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Fisting
From Paul My ex-wife used to literally beg for it. The whole thing started quite unintentionally. I often used to have 2-3 fingers in her. One day, she asked me to try and get my whole hand in. I couldn't get it right without hurting her so we abandoned the exercise. A few weeks later I found a website which dealt with the subject and gave some very valuable tips on how to do it. I was very excited and returned home with the good news. My ex got so wet just discussing it that I did not have to use any lube at all. It probably took in the region of 10 minutes to get my whole fist inside her and once there, she went ballistic! She erupted in a series of intense orgasms and also ejaculated for the first time. She actually preferred fisting to normal sex and claimed that the wonderfully full feeling was what rocked her boat. I might also mention that after the first experience, she would prepare herself by working herself up with a cucumber -- the bigger the better and often comes a few times like this before being fisted. From Rogerio When I fist my wife her pussy does widen out, but: 1) It doesn't stay that way because we don't fist every day. We try it like once a week (I don't recommend "quickie" fist fucks - you need time). And we actually manage to do it about twice a month (it doesn't always work). With this frequency of fisting, and after about three years, I do not notice each fisting getting "easier" than the last. 2) I like it. After a fisting her lips remain open, exposing a rosy, sloppy-with-lube cunt that just begs to be eaten out. And if I fuck it I find the looseness to be very sexy. After all, I caused it. So I say If you are both interested - try it! From Older and Wiser But, and this is a very big but, be warned that her vagina will stretch, and the more you indulge in fisting, the longer it takes to contract - in other words, like Nick mentioned [see Nick's entry below] "Her vagina can take some time to contract to its pre fisting tightness and the intercourse post fisting does tend to feel very different. This is perfectly normal." Over time, the contracting just doesn't happen easily. You've got to work for it. So, if you want a nice tight vagina, think twice before fisting on a regular basis, unless you have the will power to do regular and intense kegel exercises. Let me tell you, and this is experience speaking - don't do it. Whatever thrill you get from fisting is not worth the time and effort it takes to keep those muscles tight. And guys will tell you any damn thing just for the thrill of getting their hand up your cunt. Just wait till you end up with a loose vagina, see what they say then. Your cunt becomes the typical joke of too big vaginas, especially for guys with normal or smallish penis. It's just not worth it. It's not like you can't get your jollies off in another way. Get some toys, try new positions, but fisting? Just say no.
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