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From Beth
When I was 14, my friend and I went to the beach and spent the day. We were enjoying showing off our still growing titties and our new curves. When we got back home, we took our bikinis off to change into our clothes. My friend asked me if I had got horny watching the cute guys at the beach (actually, my clit throbbed from being hard all day).  I said yes, then she asked me if I had ever had an orgasm. I told her that my clit felt real sweet when I rubbed it, but I'd never come before. She said the trick was to keep rubbing until you felt the sweetness start to go up and get stronger and stronger until you couldn't stand it and not to stop. 

We were still naked and she leaned against the wall and started to rub the front part of her crotch and closed her eyes. I started rubbing myself too and watched her stand there with one hand rubbing her crotch and the other kneading and pulling on her small boobs. After a while she said 'going up, going up, ahhhh, it's almost, it's alm..' and her voice trailed off. About 10 seconds later she put her legs tight together and opened her mouth real wide and breathed real deep and fast. I was determined not to stop rubbing until I felt what she had just felt and after about 30 seconds I felt the sweetness start to rise continually and then I said "Oh my God it feels so good it HURTS" and then the feeling rose so high that it made me moan and my legs went together too. 

After that day I just wanted to keep masturbating so that I could feel that rise and then that sweet pain in my pussy, and my friend and I did it together whenever we were able. I'm much older now but I've been absolutely addicted to masturbating since that horny summer day.

From Dave (UK)
I was around 11 years old, and knew nothing about sex: we didn't in those days. I remember it being around my bed time, my parents were out of the room and there was a period drama of some kind on the T.V. I was fascinated as I watched an actress getting undressed, I was transfixed as she removed what seemed like layer after layer of clothing and underwear. I was in my PJ's, and was soon very conscious that a certain part of me had become very stiff, and it was making a bit of a pleasant tingling sensation.

Over the next days and weeks, this fantasy changed to involve other women I knew, teachers at school, neighbours and some distant relatives. At first I didn't even know what women's breasts looked like, so the undressing stopped at bra and knickers. Then after seeing some nude paintings in a book at school, the bras were removed and I began to try and  imagine the objects of my fantasies topless. This went on for sometime as I had no idea what women had between their legs, it wasn't until my friend happened to see some pictures of a naked women, she must have been shaved though we didn't know it at the time, because we knew nothing about pubic hair.

That night I decided the object of my first naked striptease would be the woman who lived  next door, she had been topless in my fantasies a few times before, and this night she was again. All the while I was enjoying my usual sensations pressing myself in the mattress. Then, in my mind she slipped down knickers and took them off. I could see the cleft between her legs, just as my friend had described, then she lay down on the floor and opened her legs so I could see this slit between her legs. I was so excited that this time my pressing into the bed took me to a place I'd never been before and I experienced my first orgasm. At first I panicked as I waves of pleasure came it felt like I was squirting something out uncontrollably, I thought I'd wet the bed, but of course at that age there wasn't anything to ejaculate. It was only afterwards I realised I had felt the most unbelievable sensation. Minutes later I was on my back in bed holding my little stiff cock in my hand and dreaming about looking between my neighbours open legs once more. Thank you May for being my first, and my second.

From LKJ
One night while trying to get to sleep I was laying on my stomach.  Suddenly I noticed a delightful sensation coming from my genitals.  It immediately absorbed my attention as something I had never felt before. In the days that followed I studied this new sensation.  I found that I could increase the feeling by spreading my legs and by squeezing my penis in my hand. I spent many hours 'humping' on my pillow. I found that I could masturbate in the living room as well.  I would get a thick book and place it under the sofa.  I would then place my legs under the sofa with my genitals resting on the book.  I would lay there, not moving, while I would watch TV.  I don't know if my parents ever figured out what I was doing.  Nobody ever said a word about it.

I'm not sure whether I was having orgasms.  The word didn't mean anything to me at the time.  I felt very intense pleasure that I could prolong for as long as I wanted. I don't recall that my penis became erect until I was in my teens.  I say that because one night my penis did become erect and it really surprised me. Not long after that, I had my first ejaculation.  That surprised me!!  I knew in theory that a man would produce sperm that could somehow impregnate a woman.  It's one thing to know something in theory and quite another to feel one's body actually trying to do it!  Trying, that is, to do the first part, producing sperm.  It would still take me some time to figure out how the second part, impregnating a woman, might work.  (Believe me, I had some really strange ideas on how one might do that) In any event, I suddenly found myself, a man.

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