The G-Spot & Clit Stimulation

An Orgasmic Combo

I have a question about the G-spot, ladies (and gentlemen, if you think you can contribute). After much exploration (read 34 years) I have finally isolated my wife's G-spot. The search was fun, but she seems to be enjoying the fruits of the search even more...up to a point. She said, "that feels great, but I don't know what to do with it..."

I know not every woman ejaculates from g-spot stimulation but it seems from what I have read here and elsewhere that with or without ejaculation there is an orgasmic response that she seems to be missing.

So, the question is, what puts you (or your lover) over the top for a g-spot orgasm? Is it a change in speed or pressure, just more of whatever seems to be working (i.e. firm, regular stroking), clitoral stimulation in addition to G-spot? Is there something that she needs to do to trigger this phenomenon?  —Slohand

For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time. —IsabelAllende

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From fit2betied
I am no expert, but I spent many of my younger years learning about the female body and the magic they hold!  I have had several girls have squirting orgasms as we got busy, with the normal "I think I have to pee" excuse.  If you work past that you will be so surprised. Its the key that youre on the right track. 

As you have read everyones different and there are a lot of ways to activate the G Spot.

Patience is the biggest key, being super horny or properly aroused is another helping factor.  I had been trying to show my wife that she too could have G Spot orgasms, but it eluded us for years. One day after weeks of being too busy to be together we both took the time to release some pent up energy and make love.  After going down on her and getting her warmed up and really wet, I brought out a small hand vibrator and began using it on her clit, and using my fingers inside her, soon she was building up to a huge orgasm, she made her peak and started shooting juices from her pussy and soaked the bed and my hand! This was so fantastic she just kept coming and squirting.

She was so thrilled and we have been trying to recreate that moment ever since.  It will work but you have to enjoy the journey as well.  Keep trying and you will find it!  I can't wait for it to become a normal part of our lovemaking as I love to enjoy her juicy wetness!

From Anonymous
I have always been a clit girl..very orgasmic but requiring direct clitoral stimulation and only ever coming via intercourse with simultaneous clit stimulation by hand. Recently, at 43 and w/o a partner, I have discovered that I CAN orgasm without that stimulation, using a dildo while masturbating. (something that has, until I accidentally discovered this new sensation, never done a thing for me. I enjoyed penetration, but it never got me off in and of itself)

Seems the angle is key, an upward curve/angle that strokes that area directly, and also the pace (fast and steady and fairly hard). Only takes a minute for me to come this way, about the same time as with direct clit stimulation, and it's very satisfying but also very different in quality from a clitoral orgasm..not as sharp or intense, much slower and softer in feel, I guess. But it IS an orgasm..my vagina spasms many times just as it does with a clit come and I feel extremely satiated afterwards. No squirting to date.

From what I have gathered on this subject, the clitoris is actually about as long as the average penis, but the shaft is internal, buried in the upper wall of the vagina with only the head poking out. So "g-spot" orgasms ARE actually clitoral in nature..maybe the difference is akin to stimulation of the shaft of the penis vs direct stimulation of the head? (not having a penis myself, this is my best guess). I look forward to eventually exploring this new found ability of mine with a partner! Meanwhile, I am enjoying discovering exactly what angle and pace I need to bring this off!

From Denise
About a year ago I was playing with my clit and had such high that I know I have never had before.  It took me what seemed to be forever to finally have an orgasm but when I did I squirted - not much but it was the first time I had ever experienced it.  It was awesome...I just wish I could remember what I did.  I have never had my g-spot played with but I have tried to touch it myself.  My partner doesn't have long enough fingers to reach it.  I will continue to try though.

From Lore A
It's so interesting to read all you Participants and my conclusion is that we had to be different because the way of stimulation seems individual. I still haven't found my G-Spot at least not inside my vagina. When I insert things or even tried real cocks it doesn't do anything to me. But my clitoris is oversized and needs and likes stimuli. And the best of way to have those incredible orgasms is to jerk it.

And my anus is really sensitive and its very very good to insert things there.

I have tried to fuck with my oversized clit. But even if it is big it's still too short for another women's vagina is too wide, but to fuck a girl's anus is for me a heavenly experience because I prefer women before guys and it works and I can even have orgasms that way. Weird but heaven!

If anything is weird in love matters, I don't know. 

From Chemistry
I have two prospective:  G-Spot is for the meat. Clit Stimulation is for your grind. Grind the clit during penetration or while sucking her breast. And dude while sucking her breast and grinding her clit, naked or not it feels good to flow with her and let that meat right and cum with her... Man believe me, that's a good damn cum.

From Ginger Anne
I have discovered my g-spot on my own via masturbation and have "squirt" many times. Don't get me wrong, I  love watching myself gush! It's so hot to see! But I actually prefer the clitoral orgasms so far. Maybe when I finally get the chance to explore this with a partner, I will change my mind.

From Mister C
Every woman deserves to experience the ultimate climax via the G-Spot and to have her clit licked, kissed and sucked. Any man who is not will to give a woman this gift needs to have his head examined and go back to the drawing board when it comes to sex.

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