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From Anon
I'm young and I think my labia are big and I'm scared they are going to get even bigger as I get older. Some of my friends have done stuff with their boyfriends but I haven't for the reasons that 1.  I feel I'm waay to young for that stuff and 2. because I'm embarrassed to show or tell anyone about them. I can remember having big labia from when I was little when I use to come out of the bath and wonder why I could see mine from a front view and my sisters were hidden.

I've even considered surgery because of it. I'm really really embarrassed and I know that they say most men think they're sexy but teenage boys are different because they watch porn and think that small labia are the 'ideal size'. But thank you for everyone commenting, it has helped me a lot to understand that a lot of other people are exactly the same as me and that I should just be proud of who I am.

From Anonymous
It's funny to think how self conscious I used to be about my labia/pussy in general, but I now I feel pretty great about it. I always thought my labia were large based on a few comments some high school boys had said, but then again, none of their comments were ever negative, more just matter of fact. Anyway, I was very self conscious for so long, but after fooling around/being naked in some capacity with men, I'm really not self conscious at all. Not one guy has said anything negative about my pussy and many have made comments about how beautiful it is. Bottom line, I wish I was in the place I am now years ago because it really was unnecessary worry/embarrassment. Love your pussy and stop worrying so much.

From Anonymous
I'm a virgin and for as long as I can remember (since puberty) I've had large labia and I really don't want guys to think I've been used when they see my labia. It's hard enough to be self-conscious over them, let alone having to convince some guy that I haven't slept around.

[We're doing our best educate blockheads who think the size of women's labia is related to frequent sexual activity]

From Lidia
This procedure has become one of the most popular surgeries for females. Having oversized labia can be quite painful and it gives ladies an option. The important thing is to get a good and quite experienced doctor. A female should never be berated for having this done, after all, we haven't walked in her shoes.

From Kaycey
So my vagina is so disgusting. It hangs all down and I'm so embarrassed. I've has sex with two guys and they both are confused by it. My first boyfriend (who lost his virginity to me) asks why its like that. And another older guy who i had sex with said it is a very 'interesting' vagina and has never seen one like it. The lips hang down and have like a purplish color. I am so insecure because of my vagina. When guys want to eat me out I get all nervous and clench. I hate it so much, I am so going to have surgery. Men obviously don't like it!

From Neil
This message is for Sarah.  [see Sarah's entry below] Please, please trust than your lovers will love you just as you are.  A woman that I dated back in college...many years ago...had the same concerns and insecurities.  I thought that she was beautiful and that her genitals were too. 

Believe me, it's our differences that give us charm and make us unique.  What looks like an "imperfection" to you is not at all, but it's part of what makes you beautiful.  Remember that it's confidence that makes one sexy.  Please don't have surgery.  Try to love yourself and others will follow suit.

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