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From Anonymous
Ok, so here is my rant about body image and large labia, etc. I've always thought that my inner lips were large but for a long time I just didn't care and every time I messed around with someone, they never seemed to care either. I dated someone for 2 years whose only experience with naked women was porn and he only once asked if my lips were normal and I just said I guess and it never came up again but he was still obviously very turned on by me.

Then after I broke up with that boyfriend, I messed around with someone new and he seemed really into me but mentioned to his friend, which got back to me, that he thought that my lips were large. I was hugely offended even though he never said they were gross or bad and still always tried to mess around and have sex with me. For several years after that I was always very self conscious and would constantly ask guys if they thought I was gross or hated me now because they saw how I looked and pretty much all of them would just react stunned and not even know what to say. Many would just say shut up, you have the hottest pussy ever and would think I was fishing for compliments.

A later ex-boyfriend of mine was very patient with me and would always assure me that I wasn't gross or "deformed" as I started to say, and would constantly ask me why I would be gross just because my labia were a little big. Then (sorry I'm almost done with my stories before I get to my point) throughout my freshman year of college, I would always say you think I'm weird, you think I'm gross, etc while messing around with someone and they would always act confused and assure me I wasn't and I was still stuck on this then finally this one guy, frustrated with me said, "The only thing that's weird about you is the fact that you think you're weird." And then I realized that maybe he was right and maybe I had been overreacting all this time.

Now, not to say that I'm not self conscious anymore, because I still am, but I realized that confident guys who have actually gotten around and have seen different vaginas realize that there is no normal. This goes for everything...there is no normal and I think people just need to realize that they are who they are and maybe they're not perfect but seriously, who is perfect?

After I became hung up on this idea of being gross and deformed, I haven't had the same intensity or ease of climaxing and I think it's definitely because unconsciously I am stuck on the fact that I'm gross. And I think confidence is what will ultimately turn the other person on, and definitely saying "I'm so gross, etc" will not do anything but kill the moment or make the person look for something that's gross on you if anything.

Anyway, even if there is something about you that isn't considered beautiful by someone, there will be someone else out there that does find you beautiful and ultimately the longest lasting and most loving relationships come when people are themselves and appreciated for who they are.

From Debs
Hello, im a 21 year old female who basically has men crawling at my knees, the only problem is, as soon as a guy shows interest, I immediately think to myself, "well wait till you see my pussy, you wont be so excited" My labia minora are large, and basically nasty looking. I hate them, I feel it makes me look ragged, and skanky. It's hard knowing that your most personal spot on your body needs to be hidden even during the most intimate times. Im considering getting them reduced, But my boyfriend feels its not needed.

I know I wouldn't survive if anyone made a comment about my pussy.

I will leave them for now, seeing as I'm intimate with a guy who loves them, but maybe later in life I will go and get them reduced.

I just wish I would see more women on tv with the same vagina that I have, maybe then I could convince myself its more normal than I initially thought. I've heard people talking about how degusting they think large pussy lips are and that's made me feel even worse. I would like to know the stats on how many women worldwide have large vaginal lips.

Just needed to share.

From Lily
I also have large inner labia! When first became intimate with guys I received compliments about my body but then I had a partner who after we broke up spread rumors about me saying that I had a loose looking pussy. This made me very self-conscience about my body. Every since that one comment I have been uncomfortable in my own skin. I have now been in a relationship for 3 years and I know he loves my body from top to bottom but in the back of my mind I still wonder if he thinks I'm weird to. And I know it's unfair to him because sometimes I'm uncomfortable with him looking at my naked body, but I don't think I'll ever get over that comment. 

I have definitely thought about surgery but now I realize that it's not about the comment it's about having self-esteem, I'm still working on loving my body, it's hard but you just can't listen to what people say because there will always be at least one jerk who wants you to hate your body....just don't let them win because we're all very different and very beautiful.

From Karen
To Chica - no I don't believe there is any correlation to the size of a woman's labia versus her lips. [see Chica's entry below] I have large labia yet have chicken lips (a name given to me by my brothers.)

And while I'm on the subject of 'down there' I'm hoping there is a doc in the house or if any other women who have had babies have noticed this: Is your perineum area noticeably darker in color than your pre-child bearing days? Is this normal? What's the cause? And are there men (if you're reading this) who find this unattractive? Are any of you women who are like this self conscious about this?

And if there are any men who read this - shame on you if, after you've read this, you treat your woman differently or are suddenly turned off by it. Might I add that males have differences to their manhoods as well.

Yes, I in all honesty, am a little put off by it but I think it is mostly because of how I differ from the 'perfect pussy' of porndom where women are often hairless, small labia-ed, sport perfectly pert tits with gorgeous bodies.

From Chica
I am actually really surprised to find that so many women feel self-conscious about full labia. I never really thought about it till I started noticing that most porn features women with hardly anything. I've only ever had one person make a remark that could be considered negative in regards to my labial lusciousness—something like, "your pussy is freakish". Far more common have been comments that it's "beautiful", "fabulous", "loaded", "like a butterfly", etc. Personally, if I'm to consider the "numbers" I'd have to surmise that at least 90% of men either appreciate or prefer larger labia, both majora and minora.

One thing I've always been curious about is whether or not there's a correlation between full lips (facial) and full labia. I have both, and just assumed that this was somehow related. This is quite a board.

Be well, all.

From Chink
You see.. I could read these all day and still feel the same. It's not that I'm uncomfortable with my one larger inner labia. It's that it causes so much discomfort.. I have to put it in between my outer lips so it doesn't slide against anything because it's very uncomfortable and hurts. Not only that, but there is a beauty mark on it.

But it seriously does cause a lot of pain. And I hate it.

From Ghost Rider
Ladies, I am glad to see that most of you appreciate the way that God created you. Regardless, if you do or don't like your looks--keep one thing in mind for every guy that you run across that don't like the shape, size, or taste of your vagina, there are ten to take his place that will love the way you look, taste, and smell. I'm glad that I'm not perfect, this way I can enjoy and appreciate the blessings of the female body that seems to drive you ladies nuts. 

The young lady that intends to have surgery to try to improve what God created should realize that no matter what a doctor does, until you learn to accept and appreciate your body the way it is, you will never be satisfied with the way you look no matter what you have done to it. Think before you let the doctor start slicing part of you off.

From Katja
Good grief! What's normal, what's beautiful, what's ugly!? It really hurts me when you women speak about your own pussy like that! How can you... what the hell is the big deal?? why even have an opinion? jesus...

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