Mutual Masturbation and Self-Love
Doing It Alone, Together

Just wondering ... I see a lot of comments here from folks who are single and say they masturbate for a particular reason: No partner to share sex with. So what does that say for a person like myself, who is married and has been for 18 years and who has continued to masturbate (with a lovely purple, jelly vibrator, thankyouverymuch) throughout that time. I LOVE sex with my hubby, but I like my "alone" time as well. I never considered myself a perv for this practice, but wonder if there is a weirdness there for a person who masturbates who does have a partner.  —Raquel

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From Sylvia
My husband and I view mutual masturbation as a very intimate part of our love-making. For one thing, it's the easiest way for us to come together. Oh, my God, I love that!

The only other experience I've had with masturbating along with someone else happened in a cramped college dorm room over 30 years ago. It was an all-girl school and my roommate and I had little privacy. Since we shared all our secrets, we decided it was silly to hide the fact that we both loved to masturbate, often before going to sleep. Once we agreed to be open about it, I discovered she could really drive herself wild. This was a huge turn-on for me and I admit that I got off fantasizing about us having girl-on-girl sex. Yet we never touched each other or thought of ourselves as lesbians. Now I've learned from other entries on this website that we weren't perverted at all.

I'm telling this story because the past seems to be coming around again. Since her divorce, my former roommate and I have renewed our friendship and she recently traveled to visit my husband and I. He knows all about our history and, over drinks on the last evening of her visit, my guy slyly suggested that I join her that night in the guest bedroom. After lots of giggling, my friend and I agreed to sleep together.

I think we went at it until dawn, sex toys and all. Wow! In college, we were in separate beds. Not this time. Thrashing around together all over the mattress was ... well I'll let you imagine it.

Over breakfast the following day, hubby began teasing us about how much noise we made and how he could hear us coming from the next bedroom. When pressed, he admitted  he'd been "forced to jerk-off". That's when I jokingly said he should have joined us. We all laughed. But my old friend evidently gave my idea some thought and, as she was leaving, told us that she would be okay with a mutual masturbation three-way as long as the room was dark.

Needless to say, my husband is now mapping out a trip to her place. I'm enthusiastic too, although I think he hopes this will develop into more than it probably will. It will definitely be fun to find out how long the lights stay off.   

From STP
My wife sometimes masturbates after I have gotten up in the morning or when I am not a home. I always get turned on when she tells me that she masturbated.

I love it when she spreads her legs and strokes her pussy in front of me while we are reading in the living room by the fire at night. She will wet her finger and slowly rub her clit and lips while also stroking her nipples. She does this to excite herself and to get me as excited as well.

Unfortunately she cannot masturbate to orgasm in front of me. I wish that she could because I would love to watch her fingers stroke her cunt up close. When she does masturbate to orgasm, she lies on her stomach and grinds her clit on both of her hands while fantasizing about men sucking her tits. Having another person with her distracts her from this fantasy. She does oblige me by letting me watch her masturbate as if she was trying to reach an orgasm. As she lies on her stomach grinding on her hands with her ass in the air, I will put my face up close, occasionally licking her pussy and stroking her asshole. It is a great view!

When my wife orgasms with me, she lies on top of my hard cock and grinds her clit on my cock. While doing this I stroke, suck and bite her nipples. This is the only way that she can orgasm, but they are powerful orgasms indeed! Usually after she has come, she will then slip my dick inside and ride me until I have come.

From Cee
A few months ago I went with a long-standing friend for one of our regular evening meals. He's always struck a very hetero pose and in his sixties continues to charm the ladies. This particular night we went to a restaurant near my place so we agreed he'd stay at my apartment. As I got the settee ready with blanket and pillows he came back from the bathroom. He'd put on the towelling robe but not tied it so I got a full view of his naked body. Very fit, gold medallion on his hairy chest, flat stomach, and cock that flaccid looked about 8 or 9 inches.

I was very impressed and told him so, commenting that erect his length must be a massive 12 inches, while I could only manage a maximum of half that. Let's see yours he said. By this time I was aroused so when I finally got undressed I was semi erect at six inches. He noticed that I was also circumcised although not Jewish like him. My friend took my penis in one of his hands and wrapped it around, let's see if we can get it bigger. As he slowly jerked me off so I took his cock in my hand and returned the favor. Within minutes we were both jerking each other of in a very fast pace, both very aroused, both in ecstasy. We both climaxed within a few seconds of each other, his cum on my stomach, mine on his.

Since then we have had six mutual masturbation sessions, all after our meals at restaurants, all at his place, all now involving us kissing as we masturbate. I would like to take it further, initially sucking him off but he is reluctant, mainly because I think he sees that as something women perform on him, not men. I'd also like to make love to him but I'm sure anal penetration is light years away.

From Madeleine
When I was in college I shared a dorm room with another gal. We were not very close, and never shared any intimate stories.

One night when we were both in our bed, I heard her moving arownd in her bed, making funny sounds. She thought I was sleeping and I was pretanding to be, taking a peek every once in a while.

It was a hot night, the window was open and light came from the street, and I saw her pulling her night gawn up (no panties) and starting to rub her clit with her finger. I was very surprise - my room-mate was a shy conservative girl from a small town, she never dated or partied - but there she was, feeling her nipples through her gown and rubbing her clit.

She masturbated for about three minutes and then she came, it was funny because she tried to keep it quiet and come at the same time... I couldn't see her face when she came because I was pretending to be asleep, but I heard her breathing and realized she came.

When she was through I was so hot, I can't even describe it! I never talked to anyone about masturbation, not to mention watched someone perform it! Needless to say I masturbated myself as soon as my mate fell asleep.

After that night I waited for many nights for her to masturbate again, but never got the chance to see her again. We had quite a different lifestyle, so by the time I got home she was already sleeping. The following year she left school and I never saw her again. But I will never forget what I saw that night, and I often go back to this memory when I masturbate myself.

From Geezer
At age 74, I now need Viagra and a cock ring to maintain the kind of erection I can hang my hat on. Moreover, to reach orgasm, my penis requires greater stimulation over an extended period of time than it did even 20 years ago. Although that's not entirely a bad thing for myself or my soul mate/partner, it has placed greater emphasis on the role of mutual masturbation in our lovemaking. The benefits? Fewer back strains, less physical exhaustion (longer sessions) and the ability to better focus and control stimulation.

Thankfully, my partner is very sexual and is passionate about her own masturbation, both in private (with or without my knowledge) and when we are together. Her sex tool collection is especially impressive and includes a fucking machine that is way more than a "toy". Watching her enjoy having sex with this mechanical marvel really inspires me as I join in to masturbate myself, often using a powerful vibrator that provides the uniquely intense sensations I need. Incidentally, if you are a guy who wants to imagine what it would be like to see your wife getting poked by another man, a fucking machine is a non-threatening way to construct a fantasy.

In addition to the above I must point out that we do regularly have intercourse during lovemaking. However, mutual masturbation is typically our way of beginning and ending a session. The idea of openly (even wildly) sharing such an intimate activity is undeniably exciting, as is seeing your partner's entire body respond to an orgasm. I think this has given us both a greater appreciation of one anothers' sexuality.

Finally, my lover and I have really become exhibitionists in respect to "showing off" for each other. Sure beats porn.

From Mick
My wife and I have always used this as part of our relationship. I travel for work and when I come home after a few days we delight each other describing our fantasies while we masturbated.

Sometimes sex just turns into a show for each other, or like the other night, I woke up at about 2 am and couldn't get back to sleep. After a while I started to masturbate, she rolled over, tweaked my nipples and caressed my balls while I finished myself off. Then she rolled over and went back to sleep - true love.

From A
Forty years ago when I was 17 there was a shop near where I worked in London selling dirty magazines. I'd occasionally go in to flick through the nude mags and books. One day I became aware that at the rear of the shop through a raffia curtain was another room. One day I went in and there were four sets of men, all older than me, jerking each other off. In less than ten seconds my zip was undone, my cock pulled out and vigorously wanked. My partner offered his cock and I wanked him, it being very wet and sticky from his previous climaxes.

I enjoyed the experience so went back at regular intervals and always being the youngest male I was jerked off in turn by each of the men, some of them wanting to kiss me on the mouth as they wanked away. But I declined, loosened my collar and tie so had an occasional lovebite on the neck, my colleagues assuming it was from a girlfriend.

From Brad
I'm a 28 year old gay male and use mutual masturbation as my only form of sex. I enjoy creative sessions from the slow and deliberate to intense penis mathing competitions. Penis to penis sessions are my favorite preferably with someone that's also large.

Recently I was introduced to a highly erotic activity. My partner and I slowly rubbed each other to mutual, maximum erections.We cut the head off of a condom and placed ( shaft to shaft) both engorged members in the same condom, he then grabbed both and slowly rubbed them up and down, together until there was mutual explosions. Safe and erotic.

From Neil
My wife and I have been married for over 20 years and masturbation has always been a huge part of our sex life together. We both enjoy a bit of exhibitionism and like being photographed while we masturbate. We recently hired a sex worker/photographer to direct us and take erotic photos.

First my wife leaned back against me and masturbated to an intense orgasm while the photographer (a woman) took her photos. The photographer encouraged my wife by talking dirty while she masturbated, saying things like "show me how wet you are" and "show me how hot your cunt is".

After my wife's orgasm, the photographer directed me to straddle my wife and masturbate close to her face. I was so turned on by the presence of the photographer that it was one of the most intense orgasms I've ever had. Right before I came, the photographer said "I want you to think about all the guys that your hot slutty wife has sucked on...now she wants you to come all over her face and her tits"...and I did. It was INTENSE! Enjoy masturbation with your partner and indulge your fantasies!

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