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Senior personals

From Teri
Yes it does get the libido going!  That is what passionate kissing is all about and if you are going to indulge then follow through!  Luckily I have a kinky husband who likes his wife being fucked by other men.  When I commit to passionate kissing it is with the aim of screwing the guy, with or without hubby's participation, always with his OK.  If I ever kissed a guy with tongues and then left him high and dry, I'd be a #1 prick teaser and should be banned.

From Anonymous
I recently had one of the most intense sexual experiences of my life, and all we did was kiss for what seemed like hours.  We kissed so much that my lips were numb and swollen but I felt so fabulous.  I was on a real high.  I actually felt intoxicated but I hadn't been drinking.  It was good stuff!!  I haven't been able to stop thinking about it since. 

From Jane Lane
Kissing is one of the most intimate and erotic things that two people can share without making love. You can chart need and desire all on the intensity, the softness of their lips and how the kiss makes you feel. Kissing energizes me, I can tell how much a man wants me from his kiss, if you come up for air, and then go back down for a bit more, its like climbing the steps to passion. Kissing passionately stimulates the body and mind. such exchanges of intimacy are very private, but a public show can be very very arousing. I've always found that if I go without kisses, I feel very alone and sad, I could live off of kisses, to a certain degree...

Bad kissers are the ones that slobber all over you- whose tongue wriggles inside of you like a fish out of water.

From Helena Settimana
I love kissing. I miss kissing. I would have a fling for the kissing. Honest and true. Kissing is the biggest, the best, turn-on for me - if it's done in a way that 'works' for me. Unfortunately the last two significant men in my life were not great kissers - this includes my S.O. But he has compensations. (smile). If you're into face-licking, he's your man. We don't kiss - better to stay right away from that. The guy before him wouldn't kiss at all - his standard, there. I think it was a cultural thing - you kiss your wife but fuck anything that moves. Go figure. Wouldn't want to give the impression he was attached to me.

But seriously, the turn on is in more than the kiss itself, it's in the anticipation of it, the delivery, the execution...

Unlike Anonymous, [see entry below] I've found the best kissers I've known have typically been the best company in bed, unafraid to use their talented mouths in many and varied ways. Often it's a compensation for an otherwise short fuse, but boy, what a compensation. Kiss me, (do it right) - I'm yours...lol

From Anonymous
Kissing seems to be a very emotionally-charged activity for me. I find that my enjoyment of kissing slides on scale depending how excited I am by the man kissing me. This is true whether he's a great kisser, or just a mediocre one. How I feel about him influences how well I'll enjoy kissing him, in other words.

I've only ever experienced one truly BAD kisser. Kissing him was like kissing a goldfish...you know the way they move their mouths as they swim around...that's how he moved his lips when he kissed me. We'd only had a few dates, and his bad kissing was the reason I chose not to go out with him again. I had begun to doubt it would work out anyway, so that was the final straw.

I'm not sure if you can reliably judge how good a lover will be by his kisses. The man I'm seeing right now is a very good kisser, technically, but his lovemaking is mediocre. He uses kissing as an opening move to get to the other stuff, and once he gets to the other stuff, the kissing stops. I don't think he'll last long.

From cl
There is something about the closeness experienced with kissing that drives me wild.  It's like I want to take the man inside me.  When his tongue thrusts in my mouth, it's like his cock is thrusting its way through my swollen lips and filling up my vagina.  When the kissing is combined with touching my hair and face and neck, OMG, there is nothing like this to set me off.  I can feel myself getting wet and I want to rip off my clothes and sit on his lap and force him to fuck me.

From Anonymous
Where are all you guys and girls who want some passionate kissing?  I too am married and now starved for kissing as my husband no longer wants to take the time or energy for something that drives me absolutely wild!

We need to have a signal to others that says "are you up for some kissing?"  Any ideas? Maybe we could start something here, sort of like the Larry Craig bathroom routine.  ;)

From Anonymous
I love kissing. So intimate and such a huge turn-on! My long-time partner used to be an incredible kisser...we would kiss for hours, literally, when we were dating, to the point my lips were swollen the next day. I love it! So did he! Until recently, we kissed regularly, not as much, but still, when we did, wonderful...such passion and love goes into a good kiss.

Now, he doesn't care for it. He "pecks", little dry kisses, and get's annoyed when I try to initiate more. No, I don't have bad breath and I don't try to ram my tongue down his throat. I enjoy some tongue contact, but mainly just lips and a little tongue. Mainly the tenderness and time that goes into it. Apparently too much to ask.

We still have great sex (if it can really be considered great sex minus the kissing, which I am not so sure about). He told me a while back, when I tried to draw him into a "real" kiss and he pulled away, "I just don't enjoy french kissing like I used to." HELLO! There's something in between "french kissing/all-out dueling tongues" and a dry, perfunctory peck. Not according to him, I guess. Not anymore.

I miss it. Very much. It makes me feel unloved and sad. Makes me long for someone who will kiss me again. Sure, he'll go down on me for as long as I desire, kiss me elsewhere, but it's not the same without that slow, sensuous, "I love you and want you so much" mouth kissing. I don't know if it is some subconscious, passive-aggressive thing, that he doesn't love me as he used to or what.

I'm glad to hear there are those in long-term relationships who still enjoy kissing. Don't lose it, It matters.

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