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Women: During The Act
What do you think about?

Men: During The Act
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MasturbationMasturbation is an intensely personal activity, and everybody does it. Yes you do! Don't even try to say you don't! I have often expressed an interest in wanting to see people masturbate - but they can't know I'm watching. I'm not talking about those intimate encounters between lovers where you play show and tell. I want to know exactly how they looks when he's sure he's alone. I want to know what they do to get off. I want to know if they fantasize to masturbate, and exactly what is that fantasy? I have this enquiring mind see...

So. Here's the question. What do YOU think about? Do you read? Do you use visual aids? Movies? What? Come on...be a buncha sports. Tell me.   —Lybbe


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I feel myself

From Anonymous
My masturbation time is very beautiful and sensual. I am a woman in late forties and I masturbate about three times a day. I take time and masturbate my whole body, I come with light massage in my really sensitive nipples and I would love another woman to suck them. This orgasm is blissful and I really get into it. I then massage my clitorus lightly and breathe slowly in and out. I usually use a tingling lubricant and I bring myself off and then I fuck a cushion or what ever is around and then back to my fingers and then I just climax and it is mind blowing. Masturbation allows me a fabulous sex life with my partner as I know how sensitive I am and the ride and climax are just totally blissful

From Eric
I don't usually use any props when I pleasure myself.  Most often I'll just let my imagination take over.  A woman I saw at the store, a celebrity that I fantasize about (Sofia Vergara), the flirty co-worker, or even one of my friend's hot mom.  I would just let my vivid imagination be my guide, and make love to anyone that I desired.  That was then.

I recently discovered some very sexy, very hot pics my girlfriend had taken of herself and left on my iphone.  Very "For your eyes only" type stuff, knowing full well I'd see them eventually.  Shortly afterwards, I found myself on the road for my job for two nights.  Strange town, strange bed, my sweetie not in my bed.  Perfect time for some self-pleasuring, using  the phone pics as a "prop".

It was absolutely the most intense session I've ever experienced, but I did experience a slight problem.  I held the phone in one hand as I pumped with the other.  As I was nearing orgasm, I dropped the phone and it landed on the bed in between my thighs.  I really didn't realize it was there as I exploded all over my abs, thighs, bed, AND iphone.  I quickly cleaned it off, and luckily, it still works.

From Anonymous
I use my imagination.  My husband loves to watch me and I have gotten over any self-consciousness about that, and now when I am alone I imagine that he is there to watch and suck and finger me as I rub my clit and finger myself. And then I further imagine that he invites another man to watch or a neighbor sees us and he guides me and encourages me just to be nasty and squirmy and noisy and like he wants to see. 

From Rick
A friend of my wife has some times gone topless in their house and recently caught their neighbor's son (age 15) looking down from his bedroom window at her. She brushed it off and chuckled about it but now she is topless a lot more of the time. She acts as if she likes putting on a little show for the boy! I could be just a little jealous because she is about 36 years old and very fine. Anyway, she is now cleaning the house wearing only panties and her husband is pissed! He gave orders for her to at least wear her jeans, but the other day, I stopped for a visit and caught a glimpse of her with only panties. I think a lot of women really want to show off their goods but don't want to do it in public. I'll bet that kid masturbates as he watches her and I'll bet she loves it!

From OldNavyDude
I have become totally addicted to my dildo collection. My favorite is the Jeff Stryker dildo.  I shower up put some boy butter on and go sit in my steam room. I sweat and with that bad boy on the seat I just pretend it's him I am fucking. It takes a little time, but I can take it all and oh my, when it hits deep, that little wince of pain feels like he is coming inside me. I just fuck longer and harder. I finish off by jacking off resting on the seat, his rubbery balls underneath my own. It is the best feeling ever. Well except if he were actually there.

From Emma Russell
I masturbate at least twice a day.  I love to read erotic stories to help me get off.  So, I started writing my own stories and now I'm masturbating several times a day.  It's so exciting!  Fantasies are a wonderful way to become aroused and when it's in print it's so much better.  Sometimes I look at pornographic pictures.  But, mostly I write my own fantasies just so I can come!

From Anonymous
I love my Fleshlight! I lube myself up, warm up my Fleshlight, and get a good picture of a young lady spread open. It feels like real pussy.  I always drain my balls until they ache. 

From Travis Stokes
I listen to Dixieland music on Pandora radio while I masturbate, I like the slower Dixieland songs because I can imagine the girls sliding their panties down to their ankles and teasing me a little bit before I slide between her pussy lips. It's almost like burlesque music, I love that tease element because that allows your fantasy to be extensive and makes it more enjoyable for me. I imagine their boyfriend or husband watching or walking in on me working their woman's crack and they can't do anything but get mad and call the cops on me, it's kinda funny.

From Chockie
I masturbate in various different ways. Sometimes I masturbate while looking at erotic videos or photos, other times I may look at these materials in one room, get aroused, then go masturbate upstairs with the images in my mind. Or I may use fantasies of having sex with a particular woman, like a co-worker, or someone I saw in public.

As for toys, I don't typically use them, although I have used a small glass butt plug in the past. But I prefer to rely on just fingers now. I should also mention I am extremely aroused by videos of women masturbating, and often watch those before or during masturbation. Omg, it gets me in a state of arousal I can't describe. I get hot and flushed, almost like an anxiety reaction. Even my chest gets flushed occasionally. And my penis becomes so engorged it turns reddish purple.

From Paul
I love to masturbate whenever I can. I also have this special fetish that I've written about before a few years ago. My girlfriend knows I have this fetish and she uses it to her advantage as an aid to our sexual encounters. She'll dress up like a professional girl and she'll start to shake her legs up and down. This has always turned me on (especially when I was little) and even more so now.

She'll get really inventive and she tells me to put my erection in the strangest places, like between her foot and her shoe, or between her knees or even the bend in either leg. All the while she's shaking and getting me off in such a way that the orgasm is heightened so much it makes me tremble.

We've been long married after our getting back together and she is bent on the idea of sex, which is a good thing, even though we're in our 50s and 60s. She still has it, I love it and it ain't going to end at all.

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