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From LKJ
I must have been four or five years old.  At the time I was sleeping in the same room with my two sisters.  One night while trying to get to sleep I was laying on my stomach.  Suddenly I noticed a delightful sensation coming from my genitals.  It immediately absorbed my attention as something I had never felt before.

In the days that followed I studied this new sensation.  I found that I could increase the feeling by spreading my legs and by squeezing my penis in my hand.

At some point my parents moved my bedroom upstairs with my two older brothers.  There I spent many hours 'humping' on my pillow.

I found that I could masturbate in the living room as well.  I would get a thick book and place it under the sofa.  I would then place my legs under the sofa with my genitals resting on the book.  I would lay there, not moving, while I would watch TV.  I don't know if my parents ever figured out what I was doing.  Nobody ever said a word about it.

I'm not sure whether I was having orgasms.  The word didn't mean anything to me at the time.  I felt very intense pleasure that I could prolong for as long as I wanted.

I don't recall that my penis became erect until I was in my teens.  I say that because one night my penis did become erect and it really surprised me.

Not long after that, I had my first ejaculation.  That surprised me!!  I knew in theory that a man would produce sperm that could somehow impregnate a woman.  It's one thing to know something in theory and quite another to feel one's body actually trying to do it!!  Trying, that is, to do the first part, producing sperm.  It would still take me some time to figure out how the second part, impregnating a woman, might work.  (Believe me, I had some really strange ideas on how one might do that!!)

In any event, I suddenly found myself, a man.

From Doug
I had been taking a shower when I was 13, I think it was.  We had side mounted spray heads. My parents were out that night and I was able to take a long shower running out all the hot water which usually got me into trouble. Those side sprays felt really good when I let them play on my penis.  I had started getting erections when that happened but nothing beyond that. 

One day after a shower my penis just wouldn't go down after a shower.  I was lying on my back on my bed reading.  It was a hot summer night and I didn't have any sheet on me.  My slightly younger sister just came in.  She just burst out "Why is it sticking up like that?.  I said I didn't know.  She said maybe it's irritated and suggested I rub some soothing lotion on it.  She got me her favorite lotion and squirted a dollop out on my hand.  I started rubbing it on and said something to the effect of "Oh wow, that feels really good".  Suddenly my penis started squirting white stuff out all over the place.  I kept rubbing until it ran out.  Once it started there was no way I was going to stop rubbing until that incredible sensation was over.  Sure enough the erection subsided almost right away.  I had found the cure.

From Paul
I first learned about masturbating from my uncle, we were watching a Mets game in his room. He asked my brother and I if we had ever pumped it out. We didn't know what he meant so he had us take out our cocks, we did and he showed us what to do. He then started pulling on my dick I couldn't believe what was happening as my cock was starting to get hard it sort of frightened me at first, but he told me to relax that it was normal and it would be ok and he continued to rub and pull my cock then I could feel this weird feeling come over me kinda like I was going to pee but different. He ensured me it was ok again, and kept going and waves of pleasure came over me as my cum erupted from my cock how great was that!!

I asked if I could try it on him so he pulls out his dick it was huge, uncut and thick, he told me what to do when I grabbed his meat I pulled back his foreskin to expose the cock head and I could feel him getting hard it simply was amazing, he instructed me how to stroke his awesome member.

I guess I did ok because after a few minutes he started shooting his cum all over the floor. When ever we went to visit my uncle we always got together to jerk each other off even after we were older had girl friends when ever we went to visit hand jobs were part of the fun. And when my brother and I didn't get to visit him we would take turns pleasuring each other. And that is how my brother and I learned how to masturbate, and still today even though we are married we will masturbate each other when we get the opportunity I guess you could call it brotherly love.

From Chockie
I discovered masturbation when I was in my early teens also.I had already "played around" with my male friends, but we had never copulated or masturbated. When I did begin to masturbate, I discovered a nasty but very effective technique that I use to this day (33 years later) I insert a finger into my anus (preferably when the rectum is empty) and move it in and out in time with the strokes of my penis.

What happens next is that my penis begins to ooze pre-ejaculatory fluid. I then take this fluid and repeatedly rub it onto and into my anus and rectum while stroking. It is sooo nasty but the pleasure is amazing.The precum is a little alkaline and very slick, but the slight irritation excites the nerve endings just inside the rectum, and of course, going far enough inside stimulates the prostate gland. I may apply massage or pressure around the scrotum and perineum to enhance pleasure also.

This technique of oozing of precum can be extended for up to one hour, in my case. So I enjoy mind blowing pleasure long before actually ejaculating. When I do finally cum, I shoot wonderful long streams instead of globs.

From Tony
My first was heaven. Just grabbed it and held on. The second time I had my girlfriend over and she decided to give me a bj. I was about 14 and boy that was a massive load I blew on her face. We regularly do this thing all the time and sometimes I bring friends over.

From Freehike
I didn't learn about masturbation until my mid teens. I had heard other friends talk about it, but really never did know exactly how to do it or what to expect. My first memory was waking up during a wet dream. I was humping my pillow and it felt so nice. I just kept on humping and then I felt the nicest, amazing feeling and excitement, then felt the semen squirting out of my hard cock.

I couldn't believe it, I now knew one way to masturbate. So after that, I tried doing it again a few nights later. I thought about some of the hot girls at school and imaged what they would be like nude. I then started to hump my pillow and it felt so nice. I did it long enough to make me come and I couldn't believe how great that feeling was.

It progressed from there and I found other ways to stimulate myself and to bring me to climax. Watching semen squirt from my penis and how far it could squirt was fun to learn. I don't squirt like that now.

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