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Masturbation MemoriesMy mind was wandering and I found myself thinking about masturbation memories. Do you remember the first time you masturbated? Did you stumble upon your 'hot' spot by accident or did you know what to expect? Were you surprised at your first masturbation orgasm? Was it an exploratory exercise for you?   I'm just curious...  —Megan

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From Anonymous
The memory of this orgasm will be with me as long as I live. It was really no more than a great hand job, but involved my wife and her best friend. Ash and Sherry were talking about life without a man. Knowing that Sherry had never owned a sex toy, Ash suggested she should think about having a vibrator. Sherry said she wouldn’t even know how to go about choosing or buying one. Well, in our house Ash is never more than about ten feet away from a vibrator, and she reached over to the end table and pulled a small Lelo out of the drawer, and handed to Sherry.

I was a bit surprised when Sherry held it to the crotch in her capris. I think she said something like “oh shit” and continued to experience the new sensation. It was about this time that Ash noticed my dick beginning to swell inside my running shorts, and to my great surprise she began to rub me.

Five of six minutes later Sherry let out a whimper and I could see her muscles shudder as she got herself off for the first time with a vibrator. That was all it took for Ash’s rubbing to make me come, and the sensation of being rubbed off through the smooth material of the running shorts is just one of the reasons why that orgasm was so memorable.

From Steve
My first time was when I was 15. One night I had an extremely hot dream. I dreamed I was swimming with my mother and she was naked. We swam for a little bit and then I had an intense feeling. I woke a little and noticed I was humping my pillow and my cock was rock hard. It felt real good and I kept on humping my pillow and felt a nice strange feeling building in my cock. I couldn't stop nor did I want to. I then felt the release of cum squirt from my cock covering my pillow with cum. Now I knew what my friends meant when they were masturbating.

The next night I repeated the same action thinking of some hot girl at school and had another orgasm. I have been masturbating ever since and learned so many nice techniques. But for the first part of my experience it was usually humping my pillow.

From Sirch
I started the jack when I was 12, started out with the jet magazine "beauty of the week" photos then moved on to adult magazines and VHS tapes I bought from adult bookstores. Behind the furnace in my step mom's basement was my favorite spot. I used soap as lube in the beginning, then came vegetable shortening, Vaseline, shampoo, lotion, royal crown hair dressing, softee coconut oil, cocoa butter, aloe vera gel, etc.

I've had sex with dozens of women in my mind since then, at 38 my amazing imagination and my hand are still at it, liftin up skirts and pullin the panties off every woman without touching them.

From Amanda
I had my first sexual sensations already at age 8 or so, but at that time I had no idea what it was. When I got worried or nervous I often felt a tingling sensation in my private parts, which some times could be strong to the point that it made it difficult to walk or stand up. At some point during such an episode I was alone in my room and started to hump a stuffed animal. I was on the floor and I remember how the sensation increased and I was completely drawn into it, pressing myself harder and faster against my toy. I think I climaxed after just a couple of minutes. My reaction was quite intense, with full-blown lower-body spasms and strong contractions of my vagina and anus. I had no idea what it was, it felt incredibly good, like nothing I had ever imagined, and it made me worried as well as curious.

During the following days I could think of nothing else and every chance I got to be alone I explored further how to position myself and move for the best effect. I started to crave orgasms several times daily and it became a part of my routine to masturbate during times alone in the afternoons and in the evenings before sleeping. I continued like this by only humping (toys, pillows, corner of my bed...) until 12, when I started to become more sexually aware (but didn't have my periods until 14). I learned how to rub my clit with my fingers and also with fingers and various objects inserted. I started longer masturbation sessions when I was home alone in the afternoons, often doing it completely naked in a chair in front of a large mirror. I learned how to build up my orgasms and was able to come several times with just a few minutes of rest between. The most intense orgasms made me almost pass out. I also masturbated every evening before sleeping and some times when waking up aroused at night.

From Sabine
Even with frequent arousals, several times every day, it took me until I was 12 to reach orgasm for the first time. I was home alone in the afternoon and decided to play with it in a very serious way with my fingers and also pressing some objects like a marker and some toys on it. Eventually I rubbed it with a plastic ball until the sensation grew stronger than I had ever made it before. I had my first orgasm and it was very strong even at that time, making my body very stiff before the climax and then spasms of my body, even anal contractions. After this I had my "play time" as much as I could (at least once at night in bed and a long afternoon session when I was alone) and learned to do it in many different ways.

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