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Watched a programme whilst on nights about women who have plastic surgery on their large labia: "labiaplasty" (nipping women's genital lips), "vaginal rejuvenation" (tightening the vaginal muscles) and "vaginal reconstruction" (tightening, shaping, sculpting). Now I can understand this being done for comfort/post baby tightenings, but some of these women were having it done for completely cosmetic reasons.

Do they have a fashion parade of pre and post? Open crotch jeans to show off whilst shopping? Question: guys, do you have a preference for size and shape of labia? Would you leap out of bed if they didn't suit you? Tell us please, it's interesting I think. Ladies, would you contemplate this surgery at all? Me?....<shudder> No.  —JoJo


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Editor's note: For an interesting article on this subject, please read Love Your Genitals by Anne Semans


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From Di'Aire
I'm kind of baffled by some of these messages.  I'm a connoisseur of the female form and I must tell you that there's nothing like a woman who has very prominent labia.

I've seen where women actually get surgery to reduce their labia?  WTF??!!  Why would you do that?  I have nothing against the smaller labia or 'clamshells' as me and a friend refers to them, but there's nothing like large labia that hangs from the vulva.  It's such a turn-on to see an 'expressive' vulva, especially when there's a lot of hair down there.

I'm far more enthusiastic about cunnilingus when the lady I'm with has thick, prominent labia...that's incredibly hot.  You can lick, suck, nibble, stretch...you can do all kinds of things with them.

When they're wet, you can clearly see it.  In panties, big-labia looks a lot hotter because it sticks out....I LOVE IT! 

So ladies, if you have prominent labia, trust me, many of us PREFER and even seek that out.  It's absolutely gorgeous!

From Anonymous
Wow, this is interesting. I am saddened to hear anyone worry that they will not be loved if they are not "perfect" No one is.

I never really thought how different women differ in reference to their genitals. Just thought I was normal. I am a tall/built person (bigger than average women) yet I think I may be very neat and average when it comes to genitals. Boring, even. I don't think they have changed much over the past 15 years. I have only had one partner and had 4 kids.

I think its sad that people are looking to others for approval. Love who you are, you are special and unique.

From Guy
I have had the pleasure of making love with quite a number of lovely ladies, I never saw two vulvas the same . Some vaginas were large, flacid, I hardly touched the sides; some were very tight, one so muscled that she could eject me like a bullet. I love them all big or small, so beautiful. If I was to choose or design; I like to see some lips from the front, parted by a good clitoral shaft.

My wife has an almost invisible tucked away vulva, tiny inside but so pretty and daintily formed. She has suggested having an operation to enlarge her labia. I am not sure whether it is possible to enlarge, rather than trim. In any case I love her how she is and think her tiny secret parts are so beautiful, I wouldn't wish her to change anything. 

From Gourmet Lover
From a man's point of view, and one that has, I hope, pleasured hundreds of ladies, I really would like to reassure the ladies who think they have a problem if their labia are too small or too large. Please, enjoy yourselves no matter what.

No need for hang-ups, you're all unique in many ways and while guys can be less than diplomatic at times, often even, we love vaginas no matter what the decoration.

From Juda
No, I wouldn't touch my labia or any part of my zsu-zsu. After seeing the Vagina Monologues, I began to see things from her perspective. When I saw my first porn vid I went to check myself and decided I'm much prettier than any of those ladies. I also saw an art exhibit where the painter did only vaginas. At that moment I realized we are all different. To the artist, each one of those zsu-zsus were memorable.

Vaginas aren't supposed to look like they came from a factory. Certainly, I understand the need after children and so forth, and can sympathize for reconstruction, but because of fashion? Nah, a vagina's supposed to be one of a kind, not designed for department stores.

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