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Cut Foreskin vs. Uncut Foreskin
From Anonymous She really enjoyed masturbating me as the gliding motion made this easy and she liked to pull my foreskin back and give me a blowjob. This soon led to a problem. I was young but also being uncut was a lot more sensitive than being cut. One night she was masturbating me and was too rough resulting in me tearing my frenlum (the cord on the underside that attaches the foreskin to the head). At hospital they wanted to circumcise me to tidy it up and reduce the pain but fortunately I backed out once the bleeding stopped the result now is I have a very long foreskin as it is looser with out the frenlum. My point here is men with foreskins have more sensitive and fragile penises. Since then I have where possible asked all the women I have slept with what they prefer and I have to say the balance is in the uncut favor but not by much. Approx 60 40. Women who like uncut like: Women who like cut: Ultimately it comes down to personal experience...both work. From Anonymous I know 2 guys who had to be cut in adult life for different reasons, and both seriously wish it hadn't happened. Their sex life and stimulation can never be the same. There are glands and nerve endings in there that circumcision removes. That is why cut men aren't 'wet', or as sensitive. Uncut is definitely best for the guys, if not for the women. But by what I read here, seems most women who have experienced both agree with uncut too. From Elizabeth (Mexico) We had a video store close to our house in rural Mexico and one day an employee girlfriend of mine invited me over to her house. I met her younger brother who was ten years younger than me, and twenty. After feeling a strong attraction from him we eventually began having sex. To my surprise I was totally fascinated by his penis. When I first saw it I couldn't figure out why he had no head like my husbands. Eventually I learned to stroke his penis up and down and even became more excited seeing that he was what I called "wet". The head was beautiful, shinny and moist. Like a red apple. I just wanted to eat it. I NEVER had liked to perform oral sex on my husband because of the smell of his crotch. This penis however was a complete turn-on. Granted he was smaller but what a difference. Just because you're uncircumcised doesn't mean that you will smell funny. Just to show my cut hubby smells too! To this day my lover and I practice sex regularly and he is the only person that made me discover what the g-spot orgasm was in all those cosmopolitan mags. Uncut please. Mmm-mmm. That's my opinion! From Anonymous I agree with most of what has been said here as to the multitude of wonderful ways to suck and tease an uncut man, and his strong response to gentle oral administration to the inside of his foreskin, It is extremely exciting to me as well as I love to work my tongue down between the tight foreskin and the head of his cock, gently loosening the attachment to the head. My clitoris is large, and uncircumcised, luckily, My lover likes to arouse and stretch me in the same way even running his tongue up under the hood of my clit, and gently separating the hood form the head of my clit. We are changing, gently reshaping our bodies to pleasure each other, His foreskin is not quite so tight and he is a little longer too, His suction especially around the base of my clit is lengthening my clitoral shaft as well and thickening it too. It stays erect longer, has become much more sensitive and I can have multiple orgasms for hours in this state. Yes, I agree there is so much more to do with an uncircumcised man, and for him to do for us women too in our uncircumcised state. It becomes a wonderful exploration in mutual pleasuring and literally reshaping ourselves. And being a first for both of us it has been extremely intimate and bonding. we have been very lucky finding out that we both are aroused by the same things. From Jung From Todd My earliest experiences with my penis were interesting. I used to have difficulty pulling my foreskin back at all, unfortunately I could only expose the very tip. The bit of the head I could see was very purple and shiny and it was very sensitive to touch. As I got older I was able to pull my foreskin back further, I realised that my foreskin just needed to be stretched a bit in order for it to retract fully. When I did pull it back the glans was extremely sensitive, I could even feel the air hit my shiny moist cockhead. I also found that I had to clean under my foreskin so I didn't get smegma building up. At thirteen while I was masturbating I realised that my foreskin was still attached the head just behind the rim, I showed a friend of mine who was circumcised, he was blown away! he'd never seen an uncut guy. He showed me his penis which was erect, his glans was dry and flared out compared to mine. Over time the foreskin finally separated from the head and now I can pull it right back, in fact my foreskin covers half of my glans when I'm flaccid. It would have been nice if someone had of told me about how to look after my penis and what to expect but I guess I worked it out for myself. From Anonymous I find these boards to be by far less biased than the male boards. You should see the arguments about cuts/uncuts in those boards. A few pointers: Sensitivity - Uncut men have more sensitive glans than uncut men. This goes both ways, it will be easier for a cut man to hold it, but uncut man can keep their foreskin with makes them last even longer. Problems and Versatility - Talk to your partner about their penis, it might sound funny but a man loves his package almost as much as they love a women. Uncut men have some quircks and offer options that a cut men can't offer. But they could also have some problems, tight foreskin, uber sensitive glands, more health concerns, cut men don't have this. I just wanted to put a male perspective on the discussion. From Jean Well, had only been here a short time and had sex with this guy, in the dark. It was an experience that I couldn't ever remember feeling before. And when the sun came up, there was the evidence, a real long foreskin that gave his cock a real pointed look. He was still asleep and I just looked at it for about half an hour. I was just so fascinated, it looked so sexy and erotic. In fact, I found out he was a guy that could have sex with his head still covered and to feel that skin wriggling around inside me was just mind blowing. And he is not the only Australian guy like that. Seems most, if not every guy here hasn't been cut. If I have a choice, in advance, I wouldn't have a guy any other way. And oh, by the way, my husband isn't cut and he also has one of those desirable long foreskins. From Stephanie From Anya The other main reason I prefer uncut is that it's so much more FUN to play with!!! Cut cocks are like - pardon my bluntness - a plain ol' dildo. An uncut cock is like a beautiful velvet toy with moving parts and a delicious moist head in hiding, waiting to be discovered. It's far easier to control a man's ejaculation, too, because you can alter the intensity of the stimulation in various interesting ways. With a cut cock, you just rub and suck and that's about it. Thirdly I have always had to use artificial lubrication with cut cocks and that is SO unerotic compared with au naturel. And since cut men have to thrust harder to get the stimulation they need, it can get uncomfortable and, frankly, boring. Uncut men can thrust hard or soft or anything in between, and that slow deep thrusting is great for indirectly stimulating my various pink bits and producing a deep, long orgasm for me. As to aesthetics most uncut cocks look the same as cut once erect, since the foreskin retracts. I think Americans are so used to big cut cocks on porn movies that this has become the "norm" - but it's not normal, ladies. My vote goes to uncut and I honestly think any baby boy who knew the truth would vote uncut for himself, too, if he could. From June From Anonymous Here some interesting information for those with uncut dicks. The frenulum (that sensitive little bridge of skin on the underside of the glans) can rip. If this happens you must go to your nearest A&E it may require stitches. But if you don't have it looked at and it heals with too much scar tissue you'll have problems pulling your foreskin down from your glans and it is likely to rip again. Another problem you may come across is too tight a foreskin. It is possible for a tight foreskin to role its self up and act much like a cock ring trapping the blood in your cock. If this should happen to you smother it in lube and cool it down. If this doesn't help get yourself to A&E. Tight foreskins can be loosened by appropriate masturbation. I know all of this because I have three very honest male friends who've told me their penis problems. All these nasty accidents occurred to them while they were in their mid twenties during periods of heavy intercourse after abstinence. Have I given you night mares yet? From Sarah I'd have to state my preference as definitely in favour of a circumcised penis. Whilst I find uncut ones easier to masturbate, I much prefer cut for oral or normal sex. Firstly for cleanliness. I know people always say circumcision is a bit drastic when you can just wash, but there have been guys that I've been with who shower regularly and within a couple of hours there's a definite odour which makes me not want to put it in my mouth! Secondly I get more sensation when making love with a circumcised partner... I don't know if the majority of the men I've been with have had loose foreskins but for the majority, when they were inside me it kind of felt like as they were thrusting they were sliding in and out of their foreskins... I mean it was still good and I still could come, it just didn't seem to be as directly stimulating as a cut cock? Does that make sense? Though this doesn't appear to be the case with all men though, I should perhaps say that a couple of my uncut partners were spectacular in bed! I'm currently single, but looking... am hoping I'll get lucky and my next partner will have a nice circumcised cock! From Mike I have read the forum on this and I must say Ellen; Maria; and Erotic nite are pro Circumcision and I will raise my big hard cock to the three of you; You are all honest woman and I wish I could show you my Circumcised cock after I get it done. From Ellen I know he his clean just by looking, also a cut man seems to last longer in bed no premature ejaculation. I have 3 children 2 boys and both are circumcised which is not as unusual as you think here in the uk. From Sonya From B From Heather From Bliss From Julie If I had it to do over again, no, I wouldn't do it to them. New research shows it doesn't significantly reduce the chances of disease and filth that it was purported to do. From what I understand, uncircumcised males just need to be careful to clean all the hidden areas well. Okay, so we are talking about a bunch of boys who will be teenagers one day, but still. From Helena From Kayla I thought about that poor little guy all weekend, I asked about him on Monday and she said he was much better. Gawd, the kid could be traumatized for life! Just the possibility of that happening seems to be a good argument to leave things the way they were built. Shudder From Harry From Sandaidh My son is 'un-cut.' That was a choice his father and I made when he was born. The reasoning is that Mother Nature made him that way for a reason. If he wants to change it at a later date, that's his decision, his choice. I'm a firm believer of "if it ain't broke, don't fix it." From Maria But, Julie [see entry below], I'm afraid that female circumcision DID exist in America! In the late 1800, American doctors performed circumcision on women, and even took away their ovaries, because they said this would cure women of "sexual perversions" like masturbation or nymphomania. It was out of the question that any decent woman could actually enjoy sex. Even such movements like sewing on a sewing machine could risk sexually arousing women and make them sick. After 1880, doctors stopped pretty much removing ovaries, but they continued circumcising women, cutting away their clitoris. Among other things, they wanted to prevent women from becoming lesbians. In 1897, a surgeon in Boston, MA, claimed that "the sexuality of a young woman is not in her genitalia," and therefore the clitoris should be taken away, as it might get erect. Mental hospitals performed these kind of operations up to 1935. Even up to the 1980'ies, doctor's have been recommending the cutting off the clitoris of young women to stop them from having premarital sex. Even today, 2002, there are women being circumcised in both America and Europe. I recommend the book The War Against Women by Marilyn French, if you want to know more about this. From Julie There is a whole chapter on circumcision. He points out in on of the first few paragraphs of this chapter, that in the 1880's, John Kellogg (yep, THE Kellogg of cereal fame), and others claimed that boys masturbate because the foreskin rubbed the head of the penis, ergo, he felt that if boys were circumcised at birth, they would be less likely to choke the monkey.. Ow, and get this -- it goes on to say that he also recommended that girls who masturbated should have their clitorises burned out with acid. Guess we got the better end of that deal, huh, guys, since THANKFULLY it didn't take off. From EroticNite Most of my experience has been with cut, but there were a few uncut. My SO is 67, born at home and uncut. Biggest thing is if they were taught good hygiene, especially when it comes to oral sex. Other then that, I don't find it a problem with oral sex unless the man has a foreskin that won't retract all the way back (my SO found it painful if any pressure was made to push it back). Personally I think this is a problem condition and the man should have it fixed. Not circumcised but I'm sure it can be snipped to allow it to retract fully. I had a younger brother that had this problem when he was 13. Of course, night erections were very painful to him so a circumcision was done then. I also knew an older gentleman, now 70, who had a similar problem and developed warts under the foreskin and had a circumcision at the age of 60. As to intercourse with an uncut cock—First let me say that this applies without the use of a condom. Using a condom pretty much makes all men equal. As I said before, I like them cut. My experience has been that when the foreskin is long and/or thick, it has a tendency to stay in one place. This tends to cushion the feel of the cock for me, lowering my feeling. Think of this analogy. Take a sock, put it over your finger, now make a ring with your other fist and insert covered finger. You will note that the sock tends to 'hang up' and the finger moves in and out of the sock. Note the feeling in your fist. Now try the same thing without the sock. Sorry men, maybe this is just my reaction. From aspire My son was born during the time when it was not done unless there was medical reason for it so he was not done. However I don't plan on asking him about his sexual experiences. From northstar As to hygiene I guess I'm lucky because he is very clean. I think it is because he is aware that he needs to be extra clean that he takes the time compared to my other loves who were cut and not as squeaky clean! I think this would have to go back to how boys are raised by their parents and whether or not they were taught properly to keep that area clean. I would also have to agree with Sand on the fact that I think it is not the parent's decision to have it done or not, but it should be left to the man. As to looks, well I like seeing the 'natural' way the best. I think we, as a society, are use to seeing the cut version because most men in the States are cut and they are the models used for all the media and pictures that we see. Yes, when he is hard the skin pulls fully away from the head so it looks like it is cut. I also have to agree with someone else's posting that during intercourse it slides better. From chimera From I.M. Guess Hubby doesn't have much sensation left in his glans though I'm not sure if it's the years of rubbing on clothing, especially those tight jeans he used to wear in his younger days or whether him being diabetic contributed to the matter. I have to confess that I have this ultimate fascination with uncut. Maybe part of it's the fact that it's new and something different for me, but besides that, I do find some things much more erotic about it. I love the glide and slide action when I jack lover's uncut cock and I find that with intercourse, it is a smoother fuck so to speak. There is something about the softness, the smoothness and texture... so velvet like. I like the visual of all the fine veins that I can see besides his large one that runs down the topside of his shaft. I love to touch and pet and feel. I like to make what I call a tunnel using my fingers to gently pull the foreskin forward as far as I can. Then I LOVE to stick the tip of my tongue inside and explore in this soft, membrane-like tunnel and ultimately end with fucking it with my tongue. From Lancelot I learned about performing the procedure as a medical student. After a family medicine residency, I was much less "interventionist" as I realized that they were really not many structures (tonsils, appendix and foreskin included) that were useless or "extra". It seemed to me, as I matured, that God, Allah... created wonderful job with mankind and that we (doctors, preachers...) do not need to intervene but to help our own defenses from time to time. Then, I started questioning its use. Believe me; it hurts a child dearly when performed even if they cannot "speak" to let you know. Babies cannot articulate words but they can feel pain very well. When I reviewed the literature, most of the authorities that supported cutting were of American origin and the US was the world leader in non-religious circumcision (Please search the web for the history of Dr. Kellog's crusade to cut most US children at the turn of the century, it is sickening). I delivered my own children in the most peaceful environment I could create (dim lights, water, and soft music... except for the fetal monitor). There was no way I was going to submit my own son to such trauma and pain. I caused consternation at the Southern hospital I practiced at when I stopped performing the procedure. I have had very little problem convincing women to protect their babies from any harm. The problem is by far with the father, against all medical advice. I am so disappointed when I reluctantly have to refer a baby to another MD because his father reasons that "wants his kid to look like the old man". What kind of father would have a procedure performed on his child when it is deemed "unnecessary" or disapproved in the rest of the world including by our very own American Pediatrics Association. I was cut like most of Americans. I cannot blame my parents, they did not know. But it is inexcusable that with the information available, it is still performed "leisurely" in the US because of cosmetic reasons in the mind of fathers. Should we circumcise our daughters while we are at it? From JaneyCanuck From Anonymous Uncut lubricates under the foreskin while being aroused. With a cut man, the lube ends up on the inside of his small clothes. Uncut men get wet just like women do. This is a slice from a larger loaf; the foreskin is a feminine bit of male anatomy, just as the clit is masculine bit of feminine anatomy. Uncut means that it is very easy for a woman to perform foreplay on a man: she simply has to fondle his foreskin with her fingertips, or slide it back and forth. This fondling is much easier to do than to give oral, and nearly as effective. The foreskin makes possible intercourse between the thighs, a foreplay activity my spouse taught me and which she enjoys a lot. When I am fully erect, my foreskin pretty much vanishes, and does not seem to slide back and forth all that much during intercourse. But when it does slide around, I find that very sexy and she does too. I can also tell that a much, maybe most, of my sexual sensitivity is in my frenulum and in the inner lining of my foreskin, both of which rub against the vagina. Circumcision removes these sensitive parts. AIDS? It definitely seems true that cut African men are less likely to be HIV positive. But the AIDS epidemic has been more severe in the cut USA than in uncut Europe. My spouse tells me that condoms pretty much extinguish the difference between cut and uncut. My common sense concurs. Women who have ample experience with cut and uncut outside of marriage have been walking on the wild side. I have been faithful to my spouse, mainly because I am not Adonis. But were I to stray, I would do so wearing a condom. There is a sense in which what sets my spouse apart from all other women is that she is the one and only who gets to enjoy my foreskin. I definitely sense that many American women who post here have trouble getting beyond the fact that their brothers are all cut, and that all baby boys whose diapers they changed when they were girls and teens were cut as well. To this day, millions of American women have never seen a foreskin in the flesh. American girls of my generation often never heard of circumcision until they took a prenatal class. The foreskins American women of my generation have experienced tend to be attached to foreign or Latino lovers. The routine infant circumcision of America went a long way towards stamping out any awareness of the male foreskin among nice middle class Americans without medical training. By the time an American mother changed her boy's diaper for the first time, he was already circumcised. Many hospitals circumcised us Baby Boomers without seeking the consent of the parents. Other circumcising cultures are different, in that the foreskin and its removal are at least talked about. A Jewish baby is circumcised in a ceremony to which a number of people are invited. Moslem boys are usually circumcised around 5 to 10 years of age. Hence every Moslem girl grows up seeing the foreskins of her younger brothers. A Moslem mother sees the foreskin of her boys at every diaper change. In much of the USA, there is now a substantial minority of intact teenage boys. Hence many teenage girls now come to experience both kinds of penises. I have read very recently elsewhere that American teenage girls now like to talk about the foreskin during slumber parties But I know absolutely nothing of what transpires at those slumber parties, because teenagers have no business posting in web sites such as this one. From Dawn Thankfully all my lovers have been uncut; I cannot understand why any women would want a circumcised penis. Nothing moves, its boring it just doesn’t look right. Well America, you may call yourselves civilized, but until you stop mutilating your children the rest of the world considers you as child abusing barbaric sadists. And as far as I am concerned you are. From Anonymous Before I fuck her, my wife usually slides my foreskin right back anyway, so I can't imagine she'd feel any difference if I had it cut. From Ghost Rider As far as the other tricks and techniques are concerned, you and the lady just have to experiment and find out what suits you the best. What one person likes may not be the next person's cup of tea. In case your foreskin is not where it will slide back over the head of your cock, you may have to go to the Md. to get it modified enough so it will slide back without causing discomfort or pain. Unless absolutely necessary, I wouldn't have or let the Md do a circumcision on it if I were you. Besides, if you are into piercings, this is one piercing you can get that a guy with a circumcised cock can't get. If you should happen to go for a piercing, it may be painful to the lady and you may have to remove it to have intercourse. From Kate I have made love to seventeen uncut men in the last eight years, and two circumcised. The second of which is my present lover. Let me state right away, I think circumcising boys routinely is totally unnecessary. In fact apart from religious purposes there is no good reason to perform this operation on a child. It is impossible to determine if a foreskin is tight or going to cause problems in the future. Until a boy has reached the age of sixteen the foreskin can still be stuck to the gland. I know the anti circumcision people mean well, but they are not doing themselves any favours buy pushing their argument with rubbish. Example: "Circumcised men cannot give their female partners orgasms" Oh come on! Get real if a man cannot give a woman an orgasm it’s more likely to be because his technique is bad or he just do’s not care weather she gets one. I have been making love to my circumcised partner for the last six months (no he has not got a massive cock just an normal average 6 ½ to 7inch) and he has given me an orgasm through penetrative sex nearly every time we have made love (virtually every night) usually two or three orgasms in a row. Want the bad news, none of my former uncut lovers have ever managed to perform like that. I can actually count on my fingers how many orgasms my uncircumcised partners gave me through penetrative sex. Example: "Circumcised men thrust harder and cause pain on entering" Never heard of lubricant or spit then? Try a bit more foreplay it works wonders. Both my cut lovers have been very gentle and caring, very much in tune with my needs. Some may say that they are just trying harder to make up for what is missing, well to be honest I don’t care, if being cut means he has to be considerate or I might run of with a man with an uncut cock tuff (girl power). Trust me I have had guys (uncut) that have bashed away like demented idiots leaving me bruised and sore for days. Example : " A circumcised penis is difficult to play with" Yes ok I will give you that one. It is, but come on it’s not rocket science is it working out the difference (do they give degrees in wanking BSC or MSC in TOSSOLOGY) Example: "The gliding action of the foreskin stimulates the G spot" This one has got to be written by a man who is probably circumcised and feeling sorry for himself, blaming his circumcision for his lack of ability. The bloody foreskin does not jump up off the end of a mans cock and start tickling the front wall behind the clitoris (if only it did wow!) it just slides up and down his shaft. The bad news is when a boy’s foreskin loosens. Say up to twenty years of age his penis will slide in and out whilst his foreskin hardly moves. However the foreskin by the time he has reached twenty five year old will have loosened still further and will slide very easily over the gland. Which means when making love he is getting a good time but the female receives little stimulation as nothing at the most sensitive parts is moving and if the inner lips do not get movement then the clitoral hood (female foreskin) does not move so the clitoris receives no stimulation and the possess of loosening of the foreskin continues as the man gets older making things worse. And yes foreskins do occasionally get smelly and sweaty, so do our female bits it’s no reason to start hacking a bit off. We have this marvels stuff over here in England its called soap (antibacterial) and water. Most English girls have never even seen a circumcised penis to make fare comment. I have and I know which I prefer give me a bellender any time. From Anon From Kurt My sexual partners have never complained that I was cut, and when I have been with other guys I have found pleasure with their dicks (as they seem to with mine), whether they are cut or not. I think it is sort of what you are used to, although admittedly, there are different "styles" of circumcisions ... but then again every guy's penis is unique also, whether it has been circ'd or not. My own is about 6" and straight when hard, and the circumcision is loose enough to allow lots of skin movement along the shaft and up over the coronal ridge when I am sexually engaged. When I jack off, I never need lube, but occasionally use it for different sensations. When I think of my dick (which is real frequent) ... the thought isn't "gee I wish I had a foreskin" but rather "boy, I am sure glad to have my ugly penis, and I can't wait to use him again ..." the fact my foreskin is gone is not a big deal. From Janie From Joe From Hondo Some girls I know love it and love to see it because its so different from what they normally see. They also love the action of the foreskin and how much of a play thing it can be. Also, I've never had a problem satisfying women with it, but I'm not too sure how it relates, only that my foreskin makes my dick that much thicker. Anyways, if the choice were mine, I'd stick with my foreskin any day of the week. Why change a good thing? From Anonymous I remember taking a bath latter when my farther had to use the bath room. From the Bath Tub I could see the toilet from the side. This was the day I found out that I wasn't different from other boys. I saw that my farther had one like me. As years went by I found that there was a lot of boys like me. At camp one boy made a comment about circumcision and we took a count on how many of us were not circumcised. It turned out that 13 were uncut and 15 were cut. Later, on my honeymoon my wife had sex for the first time and I had a strong erection and my foreskin was fully retracted. We fell asleep and the next morning she woke up first and saw my penis in its flaccid state and though something happened to the end of it. This was the first time she knew of what a foreskin was. From that time on our sex life was great and latter she told me she was glad I wasn't circumcised From Joey I would say this cut and uncut cocks is ok, the choice is always yours what to have. However from what I am reading here the uncut have it. From Zach Overall, whether you prefer being circumcised or not, I think it is very wrong for parents to make such a big decision for their sons no matter what the context. Let them decide the fate of their own bodies. The fact that my opinion was not asked about my getting circumcised makes me very angry. Honestly, I probably would have chosen to keep my foreskin just because I figure if I was born that way, that's the way I was meant to be. Also, to everyone who says that their partners prefer them to be circumcised, don't you realize that most of them think that way just because they've been conditioned to think that way? If you grow up in a society where circumcision is the majority, a lot the women (of course there are exceptions) from that community are going to prefer it; they're just used to it, and so when they see a foreskin, they automatically think it looks strange. I would say to anyone whose partner tells you your penis doesn't look attractive (because it is either circumcised or not) is not worth having sex with. From J A lot of you girls are pretending that "your shit don't stink" as they say and we all know that it does! We're human after all. Maybe you females complaining about how smelly a foreskin is should get an operation yourselves so your genitals will be "more hygienic" and "convenient" too! Sounds absurd doesn't it? Well that's the logic you're using. Everyone, just wash your damn selves! From Jenni From Werner This discussion is like "better tortured and traumatized or not". So what? Everybody should decide himself what's better! Circumcision of children is a crime! From Ralph From Anonymous Secondly it has changed my personality and I feel much more a whole person and more self-confident. Believe me removing the foreskin does not just affect your cock it affects the whole person. From Dr. Stu (UK) The fact is that sometimes it is necessary where the foreskin is deformed or too tight to be drawn back. Otherwise, it is an unnecessary, painful, and at times dangerous (hemorrhaging, infection, etc.) procedure. Unnecessary medical treatment should be avoided, especially when it is pursued for such misconceived reasons. From Bob I have to tell you that having had it both ways, the cut penis is preferable to me. No more smegma and the constant cleaning under the foreskin. The tight skin on the shaft has much more feeling to it as it doesn't slide up and down. It's a myth about lose of sensitivity. The hundreds of nerves that ran up to the end of the foreskin are now exposed where the scar is just below the head of the glans. This area is now extremely sensitive, more so that any part of the penis with the foreskin. I have never had a woman, even my wife, who wishes I wasn't cut. We had our son cut with no reservations. The tide in changing toward circumcision again. Read this beb site. http://www.circinfo.net/#benefits From Bret From Nicole From Delisha I cannot explain the beauty in what it has to offer, other than it is exactly as nature intended to keep it covered until it is completely hard, then his cock exposes itself as if it is a gift, completely erotic to know that I receive this gift each and every time, pure ecstasy. From Anonymous My husband is cut and is a wonderful lover, but wishes he had not been cut. We did a little research on the topic, and all it took was the info about being cut decreasing sensitivity, and my husband was all for leaving our son intact. I always wonder...do countries that do not circ routinely have the same "sexual dysfunction" issues the US has? Is Viagra a big seller in Europe? I have never been with an uncut man, but I am definitely curious about the differences. From John However here is the trump card, A friend told be he doesn't need lube to masturbate. That means he can stop in a restroom any where masturbate, do it while driving, etc. I also heard that uncut men have more sensation and consequently don't last as long. For some of us, it can take to long to orgasm, esp. with a new partner- but it gets better when she learns me. I wish I were uncircumsized and when I have children, I will not have them cut. Recap- More sensation, more masturbation, freedom of masturbation location. I was robbed. From Luke Truthfully, I'm sure the head is more sensitive, but I doubt it is a big difference--for I have orgasmed long and hard and not wished for more. this issue hasn't even come up between myself and my partners because it is not worth worrying about. From Donna From Yvonne From Suzanne From Cici I have pictures of hard, circumcised dicks that I masturbate to, and think they're the most beautiful sights on earth. All I have to do is glance at one and my clit instantly hardens, and I have to pull my pants down and rub myself until I orgasm. From Instant From AA From A From Big J From BD I like it and as I stated, all of my female friends and my early days jack off buddies all liked it. No lubrication has ever been required to masturbate. Yes uncut dicks are not always as beautiful as cut ones, but I know my head is much more sensitive when I keep the skin on my head and it keeps me sensitive and horny all the time. From Shirl From Kimi Do I prefer uncut? Well, my hubby's uncut, once up he's very big and I love him, enjoy giving him head, very relaxed with his uncut state but own up to being very excited visually by fully cut large cock. But when I go down on a cut guy I don't get to enjoy anything like the horny dirty tastes my husband's cock gives me. From Don - I sense the head is very protected and concomitantly more
sensitive My advice to curious lady who asked about how to give an uncut guy maximal blow job pleasure is to: - start sucking him with his foreskin over the head I have zero problem keeping clean. It can involve a quick cock wash after a pee, or a daily shower where I just pull the skin back as I was. (Kinda fun really.) And camping or other trips where washing is a problem are a non-problem. In truth I think cutting a cock is a severe form of mutilation. One could compare it to the idea of cutting all the clit hoods off of women. i.e., it is ridiculous! From Curious Lady From Anonymous I hate it. Uncomfortable as heck, especially when the glans is covered when walking. I have to pull back on it to walk without discomfort. How can uncut types stand it? Once work calms down with the hours, I plan on getting it tightened up. Cut is the only way to go. From Uncut Man Anymore than a day without a shower and, yuck. Sex during extended camping trips can be a drag without wipes. Anyway, I think circumcision is medically best and does not likely diminish anything. From K.C. It was wonderful. That one experience did it more me. Now I love foreskin, especially when it belongs to a black or Latino man because of the colour contrast between the head and foreskin. My current male squeeze, a fantastic young and hung Latino, has a wonderfully long foreskin. It covers most of the head of his cock even when it's fully erect. He likes to keep it covered when I'm sucking him because he can last longer. When I pull it back, it doesn't take long to finish him off. A female friend of mine had a strong bias towards cut men like me, but I convinced her to try uncut men. She is great in bed and very sexual so I knew she would have fun. Guess what? She loves it, especially masturbating an uncut man. Her current lover is uncut. Ladies, and men, you really should try it. From Ghost Rider I am uncircumcised and am only estimating what you will go through. For more pinpoint accuracy, talk to an Md. and ask him to give it to you strtaight without trying to make it sound like a walk in the park after Sunday School. From Anonymous From Jack From Daniel I can't really think of any disadvantages. I do feel cleaner, I think it looks nicer, it feels like my dick is more free and not stuffed inside a bit of skin. I'm really glad I made that choice. From Joseph_Craft From Anonymous Also sometimes I pull back the foreskin before I get erect and when I start masturbating and when I play around with the head the pleasure is beyond belief. I live in Australia and talking to some of my friends they are also uncircumcised and we have talked about the issues relating to circumcision. We find it better to not be circumcised because it is more natural. From Mary Just keep in mind that when you have sons, you will not have them cut. Spread the word best you can that circumcision is barbaric and unnecessary, and you'll do some good in this issue. From Anonymous From Josh From Anonymous I think that the foreskin brings more pleasure for both partners. With the foreskin sliding back and forth it creates more sensation. I also prefer the looks of an uncut penis. He feels good, he looks good and he tastes good. Yes you guys have to pull back and wash. No different then us ladies who have to clean between the folds. So I think nature knew what it was doing! From Jackie Lynne From Dave From Ray Adkins Remember! Americans were not circumcised until the 1920's neither were their European descendants centuries before that. Not to mention the question of choice, this is a human right issue that should not be taken lightly, lack of sensation, 30% size reduction of the penis...the list goes on and on. Say no to unnecessary circumcision now! From Hachi From Bob From King From Guy From Jessy From Kjphotog I know here in the states there has been a movement to stop the practice & the folks even have a website. for eons people touted that there are benefits to removing our foreskin(s). But in truth the only real benefit seems to be some extra cash in a doctors checking account. And whatever health concerns there were, are simply solved by guys taking a bath or shower now and then. From Matt Do kids a favor and give them a choice. That is, unless you want us men to hold you down too and cut you. Oh wait—that's illegal here, wow. From Rob Van Laun From Trixie From Anonymous But when I lost my virginity at 15 years old I was pissed off because the girl I had sex with hated the smell, feel, and look of my cock. She said she had never been with an uncut man before and she liked cut cocks more. Are all women like this? From John At school I would hide myself and not tell anyone, I wasn't ashamed it was just my choice to not tell people and it still is, not through shame or fear of ridicule, mostly because it's none of their business (how British am I). Anyway, my experience with girls has been mainly positive. My current girlfriend is a keeper. She's the girl I'm going to marry, and she loves my cock to death. She's had only uncut boyfriends in the past and in every aspect - intercourse, head, masturbating, look, taste, texture, smell, she prefers my cut cock. She says that during intercourse she can feel the ridge of my head sliding in and out of her and she loves it. I know there's a lot of arguing about cleanliness here but I only have her word to go on but she says she could never go back to uncut cocks if we split up because after having mine the thought of a foreskin and the potential horror of the cheese makes her want to throw up, she prefers the full and solid feel of my erect penis rather than a mouth full of slippery baggy skin. her description of her disgust after going down on an ex with a particularly loose foreskin almost had me vomiting. She reckons that no matter how clean they are you can always taste piss but with my cut cock everything she's had to "overlook" in the past has been forgotten and she simply adores shagging, sucking, touching or even just looking at my penis, she's in love with it. So obviously she prefers cut, and I'm extremely glad to be cut. There was no decision in my story, I had to have it done, I was getting urine infections and it was causing me a lot of pain, since it's been cut I've been happier and healthier. I hear about friends having "problems down there" tearing bits, getting infections, embarrassed because it smells when that surprise blowjob comes out of nowhere. all things I've never had to worry about. I'm glad I was circumcised and so is my girlfriend. Of course there are going to be people who love uncut and want to write back saying what I've said is rubbish and uncut is great and the health thing is a lie and it's not cleaner. well I trust the opinion of the girl who puts mine in her mouth. everyone's different, the only point here is I'm circumcised and I'm really happy to be this way. From A friend I'm married, uncut, and have a son, who is also intact. This right is his alone. If he wants it off, then that's okay with me, but it's still HIS choice! When I was very small I needed an operation which "enlarged" the pee slit. The trauma was just enough to handle. Speaking as a father, why would you intentionally induce this kind of pain? Trust me when I say it HURTS. Urination was painful and stung like crazy, and this was just a minor repair. I must say that as a healthcare professional, it doesn't really matter. Remember, it can always be taken off later, but never put back on. I do not condemn or condone circumcision. I believe in the choices that my son can make later in his life. All I ask is to let HIM make the choice! It's natural.
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