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Faking it. I am now a pro. I know that some think that faking is wrong. I love sex, in fact I have always loved it. Nevertheless, the truth of the matter is that I have been faking for years, since the onset of sex.
Why? For exactly the same reason most women do. To make their men feel good about themselves.
The truth is that the pressure of having an orgasm takes all of the fun out of sex. My ex and I, at the beginning use to search for this orgasm, and it use to ruin sex. Finally I told him one day that I refuse to have him poke and prod my body in hopes of eliciting said response. After that I had some of my most memorable moments of great sex. It did not matter that I did not orgasm. Don't get me wrong that does not mean a man should just get on and hump until they get their rocks off without any effort of pleasing me, but it does mean that I am completely okay with good sex minus an orgasm.
I must wholeheartedly disagree with the idea that a man can tell
when a woman’s faking it. I'm not saying there aren't some men
who can tell, but I assure you, many men cannot. When I
confessed to one boyfriend I had faked it, he growled at me and said,
"You're a liar! You're a liar!" Later on, when
we'd gotten back together, after having sex he sarcastically
commented, "Faking it, hah!" Some men's egos can't
My husband claimed he could always tell when a woman faked an
orgasm. Once with my husband and another lover, I did a DP (double
penetration). The lover was in my cunt, my husband was in my ass. It
was a great experience but there's no way I was going to come and the
25-year old lover wasn't going to either, unless I did, so I faked.
Neither of them knew. Afterward, I told my husband and he was very
surprised. I don't fake with my husband, because there's no need, but
I've faked it with many men and they don't know it, never could know it.
It's easy to make your cunt spasm (use your kegel muscles) to draw
them in. I’m always very moist, so it seems like cum to them. One
guy told me cunt lips get cold during orgasm, so that's how he knew I
had an orgasm. Yeah right.
Dear, dear Cervo, how can men tell? (see Cervo's entry below) Not all women spurt when they
climax. Not all women have the kind of clenching muscle spasms we here
are so fond of writing about. Trust me, darlin', faking it can be
quite easy for many of us.
Men are not nearly as stupid as they seem. They can tell if
you come just as you can tell if they do. I think many say nothing
because they feel they have failed. You may too, or you may not
have been interested in coming just then, so much as the prolonged
sensation of whatever you were doing. It would be much nicer to
say that than to fake an orgasm. It leaves hurt feelings,
unhappy uncertainty and a sense of being somehow oddly duped.
I do not come from penetration or intercourse alone, as much as I
love, love, love it, I am a clitoral gal when it comes to orgasm,
though I have come close a few times, but it is a different sensation,
still fantastic, but not the same degree of release. I must have some
clit and nipple stimulation during intercourse to come. Although it was always my dream to come with him
inside me, I think that is a "myth" of sorts; the whole simultaneous
orgasm from intercourse alone, at least it is a myth for many women,
and can make them feel inadequate if they can't, as do I).
I can understand the experience of just wanting it to be over and
not wanting to hurt the man's feelings. That would be a tough call. If
you don't have the degree of communication and mutual trust and
security to be able to tell him and assure him it is ok and then let
him "get his", I can see the temptation to fake it. I just
don't feel that's a sound basis for any potential future intimacy.
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