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FistingI've gotta finally ask, after seeing fisting sometimes referred to in stories: is it really physically possible to put one's entire hand, thumb as well as all four fingers, inside a woman's vagina and move it about? I'm advertising my naiveté here, but I'd like an answer more than I worry about admitting to this lack of knowledge.

Fisting, as I think this is called, would seem to be possible only if a woman's given birth to several children, but not with one who's had none. (I know that doctors often put their hand in the birth canal of a woman in labor, but then she is dilated quite a bit by that time). Maybe if it is a small hand that is doing the exploration ... ? Anyone care to enlighten this obviously ignorant soul about fisting?  —Siobhßn


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From Fill Me Up Buttercup
Fisting a woman's vagina is not the 1st thing on the agenda! At least not for me. It's for those days (for us usually days not nights) where we can spend all day in bed playing.

I love having my nipples stimulated. And I LOVE having my clit rubbed. And then I ache to have something in me. Lucky for me my husband loves pleasuring me. I love to have him insert fingers - usually at least 2, and alternate stroking on my clit and in my vagina and on my G-spot. And then I want more -  2 fingers is not enough, I crave more - 3 fingers, then 4. But always with plenty of lube and alternating clit stimulation and vaginal. It brings me higher and higher and I want more and more and more - I just crave the fullness - that's when I can take his fist.

Size may also play a factor - I'm not petite - I'm a long-waisted 5'8" - and had 2 good-sized babies (8+ lbs) vaginally.

From Anonymous
My husband and I have a good sex life. After all the movies we have seen, there was one thing we haven't tried: Fisting. One day my husband and I were off from work so we decided to try it. And boy did I love it!

From Rob Lovine
My wife and I have  flirted with fisting for several years now, but it is only recently that we've succeeded. I think this is because she has finally opened up to the idea as well as the fact that she has now given birth multiple times. When we first started she had only given birth once and was still very nervous about being hurt or injured, but now after seeing how much her pussy can open and still return back to normal, she welcomes the idea of being fully filled up with my hand.

When we start out I usually go with the 2-3 finger approach, but within minutes I'm sliding my entire hand in and out of her wet and lubed pussy, which by the way gets me extremely hard. It typically only take a minute or two of this intense action before she's really moaning, at which point she takes over by grabbing my wrist and working it in and out like a huge dildo, until she explodes in ecstasy.

The best part of all this is though is how good her sloppy wet pussy feels when I fuck her after the fact. In fact it feels so good that I can blow my load almost immediately after sticking it in

From BabyGirl
I have fisted my girlfriend on several occasions. She has a child, but he was born 26 yrs ago. She has not been with a man in almost as long, but her body opens to receive me. I have attempted fisting, but my body will not accommodate my desires. 4 fingers is the most I can take & that hurts. I have never given birth, plus I am extremely tight & am almost virginal after a few weeks of abstinence.

From Archie
What do men get out of fisting? absolute and complete fulfillment. I absolutely adore my wife's huge pussy, she has meaty lips that dangle almost three inches and I can spread open her vagina nearly 5 inches, but she has a very short uterus and this made fisting initially difficult and painful.

After many slow and unsuccessful attempts I finally entered her, once in the feeling of her burning walls of her vagina, the tight muscles pulling so hard against me, and the sight of my hand in her, all an incredible high. I usually come on her pussy and then rub it in, gently pulling her huge lips to help ease back down to earth.

From Candy
After discovering fisting last year I crave it all the time now. My Master's fist fills up my vagina and the constant g-spot stroking sends me into ecstasy. There is nothing like being totally filled up and being able to come hard and fast.

From Anonymous
My husband and I have been participating in vaginal fisting for years now. It took several slow, well lubed attempts before he was able to get his whole fist inside—he has very large, wide hands. The sensation was absolutely mind blowing, I am never able to withhold an orgasm for more than a minute once he is inside me.  When he starts to remove his hand, it sends another wave of orgasms through me, I am usually quite exhausted after all that! 

His favourite part of the event is having sex with me immediately after.  He says that my pussy is at its' tightest at this point - it is true, because he normally has to push hard to get in. 

I do regular kegels, and from my understanding, if you are able to relax the muscles of your pelvic floor, you are strengthening them at the same time.  There seems to be a lot of concern about "stretching out" of the vagina, but my personal experience has been that fisting has made me much more aware of the muscles and my husband says that I am tighter than before we started fisting.

From Phillip
Hi, I have read all comments on this and have something a little different to add. I started trying to fist my wife in 1999, she was 35 years old and had given a vaginal birth to 2 children, her vagina was "normal" and not exceptionally tight or anything. We tried 3 to 4 times a month but I could not get my "average" hand inside her, we had read all the info from websites and were using good lube. Heather was convinced it wasn't possible for us, at least without experiencing pain and though she feared being damaged she was not resisting my efforts. 

Gradually things got easier and after 6 years my hand finally slid inside her in September 2005. I now fist her 4 to 5 times a week, there is no pain at all and she always has a HUGE orgasm, I always finish by removing my hand and entering her with my penis and coming inside her, this satisfies me and leaves her feeling fulfilled. 

At 43 years old Heather is now completely addicted to being fisted and she just can't get enough of it, the orgasmic intensity is like a drug to her, in fact with the chemicals released into the brain at the point of orgasm it actually is! 

So if your having trouble getting started, stick with it and you'll get there in the end. Happy fisting.

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