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real cyberI discovered the joy of sexual freedom through cybersex. I met all kinds of people, from all over the world. It was a way to express all the hidden desires I had suppressed for so long. It can be very exciting, fun, creative, a real learning experience - discovering what really turns you on, what you want, how you feel about things. Sure I want to meet someone in real life;  have a husband again - I loved being married. But for now, this is a way to grow, to learn about myself, to rediscover what makes me happy. I'm curious, what are your cybersex experiences? —Cathy

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From Anonymous
Cybersex isn't limited to just chatting and camming; it can take the form of detailed, intimate correspondence, too.  Text is text, but in this case, it is closer to prose when two people of either sex share erotic personal details.  I've enjoyed arousing, entertaining, inspiring correspondence with a select few people over the years; people who enjoy writing and going into great detail about their experiences.  As many participants here at EWRA know, writing - for many - is a dying art.  Its refreshing that some of us still value it.

From Paganlove
Cybersex is an extension of fantasy and as such will always be in the realm of fantasy.  Why jeopardize the beauty of fantasy by bringing it out into reality...  the fantasy ends and the nightmare begins.

From Anon
I never knew how powerful the mind was when it comes to sex. Just the words on the screen triggers the imagination, and it is powerful indeed. I've been with both sexes, sometimes many partners in cyberspace - things I would never dare to do in real life - but what a turn-on. My cyber persona can be anything I'm in the mood for and I guess that's what's fun - being someone you've only imagined.

From Anonymous 
I experienced cyber sex for the first time and I have never been so turned on in my life! It gave birth to and brought out my "animal". We reveled in fantasyland. It was a constant daily fever - what a rush.

For me tho, it was someone I had met once and had been turned on by his brilliant mind. We proved one thing - the fantasy is always better/stronger than the reality. Our real encounter fell flat. It was uncomfortable and embarrassing...and premature.

From Anonymous Guy
I met my cyber-friend and we got on like a house on fire. At that time I my marriage was fine and I told my net friend I was totally loyal—oh how wrong I was.

Over time we exchanged pictures and we used to sit with our cams while chatting talking about sex and what we would like to do with one another. It was so stimulating and at times I have to admit I was so aroused by the content of our chats it stayed on my mind for days. Eventually we decided to meet up and she invited me to see her which I duly obliged. We made love had sex did all we said we would do while we used to chat, it was amazing, and if the situation was any different I think we would have ended up together.

As it turned out, she was a lonely housewife looking for some fun while her husband was out. If I could turn the clock back I suppose I wished I hadn't met her at all. Everything was ok till then but then if you have high expectations one becomes awfully disappointed. Would I do it again? No never. I feel used and betrayed. Word of warning: not everyone is who they claim to be, most have some sordid secrets. So people beware, you have been warned.

From T
The cybersex is extremely dangerous and can be emotionally damaging. The problems of cyber world situations is when one person wants to make it "real" and the other person does not, and you can't trust everyone in the cyber world.

The one sound piece of advice I can give to women is men often use you as a pawn in their fantasy...most of them are liars. The other sad part is that a lot of people don't see you as a living, thinking, feeling person--we are not just words on a screen or a voice over the phone.

I've only had disheartening, sad experiences involving cybersex. It's not the real world and it's easy to fall into an emotional trap. I fell hard for this person--stupid fool that I was but I learned a hard lesson and hopefully, will never make the same mistake again.

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