The G-Spot & The Clit
An Orgasmic Combo

G-spots, and clits, and nipples - oh my!

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From Dave O
I love to pleasure my girlfriend orally before I even consider intercourse. I begin with cuddling, kissing, soft talk and eye to eye contact. I then enjoy moving down her chest, touching and sucking her erect nipples and soon begin to slowly tease her by moving my tongue up and down each thigh, coming so close to her magical area yet saving my treat of the taste of her wetness for later. I try to let her senses guide me as I watch her eyes, listen to her sounds and feel her movements.

As her movements and her sounds increase, I slowly let my tongue tease her clitoris, just enough to graze the tip and I wait and then slowly move back into her arms to tell her something special and sometimes we just use non-verbal communication. I want to hold her close.

Then I move downward and begin to very gently at first lick up and down both sides of the labia with just a glancing blow to the clitoris with my tongue. As her wetness increases I begin to treat the clitoris as my object to pleasure; softly and then increasing the pressure of my tongue on it. I try to pluck it from its hood completely with my lips using a sucking motion and slowly move my fingers one at a time to the entrance of her vagina inserting one and then two to satisfy her pleadings by now.

The G-Spot I don't always find the exact spot in her soaked vagina but when I do combined with clitoral stimulation, Kathy can wake the neighbors up, and we live out on a farm. My penis is rather thin so we have discovered, as I am thrusting in her, I can gently slide my middle finger in on top of my penis and then turn my finger upwards as if pulling on the wall of the vagina. I can also ease backwards allowing the increased angle of my penis to increase the pressure on of my finger. Taking my thumb, wet with her juices, I can use whatever motion she prefers to allow her an intense orgasm/s.

Enjoy your evening and pleasure the one your with; not only with your body but with all your senses.

From OTE
My current lover of the last 5 years is the first to allow me to play long enough to find her g-spot. And now there is no going back.

First of all, make sure your fingernails are trimmed short and clean. Plenty of foreplay and some clitoral orgasms will make the search for her g-spot enjoyable for both of you. Her physical pleasure and your ego pleasure. You get to watch her cum.

The g-spot is just inside the front wall of her vagina about an inch or two (depends on the woman). It feels bumply under your fingers.

Before you go sticking any fingers in, grab the lube and get you middle finger nice and slickery. Once you find the bumpy area, use a finger motion that looks like "come here". Her first sensation will be one of pressure like she needs to go to the bathroom (good idea to go to the bathroom beforehand so she'll know it isn't that need). Continued motion will soon take her out between the stars to dance in the ballroom of the gods.

Once her orgasm starts, you can keep her going for a long time with wave after wave of orgasms.

Another neat method is to perform oral sex from the side and with your lubed finger stroke her g-spot at the same time. When you need a breather, just raise your head away to watch her cum and rotate your thumb to make contact with her clitty which should already be slicked up with lube. By now, you can use your middle finger or two like your penis and thrust. Each time letting your thumb either bump against her clit or rub along side it.

Sometimes the woman will squirt (occasionally several feet) and other times just a steady ooze that gets the bed wet. It doesn't smell or taste to any degree unless she has a yeast infection in which case you may have been the cause with unclean fingers. Both of you get treated for the yeast infection.

If you will keep it up long enough (several minutes), she will beg you to stick your dick in. Now it gets real interesting. Once a woman has had several orgasms, her PC muscles will make her have vaginal contractions with every orgasm. The orgasms can and do happen at several per minute. With a lots of experience, these contractions will become so tight that it feels like your dick is caught in a tightly closed, hot and incredibly slick fist.

For actual penetration, we use a Wedge from Liberator.com and her favorite position and a fave of mine is the plow. Male superior with her legs together and supported by my shoulder. This allows the head of my dick to smack against her g-spot with every thrust. Another position with this Wedge is doggy style with her legs together and between her man's. Again there is the rubbing across her g-spot. In either position, you can modify the position to allow you to separate her legs and then use your lubed fingers or thumb to rub alongside her clitty. Another technique is to use your fingers to tap on her clit with each thrust.

Yes I'm totally spoiled now and so is she. There is no going back to just sex. The key to always having an eager sex partner is to be the absolute best she could ever imagine. Then practice, practice, practice to become better.

From Alchemist
I'm addressing the question Slohand had about his wife. One of the things I've found with my GF is that she needs to be aroused sufficiently and building erotic tension before beginning g-spot stimulation.

I find that it is good to start with a sensual massage increasing whole body arousal gradually moving into stroking the upper thighs and yoni increasing erotic tension. It's important to build a good strong base. As arousal grows stroke the inner labia and clitoris, again building the tension. Don't move too fast to clitoral orgasm. Bring her to the edge and back off a number of times, then start working the massage into the yoni, stroking all the various areas. I have found that there are often several very sensitive areas along a whole crest. Different little areas "popup" that will be very arousing. Keep building erotic tension. Some spots are best lightly stroked, others stimulate with pressure. At some point there is often a sudden urge to urinate from stimulating these points. If that is followed and the stimulation on the g-spot area(s) is maintained the orgasm follows.

Now I find it very effective to alternate attention between the clitoris and the g-spot. If she starts to orgasm on clitoral stimulation, keep that going with a very light touch until it either runs out of steam or her clit becomes too sensitive. At that point turn your attention back to the g-spot. Often at that point she will suddenly have a g-spot orgasm. And we go through multiple cycles of orgasms, using everything from fingers to tongue and lips to penis. At a certain point she starts cycling though multiple stages of orgasm with different muscle groups doing various things; ie tenting, clenching, push-outs.

There is a sequence of different fluids. First there is a really slippery thin liquid. Then surges of a thicker lubricating liquid, then a surge of watery non-lubricating sweet (flavored like honey or maple syrup) from multiple outlets within the vagina simultaneously and NOT from the urethra even though it comes with the urge to pee and all characteristics of g-spot orgasms. She doesn't squirt but she sure does flood. A lot of fluid is released over the course of several hours.

In any case, building to a sufficiently high base before you do the gspot massage can help.

From Cathy
I'm one of those very lucky woman. I can come from a variety of things that have nothing to do with body parts. But between the g-spot & my clit I can't decide which is better. They both have different levels and it's up to me a lot of the time on where I want it to go. The bad thing is I can't do the g-spot to myself though I've taught it for others to do to me.

I think that the intensity of the g-spot is stronger especially upon the release of fluid. It's almost like an itch that you can't scratch but you just Have to. My clit I can have small controllable orgasms building up until I can't breath. I have passed out. It's finding a suitable partner for all this playing around that's hard because some men are threatened by this. Right now I'm alone and though I do masturbate I enjoy sharing this part of my life with someone.

From Sue
I have read so much about the G spot, in magazines online etc. But I don't know where it is exactly and how my husband can trigger it. I think clitoris is highly sensitive and I get my high through it but I would like to be put on the path of discovery of the G Spot, so do tell how.

From Dick
My wife seems to love it when I fuck her "froggy style" (from behind, only crouching on flat feet, not kneeling). This would seem to put penile pressure on her G-spot, as I'm thrusting vigorously against her "forward" wall.

She seems to concentrate more on her clit when she masturbates, though.

Hope this helps some...

From Ann 
Who needs what varies, but with most women, the clitoris is it. That's the most sensitive part of our anatomy. However, combining clitoral stimulation with other things will send at least me into orbit. It makes everything better, like an amplifier, as well as being interesting in and of itself. So if G-spot stimulation is almost but not quite enough, pay a bit of attention to her clit. One will get you ten that you'll have to scrape her off the ceiling when you're done.

From Meghann Esoteromuss
In my experience, what pleases me the most is clitoral stimulation in addition to the G-spot. However, from what I have heard, not many women respond to the G-spot alone. I guess I would be one of them because unless I am receiving clitoral stimulation, I cannot achieve an orgasm.

From Kassandra
Normally the only way I can achieve orgasm is through clitoral stimulation but I have found that if I'm receiving clitoral stimulation and G-spot stimulation at the same time, once I orgasm, if the clitoral stimulation is stopped, I can continue with multiple orgasms on the G-spot alone. The motion would be continued stroking/rubbing/pressure on the G-spot area. I hope that makes sense?

From Crystal
I've been out of pocket for several days, but wanted to respond to this. For me personally, I used to think that clitoral stimulation was the only way that I could have an orgasm. But after trying different things, I've discovered that I can have an orgasm from my g-spot, direct clitoral stimulation, nipple stimulation and having my neck bitten. I love a combination of clitoral stimulation and g-spot stimulation. But after I have an orgasm, my clitoris is very very sensitive and I actually prefer having an orgasm from g-spot stimulation because I can come over and over. For one thing, it seems to last longer and it's almost like having a continuous orgasm from one to the next.

From Julia
A couple of good stand-by books that you might find helpful, both with chapters dedicated to G-spot exploration, are "Pucker Up" by Tristan Taormino (available at Amazon.com and Amazon UK) and The Good Vibrations Guide to Sex. (available at Amazon.com and Amazon UK).

Every woman's sexual response is different. Some women come solely from G-spot stimulation, some like to mix in sometimes, some are indifferent, some absolutely hate it. Personally, G-spot stimulation worked in with oral sex is my sexual caviar. And I like caviar...

If your partner enjoys how it feels but doesn't feel G-spot stimulation is leading toward orgasm, you might want to add in clitoral stimulation or whatever else normally gets her off and give her a few orgasms with the added sensation. Then experiment from that point forward.

Good luck! Getting there is definitely at least half the fun.

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