Mutual Masturbation and Self-Love

Doing it alone, together

Just wondering ... I see a lot of comments here from folks who are single and say they masturbate for a particular reason: No partner to share sex with. So what does that say for a person like myself, who is married and has been for 18 years and who has continued to masturbate (with a lovely purple, jelly vibrator, thankyouverymuch) throughout that time. I LOVE sex with my hubby, but I like my "alone" time as well. I never considered myself a perv for this practice, but wonder if there is a weirdness there for a person who masturbates who does have a partner.  —Raquel

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From Mick
After over a week of being apart, my wife and I finally had a day together. Got the kids off to school, took the dog for a walk and had a swim. As I got out of the shower and walked into our bedroom, the mid morning light streaming in, Liz was sitting on our bed, hair wrapped in a towel, legs apart and her beautiful cunt 'winking' at me.

She started sliding her finger up and down her slit and told me to get 'pearl' her trusty vibrator.

I watched delighted as she pleasured herself. Pearl sliding in and out, then pointing on her clit, all the while, rubbing my cock.

To help her reach her favourite orgasm, with pearl jammed into the hilt, vibrating and wriggling in her slippery cunt, I got down and licked her clit, leaving her squirming in the morning sun.

To finish off my part of the deal, I rolled her on her side, lubricated her butt cheeks with my tongue, then slid my cock between those beautiful cheeks until I came on her lower back.

Mid summer heaven.

From Ted
Well, I must say I masturbate pretty regularly due to the lack of a partner to have sex with. Though, I engage in mutual masturbation with a female when we are in a relationship. I have to say the experience is really really good.

My first experience was at my house, when my parents weren't at home and my girlfriend came over. She said she was tired and she just lay on my bed. Both of us slept and halfway through, we were hugging each other and started to take each other's clothes off. I began by fondling with her nipples and she started to breathe heavily. I was really turned on by it and began to rub her clit. She returned the favor by taking off my briefs and stroked my dick. It was often a simultaneous mutual masturbation. Occasionally, we take turns to masturbate each other. Though the experiences we had were pretty awkward when we talk about it at times. Nevertheless, the feeling was really great.

From Followhim
When I was in my teens I would stay overnight at a neighbors house who was an only child. One night when we were laying in bed Phil asked me if I wanted to try something that his older cousin showed him. Not know what it was I said sure. He grabbed my cock and started rubbing it through my pj's and I tried to stop him, but he said it's okay and to relax and try it. After a few minutes I agreed that it was okay and was rock hard. He encouraged me to return the favor to him and I did with hesitation. He suggested that we remove our pj's to get more comfortable.

We laid there stroking each other when he said he wanted to try something that his cousin showed him and started to lick the head of my cock under the slit and it felt incredible. I couldn't object because it felt too good. I kept stroking him and increased the tempo and he to me. It wasn't long before he wanted me to return the favor to him and we turned to a 69 position and I was unsure but went along with it for the moment. We continued to stroke and lick each other and he placed the tip of my cock in his mouth and started sucking and moving his tongue in a circle around the tip of my cock. I thought that I was going to go crazy and I did the same to him and after a few minutes I was surprised when I felt his cock get really hard and started to release a load in my mouth and to keep from gagging I started to swallow and some ran down my chin. I began to feel an awesome sensation and started shaking when I returned the favor to Phil and he must have been expecting it and didn't miss a beat on sucking and swallowing.

That was my only experience with mutual masturbation and oral sex with another male, but I think about it often and wonder how Phil is doing after about 30 years.

From Joe J.
Mine was actually with another guy.When I was 17 I would stay a couple of nights a week at a friend's house during the summer. My friend's cousin, a 20 year old, stayed at their house one week. One morning when my friend was picking up donuts and we were alone the cousin entered the bath room to get something when I was just finishing drying off. To my surprise he commented on the size of my penis. I was caught off guard, surprised, but really knew I was large, certainly much larger than my friends and all the guys in gym. However, I would always keep a low profile.

After the comment he reached in and cupped my sack with his left hand took his right hand and stroked me one firm time. I was shocked and just stood still as he said he thought we would "match up nicely", and walked out.

Of course I never told my friend what happened but thought about it a lot over the course of the day. The next morning when my friend and his parents went to work the cousin boldly asked me if I wanted to compare. The thought of comparing with someone else that may also be large excited me. I agreed and without hesitation he started looking for a tape measure. While he was looking my heart pounded with fear. When he couldn't find one he removed his pants, and I slowly followed his lead. We stood in the bedroom facing each other as he stated to stroke both his and mine. He was also very large and got rock hard well before I did.

Once fully erect, and much to my surprise, his looked larger. When he got erect he push me back a little so we were a few feet apart then began slowly playing with his penis to keep his erection. I again followed his lead and started playing with mine until I was just as hard. Fully erect I thought I was just as large.The thought of an equal comparing with me was exciting. I think we were both impressed with the other. He smiled, moved in really close and smacked my penis with his. I returned the favor and we began rubbing and grinding our fully erect packages. I gave in first with a huge orgasm, he held out longer but also had a tremendous release.

It was my only mutual session, and it was awesome.The opportunity has never come up ( so to speak) again.

From Stacy
My husband loves it when I masturbate myself while we're having sex.  He loves to just sit back and watch me, twisting my nipples while I orgasm...he says it's a huge turn on.

I'd love to see him get himself off but he won't do it.  I try to masturbate him but he'll only let me get so far, then he stops me.

I would LOVE to see him jack himself off...that would be a HUGE turn-on for me.

From Ampfly
Also known as "frottage" when it involves two cocks... a safe and mutually respectful way for two men to celebrate their manhood and sexuality without the high level or risk associated with anal penetration and the submissive implications as well. Cock-on-cock, face-to-face, chest-to-chest; can precede or follow a hot 69 session.  Unlike anal, this is a great way for two men to cum simultaneously.

From Sylvia
My husband and I view mutual masturbation as a very intimate part of our love-making. For one thing, it's the easiest way for us to come together. Oh, my God, I love that!

The only other experience I've had with masturbating along with someone else happened in a cramped college dorm room over 30 years ago. It was an all-girl school and my roommate and I had little privacy. Since we shared all our secrets, we decided it was silly to hide the fact that we both loved to masturbate, often before going to sleep. Once we agreed to be open about it, I discovered she could really drive herself wild. This was a huge turn-on for me and I admit that I got off fantasizing about us having girl-on-girl sex. Yet we never touched each other or thought of ourselves as lesbians. Now I've learned from other entries on this website that we weren't perverted at all.

I'm telling this story because the past seems to be coming around again. Since her divorce, my former roommate and I have renewed our friendship and she recently traveled to visit my husband and I. He knows all about our history and, over drinks on the last evening of her visit, my guy slyly suggested that I join her that night in the guest bedroom. After lots of giggling, my friend and I agreed to sleep together.

I think we went at it until dawn, sex toys and all. Wow! In college, we were in separate beds. Not this time. Thrashing around together all over the mattress was ... well I'll let you imagine it.

Over breakfast the following day, hubby began teasing us about how much noise we made and how he could hear us coming from the next bedroom. When pressed, he admitted  he'd been "forced to jerk-off". That's when I jokingly said he should have joined us. We all laughed. But my old friend evidently gave my idea some thought and, as she was leaving, told us that she would be okay with a mutual masturbation three-way as long as the room was dark.

Needless to say, my husband is now mapping out a trip to her place. I'm enthusiastic too, although I think he hopes this will develop into more than it probably will. It will definitely be fun to find out how long the lights stay off.   

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