Designa Vagina

lips to die for...?

Watched a programme about women who have plastic surgery on their labia: "labiaplasty" (nipping women's genital lips), "vaginal rejuvenation" (tightening the vaginal muscles) and "vaginal reconstruction" (tightening, shaping, sculpting). Now I can understand this being done for comfort/post baby tightenings, but some of these women were having it done for completely cosmetic reasons.

Do they have a fashion parade of pre and post? Open crotch jeans to show off whilst shopping? Question: guys, do you have a preference for size and shape of labia? Would you leap out of bed if they didn't suit you? Tell us please, it's interesting I think. Ladies, would you contemplate this surgery at all? Me?....<shudder> No.  —JoJo

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Editor's note: For an interesting article on this subject, please read Love Your Genitals by Anne Semans

From Anonymous
I'm a 23 yr old girl who has the same insecurities as most girls on this page. I slept with 3 people before my boyfriend. I never really thought of my labia as being different until my boyfriend of 2 years said to me "you have the pussy of a porn star" I wasn't sure how to take that. And then he said "I bet it wasn't like that when you were a virgin." But the truth is, yes it was like that when I was a virgin. I see no change from then to now. 

I think men think you are a slut if you have a large labia, when that has nothing to do with it. Men really need to realize that it doesn't mean we have slept with a lot of people. And to all you girls afraid to have sex. Don't be! Sex is amazing. Tell the guys to take it or leave it. Accept who you are and you will find a guy who will love everything about you. And I'm happy to see plenty of men find it irresistible

From Anonymous
I recently had surgery to reduce the size of my large inner vaginal lips because one side was longer, and it was uncomfortable many times as it chaffed in my underwear. In addition to physical discomfort, I did not like the way my labia looked. Quite frankly they looked ugly to me. Except for when the longer labia got in the way, they didn't really pose a problem. But I was uncomfortable with this part of my body for a long time. I felt different and insecure in this area. 

To make a long story short, I am so much happier now every time I look between my legs and see beautifully shaped, much smaller inner lips. It is a relief from a physical and emotional pain that I lived with every day. I would say surgery is not for everyone, but if you are truly uncomfortable and feel inferior due to large or misshaped inner vaginal lips. I would say don't limit yourself from a fairly simple procedure that can literally change your life. (I say it can change your life because sexuality is so tied up with identity in our culture/world). My one piece of advise is to do your research and find a doctor that has a lot of experience and a good reputation for good results.

From Susan from Canada
I just stumbled upon your website and I am so glad I read it. I too have felt self conscious about my rather 'meaty' labia. After reading your column though, I have to thank your male contributors in particular. The gentlemen who said they were so 'turned on' by very obvious labia and clitoral viewing made me feel that my private parts are indeed very sexy and sought after by more than just a few of the male population.  Personally, I have always loved a man wanting to spread me wide open to get a better view and then taking in a mouthful. It was great to read some of you find it sexy. I will never feel 'less than' ever again.

From Don
Chuckling here. I am blown away by the messages on this string from women indicating that their lips are so big that they are: hard to manage, visible bulges in swim suits or tight pants.

Ladies, if you see that as a problem try managing a full cock and balls. I never even worried about it until I saw those messages. Gad! Should I opt for cockplasty to make it more manageable and less visible? I think not. Gosh I do wish all you women would learn that you are all beautiful just the way you are.

From Sonia
I think a lot of men form these negative views on large female genitalia because they look at too much porn and don't have enough sexual experience. I also think this is probably a view of my generation. Just as small breast were found more attractive during the twenties, etc.

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