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From Charley
You got me with the "Two foot gap" comment Garce.

I would have to say that being married for me has meant that my husband considers me "got" and therefore the effort factor has dropped away.

Standing two feet from a young many who looks like he SEES me, wants me, is scared of me rejecting him but can't help himself...well it's a stark contrast to waking your husband up to try and get some interest.

My feelings are that whilst I have older men in my life who play that big brother role temptingly well...the younger men are the ones you can play with. 'Play' being the operative word.

Younger men don't look at you and see a set of working ovaries, they look at you and see a woman they want to touch and explore. This is a sort of worship to the woman who is used to being the aforementioned set of ovaries.

From Stacia
A couple of years after my divorce I met a man 20 years my junior. He was beautiful, mind, body, and soul. Never once in my life had I felt so loved, so adored, and so incredibly sexually satisfied. J. was an eager, gentle student who ended up teaching me a few things, too. We both felt safe and comfortable exploring our sexuality, and our lovemaking sessions were full of laughter and kisses…ah, the kisses, something older men seem to have forgotten…making out is bliss!

He often commented that girls closer to his own age were too hung up on body image and were "drama queens". I loved his "don't worry, be happy, and make love to me" attitude. As long as they have jobs and their own places, viva la younger men!

From Alexandra
Like many women, I hit the"dirty 30's" and found I couldn't get enough sex. At 38 I had a brief relationship with a guy 15 years my junior. It was a win/win situation. After being with girls his own age, he liked the fact that I actually initiated sex, that I would give him blow jobs willingly and with obvious enjoyment. He didn't need to worry about me getting pregnant, wanting marriage or wanting to be reassured all the time. I just loved his always hard cock!

In older men/younger women situations, very often the girl is attracted to the older man's financial stability, home and lifestyle. Young women will often settle for less than better sex because a lot of women are significantly older than their male counterparts when reach their sexual peak. For myself, as sexually confident women in her 30's, a quickie once a week just wasn't enough any more. I didn't want marriage, children or a relationship and neither did my young man so we were free to concentrate on just having great sex.

I saw him years afterwards at a party and he confided that he had never had better sex than we had shared. We slipped away and found an empty room and I gave him a blow job. Later, I saw his young wife look at me from across the room and in a glance dismissed me as a threat. I smiled back.

From Cat
Why should men only have the pleasure of being with someone younger? I have loved all men old, young, handsome or not. My 1st experience with an older man was in high school. I decided it was my turn at age 26. My sister and I made a bet who could do the youngest, I guess you'd say we naughty girls. I won! What made it even better was I knew him, I had babysat him when I was 14, now he was in high school.

He actually was helping me move. I kept on looking at him trying to talk myself out of it. I thought about his mother killing me. Funny thing about sex there is no reason to stop yourself. We sat having sodas everyone was gone. I told how handsome he's gotten and I kissed him. That was it. Clothes everywhere the smell of sex in the air. We were together a few more times. I enjoyed teaching him things women truly like. I hope that he thinks of me now and again, I do of him.

Since then I believe I've only been with men older maybe 6 x's. I like younger. We're actually at more of an even playing field. I haven't found a older man to keep up with me and who doesn't start snoring before he's even done. I want more, I will get it!

From Jasmyn
Well, what a question to read just after I have actually broken my record with the age difference thing a few nights ago. Why would a 22 year old actually want to take a 41 year old to bed, I wondered? I wondered, fleetingly, but I was very flattered and turned on, and have finally found a man who can actually keep up with me and not make me feel like a slut for wanting too much sex.

I am blonde and attractive for my age, but I was still surprised as my 'toy boy' is stunning and could have anyone he wanted. My last boyfriend (also 41) constantly complained about my need for sex, whether it was a bit of stress relief, a quickie, or a long passionate session. He seemed to think I should just have my nice orgasm and go to sleep. With my younger lover I have now discovered someone who is not only aware I have sex toys but is happy to use them on me in between the various other things that go into our hours of pleasure!

Younger men are clearly more open about my sexuality, and he is grateful I do not have the hang-ups and body image problems that plague the young women he has been with. He is charming, witty and intelligent, so it isn't just all about sex. But the sex is FUN with a young guy, I can take all he can give me, and he loves that about me, because it hasn't happened to him before.

It was meant to be one night, because we are realistic, after all, but it has turned into many more because we are fulfilling needs in each other that those of our own age have failed to do - on both sides.

So, if you need to ask the question, maybe you need to go check it out yourself. The results of this union are mind-blowing and limitless.

From Rob from Euless
What a wonderful subject. I tend to think that both "remittance girl" and "Rose" represent two very common points of view. [see entries below] "Remittance girl" echoes the sentiments I've heard from many older women. Ugh, young guys - young point-of-view, and most likely woe be the older woman that finds herself in a situation with a younger, more predatory and less descriminating lover. Many times as the younger lover (oft' times by a factor of 30 years) I didn't realize what I had until I lost it (to my ultimate dismay) when I had an older lover. However, I think I've been somewhat blessed by remembering what those older lovers had to offer (and in most cases, the "older" lover was much more enjoyable because of her age and her experiences; and the way she knew what she wanted both physically and emotionally from our trysts) and how much their honesty and directness has worked in my favor bringing pleasure to partners both older and younger than myself.

"Rose's" first paragraph mirrors so many opinions of the delightful older women that have shaped my sexual and emotional experiences. They are old enough to escape the shackles of youth and the whole peer-pressure hell that accompanies same. If they don't necessarily have the experiences of what they enjoy, they often have the experiences of what they didn't enjoy and have the confidence to express it. They can allow themselves to stretch--both physically and emotionally--and in doing so really pass along a meaningful lesson to their younger lovers.

My fortunate exposure to older women as lovers allows me to play to the strengths of both the older and younger female lover. It gives me (along with their careful relation of their wants and experiences) a chance to be a receptive partner to the older lover and gives me insight into anticipating what lays-around-the-bend for the younger lover and perhaps open her eyes sooner to her own pursuit of pleasure/happiness. And it drives home the lessons my departed father tried to instill in me. Although we were separated by 50 years, my pop was a gentle and attentive interest to every woman that crossed his way. He taught me that sometimes you have to treat a lady as a wanton trollop and vice-versa. But by no means do you ever forget that no matter what course you take, the lady has the final say... even if she allows you the illusion of being in control.

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