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From TL
Am I the only one who doesn't like kissing? Maybe so. It just makes me impatient. People take it so seriously, too, like it's an audition for fucking.

Fom D.L. Tash
Great kissing, in my opinion, is a sure sign of a great lover. Taking time, teasing, playing, slowly becoming more involved, more intimate a kiss is a microcosm of this person's way of approaching sex. Kissing can be an art form in itself awakening one another's mind and body until every touch is electric, every movement almost painful in its intensity. Then, finally, the transition from that intimacy to others... At least, that's my idea of a great kiss.

From Sword
I love the kiss that shoots electrons right into my cock as it makes it hard. I don't get that sensation from everyone I kiss, just a selected few. I love the sensuality of the foreplay kiss, not just sexual, but also sensual. The teasing, the tempting. The gentle kiss on the nape of the neck, the one that reminds us, that this is one of the best parts of being a human...a man...a woman or both.

When a woman kisses me just so, I can just imagine the feel if my lips were the labia of a woman...and it makes me gasp! In wonder! And you can't help but lose your thoughts, other than This is right! The best word that comes to mine is exquisite. Did you almost just feel that right now? With me. Me too. Who brought this up? Good work. 

From Tessa
My husband used to laugh about our first date. He wondered if I would kiss him, and he leaned hopefully in my direction. I almost broke his nose meeting him half- way! We were together 34 years. We dated 4 years before we married (we wanted to finish college). There was a lot of good kissing in those 4 years. We had 29 years and 10 months of marriage when he died this past summer. He had never been sick, so when he was diagnosed with cancer in April, it was a shock.

Going to grief support groups and reading about grief, I have yet to see any mention of the loss of physical contact. I'm 52 years old, and I miss sex! But most of all, I miss those heavenly deep kisses that would take my breath away, the ones I could feel through my whole body. He was a wonderful kisser, and they seemed to get better every year. If I want to go out to dinner I can call a friend. People have been wonderful helping me out since he died. But the one void they can't fill is the kisses. I always wondered before how someone could rush into a new relationship after losing a spouse, but now I know. I was spoiled before and didn't realize it.

From Justin
I recently had a first kiss with the young lady I am dating. I know that the first kiss is the defining moment that tells me if there is any future for the relationship. Well, if there is anything more sensually stimulating than that kiss, I haven't experienced it. I loved the feeling of her lips on mine, and even more the chills I was getting and feeling her shake made this kiss the most sensual kiss ever. So, yes, a kiss can be and is one of the most satisfying feelings in the world and anticipating one is just as exciting.

From Christine
Interesting questions. I had one kiss where I felt my knees go weak, and I stopped it to suggest sitting down, at which point I was rewarded with him telling me he would hold me up. That one kiss, where my knees went weak, did not happen in the beginning of the relationship. It was after a couple of years of being with that person. So, I do not see that the really good ones come only at the beginning. I also want to say that it all depends on each person. I mean, many do not care about kissing. They see it as a means to an end kind of thing. These people do not get very far with me.

From Vi
My husband is not much of a kisser, but whenever he puts his lips to my lips or his lips to my ear I'm gone, lost. So yes I guess it does do it for me (at least one of the things).

From Blix
It's been a while, but I still remember how to ride a bike too. I feel that if and when you kiss a potential sex partner, you are given lots of information about how that person makes love. Wet and sloppy? Prissy and thin- lipped (bet that one isn't going down)? Bitey and ultra-physical? Sensual and slow?

And I think, based on that kiss, we decide if we want to make love or not. Once I made that decision, and it was only "yes" if he or she was a good lover (because sex is like tennis -- you should only play with those who are as good or better than you are), then the kissing was less about advertising and more about reinforcement and that "added value."

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