Older Women, Younger Men
When Hot Mamas Rob The Cradle

What I want to know is why would an older woman seduce a younger man? I can imagine why an older man would do this with a younger woman but I'm not sure why it might happen the other way around. Has any woman here actually done this? What sort of woman would want to seduce a younger man, and what would she be looking for?   —Garce

Men reach their sexual peak at eighteen. Women reach theirs at thirty-five. Do you get the feeling that God is playing a practical joke? —Rita Rudner

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From Kay
I have had serious relationships with younger men, the first when I was 38 and he was 25. It lasted for 3 years, until he died unexpectedly. The man I am currently seeing is 35 and I'm 50. Age isn't a big deal to me. We connect and that's what matters. He is much more attentive and a much better lover than the ones who are older, from my experience.

From Roy
My wife is 68 this year but twenty years ago she had her own business, a beauty spa, and one of her services was permanent removal of hair. Bikini lines were favorites for females. Being a broad-minded lady she offered hair removal to men, including bikini lines. Most of her male clients were young, early twenties. Most were gay but a few were hetro.

In doing the bikini line for either sex, underwear had to be removed but genitalia were covered by a towel. Hetro or gay the men always got an erection and the towel was ineffectual. Having a fully erect cock just an inch from her face as she burnt hairs from the skin was always going to be a bizarre situation and my wife told me (much later of course) that with a client she was seeing for a third or fourth time she would allow herself a small indulgence, invariably a suck, although not a full blow job, or jerk the client off until he shot into the towel. A fat tip would always follow.

I remember being very intrigued by her descriptions of the hardened cocks, three inches up to ten, fat and thin, black, white, oriental, with a mix of tastes from unwashed musky through chilli pepper. Why just suck these young sexy guys, why not give them a full blow job? Believe me she said, some of them had very beautiful cocks that were long and thick she would normally have spent all day sucking, but health reasons. AIDS was beginning to take off so and she was being very careful.

From June
I went to my grand-daughter's wedding a few months ago and met a very charming (and good looking) younger man.  I'm not a predatory older woman but I do enjoy sex, have kept my figure and looks so have enjoyed the occasional relationship, generally with men of the same age as me and my husband.  At the wedding I had an enjoyable time with my young man, went home at the end of the party and thought nothing more of him.  But he tracked me down and got my email address from someone and I was very pleased to receive an email from him.  We exchanged emails and, safe behind my email address, each one grew increasingly bolder. 

At that point I decided to tell my husband that I had a 'cyber lover' which greatly intrigued him.  He rather liked the idea that a younger man should take an interest in his wife and suggested I meet with him to 'see what happens'.  I did, the most convenient way being while I was away at a weekend conference, my friend booking into a motel near my hotel and the conference.  We had sex three times and each was an amazing experience for me.  He was tender, caring, loving, impressed me with a large erection, his athleticism, and ability to make love for a good twenty minutes or more before climaxing.  I enjoyed oral and anal sex with him as well as vaginal. 

I told my husband and the resultant sex we had on my return home was the best we'd had as a married couple in a very long time.

From M
It's not rocket science! If you are a mature lady who enjoys sex, you must fulfill your need or go crazy! I'm 53, had a very active sex life while my husband was in full time employment. Then he retired early and discovered golf, ignoring me in the process. From sex three or four times a week we went to sex two or three times a month. Not enough for me!

So when a younger guy at work took an interest in me I didn't say 'no' Not to put too fine a point on it, this guy fucked me to heaven and back again. Today, I am a much happier lady. I am still married, but take a greater interest in my looks and figure, wear sexier underwear, shorter skirts and heels, still dutifully go to golf functions with hubby, still go on vacation with him, of course, but our lovemaking is still only a few times a month. But everything is made bearable by the regular hot sex sessions I have my younger co-worker.

From Glenda
It is very common for men to have relationships with younger women, sometimes very young females. I don't see anything wrong with that, more power to the guys, but when an older woman dates or marries a younger man, some people think its just terrible! I have found that its mostly other women who squawk the loudest.

I am 48 years old and have worked hard to maintain my looks and shape and have been told many times that I look 10 years younger. I always date guys who are at least 10 years and sometimes 15 years younger than me. These young men are just better for me and spending a night with them gives me pleasure that cannot be described.

When I was married, several years ago, my husband never performed oral for me but always expected me to do him. The younger men are eager to please me in that way and almost all the young guys seem to love it. I say that as long as the two involved are of legal age that should be the only concern for them. The time has come for letting the older women enjoy the same arrangements as the older men!

From Doug
I have had the good fortune to have once been the younger man. From my current age (59) we were both so young then. I was 19 and she was gasp! gasp! 26 years old. I was in Washington DC for the first March on the Pentagon, OCT, 67. I was traveling light, only the clothes on my body. I walked into newsstand at the airport to buy something to read on the flight back. Instead, standing there was an elegant 6 foot tall woman who suddenly caught all my attention with hers as our eye met. I don't know what to call it or how to explain it but suddenly we were hugging like old friends long separated, without a word. She asked my destination and I said Cleveland. She said "Me too, Let's get seats together". After that we got around to names.

Waiting to board and once onboard we talked non-stop. She was a chemistry teacher at a private girls school going to Cleveland to pick up her car which had been stolen. She was there for 1 night. We almost died together driving back from the airport as a drunk driver barely made it between her VW and a disabled car on a 2 lane freeway exit at 80 mph.

We went to dinner and a late movie. It was a late movie because we spoke for 4 hours at dinner. I don't know what it was but we sure did hit it off. We made out a bit before falling asleep at 3 AM. Unfortunately I was only a sophomore in college and wasn't able to follow up on it after I said goodbye that morning.

Age never came up after we each described our situations. Whatever was between us was regardless of age. Currently I'm on the other end of things now with a girlfriend almost 10 years younger. And age itself has never been an issue. We like a lot of the same music. Physically I have never been healthier in my life and pretty good shape. I weigh 25 pounds less than when I graduated high school, for those who mentioned that middle age spread. I have 90% of the hair I had then, am clean and don't smell and more than make up for with technique what I have lost in raw raging hormones.

My problem is as mentioned by one of the ladies.  Most ladies don't want to play for nearly as long as I like to. They orgasm a few times, early stage orgasms, and want to stop instead of going into an extended orgasm state and build from there to the higher states. This doesn't seem affected by age though I haven't found any older ladies willing to play for hours at a time. I think it's great fun to share with a lady in experiencing the seven stages of orgasm detailed in Taoist teachings.

From Charley
You got me with the "Two foot gap" comment Garce.

I would have to say that being married for me has meant that my husband considers me "got" and therefore the effort factor has dropped away.

Standing two feet from a young many who looks like he SEES me, wants me, is scared of me rejecting him but can't help himself...well it's a stark contrast to waking your husband up to try and get some interest.

My feelings are that whilst I have older men in my life who play that big brother role temptingly well...the younger men are the ones you can play with. 'Play' being the operative word.

Younger men don't look at you and see a set of working ovaries, they look at you and see a woman they want to touch and explore. This is a sort of worship to the woman who is used to being the aforementioned set of ovaries.

From Stacia
A couple of years after my divorce I met a man 20 years my junior. He was beautiful, mind, body, and soul. Never once in my life had I felt so loved, so adored, and so incredibly sexually satisfied. J. was an eager, gentle student who ended up teaching me a few things, too. We both felt safe and comfortable exploring our sexuality, and our lovemaking sessions were full of laughter and kisses…ah, the kisses, something older men seem to have forgotten…making out is bliss!

He often commented that girls closer to his own age were too hung up on body image and were "drama queens". I loved his "don't worry, be happy, and make love to me" attitude. As long as they have jobs and their own places, viva la younger men!

From Alexandra
Like many women, I hit the"dirty 30's" and found I couldn't get enough sex. At 38 I had a brief relationship with a guy 15 years my junior. It was a win/win situation. After being with girls his own age, he liked the fact that I actually initiated sex, that I would give him blow jobs willingly and with obvious enjoyment. He didn't need to worry about me getting pregnant, wanting marriage or wanting to be reassured all the time. I just loved his always hard cock!

In older men/younger women situations, very often the girl is attracted to the older man's financial stability, home and lifestyle. Young women will often settle for less than better sex because a lot of women are significantly older than their male counterparts when reach their sexual peak. For myself, as sexually confident women in her 30's, a quickie once a week just wasn't enough any more. I didn't want marriage, children or a relationship and neither did my young man so we were free to concentrate on just having great sex.

I saw him years afterwards at a party and he confided that he had never had better sex than we had shared. We slipped away and found an empty room and I gave him a blow job. Later, I saw his young wife look at me from across the room and in a glance dismissed me as a threat. I smiled back.

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