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Watched a programme about women who have plastic surgery on their labia: "labiaplasty" (nipping women's genital lips), "vaginal rejuvenation" (tightening the vaginal muscles) and "vaginal reconstruction" (tightening, shaping, sculpting). Now I can understand this being done for comfort/post baby tightenings, but some of these women were having it done for completely cosmetic reasons.

Do they have a fashion parade of pre and post? Open crotch jeans to show off whilst shopping? Question: guys, do you have a preference for size and shape of labia? Would you leap out of bed if they didn't suit you? Tell us please, it's interesting I think. Ladies, would you contemplate this surgery at all? Me?....<shudder> No.  �JoJo

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Editor's note: For an interesting article on this subject, please read Love Your Genitals by Anne Semans

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From Jean
My close friend has been a horse lover for years and has been bothered by her long labia which were always getting pinched. She is in her early fifties and finally decided to have them fixed. She is not married but still sexually active, she is very attractive and dates 3 or 4 guys so she just stopped dating for a few months while she got the surgery.

I was a little taken aback that she had them completely removed and only a smooth slit remains, a vast difference from before. Her healing took over three months but is now back to being sexually active and loves her new look and feel. There are bad results from labiaplasty but hers is one of the positive results. She can now enjoy riding without pinching and soreness as before. This surgery is fast becoming the number one alteration for women.

From Anonymous
I'm a 23 yr old girl who has the same insecurities as most girls on this page. I slept with 3 people before my boyfriend. I never really thought of my labia as being different until my boyfriend of 2 years said to me "you have the pussy of a porn star" I wasn't sure how to take that. And then he said "I bet it wasn't like that when you were a virgin." But the truth is, yes it was like that when I was a virgin. I see no change from then to now. 

I think men think you are a slut if you have a large labia, when that has nothing to do with it. Men really need to realize that it doesn't mean we have slept with a lot of people. And to all you girls afraid to have sex. Don't be! Sex is amazing. Tell the guys to take it or leave it. Accept who you are and you will find a guy who will love everything about you. And I'm happy to see plenty of men find it irresistible

From Anonymous
I recently had surgery to reduce the size of my large inner vaginal lips because one side was longer, and it was uncomfortable many times as it chaffed in my underwear. In addition to physical discomfort, I did not like the way my labia looked. Quite frankly they looked ugly to me. Except for when the longer labia got in the way, they didn't really pose a problem. But I was uncomfortable with this part of my body for a long time. I felt different and insecure in this area. 

To make a long story short, I am so much happier now every time I look between my legs and see beautifully shaped, much smaller inner lips. It is a relief from a physical and emotional pain that I lived with every day. I would say surgery is not for everyone, but if you are truly uncomfortable and feel inferior due to large or misshaped inner vaginal lips. I would say don't limit yourself from a fairly simple procedure that can literally change your life. (I say it can change your life because sexuality is so tied up with identity in our culture/world). My one piece of advise is to do your research and find a doctor that has a lot of experience and a good reputation for good results.

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