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Female EjaculationWell, I've heard about female ejaculation. I've read about it. Hell, I've even written about female ejaculation. And now, thanks to video rentals, I've seen it. But I don't believe it. It just looks like peeing to me. I also find it hard to believe that this phenomenon has suddenly been discovered after centuries of non-existence. So, is there anyone out there who has experienced female ejaculation (and why do they call it that, anyway? I think maybe half the reason I don't believe it is because it smacks so of penis envy) who is willing to have a go at convincing me that female ejaculation real? —Dorothy

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From Warren
Female ejaculation is true, contrary to the naysayers. There are 3 levels of the ejaculate. First have your beloved empty her bladder.

Flooding of the vagina: Which can be stimulated first by arousal of your beloved (to orgasmic level, best initial results) and released by rapidly licking or stroking the urethra opening with the head of ones penis. This results in a pleasant tasting and smooth lubricant.

Ejaculation: Stimulate the "G" Spot area usually with rear entry sex (Doggy style) and finished with Missionary or using the same technique as Flooding. The ejaculate is mainly the same as flooding, but with more volume, which comes out of the urethra. Some times it picks up a tangy taste depending on the particular woman.

Squirting: This is mainly Urine and not ejaculation...

Before ejaculation your beloved feels the urge to pee and must not kegel, the natural reaction. This method has worked across a number of lovers and the technique is used often.

From Jessica
As hard as it is for the general public to accept this odd occurrence, it in fact real. Why? Because I have experiences with it myself. At first, I thought I had peed on myself! Afterwards, I performed a series of experiments. The first was to come in a cup (I didn't always squirt, but 80% of the time I did). When I caught the liquid, I found that it was clear and did not smell of pee. The second experiment was to pee before masturbating. When I did this, I still had the burning urge to pee as I came, and when I did, the clear liquid came out again. I knew it wasn't pee because I had just peed, and it was again clear and without the odor of urine. As quirky and fun as it sounds, it's awfully messy. To be able to masturbate and come without completely soaking myself would be great!

From Emma
I don't think there's any serious doubt that feminine ejaculation exists. Perhaps as Western reductionist science rediscovered in the 1980s  what women have known and felt forever. What is sad is that it's become yet another externally mandated goal for women to have about their bodies. Even the name: *female* ejaculation is off-putting. So, if I can't do it, I am not a female? No-one talks about *male* ejaculation.

From Audrey
Who would believe that at the ripe old age of 63 I started experiencing vaginal orgasms for the first time with my new found lover. While having intercourse once, I felt the flood gates open and began laughing uncontrollably. He told me I was squirting all over him and my bed until both were sopping wet. We found it extremely erotic to feel and a bigger turn on. Little did I know that practice makes perfect. He would hoast himself up on his arms in order to stimulate my G spot and I would lift my legs in the air while we were in the missionary position. Can be boring but was very effective here. Before I knew it I was having multiple orgasms as many as ten in one session. Live and learn! Sex had never felt this good before for either one of us. Here I am 63 and have turned into a squirting queen, wow!

From Anonymous
When I rub my girlfriend's G spot I can feel her vagina swell up and she says there is an urge to pee. However she is embarrassed about letting go because she believes it is in fact urine.

From Kenna
When I first met my partner and we started having sex, very early on in the relationship I had this experience. Like many women, at first I thought it was pee - I had to go search the internet, lol.  This was my first and only relationship with another woman (we were together for 8 years) and she was as surprised as I was at first. Once we realized what was going on, she was THRILLED that she could do that to me.  I have squirt so much fluid that it has completely soaked the bed, her shirt, and anything within range!  

When reading the responses, someone, I think (shejaculator?) said you have to remove the "toy" or whatever - however, if my partner had removed her fingers I would not be able to do that - I don't know if it's different with a toy or not. I do know that for me, I have to let that sensation build for a bit, have to be physically very open, and relax for it to happen. Completely different kind of orgasm though! My partner says she can feel it, can feel it swelling and the fluid start to flow just before it happens.

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