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From Ted
Porn delivers less than promised, erotica delivers more than expected. (There's a good deal of literary porn and raunchy erotica out there.) It probably has to do with the author's intent--to get your money for as little as possible or to seduce you into coming back for more and more and more.

From Jaycee Leverett
I don't think you over reacted at all. I'm sure every erotic writer is met with people like that at some time, I know I have. The thing is, most people have been so blinded by the taboo side of sex and their parents generation that that's all they see now.

They can't see the poetry, philosophy and depth of the stories that are really being told. There's your difference. While all porn focuses on is the act on itself, True erotica will tell you a story that will stay with you as greatly as any good novel of film. Erotica is an art.

From jojo
Porn is kipper ties, violins and bad hair. Erotica is silk, velvet, aroma's and hints of things to come. Easy really, don't know why everyone's in such a lather...

From Jane Lane
Firstly, as I noticed in a lot of posts, Erotica is read by everyone, and the term "frigid" women just isn't cool.

Like everything, sex is a choice, porn is a choice, erotica is a choice. Erotica to me is a more fleshed out (no pun intended) account of an event, its most often romantic, as we all crave a little spice, but porn, sometimes it just works to have the whole darn lot.

Porn does go too far sometimes, - but only when someone is clearly not enjoying themselves - that's where it stops.

From Firemermaid
I just have to reply to Shadow L. Parker [see next entry]. If you think porn is "telling it like it is", & erotica is gussied up for "frigid" women... well, your understanding of holistic sexuality, & most real women, is sadly limited. You may prefer porn---- many men do, since it is aggressively marketed for male tastes.

Porn doesn't BEGIN to describe the scope & depth & potential for sex between conscious equals. As I've stated in my previous comments Porn is about getting you off fast & easily, & above all, gaining access to your wallet. Any man that kids himself otherwise is cheating himself & his partners of a fuller, richer sexual spectrum.

Use porn if you choose, but do it w/ your eyes open. And if you're encountering a lot of "frigid" females...well, I'm not surprised. Try asking what she needs, & it may go beyond simple parts manipulation...


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