The G-Spot & The Clit
An Orgasmic Combo

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From Susie
I discovered G-Spot orgasms when I was in my 30's. At first, I wasn't sure that's what it was because it is different from a clit orgasm. But with time and lots of practice, I can now achieve a G-Spot orgasm with just about anything. My preference for a quickie is my husband's fingers. He can come up behind me while I'm doing dishes, stick his fingers in and send me flying.

While I enjoy sex almost anyway, G-Spot orgasms are a quick way for me to instantly be interested. They also keep going. I don't feel a beginning and an end with them. I could keep going all night and not feel like it was time to stop.

Yes, clit orgasms are great. G-Spots are too, they're just different.

From Meri
I've been having g-spot orgasms for quite a while and mine, as I've seen indicated by other women, easily doubles in size with any kind of sexual stimulation, so it's impossible to miss. It's definitely hard to do manually by myself, because my fingers just aren't long enough to get the job done. I find the best kind of manual stimulation with a partner is with him sitting in front of me (ie sitting between my legs) and sliding two fingers in, curved up, then building speed with an in and out motion. 

During sex, it seem to be best if done from behind, or missionary with my legs up, over his shoulders, or with my butt lifted. I hear a lot of women say they can only have a g- spot orgasm when they're on top, but I find I have to lean really far back and it's tough to get the hard and fast thing going that way. 

Overall, g-spot orgasms are so rapid (immediate and ongoing as long as the stimulation continues) for me, that if I had no clit stimulation at all, I would still be totally satisfied. On a related note, I don't believe it is necessary to see a woman ejaculate fluid to be convinced that a g-spot orgasm has occurred. I've never actually ejaculated and I can feel them in every nerve ending in my body. At any rate, I'm sure your wife won't mind if you keep trying!

From Carla
I once met a man who had diabetes, which prevented his penis getting hard enough to fuck. But, he had found the secret of stimulating the gspot with his hand. I swear, I had never come so hard in my life! Squirting across the room scared me, till he explained it was a normal reaction. 

I immediately fell in love with this man! Or was it what he'd done to awaken my body? Anyway, we only saw each other once after that, and the explosion didn't happen again, which was an extreme disappointment. I think internally, I realized I was not physically attracted to him to continue the relationship. But, I will never forget my 'first' time. 

I have, however found a lover who stimulates my 'spot'. He loves for me to sit on him, facing him, he clenches his dick and makes me ride it hard, until my gspot screams for relief! All the while he encourages me to 'squeeze it out'...awesome!

From Tamara
I have had several sexual partners, but the one I'm with now is the only one who has been able to give me a G-spot orgasm. We discovered it by accident one night, but I knew exactly what it was because I've heard so many people talk about how it feels (urge to urinate, bear down, etc). And now I have them every time we have sex. 

I find that the best position is with him on top, and my legs wrapped around his waist. If he comes down really close, so that our chests almost touch, and thrusts really fast and deep, the pleasure builds really fast. So then I raise my hips towards him, and I can have g-spot orgasms that seem to last forever. Try it - it works for us every time!

From Vic Secret
I have had a couple of orgasm from that lovely spot! I have an awesome vibrator, and I sit in a chair upright and put the revolving dildo in me, with the clitoral vibrator on my clit. It's awkward, but holy crap...I gush with wetness! The dildo spins around in me hitting the "spot". Now remember I am sitting up, with a little slouch, and I put the vibrators base on the chair so my hands are free so it is basically in an upright position, and well u need to try it! WOW! Toys are great "cummers" for the g'spot!

From Anonymous
My husband and I recently discovered the joy of Gspot play. He will usually give me one or two clitoral orgasms, then when I'm good and "ready", he'll spread my legs, sit in front of me, insert two fingers and play, play, play. 

He'll stroke and press my gspot until it responds by swelling and filling with fluid, this feels so good, the orgasms from this feel like waves of pleasure just washing over me, non-stop, I'm literally in another dimension and can't think about anything except the intense pleasure he is bringing me. 

My gspot literally doubles in size from the swelling of fluid, and gets so sopping that he just needs to intensely thrust against it with his fingers and I spray all over him, this drives him wild. This can sometimes take up to 1/2 hour or so, but it is so worth it. It takes time, love, a man that knows what he's doing, but if you can manage to have a gspot orgasm, you're blessed.

From Nica
I find that the G-Spot orgasm takes forever to achieve. As I can achieve a clitoral orgasm in 2 minutes, the G-Spot one maybe take 10. I only have gotten it twice, but I must admit, I haven't tried all that often. Why not? Because it takes very much energy, time, and wrist muscles. The orgasm is great though, I haven't yet found very many differences with the clitoris one, though the pussy convulses and tightens and releases much more fluids. How a guy could take the time to do this for me, it is amazing.

From Ninad
my experience with my girlfriend clearly shows that there is only clitoral orgasm. In the last 3 years that we are together, I have been able to give her a g spot orgasm only once. I clearly remember it. We had gone on a romantic getaway.

That night I had managed to build up the tempo really well. I was doing everything possible with my tongue around her pussy. After maybe 30 minutes, I managed to insert almost the whole of my tongue inside her opening and then gave her some powerful thrusts all the time ensuring that there was no contact with the clit. After maybe a about 40-50 thrusts, she came .That's an understatement. she really orgasmed very hard. Since I hadn't touched her clit, I think it was tongue having its magic on the roof of her vagina where I believe the g spot is located.

After that night, I tried this with her several times, but no luck. We still have great sex, but it's always the clitoris that gets her going now.

Can anybody out there relate to my experience ? Please do write back as I honestly want to give her a g spot orgasm again (not that she is bored with clitoris orgasms).

From Anonymous
I am very lucky to have a lover who pays extra attention to my clitoris and g- spot giving me an increasingly strong series of orgasm.. With clitoral orgasms the focus of sensation is definitely in my clit and I can keep having them all night as opposed to a vaginal orgasm which tends to finish me off.

We ran into an article somewhere several years ago about the clitoris and how most of it is inside you. For me the G-spot seems to be the inside end of my clitoral shaft. When my partner stimulates this area while sucking the exposed part of my clit it seems like he is working the whole length of my clitoris. It drives my to multiple orgasms. It seems analogous to giving a man a blow job by sucking the head of his cock and the top of the shaft, while working the base of his cock with my hand.

In fact sometimes I ask my lover to suck deeply down on the base of my clitoris and find that I respond by sucking at the base of his cock at the same time. It certainly seems like we are feeling the same thing!

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