to shoot my load into a pretty girls face! I have had it happen by accident a couple of times and was not turned on by the results! Most of the time it goes into your partners eye thus causing them to try to regain their sight while still acting like they just enjoyed a random shot of hot gooey liquid in the face.

From Bookwormly
Reading the other entries reminded me of an occasion when in my formative early 20s. With a new girlfriend, in the cramped confines of her volkswagon, she asked me to cum on her breasts. Since I had only recently emerged from the guilt-laden life of a religious upbringing, I was [pleasurably] shocked. It was great fun; her pleasure at seeing it happen was as great as my pleasure in doing it.

Philosophically, I was startled by her request, because my upbringing was full of idiotic ideas about women as non- sexual entities. That she wanted this, just because she enjoyed it, and not for my sake, was an education I shall always thank her for.

From Mike
I have ejaculated on several women's breasts and they have all enjoyed it due to my obvious excitement and resulting increased semen volume. I have accidentally ejaculated on one woman's face (as she was pulling my penis out of her mouth and trying to aim it toward her breasts). She did not like it too much, as a jet of my semen went into her eye.

From Anonymous
I LOVE shooting a hot white load on a girls face. It is such turn on. There is nothing better than having your woman sucking your cock and just get you so turned on that you are going to pop. Then tell her to lean herself back against the bed and then I stand up and start jerking off really slowly so it builds up.

Then I like to get about 2 feet away from her and then just let my cum shoot all over her face and tongue and mouth. Then when you are done, bring your cock up to her mouth so she can suck on it for a minute. I then like to makeout with her and tell her I love her and how sexy she looks.

From Anonymous
Pass the sperm please. When I'm fucking someone, it's just that...Fucking. oh yeah, there's love; a lot of it, but when he pulls down his pants for me, it's fucking and I get off just thinking about the possibility of him degrading my beautiful countenance and I think it's just because in the western "fucked up" way of thinking, that sperm shooting in my face is sexy because it's the hilt of submissive and it's really fun to just surrender to that big veinous cock and swallow it bitches.

From Tim
I think it's a case of whatever floats your boat! There is no right, no wrong! If you like it...great if you don't...don't do it!

Personally I love to come on a woman's face, there couldn't be a bigger turn on for me. I have had a lot of sexual partners since the age of 14 and I am now 26, some have loved it and actively encouraged it, for instance my ex loved to do a 69 mutual masturbation thing, she got off on me being inches from her pussy as she went to work and also on the anticipation of a warm load on her face, she would often be sent over the edge as I came on her face.

Then some of my other girlfriends didn't like it at all! It's something for me I only do when the time is appropriate,i.e. if we are drunk and having hot passionate dirty sex then my girl loves it, but if we are making love we come together with me inside her! Don't knock it till you've tried it! as for the guy who is apparently "sophisticated" and would come in a bag, you obviously don't get out much!

From Kalliannassa
I definitely prefer my lover to come inside me, preferably in my pussy, because he feels so different then, and it drives me wild. He has come on my face before, and my breasts sometimes at my request sometimes at his. Reasons for requests:

We have been fucking for a long time and I hurt down there I or he or we were both bored and wanted to do something different.

I love to give blow jobs, but hate to swallow, so split the difference.

He loves my breasts in any way shape form but the number one reason, for me

We talk about everything, and he once mentioned that having an orgasm for the first time in a while was overall better, and also involved much more cum, when we were apart for a while I wanted to "see" how much he missed me. I suppose it's a bit selfish, but it turned me on, and he claims to have enjoyed it as well.

Have I mentioned I love seeing him cum period? Either the look on his face, or the actual event....

From Meyer
We have been married since almost 20 years now. At the beginning of our wonderful relationship my plump wife was a virgin with the exception that she had enjoyed some homosexual intercourse.

She liked to eat out other girls and is an oral addict with men (that is with me and in her dirty imaginations). So we had full fucking with filling the cream pie for the creation of our children only. Otherwise vaginal is just a part of foreplay to achieve heavy loads of cum.

More than the half of the thick white globs teeming with the little ones goes down her gullet, the other part is hosed deeply between her luscious buttocks or flies on her body. The preferred finishing is splashing my hot semen in 5 or 6 jets and some dribbling into her wide open willing mouth, while she is frigging furiously her pink pearl. It is more a facial as not all of the jizz goes inside her.

So her pretty face is partly covered by the sticky mess. She is making superb faces scared by the stinky goo and because we have our roaring orgasms at the same time. I like the view of her humilation, some of the white stains clinging to her red glowing cheeks, other running down slowly. It is a compensation for the helplessness of men against the sexual temptations by women.

From RealDog
Just about every woman I have had my cock out with seems to like jerking it off on their tits. I think it's a power thing, control of the dick, up close and personal. The facial is usually by accident, some seem to like it. As I've gotten older, a lot of women like to watch me jackoff. It can be pretty intense. I love to watch a women do the jill thing, huge turn on.

From Carlos
My wife and I have a very healthy sex life and the reason for that is simply respect. If either of us wish to try something new, we simply discuss it. If either of us feel unsure in anyway then it doesn't happen. It maybe disappointing but hey that's called 'Respect'.

This is a very selfish kind of sex because that is what it is - sex. There is no love making involved and that is what I believe is the turn on, being the centre of attention with the pair of you concentrating on what solely pleases you - a form of shared masturbation.

I respect my wife a great deal and cherish the ground she walks on, the idea of coming over her face is indeed a turn on and I would love to experience this one day. I do not want to do this to degrade her, far from it, I respect and trust her enough to share this fantasy with her.

I have however, cum over her breasts and her back, in fact she acts out one of my fantasies to make it even more orgasmic.

She starts by giving me the most mind blowing blowjob ever but she will not go all the way. When I can no longer take it, she slides her tongue down to my balls and then gently flicks her tongue over my arse.

I am a wreck usually by this point and that is when she turns into the she devil - she will all of a sudden start prodding my anus with her tongue, if I don't cum there and then. She will either roll over on to her back or on to her belly and start to kiss a pillow pretending it is another woman whilst making gentle moaning sounds. I then finish myself off over back or over her breasts.

In writing this, I realise what a wonderful and understanding wife I have. There is no disrespect, only love for each other.

From D
I see that coming on a woman's face is more of a degradation, however I like to see pictures of it. Although we rarely do it, I prefer to come on my wife's breasts after some really hot sessions. I like to lick it off of them, which my wife enjoys as well. She loves her breasts to be sucked and massaged and likes the visual too.

From kscowboy
My wife gives great head but is not into me coming in her mouth, she will often finish me off between her tits or a really slow hand job after taking me out of her mouth. We also enjoy mutual masturbation and she likes me to shoot on her hands/fingers as she gets off.

From Rachel
I once had a lover that really loved the idea of coming on my face. At first, I found it odd, that a man could have such a fetish like that. But, when I finally let him try it on me, he was so turned on, it was rewarding to me as much as him. I soon found myself teasing him at restaurants, whispering in his ear how much I would love him to come all over my face, while I'm watching him jack off. That would drive him wild! Sometimes...we wouldn't even make it to the car. I'm glad I broadened my horizons...because I think I enjoyed it a little more then he did.

From Kenny
As many others have said, where you come can be either degrading or erotic depending on how you both feel about it. One of the most erotic experiences my wife and I have had over the years, was my chance masturbation for her and shooting on her breasts. It was a significant turn on for both of us, and we shared the taste of my cum afterwards.

While now with a vasectomy we can always be more spontaneous in our lovemaking, I wouldn't look askance at variations like coming on her tits for anything.

From The Renegade
(Re: sirch smalliwis's comments - see below)
You said a "sophisticated man" would pull out and ejaculate into a trash can or whatever. You also said facials are not the way sex should end. Oh contraire. I take exception to your assertions! For one thing, who's to say how sex should end? Further, your blanket statement that no real-life woman would take a facial is absurd.

I'm 29 years old and have been creative as far as where on a woman's body I ejaculate since my first experience at the age of 17. Contrary to what you said, I have found that there are some women who are completely fine receiving facials or having sperm shot on their breasts. My wife, who is a very independent and successful woman, has allowed me to give her facials on numerous occasions, and she seems to somewhat enjoy it (believe it or not). And she's fine with my ejaculating on her breasts or back or whatever if I so prefer. She's told me time and time again that the feeling of warm sperm splashing on her combined with my obvious display of sheer ecstasy is an incredible feeling.

So I urge you to rethink your position. Many, many women I have been with in my life have been fine with what I call "visual orgasms."

From Scarlet
Yeah guys! I want to know too! I have always wondered why men love to do that. The only problem I have with shooting cum on my face is it gets in my hair, and if I'm going somewhere it's hard to get out. As far as having sex with my breasts, it gets very uncomfortable having a man sit on my chest. Isn't there an easier way?

From thelegend
Hey Scarlet, got you an answer for your question. I personally don't enjoy cumming all over a woman's face. Because, it is kind of uncomfortable when I want to kiss her again.

But as far as the breasts go, the man doesn't need to sit on your breasts. All you need to do to get the best pleasure for both you and your man is to wrap your luscious breasts around his cock and squeeze it. This will give a mind-blowing sensation to your man, and for you a fountainious spurt of cum all over your pretty tits. Try it sometime!

From Anonymous
Giving facials to women is just not physically and aesthetically pleasurable, but also emotionally satisfying. Though only with a woman I really cared about. Putting my "mark" on her sort of thing!

From Rod Harden
I prefer coming in a warm, moist environment. I've included coming on face or breasts in a few of my stories, but then it is precisely for the degrading aspect of it. I guess I prefer to see it or read it than to do it. I think that if you ask Joe or Joan Citizen about the practice, they would tend toward the opinion that it's 'disgusting' and 'degrading' to the woman. Mind you, I have no surveys to back that up, just a gut feeling. Also, when used in a story at least, how it's perceived would certainly have a lot to do with the setting and characters, etc.

From pbr90
Have you ever been squirted in the face with water from a squirt gun?

Probably most people have! The reaction from most persons is not pleasure particularly when it is unexpected. Of course, water is easily removed where semen is quite sticky and requires exceptional cleanup complete with soap and water. I don't know if males can appreciate what it feels like to have someone ejaculate on your face and hair unless they've had a homosexual encounter and been subjected to it. This is, of course, different from "swallowing," itself a unique act which some enjoy or tolerate, and some don't.

From Anonymous
I must admit that the thought of a man coming on my face does not excite me. But to have a man make love to my breasts is just as exciting for me as it is for him. Women all know that men have an endless obsession for breasts. To take that obsession to see and touch to the next level is extremely erotic. There is also a feeling of power when you see a man so grateful to receive something so easy to give. I also find something very sensual in having sticky cum between my breasts. It all goes back to playing with play-dough when you were a kid, and for the man, breast feeding as a baby. I think the desires to do this are grounded in childhood. We still want to play.

From Bob
I have no urge to ejaculate anywhere other that buried deep in a woman's vagina. I would do it of course if she asked for it.

From Anonymous
I'm of the opinion that it just looks sexy. You're having sex with someone whom you feel something for, or just think is sexy to begin with. Now, they're worshiping your dick and yearning for what's inevitable. Then, as you erupt in pleasure, you get to see your passion all over her pretty face. It's not demeaning, it's just very sexy for guys to see their mate with their fluid on her face.

From Mike
Where you cum (pussy, chest, face, mouth, hair) is an issue of personal preference. In this, as in all sex matters, variety truly is the spice of life.

With my partner, a truly intimate way to orgasm (for both of us) is face to face. Humans tie so much of what they believe is personality and individuality to facial features, for example, we believe that you must "look them in the eye" when talking. So, for both faces to be together, makes you feel that you are being intimate.

Oral sex, at least when I'm the recipient, gives me the feeling that I am having sex with the essence of my partner - her face. When I lay back and she does the work, its intimate sex with her face, and closer to the end, when I sit or stand, and am holding her head and controlling the rhythm, it is fucking her face.

Cumming on her face is just an extension of this. It gives me, at the same time, a sense of intimacy, territorial control, power, and beauty. Cumming on her face, and seeing the semen run down her forehead, eyes, cheeks, lips, and chin, sexualizes her face, and therefore (because her face is the incarnation of her personality) sexualizes her entire being, in my eyes.

From Anonymous
I definitely do not think it's degrading or disgusting to have a man come on me. In fact it's a big turn on. There's just something about watching up close. And the texture... thick and sticky, warm at first then cooling and tightening as it dries. Anyway I think it has a lot to do with how I feel about sex in general. Any act that brings pleasure (to all participants) is not filthy or shameful.

The idea that you can have an orgasm and that is OK even if you don't "give" her an orgasm, is a liberating thing to men. Moreover, the sight of seeing your semen squirt out of your penis is a highly erotic one. The eroticism of it is heightened if the woman thinks so, too, as my wife does.

I think the only problem with coming on a woman's breasts is her (possible) feeling of "being left out".

From Bill
Being a bisexual male I might have a different view...I enjoy having an occasional facial from a male lover. There are those of us who like to take a sub role at times and this is one way I find to fulfill that desire. My own enjoyment is feeling the hot cum hit my face and then having it rubbed into my face by my lover.

As for ladies having their lovers cum on their breasts or face, I'd guess it would be an individual fetish or desire. As a man I find it erotic to do this on occasion but I'm also willing to be subjected to similar things such as having my woman lover sit on my face or to clean her pussy following intercourse...then again that's my own kink. I think a good lover will only do what is mutually satisfying and erotic. It becomes degrading and abusive when it is done against your lover's desires. One of the better books that explains men's fantasies is Nancy Friday's "Men in Love". In it she details some of our fantasies, including a fascination with semen. Anyway, my two cents worth.

From Kay
I do it because I love the way my cum looks on my wife's breasts and on her face and on every other part of her luscious self. It looks good, and it feels good, and damn, I love licking it off her. She loves it, too, and does not merely acquiesce to it, but invites it. Just another wrinkle in our bedroom repertoire.

Being able to see myself ejaculate is extremely exciting, and I sometimes find myself thinking, at other times when I'm inside my lover's body, of what it must look like: all my creamy white semen spilling out inside her soft, pink flesh. Scientists have actually put cameras inside women for the express purpose of documenting exactly what happens, and I'll tell you, that has to be one of *the* most erotic things I've ever seen. I don't think they had it in mind to turn anyone on, but it sure gave me a case of wood that refused to disappear.

From Billy
I had one girlfriend who would let me cum on her face, but not in here mouth and the next girlfriend let me cum in her mouth, but not her face. If both people like it, what is so degrading about it? The woman I'm with now let's me do whatever it is I want to do, as long as we're having fun and we're both comfortable with it. And she can do whatever she wants, too. :) Two people enjoying each other's bodies is great. Cumming on a woman's face is degrading if it is meant to be degrading, but it can also be a lot of fun and a turn-on for both people. It all depends on the people. Personally, her mouth and vagina are just too damn enticing.

From justin
I love coming on my lover's face. The funny thing is, it has never been a problem for them or degrading because it is done in an intimate way. I love kissing that creamy mouth and face afterward just as much. My current lover often holds it in her mouth and then spits into mine. Then we share a slow long kiss. I love eating cream covered pussy too. If two people are intimate (it doesn't have to be love - but if there is passion and a desire to be close and share something significant) then they love doing something "nasty" or taboo for the other. Sharing is even better.

From Todd
I used to think that giving a woman a facial was demeaning to her, until my ex girlfriend had me masturbate while sitting on her chest. The look of awe on her face when I ejaculated on her cheeks was a huge turn on, she really enjoyed watching me cum and the up close experience. We turned it into a game where she would open her mouth and I would have to try to shoot in her mouth. This experience has changed my opinion on what is demeaning, if a woman and man enjoy what they are doing together and you don't feel guilty about it after than its just good clean fun and shouldn't be judged.

From Steve
Personally I have never done either one but they are on my list . To put a different slant on what I have read it could be akin to marking ones territory which is not a turn-on directly but alludes to a relationship where she will wear the dominant male scent or mark and he will feel the pride in ownership or somewhat dominance . On the other hand I would gladly wear the scent of a woman in my beard and moustache so it is not a strictly male observance .

Another thought is the idea that the cum being visible somehow extends the ecstasy, that once it is in her the fun is over for that instance . I admit it is messy stuff but I think on the face is much like a man enjoying the scent and flavour of a woman long after the event . This is just one man's opinion .

From curiously
I'm part of the, "it's only degrading if you want it to be" camp. I've suggested breast sex when I was with someone who didn't want to go the full (inter) course, and usually I receive good responses. The girl has usually wanted me to rub in it in afterwards, and it adds to the stickiness between you. On the face is kind of a power trip, but once again, if she likes it why not. Most of the girls I've been with have preferred it in their mouths rather than risk a squirt in the eye. But then I like girls who are on the strange side already...

From Anonymous
Maybe I'm just selfish, but when my man cums, I want him deep in my cunt, so his orgasm can start mine. Also, then you only have one wet spot to cleanup, not two

From sirch smalliwis
This is a good question, why do guys shoot their sperm all over a woman's face? This is something I wish I never saw, because it's just not the way it should end. in most erotic stories the man shoots inside of the woman. It's something new but it's something we all know doesn't happen in real life sexual encounters. A woman would never allow me to ejaculate on her face, or breasts.

And I am sure if the women in these adult movies had the choice of no facial over facial they would choose no facials. I wouldn't do that to my girlfriend if I was having sex with her because it's not the way sex is supposed to end. A sophisticated man would withdrawal from the woman's vagina and ejaculate in a garbage can or a plastic or paper bag, not on her face or breasts. Where the adult magazines and adult movies got this from, I have no idea but it's an idea which has me wondering "have we lost touch with reality in sexual intercourse? Adult movies and magazines don't show what real sex is, from what I've seen and heard, I can say that we've made sex more violent and unrealistic don't you think?

From don
I could never understand the thrill of it myself. I have always preferred to shoot in something warm and/or moist. Perhaps it is a form of life imitating art - it is often done in pornos to show that the guy is really ejaculating.

From Jack E.
Years ago when I was in my 20's, my girlfriend (I think she was 17-18) found a Penthouse magazine at my apartment that had a letter about a guy who got his jollies from women watching him jerk off. I had never thought much about it, and actually hadn't read the letter. My GF was intrigued and asked me if I'd ever masturbated in front of a woman (I hadn't). I played coy about it and she got curious and asked me if I'd do it for her.

I admit I had to use the magazine for arousal as she was fully clothed and wouldn't let me touch her. It took me about five minutes, standing there with her sitting on the floor a few feet away. Her eyes were wide and never left my dick. When I began to ejaculate, she flinched as a shot landed on the floor near her leg. Then I let go with a blast that landed on her shoulder and a few more that spattered the floor in from of her. She was spellbound thoughout - she really enjoyed it and though we never did that again, she told me later she had described the scene to a friend who said my abilities sounded impressive.

I didn't really think much about the episode and lost track of my GF when she moved out west. Later, in my 30's (I am now in my 40's), I became fascinated with the idea of a woman watching me come. Physically it feels much better to come inside a woman, but psychologically I find it quite stimulating to have a woman watch me do it. It's happened a number of times now. I don't have a particular thing about coming on a woman's face -- it has happened by accident a couple of times and once on purpose. I prefer the breasts, and the bigger the better. The best is when her eyes widen as I begin to shoot, and if she expresses surprise about the amount and distance of my orgasm, well, that's the icing on the cake. Even thinking about it gets me going.

As to the reason I enjoy it, I really can't say.

From Meyer
We have been married since almost 20 years now. At the beginning of our wonderful relationship my plump wife was a virgin with the exception that she had enjoyed some homosexual intercourse.

She liked to eat out other girls and is an oral addict with men (that is with me and in her dirty imaginations). So we had full fucking with filling the cream pie for the creation of our children only. Otherwise vaginal is just a part of foreplay to achieve heavy loads of cum.

More than the half of the thick white globs teeming with the little ones goes down her gullet, the other part is hosed deeply between her luscious buttocks or flies on her body. The preferred finishing is splashing my hot semen in 5 or 6 jets and some dribbling into her wide open willing mouth, while she is frigging furiously her pink pearl. It is more a facial as not all of the jizz goes inside her.

So her pretty face is partly covered by the sticky mess. She is making superb faces scared by the stinky goo and because we have our roaring orgasms at the same time. I like the view of her humilation, some of the white stains clinging to her red glowing cheeks, other running down slowly. It is a compensation for the helplessness of men against the sexual temptations by women.

From RealDog
Just about every woman I have had my cock out with seems to like jerking it off on their tits. I think it's a power thing, control of the dick, up close and personal. The facial is usually by accident, some seem to like it. As I've gotten older, a lot of women like to watch me jackoff. It can be pretty intense. I love to watch a women do the jill thing, huge turn on.

From Carlos
My wife and I have a very healthy sex life and the reason for that is simply respect. If either of us wish to try something new, we simply discuss it. If either of us feel unsure in anyway then it doesn't happen. It maybe disappointing but hey that's called 'Respect'.

This is a very selfish kind of sex because that is what it is - sex. There is no love making involved and that is what I believe is the turn on, being the centre of attention with the pair of you concentrating on what solely pleases you - a form of shared masturbation.

I respect my wife a great deal and cherish the ground she walks on, the idea of coming over her face is indeed a turn on and I would love to experience this one day. I do not want to do this to degrade her, far from it, I respect and trust her enough to share this fantasy with her.

I have however, cum over her breasts and her back, in fact she acts out one of my fantasies to make it even more orgasmic.

She starts by giving me the most mind blowing blowjob ever but she will not go all the way. When I can no longer take it, she slides her tongue down to my balls and then gently flicks her tongue over my arse.

I am a wreck usually by this point and that is when she turns into the she devil - she will all of a sudden start prodding my anus with her tongue, if I don't cum there and then. She will either roll over on to her back or on to her belly and start to kiss a pillow pretending it is another woman whilst making gentle moaning sounds. I then finish myself off over back or over her breasts.

In writing this, I realise what a wonderful and understanding wife I have. There is no disrespect, only love for each other.

From D
I see that coming on a woman's face is more of a degradation, however I like to see pictures of it. Although we rarely do it, I prefer to come on my wife's breasts after some really hot sessions. I like to lick it off of them, which my wife enjoys as well. She loves her breasts to be sucked and massaged and likes the visual too.

From kscowboy
My wife gives great head but is not into me coming in her mouth, she will often finish me off between her tits or a really slow hand job after taking me out of her mouth. We also enjoy mutual masturbation and she likes me to shoot on her hands/fingers as she gets off.

From Rachel
I once had a lover that really loved the idea of coming on my face. At first, I found it odd, that a man could have such a fetish like that. But, when I finally let him try it on me, he was so turned on, it was rewarding to me as much as him. I soon found myself teasing him at restaurants, whispering in his ear how much I would love him to come all over my face, while I'm watching him jack off. That would drive him wild! Sometimes...we wouldn't even make it to the car. I'm glad I broadened my horizons...because I think I enjoyed it a little more then he did.

From Kenny
As many others have said, where you come can be either degrading or erotic depending on how you both feel about it. One of the most erotic experiences my wife and I have had over the years, was my chance masturbation for her and shooting on her breasts. It was a significant turn on for both of us, and we shared the taste of my cum afterwards.

While now with a vasectomy we can always be more spontaneous in our lovemaking, I wouldn't look askance at variations like coming on her tits for anything.

From The Renegade
(Re: sirch smalliwis's comments - see below)
You said a "sophisticated man" would pull out and ejaculate into a trash can or whatever. You also said facials are not the way sex should end. Oh contraire. I take exception to your assertions! For one thing, who's to say how sex should end? Further, your blanket statement that no real-life woman would take a facial is absurd.

I'm 29 years old and have been creative as far as where on a woman's body I ejaculate since my first experience at the age of 17. Contrary to what you said, I have found that there are some women who are completely fine receiving facials or having sperm shot on their breasts. My wife, who is a very independent and successful woman, has allowed me to give her facials on numerous occasions, and she seems to somewhat enjoy it (believe it or not). And she's fine with my ejaculating on her breasts or back or whatever if I so prefer. She's told me time and time again that the feeling of warm sperm splashing on her combined with my obvious display of sheer ecstasy is an incredible feeling.

So I urge you to rethink your position. Many, many women I have been with in my life have been fine with what I call "visual orgasms."

From Scarlet
Yeah guys! I want to know too! I have always wondered why men love to do that. The only problem I have with shooting cum on my face is it gets in my hair, and if I'm going somewhere it's hard to get out. As far as having sex with my breasts, it gets very uncomfortable having a man sit on my chest. Isn't there an easier way?

From thelegend
Hey Scarlet, got you an answer for your question. I personally don't enjoy cumming all over a woman's face. Because, it is kind of uncomfortable when I want to kiss her again.

But as far as the breasts go, the man doesn't need to sit on your breasts. All you need to do to get the best pleasure for both you and your man is to wrap your luscious breasts around his cock and squeeze it. This will give a mind-blowing sensation to your man, and for you a fountainious spurt of cum all over your pretty tits. Try it sometime!

From Anonymous
Giving facials to women is just not physically and aesthetically pleasurable, but also emotionally satisfying. Though only with a woman I really cared about. Putting my "mark" on her sort of thing!

From Rod Harden
I prefer coming in a warm, moist environment. I've included coming on face or breasts in a few of my stories, but then it is precisely for the degrading aspect of it. I guess I prefer to see it or read it than to do it. I think that if you ask Joe or Joan Citizen about the practice, they would tend toward the opinion that it's 'disgusting' and 'degrading' to the woman. Mind you, I have no surveys to back that up, just a gut feeling. Also, when used in a story at least, how it's perceived would certainly have a lot to do with the setting and characters, etc.

From pbr90
Have you ever been squirted in the face with water from a squirt gun?

Probably most people have! The reaction from most persons is not pleasure particularly when it is unexpected. Of course, water is easily removed where semen is quite sticky and requires exceptional cleanup complete with soap and water. I don't know if males can appreciate what it feels like to have someone ejaculate on your face and hair unless they've had a homosexual encounter and been subjected to it. This is, of course, different from "swallowing," itself a unique act which some enjoy or tolerate, and some don't.

From Anonymous
I must admit that the thought of a man coming on my face does not excite me. But to have a man make love to my breasts is just as exciting for me as it is for him. Women all know that men have an endless obsession for breasts. To take that obsession to see and touch to the next level is extremely erotic. There is also a feeling of power when you see a man so grateful to receive something so easy to give. I also find something very sensual in having sticky cum between my breasts. It all goes back to playing with play-dough when you were a kid, and for the man, breast feeding as a baby. I think the desires to do this are grounded in childhood. We still want to play.

From Bob
I have no urge to ejaculate anywhere other that buried deep in a woman's vagina. I would do it of course if she asked for it.

From Anonymous
I'm of the opinion that it just looks sexy. You're having sex with someone whom you feel something for, or just think is sexy to begin with. Now, they're worshiping your dick and yearning for what's inevitable. Then, as you erupt in pleasure, you get to see your passion all over her pretty face. It's not demeaning, it's just very sexy for guys to see their mate with their fluid on her face.

From Mike
Where you cum (pussy, chest, face, mouth, hair) is an issue of personal preference. In this, as in all sex matters, variety truly is the spice of life.

With my partner, a truly intimate way to orgasm (for both of us) is face to face. Humans tie so much of what they believe is personality and individuality to facial features, for example, we believe that you must "look them in the eye" when talking. So, for both faces to be together, makes you feel that you are being intimate.

Oral sex, at least when I'm the recipient, gives me the feeling that I am having sex with the essence of my partner - her face. When I lay back and she does the work, its intimate sex with her face, and closer to the end, when I sit or stand, and am holding her head and controlling the rhythm, it is fucking her face.

Cumming on her face is just an extension of this. It gives me, at the same time, a sense of intimacy, territorial control, power, and beauty. Cumming on her face, and seeing the semen run down her forehead, eyes, cheeks, lips, and chin, sexualizes her face, and therefore (because her face is the incarnation of her personality) sexualizes her entire being, in my eyes.

From Anonymous
I definitely do not think it's degrading or disgusting to have a man come on me. In fact it's a big turn on. There's just something about watching up close. And the texture... thick and sticky, warm at first then cooling and tightening as it dries. Anyway I think it has a lot to do with how I feel about sex in general. Any act that brings pleasure (to all participants) is not filthy or shameful.

The idea that you can have an orgasm and that is OK even if you don't "give" her an orgasm, is a liberating thing to men. Moreover, the sight of seeing your semen squirt out of your penis is a highly erotic one. The eroticism of it is heightened if the woman thinks so, too, as my wife does.

I think the only problem with coming on a woman's breasts is her (possible) feeling of "being left out".

From Bill
Being a bisexual male I might have a different view...I enjoy having an occasional facial from a male lover. There are those of us who like to take a sub role at times and this is one way I find to fulfill that desire. My own enjoyment is feeling the hot cum hit my face and then having it rubbed into my face by my lover.

As for ladies having their lovers cum on their breasts or face, I'd guess it would be an individual fetish or desire. As a man I find it erotic to do this on occasion but I'm also willing to be subjected to similar things such as having my woman lover sit on my face or to clean her pussy following intercourse...then again that's my own kink. I think a good lover will only do what is mutually satisfying and erotic. It becomes degrading and abusive when it is done against your lover's desires. One of the better books that explains men's fantasies is Nancy Friday's "Men in Love". In it she details some of our fantasies, including a fascination with semen. Anyway, my two cents worth.

From Kay
I do it because I love the way my cum looks on my wife's breasts and on her face and on every other part of her luscious self. It looks good, and it feels good, and damn, I love licking it off her. She loves it, too, and does not merely acquiesce to it, but invites it. Just another wrinkle in our bedroom repertoire.

Being able to see myself ejaculate is extremely exciting, and I sometimes find myself thinking, at other times when I'm inside my lover's body, of what it must look like: all my creamy white semen spilling out inside her soft, pink flesh. Scientists have actually put cameras inside women for the express purpose of documenting exactly what happens, and I'll tell you, that has to be one of *the* most erotic things I've ever seen. I don't think they had it in mind to turn anyone on, but it sure gave me a case of wood that refused to disappear.

From Billy
I had one girlfriend who would let me cum on her face, but not in here mouth and the next girlfriend let me cum in her mouth, but not her face. If both people like it, what is so degrading about it? The woman I'm with now let's me do whatever it is I want to do, as long as we're having fun and we're both comfortable with it. And she can do whatever she wants, too. :) Two people enjoying each other's bodies is great. Cumming on a woman's face is degrading if it is meant to be degrading, but it can also be a lot of fun and a turn-on for both people. It all depends on the people. Personally, her mouth and vagina are just too damn enticing.

From justin
I love coming on my lover's face. The funny thing is, it has never been a problem for them or degrading because it is done in an intimate way. I love kissing that creamy mouth and face afterward just as much. My current lover often holds it in her mouth and then spits into mine. Then we share a slow long kiss. I love eating cream covered pussy too. If two people are intimate (it doesn't have to be love - but if there is passion and a desire to be close and share something significant) then they love doing something "nasty" or taboo for the other. Sharing is even better.

From Todd
I used to think that giving a woman a facial was demeaning to her, until my ex girlfriend had me masturbate while sitting on her chest. The look of awe on her face when I ejaculated on her cheeks was a huge turn on, she really enjoyed watching me cum and the up close experience. We turned it into a game where she would open her mouth and I would have to try to shoot in her mouth. This experience has changed my opinion on what is demeaning, if a woman and man enjoy what they are doing together and you don't feel guilty about it after than its just good clean fun and shouldn't be judged.

From Steve
Personally I have never done either one but they are on my list . To put a different slant on what I have read it could be akin to marking ones territory which is not a turn-on directly but alludes to a relationship where she will wear the dominant male scent or mark and he will feel the pride in ownership or somewhat dominance . On the other hand I would gladly wear the scent of a woman in my beard and moustache so it is not a strictly male observance .

Another thought is the idea that the cum being visible somehow extends the ecstasy, that once it is in her the fun is over for that instance . I admit it is messy stuff but I think on the face is much like a man enjoying the scent and flavour of a woman long after the event . This is just one man's opinion .

From curiously
I'm part of the, "it's only degrading if you want it to be" camp. I've suggested breast sex when I was with someone who didn't want to go the full (inter) course, and usually I receive good responses. The girl has usually wanted me to rub in it in afterwards, and it adds to the stickiness between you. On the face is kind of a power trip, but once again, if she likes it why not. Most of the girls I've been with have preferred it in their mouths rather than risk a squirt in the eye. But then I like girls who are on the strange side already...

From Anonymous
Maybe I'm just selfish, but when my man cums, I want him deep in my cunt, so his orgasm can start mine. Also, then you only have one wet spot to cleanup, not two

From sirch smalliwis
This is a good question, why do guys shoot their sperm all over a woman's face? This is something I wish I never saw, because it's just not the way it should end. in most erotic stories the man shoots inside of the woman. It's something new but it's something we all know doesn't happen in real life sexual encounters. A woman would never allow me to ejaculate on her face, or breasts.

And I am sure if the women in these adult movies had the choice of no facial over facial they would choose no facials. I wouldn't do that to my girlfriend if I was having sex with her because it's not the way sex is supposed to end. A sophisticated man would withdrawal from the woman's vagina and ejaculate in a garbage can or a plastic or paper bag, not on her face or breasts. Where the adult magazines and adult movies got this from, I have no idea but it's an idea which has me wondering "have we lost touch with reality in sexual intercourse? Adult movies and magazines don't show what real sex is, from what I've seen and heard, I can say that we've made sex more violent and unrealistic don't you think?

From don
I could never understand the thrill of it myself. I have always preferred to shoot in something warm and/or moist. Perhaps it is a form of life imitating art - it is often done in pornos to show that the guy is really ejaculating.

From Jack E.
Years ago when I was in my 20's, my girlfriend (I think she was 17-18) found a Penthouse magazine at my apartment that had a letter about a guy who got his jollies from women watching him jerk off. I had never thought much about it, and actually hadn't read the letter. My GF was intrigued and asked me if I'd ever masturbated in front of a woman (I hadn't). I played coy about it and she got curious and asked me if I'd do it for her.

I admit I had to use the magazine for arousal as she was fully clothed and wouldn't let me touch her. It took me about five minutes, standing there with her sitting on the floor a few feet away. Her eyes were wide and never left my dick. When I began to ejaculate, she flinched as a shot landed on the floor near her leg. Then I let go with a blast that landed on her shoulder and a few more that spattered the floor in from of her. She was spellbound thoughout - she really enjoyed it and though we never did that again, she told me later she had described the scene to a friend who said my abilities sounded impressive.

I didn't really think much about the episode and lost track of my GF when she moved out west. Later, in my 30's (I am now in my 40's), I became fascinated with the idea of a woman watching me come. Physically it feels much better to come inside a woman, but psychologically I find it quite stimulating to have a woman watch me do it. It's happened a number of times now. I don't have a particular thing about coming on a woman's face -- it has happened by accident a couple of times and once on purpose. I prefer the breasts, and the bigger the better. The best is when her eyes widen as I begin to shoot, and if she expresses surprise about the amount and distance of my orgasm, well, that's the icing on the cake. Even thinking about it gets me going.

As to the reason I enjoy it, I really can't say.

From Jerry
Is there any advice on how to improve semen production for a guy in his sixties? My wife, also in her sixties, and I are now of the opinion that sex is for fun and we have started some light swinging with some couples our age. Well, one of my wife's partners, sixties also, is a prodigious producers of semen in both vagina and mouth, which my wife finds very exciting and satisfying and asks why I cannot do likewise. It can't be age she says, if he can do it then so should I and it appears that his bountious production is not affected by the number of times he orgasms in one evening's sexual activity with her. I joke and say it is all down to her arousing him so successfully but I do worry, so any advice before going to see my doctor would be appreciated.

From DMH
My lover loves to watch me come and it turns me on to have her watch. It seems so intimate. Not something you share with just anyone. She likes to watch and she does not mind where it lands, as long as we avoid the eyes. That is a definite no, no. She enjoys having me come on her body or in her mouth. If I come in her mouth, we always share the taste. I figure it is only fair. If I can come in her mouth, she can let my cum drip from her lips into my mouth. She finds that exciting. 

We like to share everything equally. If I come on her breasts or on her pussy, I like to spread the cum all over her. Sometimes she does not shower afterwards. She likes the feel and the scent of my cum as she goes to various public places. It turns me on to know she is wandering around in a store with my cum on her body.

From Shar
In my case, the power play is mine. I take ownership of the act. He is literally in my hands. Now, my hands tend to wander. Sometimes my face is close, oh so close to the heat of his cock. Sometimes I end up watching him stroke himself while I'm rolling my tits against his chest, pressing a breast into his mouth or taking a long lick up his neck. But I'm not going to miss that final dick-bulging swell -- my hand is there. I take aim to my belly or his. And then, only then, we share. I glide my body up onto him, feel and float on the slick of his cum just cooling and growing sticky between us. 

I like watching the affect of what I'm doing on him, I like knowing what drives him to the edge, I like knowing I did it to him, and I claim it, all over me, where I want it. For me, that's the belly, not my face.

From Josef
I've been 29 for three years now, and am still one of those guys who are "afraid of their own ejaculate," this being the main reason I don't want to "inflict" it on a woman. Such a mess, isn't it? (And I'm hardly squeamish, being a doctor and all.) I would hate to have it on my own face and thus do not assume anything about a woman wanting to get it there, even though I'm well aware some would find it a huge turn-on.

This occasionally leads to funny situations where I desperately try to avoid hitting my girlfriend in the face. You see, I am very hard to bring to a climax, able to take a handjob or fellatio forever without much happening (much to my Danish-African girlfriend's consternation), although I can bring myself off with masturbation in mere minutes if I'm excited. I need to really want an orgasm for myself for that to happen with a partner. It has nothing to do with erection problems or anything; I just seem harder to please than most, but for me that's normal, just the way I work, and the joy of sex for me has always been pleasing my partner. Pleasure is very much a thing inside my head rather than something spurting out one end of my penis.

Well, to get back to the funny situations. My girlfriend has discovered one certain way to get me to climax. Nothing can get me going like seeing my white Swedish erection sliding in and out between her large beautiful brown African breasts, the contrast of our skins and the oil gleaming on her breasts sending me off to orgasm land from the visual stimulation alone. So just imagine me trying to bury the head of my erection between those breasts as a hard jet of ejaculate sends droplets flying everywhere, her chin in the line of fire so to speak. So far I've managed to avoid anything but near misses, leading to laughter and quick use of the box of tissues, but Lord help me if I ever should accidentally blow my load at the end of a thrust rather than on the backstroke.... She sure seems to enjoy having my mess over her breasts but I'm not assuming anything more.

From CAm
I am 64 years old and still very sexually active. I came from a repressive religious background. When 19 I was taught the sexual menu by a 45 y/o woman and later her girlfriend that taught me that women liked sex as much as men (a generality). Over the years I have had sex with lots of women and each one had different likes and dislikes. I think we should drop judgment and simply say that I love that or it's not for me. I learned from a woman how to be totally comfortable with my body and sex. I have tried things I fantasized about and they weren't for me. I tried things to please others and sometimes I was pleasantly surprised at the results and others that I was sorry I didn't say " That is not for me". But, I was willing to experiment.

From Anon
I don't think anyone can automatically categorize coming on someone as degrading or non-degrading. It's between the 2 people. No one should do it if both people aren't into it. But no one should be made to feel bad or guilty about it if both people are into it.

I'm female and not big on in the face action (probably for the same reason I don't like rain on my face), but I'm ok with cum on the rest of my body. I have 42D breasts and guys seem to enjoy coming on them, which is ok with me.

From Anonymous
Personally, as a woman, I really don't have a preference—I'm completely turned on by watching a guy shoot, pretty much anywhere he wants to (though bad aim that ends up in eyes is a little tough to take!). I guess I could do without it in my belly button, tough to get out! I do love the feeling of being filled with it too, though. Interesting topic, kids, even more interesting responses!

From Doc
I have always thought that ejaculating on my lovers face was degrading. That being said I have known a couple ladies that were into degradation. I didn't enjoy it much but they had a big time. I had a long term relationship with a younger woman who enjoyed sucking me off and swallowing every drop. She said she could always tell when I had been eating chocolate. She could taste it. She loved to catch cum on her face and breasts and rub it in. She was not into degradation; she just loved to do anything . I preferred to come inside her . It made me feel more intimate.

My present lover is 68 and still very active. She feels any day we don't have sex means I don't love her. She is very oral and I get nightly BJ's. Prostatectomy stopped any ejaculation but she would be very upset if I came on her face on purpose.

From JohnnyWad
I have found that most women - if they like cum shots - prefer it on their tits. I've been with two that genuinely enjoy a facial. They liked it the same way; not merely some on the face and some in the mouth - but shot all over their face. It's a very erotic feeling to shoot a wad at a chick's face and make her wear my love sauce. But I'd rather feel her mouth on my dick while I'm blowing my load, so I prefer to come in her mouth.

From Karlossal
I am a late 40s bisexual man. I have to say one of my greatest turn-ons is having a guy come over me, especially on my cock and balls. I can't say what I find exciting about it but the mental rush it gives me is fantastic. The feeling as it hits me all hot, then the feeling as it slowly runs down my skin is divine.

There is no way I consider it degrading. I am not a woman so can't truly speak for how they might feel. But given that some emotions are interchangeable regardless of gender, it stands to reason that some must get a similar satisfaction out of it.

From Ginger Anne
Astounding that this is the topic for July as I have just started seeing a man who absolutely loves a good tit fuck. He is, in fact, the first man I've ever been with who achieves orgasm that way. Well, it was quite the pearl necklace, I can tell you, and I recall actually thinking "My god! That's some pop shot!" and briefly toyed with calling him Peter North. 

Anyway, he did the most astounding thing afterwards: he actually licked his ejaculate off me! I couldn't believe it! I can't say it was a turn-on per se - it was too much of a shock - but I was definitely amazed. And intrigued. I did think it was sexy that he was so at ease with his body, though, and said so. His reply was that it seemed like a lot of men were afraid of their own cum. But why? They were the ones making it.

Of course I kissed him after that - even with his own cum on his lips!

From Mary
I hate hate hate getting sprayed in the face with anything at all, never mind sperm. Good grief, there's a whole body to come on, or in, why the big deal about coming on your partner's face? It's a porn thing, is the only real reason I can think of. You know the look; the chicks looking adoringly at some prick shooting on their faces. Go figure.

What in the world is so sexy about cum dripping off the face, getting in eyes, hair, whatever. Honestly, it's pretty damn funny rather than sexy, like the slap-stick comedy - you know, cream pie in the face while the entire audience laughs hysterically. Maybe it's a left over boyhood 'food fight' thing. 

Some women say they encourage their men to come on their face when they just want to get it over with, like alright already I'm done let's get you done also and this will do it like nothing else (porn dream come true, or some such). They say it's also better then a mouth full, or vagina full if their going out and don't want to drip. Personally speaking, I'm a little appalled at that type of thinking, but to each her own. 

Bottom line is, I hate hate hate getting sprayed in the face. Is it degrading? Possibly, like a slap in the face is much more insulting then a slap on the arm, or on the butt. Could be a cultural thing, like the scene of a man  slapping another in the face with his glove; a classic insult and challenge. Also, it's often common in Dom/sub scenes. And the expression, 'in your face', which certainly is uncomfortable. So yeah, I guess it could be interpreted as degrading. 

As for the rest of the body; yeah, it's sexy. And not at all degrading. It's a visual, the money shot, so to speak, and that's sexy.

From Confused
I guess I'm not supposed to enjoy ejaculating on my wife's breasts or face, and neither is she.

I've got lots of hang-ups doing it, more than she does (I think she has none). She will often, while we're going at it hot and heavy, say things like "oh I so want you to come out and cum on my face!"

It's our little game, I rarely do it, don't know why. But when we do it's always in good fun. She'd rather see me jerk it on her face, I'd rather see her do it, but somehow we manage.

And, you know what? I don't think any less of her, nor does she think any less of me for wanting her to drench my face with her juices.

Oh well, to each their own.

From Melusine
I had this conversation with a male friend. He admitted he thought it was an ego/dog pissing thing. This segues quite nicely into a question I have. A female friend of mine and I recently had a conversation about men wishing to, in her words, "shoot cum all over you." Does this appeal? Cause I have this image in my head of someone tossing themselves about at the moment of orgasm, trying to hit all the rights spots. 

Do women like being target practice? For that matter, are there a lot of men in your experience that like to play liquid darts?

From Nancy
Personally, I find the idea of being sprayed with ejaculate to be unappealing at best. I know the men in my life have thought it was a fun thing to do so I have encouraged it because it makes them happy, but when I write? It's not something I include in my sex scenes.

From Vol
For me, the problem with being the target of a cum shot isn't the taste, smell or feel of the ejaculate, but what seems to me a connotation of disrespect. Jizz in my pussy or mouth is just fine; jizz aimed at my face is more like a dog pissing on a hydrant. If I had a long-term, secure relationship with a man and he wanted to try that, I might allow it, but don't think I'd enjoy it.

While I don't care for the idea of having ejaculate aimed at my face, I do love the feel of it on my skin. My first husband and I used withdrawal for birth control for quite awhile; he'd ejaculate on my (then) tiny tummy, and I just loved rubbing it into my skin. He, on the other hand, was totally grossed out by that, and always wanted to hop right into the shower after sex. Oddly enough, he was a cunnilinguis virtuoso; guess my fluids didn't bother him.

From Teela
I ended up with a "pearl necklace" not long ago at the end of a tit fuck and it was really a sweet thing. I spread it over my chest and then over his and then in his hair and then we had to take a shower, together of course. And he was so smugly proud of the copious amount - how could I not be happy for him?

Don't knock it! (Though I agree a shot in the face might not have been so cute.)

From Cervo
I would have to say that spraying a woman with jizz is perhaps the last of my passions or near to it. I tend to want to spray them with kisses especially after a lengthy spanking. If she likes the stuff that might be another matter, but it gets cold, sticky and pretty yucky quite fast when it is not blasted into the usual firing chamber.

From Jen
I do like to see a guy come. I prefer he not come much when he comes in my mouth, in terms of the ejaculate, but still I want him to have great orgasms in my mouth.

Having said that, I'm not particularly into having him come on ME. There are at least three reasons I don't like the smell and taste of the stuff (sorry, but it just gags me); it's too hot when it first comes out and not pleasant when it turns cold; and it dries and feels gross. That said, it's not that big a deal, although wiping it away isn't that easy; it's kind of slimy when it's still wet, and when it's in your hair (up there or down there) --ick! But I don't hate it enough to refuse to do it if a guy likes it. Of course, he has to do things I like, too.

You know what I would like? Laugh if you want, but I would really love it if a man's cock turned bright purple and visible waves coursed through it, or the purple coloring visibly altered in a pattern (like a disco light) when a guy came. That would be so cool!

From Jordana
For me, cum shots are more about the porn thing. I see that done so much in porn and the girls are, of course, loving it. To me, it's disrespectful. On my body, my breasts, whatever, but on my face? Come on. I say if the guy wants it on our face perhaps we should turn around on slap it on theirs. Yeah. How do you like them apples?

From Jen
I say if the guy wants it on our face perhaps we should turn around on slap it on theirs.

I don't think they'd like it. Many guys won't kiss a girl after he comes in her mouth, so I doubt he wants his cum anywhere near his mouth. This has been my general experience. I just thought it was a "guy thing." I don't like it, because it makes me feel cheap, but I thought I was being unreasonable to expect a guy to kiss me if I have something in my mouth that he finds gross.

From Vol
In the unlikely event that I ever have partner sex again, if a guy declined to kiss me after fellatio that would be the last blowjob he'd ever get from me!

From J.T.
I actually had a conversation with my Lovely Wife and with other women about the subject. When watching porn, I'd always thought cum shots were at least a little bit degrading for the woman. She's subservient to the guy blowing his load, either on her knees in front of him or literally beneath him, even if the whole bit leading up to that point (apparently) drove her to ecstasy.

I asked my wife and other women what they think of cum shots, and to my surprise, they don't seem bothered by the sight of a man ejaculating either on a woman's face or even in her hair and mouth. To them, it's a clear sign that the guy enjoyed himself, and it's all part of the package. Go figure.

From Julius
Why do we watch porn? It's all about arousal right? Most of the porn watching was about guys "getting off" solo. More recently couples have begun watching porn. Again, it's about arousal but now there's an "educational" aspect. Now it's about her knowing what's possible, what guys like, and what she's supposed to do. Now it's about extending of repertoires, getting variety.

The above sounds a bit male oriented? Well, porn videos are male oriented. That's perhaps why all porn scenes end with a cum shot. The old idea of a guy happily jerking off solo on his sofa with pretty girls to watch and a grunting male stud doing his stuff? The cum shot is a bit of orchestration maybe, meaning it's the moment the watcher gets the OK to come too.

The porn video maker has a problem doesn't he? The ejaculation in real life most often occurs inside the female, i.e. in one of the three primary orifices and is therefore invisible. Even tit fucking results, as often as not, with a hard-to-be-seen ejaculation. But the porn movie needs confirmation that the event occurred or we'd all think they were faking it. The ejaculation proclaims the success, it makes the scene genuine, and it proves the stud's studliness.

It's a bitch, isn't it? The poor girl not only has to get squirted, she has to look like she loves it. It's a contradiction too. I think it's safe to say that coming inside feels best and that coming outside oft seems like a wasted delight.

The young guy seems to be the target of the porn industry's movies and I think the young guy is by far the biggest audience segment. I imagine males under 25 around the world rarely consider where that little fire hose of theirs is really supposed to squirt.

So the facial cum shot may be with us a while longer. At least until wiser heads prevail or true lovers make the movies or girls get to have a real say in the directing.

I wonder. Is there a market for little, electric cum wipers on spectacles?

From Lucky Guy
I guess I'm the complete opposite of some who've posted here. I actually prefer not to ejaculate inside a woman unless we were married and trying to conceive a child. If we're doing it for recreation, and not trying to get pregnant, I feel the only way to end the act is by pulling out and squirting it on her stomach or boobs. My last girlfriend actually wanted me to do it that way, since she hated condoms and had bad reactions to birth control hormones. But we would only have intercourse just after her period, and she liked to watch when I pulled out, as she said she was "curious" and liked to see it. If we were together, and it wasn't the right time of her monthly cycle, she would just let me slide between her boobs until I reached my orgasm. 

Once, on accident, a couple of squirts ended up on her face. I apologised, but she said it was okay. Then, another night, she actually held her boobs together really close and high, so I was pretty much pointed at her face. When I started to get "close", I asked her if she wanted me to point it lower, towards her boobs when the time came, but she told me to put it back where it was. I asked if she was sure, and she told me that she really didn't mind, as long as I cleaned her up afterwards, and let her know right when I was about to spew, so she could stop watching and close her eyes. So I actually got to do it on purpose once. It was okay, but I think I really prefer pulling out after intercourse and squirting all over her belly, or just doing it between her boobs and letting it come out on her neck.

I think that I'll always prefer to pull out over leaving it in and worrying about the wet spot.

From Ross D
Although I have never cum on a girl's face, I have on my own. I know that may sound weird but I wanted to experience what the girls experience and it can be exciting.

I think as long as both participants are into it, why not do it.

From J.R.
My girlfriend introduced this activity to me once when she was having her period. She likes to walk around braless so that her boobs jiggle when she walks. She knows that her jiggling breasts turn my penis into a steel missile! She likes to sit on the bed, take out my cock, and stroke it while playing with her pussy. She tells me to relax and enjoy. The movements from both of her hands at work cause her 36c tits to jiggle and wobble. She stops sometimes to rub my dick on her hard nipples. Then the jiggling of her tits sends me over the edge and I cum all over her tits. A few times we did this and I had such a mind-blowing orgasm that I nearly collapsed.

Coming on her face, I would not do, but she has told me that her tits are always ready for my hot sticky load.

From Dan
I'm an educated sensitive and very highly sexed married 57 year old professional entertainer. The sexiest thing any woman can do is want to please a man sexually. I had a slightly overweight but beautiful faced lover recently who loved to lick my semen off her fingers after I masturbated, then she'd slowly lovingly lick it off each finger while looking right into my eyes with her gorgeous eyes. She'd say things like "I want you to come on my face", and I wanted to do it, but her warm mouth or masturbating for her was so great we never got around too it.

At 57 it's my one remaining fantasy not fulfilled. As long as the lady doesn't feel degraded and really likes it, why not? If a lady ejaculated (and 3% do research says, with big volume) and it drenched me and that turned her on...same difference. Men are visual and many women are too. It's a matter of communication, kindness, respect and openness. 

Great website! (ironically my wife has no sex drive so great websites like these will have to do till I find another lover or friends-with-benefits).

From Anonymous
Just a response to Sarah's two cents worth [see Sarah's entry below]. Not sure about males marking territories (though you could well be right!) but I can relate to being so turned on and losing all control. Holding my erect penis directly in front of my girlfriends face as she encourages me to give her a full blown facial is the most exhilarating feeling on earth. Losing all control to adorn my girlfriends beautiful face with my sperm is not considered a bad thing for both of us. We both enjoy it immensely.

From Nativeman
Julie - darn you. You beat me to it. {see Julie's entry below] Fact is, coming in a woman's face - if she's ok with it or has even requested it, is a tremendously exhilarating experience. I've had four women who enjoyed the act, and one cool lady who actually demanded it, so they are definitely out there. I'd say the ratio of those who like it is roughly 8 percent - which is a lot higher than what the puritans would like to admit. In the end, it's about what YOU enjoy as a woman, so quit relying on what society tells you you should enjoy.

From Julie
I have a question to ask the women about this subject. How many have had the PLEASURE of receiving cunnilingus from a lover that is willing to do so?. How many times have you heard him complain about his FACE and HAIR being all wet and sticky, after he has given you Sooooooo much pleasure? Just a little thought to keep in mind, that's all.

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