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From Dorothy
Frightening trend, I'd say. I have a teenager living with me who is convinced that her genitalia are ugly. I had her go to that mega-vulva web site and pick out the one that looked the most like her (she was too shy to show me). It convinced her that she isn't deformed, but she still thinks she's ugly.

Good grief. As if we were screwed enough with our breasts being too big/small, our hair being too straight/curly, etc., ad nauseum. Frankly it had never even occurred to me to be concerned about whether or not I looked good from the view up my skirt, so I asked my hubby if he had ever met a vagina he didn't like. He said all he's ever thought, as he settled in for a viewing was, "God, I'm lucky to be here." "Damn that looks tasty." "Oh boy, oh boy, oh boy, oh boy."

It saddens me that women would actually consider surgically "improving" what they got. I've never heard of a guy thinking about getting a bigger dick, although I have heard them complain. Come to think of it--isn't there some kind of operation to add fat to a penis to make it thicker? Would any of you guys consider it?

From IntriguedOne
It absolutely blows my mind that a woman would not want large labia.  Of course, I'm only one opinion, but prominent labia is a MAJOR turn-on.  I don't want to be judgmental, but I'll be honest and say a woman with just a "slit" is personally for me, a let-down, particularly when it's hairless as well.  I love to see prominent labia...the longer, the better!  It makes cunnilingus that much more enthusiastic for me.

It's truly a shame that any woman would actually pay to have a surgeon reduce them.  Something is truly wrong with their self-image and the influences around them.  That's like me having surgery to shorten my dick...why in the hell would I do that? So why reduce your labia when it's such a turn-on?  I'm baffled!

From Charlie
Well I am decidedly on the fence with this one. I have an average sized clit, but quite big outer lips. That's ok with me, but one side is MUCH bigger than the other and has been stretched since I hit puberty as it gets in the way. It is very uncomfortable and sore at times (especially during my period) and I would happily cut it off myself if I knew I wouldn't bleed to death or something.

It is nothing to do with appearance as I have had nothing but praise from guys/girls I've been with, but if I could afford to get surgery then I would just to stop the constant soreness. I would still keep my lips big though as that is how I was made and I don't want to change that.

From Dave
What!? Cosmetic surgery to make a pussy more visibly attractive? Utter insanity. Do any of the ladies know any guys who'd have their dicks surgically straightened or lifted or whatever except maybe to repair a serious injury. If there's anyone, male or female, that insecure about their genitals, they need therapy not surgery.

From Mel
I'm glad I found a site where men actually claim to like larger lips or any shape of the vagina lips. But, not all men have the opinions expressed in this website. I looked on a "love and relationship" discussion board, and all the men seemed to agree large lips were a turn off. All they did was make fun of women, and nickname them 'meat curtains' and how they are always grossed out by any parts that hangout as it reminds them of "female balls" from behind. They also said most men have these opinions towards women's genitalia. They said friends will ask them, after having one night stands, whether or not the women had "meat curtains" and how nasty it is.

So for the longest time I was really down about it, assuming, what I have must be a huge turn off. Thank goodness for this site because I now feel better that not ALL men think like the ones on that board.

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