Erotica Readers & Writers Association
Home | Erotic Books | Authors Resources | Inside The Erotic Mind | Erotica Gallery
Adult Movies | Sex Toys | Erotic Music | Email Discussion List | Links

Inside the Erotic Mind

Current Affairs

Spicy Sex!
Altoids, schnopps, chili?

On-Going Forums


Blasphemous Fantasies
Why are they so titillating?

Could You, Would You?
3 fantasies to try on

Forced Fantasies
Right or wrong?

Men's Fantasies
Men dare to reveal

Women's Fantasies
Women dare to share

Your Fantasy 3some


Masturbation Memories
First experiences

Private Moments Masturbation
The secret to happy monogamy?

Your Masturbation Aid
Books, videos, toys...?

Taking Care of Business
On the sly...or so you think

Oral Pleasures

Oral Sex for Her
Talk with your tongue

Oral Sex for Him
How to blow his mind

Swallow or Spit
What's a person to do?

The Taste of Cum
Yummy or icky?

Orgasmic Pleasures

Cum Shots
Cupid's liquid darts

Faking It
Why the deception?

Harnesses & Dildos...Oh My!
Pegging your partner

Oral Sex or Intercourse?
What is your preference

Keeping Abreast..

Breasts & Nipples
Do they drive you wild?

Erotic Lactation
Your thoughts?

Male Nipple Play
Men, are you into it?

Relationship Woes

Browsing for Cupid
Online love or heartache?

Why Do People Cheat?
Is the grass really greener?

The Daily Grind

Horny at Work
What's a person to do...

Swing Clubs
What goes on at these places?

Kiss...and Tell Us
Was it passionate or unpleasant?

When you kiss someone, really kiss someone, it can be glorious, or awful. Tell us about your experiences with kisses—the passionate ones that ignite your libido, and the odious ones that smother desire.

I've kissed so many women I can do it with my eyes closed. —Henry Youngman

Explore passion and lust...

Adult DVD Empire is a one-stop-shop for all your movie and sex toy needs. Under one virtual roof you'll find the latest and the greatest in adult movies that you can buy, rent, download-to-own, or watch VOD. At Adult DVD Empire you get the best in adult products, and free shipping. For ERWA adult movie recommendations, read the Best in Adult Movies.

Adult FriendFinder - Find dates, romance, friends with benefits at AdultFriendFinder, the largest adult social network website in the world. Launched in 1996, Adult FriendFinder has helped millions of adults meet through online chat, chatrooms, sex cams, member blogs, groups and email. There's an entire community of adult activity where anything can happen— meet your soulmate, turn your fantasies into reality at Adult FriendFinder.

Amazon Kindle

From Audra
Overall, my kissing experiences in my life haven't been fantastic; I've only had one partner that really knocked my socks off when he kissed me. He had a habit of biting and sucking on my lower lip--a lot--when we kissed. Oh. My. God. I swear I could've kissed the man all day, every day, and never would've complained. He never failed to get me all hot and bothered from just one kiss. After him, the rest were just...blah, compared to that.

From Shep
Now this is a topic to brighten up a gloomy overcast NY day. I suppose I have been lucky in that most of the people I have kissed were at least good kissers, but most of the people I have kissed have been women. The worst kissers were a couple of guys, but don't know if it had more to do with the whole "I am a lesbian and like women" than the fact that they were just bad kissers. I did find that women would spend much more time enjoying kissing than men did.

As sexy as a great kiss is, I must admit I think I find even sexier that moment right before the kiss when the passion, hunger and need have built up. Those few seconds before the lips meet are heaven.

From Dina
On the sweet subject of the kiss, I always remember Kevin Costner's line in Bull Durham about how he likes to play baseball and how he likes long, slow, deep, wet kisses that last 3 weeks—and all that Susan Sarandon's character can say in reply is 'oh my!'. Oh my indeed! A kiss is a prelude to what happens next—a good kiss, a great kiss can lead almost anywhere (from the lips down to the hips and then some!) Ah yes! There ain't nothing like it!

From lady j
I once kissed a guy who's kisses were so bad, it was like kissing a pair of cardboard lips. Not a turn-on. I also kissed a guy who slobbered like a Saint Bernard. Also not a turn on. You can go to Youtube & see videos on proper kissing techniques. I like it soft, gentle with just enough moisture to keep from getting dry mouth. As I get into it, deepen the kiss & eventually tongue. What I hate is when my tongue gets sucked on or the porn kisses where they stick their tongues out & just roll them around or lick at each other.

From Bob
Kissing! Kissing is better than fucking. Cripes, is that the sound of a hundred jaws dropping? I will endeavor to explain myself. Kissing is the most intimate sexual act. Everything begins or ends with that kiss. Everything that follows is lust and desire, but a kiss is magic. I'll wager more people recall their first kiss more fondly than their first fuck.

A kiss - and I'm talking as a guy - is the moment when you lean into the wind, stick your neck out, and expose your heart to all the possibilities, which of course have to include rejection and disappointment. So you can't start with a Rhett-and-Scarlett lip-crusher. Uh-uh. You are tentative at first, just a brush of your lips to hers. If she doesn't tighten her jaw, or worse, turn away, you're okay. Better even if she parts her lips just a bit. So now you plant a gentle kiss to her lips, you feel her respond. Your arms close around her waist, and you venture a little lip nibble. Keep your tongue to yourself (learned that early on). Perhaps she'll trace the rim of your lips with the tip of her tongue. Now she's given you permission for both your tongues to make their acquaintance.

BTW, you're in heaven at this point. You ain't thinking about anything. And, while tongues are fun to play with, it's those devouring lip kisses that ignite the fires that will lead to inspired sex. And don't forget ... a kiss (and I'll toss nibbles into the mix) can go anywhere. They can travel along an elegant neck, tease a pretty earlobe, trail homage from her tailbone to the nape of her neck and back again. A kiss can anoint an ankle, and tickle a thigh. Ahh, kissing. Gawd, I love kissing.

Page:   1  |  2  |  3  |  4

Participation Link

Interested in this topic? Share your thoughts with us.

Bright Desires

  E-mail this page

Search ERWA Website:

Copyright 1996 and on, Erotica Readers Association, Inc.
All Rights Reserved World Wide. Reproduction in whole or in part in any form or
medium without express written permission is prohibited.

Down There Fare

Big Clits vs Small Clits
Size determines pleasure?

Clit Notes
Playing It Her Way

Designa Vagina
Lips to die for...

Female Ejaculation
Penis envy or truth?

The Scent of a Woman
Is it hot, or not?

Talking Heads

Big Dicks vs Foreplay
Which do you prefer?

Cock Rings
Torture or pleasure?

Foreskin: Hot or Not?
What is your preference...

How do you handle it?

The Scent of a Man
Is it hot, or not?

Delectable Derrières

Anal Sex
So what's the big deal?

Anal Sex for Straight Men
A penetrating question

Luscious Backsides
Do they incite you?

Sexy Turn-Ons...or Offs

Is pain your pleasure?

Cybersex Experiences
Satisfying or devastating?

Kiss...and Tell Us
Passionate or unpleasant?

Naughty Pictures or Words
What turns you on?

Same-Sex Curiosity
Would you...did you?

Sympathy Fuck
Nasty or Noble?

Porny Problems

Porn & Relationships
Hot or not?

Porn for Women
Is there such a thing?

When Porn Isn't Sexy
What are they doing wrong?

Body Talk

Bare with Me
Is nudity your thing?

Bush or Bare
Your preference is...

Hot in High Heels
Is it worth the pain?

Name Your Dingle
We won't laugh...

Inquiring Minds

Age and Sex
Like fine wine or vinegar?

Losing Your Virginity
Fiction versus reality

Sexy Mainstream Movies
Your favorite sultry scenes?

Women: During The Act
What do you think about?

Men: During The Act
What do you think about?

What do Women Want's not size

What do Men Want rhymes with 'vex'