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From Paige
I'm a bi-sexual female in her late 30s, presently unattached. I love kissing so very much, mere words can't describe it. I've had much more satisfying experiences kissing women than kissing men. I like really wet, sloppy kisses with lots of tongue and lots of saliva.

From Doug
I am not at all into kissing.  My wife of several decades wanted more kissing but I just couldn't stand how her mouth smelled and tasted.  There wasn't anything wrong that she ever found; no gum disease or poor hygiene or anything. It seemed to be her body chemistry. It is the same today as it was 45 years ago.

I'm very sensitive to poor oral hygiene. I can smell a person who doesn't floss daily when I walk in their house.  I have trouble being within 20 feet and talking to many people.  My partner now doesn't really care for kissing either so it isn't anything I've had much practice at and didn't learn to enjoy it.  With the odor and taste I mostly don't even have any desire to get that close in that way.  A "yuck" reaction isn't a turn on to anybody.

From Veronica
I find mouth-on-mouth kissing absolutely revolting.  I don't like to watch it and I do not do it.  The feeling of lips-against-lips completely creeps me out.  Maybe I have some sort of sensory disorder, but this has always been my feeling and no one has been able to change my mind yet!

It's awkward to explain this to someone when a physical relationship commences, but I do tell them that I don't like mouth kissing and that I refuse to do it.  There are workarounds--there are lots of other places I like to kiss and be kissed--but it definitely throws people off.  I've read entire books about the purposes of kissing and I get the everyone else finds it important, but I just don't want to do it because I find it quite the opposite of pleasurable.

From Kat
My fianc´┐Że and I have been together about a year. He calls himself a Neanderthal, and he's not entirely wrong; he isn't romantic in the faintest. He's sweet, considerate, and protective and I love him with all my heart, but if a moment begins to get slightly romantic, he somehow ruins it. His version of foreplay is saying "lets f****" or "I'm horny, you wanna do something about it?" 

If I mention, "I'm horny" he'll just smile and ask me how long I've been on this site that day (we always end up messing around after I'm on here). Sometimes he'll tell me later. But if I'm really serious about wanting sex, I just walk over, bend down and give him a long, passionate kiss. No tongue, and bite on his lower lip. Sometimes I throw in a little moan while I do it...anyway, one kiss and he's hard. It's the closest thing to foreplay I get.

From Roxanne
I love kissing. It gets me hot faster than anything. It takes me back to a more innocent time when kissing was all I could do, so I had to make the most of it. And, a man whose tongue is good to your mouth is likely to know how to use his tongue in other places. Plus, it takes a real gentle and romantic lover to indulge in kissing and not take a shortcut to intercourse. I like to start with kissing and work up to the other sexual acts.

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