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I have a question about the G-spot, ladies (and gentlemen, if you think you can contribute). After much exploration (read 34 years) I have finally isolated my wife's G-spot. The search was fun, but she seems to be enjoying the fruits of the search even more...up to a point. She said, "that feels great, but I don't know what to do with it..."

I know not every woman ejaculates from g-spot stimulation but it seems from what I have read here and elsewhere that with or without ejaculation there is an orgasmic response that she seems to be missing.

So, the question is, what puts you (or your lover) over the top for a g-spot orgasm? Is it a change in speed or pressure, just more of whatever seems to be working (i.e. firm, regular stroking), clitoral stimulation in addition to G-spot? Is there something that she needs to do to trigger this phenomenon?  —Slohand


For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time. —Isabel Allende 



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From Robert
My wife found she could have G spot orgasms pretty much by accident a few years ago. She had been riding my cock for a while and had a couple of nice orgasms, with more to go. Because I was getting too close I slid out of her to avoid coming too soon. While she was on her hands and knees I slid under her to lick her pussy and clit for a few minutes to keep her going. She had a vibrator nearby she used earlier. I pushed it into her pussy, stroking it in and out while I was licking her. 

After about a minute she was moaning and rocking back and forth into the vibrator. She was very wet and her clit was hard and easy to suck. In another minute or so she was shaking and rocking and wanted the vibrator pushed in harder and faster. She had an explosive almost violent orgasm and squirted all over both of us. She seemed to come down more slowly than usual and just lay on her stomach breathing hard. Her clit was too sensitive to get my cock back in her so she used some of her own juices to get me slippery and stroked me off. 

She says she has to concentrate harder to have an orgasm that way but it's always much more intense. Since then, we've tried the same kind of stimulation in the shower, using the shower massager on her clit while I stroke in and out of her pussy from behind. She knows when she's going over the edge and watching her squirt with my cock in her is a big turn on.

From Ms. M'ville
I'm 46, been married twice, and had a new lover show me my g-spot for the first time in my life last night. I never come the first time I am with a guy (too nervous/self-conscious?) and I have never come from oral sex before. We began making love last night with him going down on me. (I used to tell my ex not to bother; it didn't do anything for me.) I began shaking immediately, like I had lost control of my nervous system. When he rubbed my g-spot on top of the oral sex, I thought I was going to go through the ceiling. I had an orgasm that lasted over five minutes. I don't recall anything I said or did during the first few minutes of that orgasm. He said I was screaming and humping his face (which, he added, he enjoyed immensely).

Girls--don't settle for sex w/out your partner paying attention to your g-spot.

Guys--if you don't know where or what the g-spot is or what to do with it, you can google it (the topic, I mean) and learn everything you need to know after spending 5 minutes on the Internet.

[A good place to start your search (for info, I mean) is at How To Find Your G-Spot]

From Ginger Anne
I have discovered my g-spot on my own via masturbation and have "squirt" many times. Don't get me wrong, I  love watching myself gush! It's so hot to see! But I actually prefer the clitoral orgasms so far. Maybe when I finally get the chance to explore this with a partner, I will change my mind.

From Mister C
Every woman deserves to experience the ultimate climax via the G-Spot and to have her clit licked, kissed and sucked. Any man who is not will to give a woman this gift needs to have his head examined and go back to the drawing board when it comes to sex.

From Shannon
Wow! Actually that is an understatement! I am a 28 year old female with 4 children, and dear mother of pearl I researched the g-spot stimulation yesterday. Well last night I talked my husband into searching for it. He said I don't need you to tell me what to do. To what I thought, oh great here we go again! He played around for a bit and then finally agreed to listen to me.

I read it would or at least could take an hour or longer to find. He found it within minutes. It was the best feeling I have ever had in my life. It seems my G-spot is very easy to locate, I have actually felt it before while masturbating but didn't realize that's what it was. He gave me multiple orgasms to the point they seemed to be rolling together. I got the sensation that I had to pee, but as instructed thru the online material I worked thru the feeling. I didn't go into a panic like I used to do. Low and behold I squirted all over his hands. I could feel the juices streaming out of me. When he removed his fingers his hand was covered and juice was running down his hand. 

We went on like this for over an hour between the G-spot and clit I had so many orgasms that I was beyond refreshed and then amazed. He was extremely turned on and sex will never be the same from now on! Every man should do this for his woman and if applicable all women should do this for their women!

From Tyjardia
I have read some interesting comments on the subject of the g-spot but I feel I have to speak out. Just to put my comments into perspective I am a lesbian so my fingers have spent a LOT of time inside other women’s vaginas. I am also a career masturbator and ardent explorer of my own body. I do not think that women generally take enough time to explore the inside of their vagina’s. It is partly social of course with many of us scolded by our parents for ‘ touching ourselves down there ‘, and the other part of it is a general ignorance of our own bodies.

However once we get over these inhibitions, educate ourselves and come to terms with exploring our own body’s there is so much pure pleasure to be had that time spent on pushing such a simple part of your anatomy into what is a wonderful, and totally amazing part of your anatomy can only lead to a life time of pleasure.

I have come to the conclusion that there are THREE particularly sensitive areas inside the vagina.

1. The first is the well known g-spot on the proximal (first third), anterior wall.

2. The second is smaller and is located halfway along on the posterior wall (facing the rectum). It is this one that can also be stimulated anally very successfully. In my case it is the indirect stimulation of this one when I am being taken anally with my partners strap-on that brings me to such screaming anal climaxes.

3. The third is right at the very top of the vagina, just posterior to the cervix and usually requires a delicate touch (not easy when you are going that deep inside). It’s this spot that I find so toe curling, squirting fun when I take my partners hand inside me.

From Lost In Pleasure
I am a bit confused. How do I find the G Spot on my wife. I have always heard of the G Spot but thought it was a myth. After reading from your site I see I was wrong. I want to give my wife Max pleasure. If some one could help I would appreciate it.

[The following tutorial will get you started in the right direction. After that, it's best to experiment and most important, get feedback from your sweetie. How To Find Your G-Spot ]

From Lisa
I can only speak for myself but for me what puts me over the top is a well-timed increase in speed and force. The right position also helps. The best way I've found is for me to lay on my stomach with my husband on top of me from behind. He'll locate my G-spot, and spend some time just sliding his cock over it until it gets swelled and sensitive. Then, when I'm at that point, he lifts his body above me and starts hitting my G-spot directly, thrusting down quickly and hard. This gets me there every time. And the great thing for me about G-spot orgasms is I can have multiples fairly easily. Once I've had an orgasm we just start the process over again!

I can also be brought to a G-spot orgasm with manual stimulation but that's a little bit harder for me (it might be easier for some people). But then it's still the same pattern that gets me there - gently stimulation until I'm primed and sensitive, then firm, rapid stimulation to make me come.


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