Oral Sex For Her: Cunnilingus

Talking with your tongue

If you would be so kind—for some of the less experienced pussy eater wannabes—could you give us some serious tips and techniques on oral sex? I have read numerous how-to manuals, and not much detail emerges. We need the mouth of champions to speak and weigh in on this issue of cunnilingus. Could we please have your input?   —Johnny Tender

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From Mesh (India)
My experience with my female partners with my tongue and finger is my most valued and gratifying one. I feel woman deserve and must get her foreplay to her full contenment. Those men who don't and are in hurry to invade the penis are selfish. I am not. I want my female to experience the breaking and crashing orgams when my  tongue plays with her clit and the taste of her juice entering my mouth, my fore finger rubs her vulva and G spot and the pubic  mound. The trembling and twitching of thighs and tightening of the thighs jamming my face or finger, my one palm caressing her nipples and breast... she makes sounds and shakes and jumps her buttock in air... this is real love I feel  the female well deserves for her being a female.

From Mansa
I would love to have my husband perform oral on me. He tried but he freaked out while giving it. Learned later that he had claustrophobia.Smell and taste was not an issue here since I always cleaned myself well before we tried although he did not. I also felt he was reluctant to do it though he enjoyed immensely when I did him voluntarily or on demand/request.

I would like to know from men why they are so reluctant to please a woman when they like her to please them. Sex is always about give & take, not just take. No wonder many women prefer to stay single now. At least they are free to mingle with anyone who cares to please them. A happy woman always will return favors to her man.

From Anonymous
I want a man that loves to eat pussy, but they sure are hard to find.  I want him to finger fuck my pussy and ass hard while sucking and massaging my clit.  All the while, I want him to talk really dirty to me.  Tell me how much he enjoys my taste and smell and how hard I am making his cock.  Get me really wet and threaten to fuck me in the ass if I don't come and then do it anyway. 

I also want to eat another woman's pussy while my pussy is being sucked and while I am being fucked.  Do you exist?  I often think I need a man that's been in prison for awhile, so he appreciates a good pussy and wants to literally sleep between my legs.  Where are you Mr Right?  Do you exist? Bring your wife or girlfriend along to play.

From Anon
Guys, first make sure both of you are in a comfortable position.  It might take her a while to come.  I prefer kneeling beside the bed with her hips and pussy right there at the edge of the bed.  Build up by licking her thighs and bush first, to tease her.  Try different tongue strokes on her clit, various directions, varying pressures - she will let you know what feels best.  Also, don't forget her vaginal opening.  Some women want you to lick around it and probe it with the tip of your tongue or with your fingers.  Some might like something similar around her anus, too.  And when she moans or pushes against your mouth, keep doing whatever you're doing.  If you give her great oral, she'll be yours forever! 

From Mr. Eatemright
So let me get this straight...your boyfriend says giving oral is disgusting, but he enjoys getting head. Poor Umbreon, your bf is out of his mind and perhaps you are also for staying with such a selfish man. I suspect if he's so onesided about oral sex, he's probably selfish about other things also. Ditch him and get yourself a good man. [see Umbreon's entry below]

From Umbreon
I don't like the thought of oral on me. My bf told me that he would never do it and that it's disgusting and that totally killed my confidence about it. Now I just think it's oral sex on a girl is just plain nasty. I don't want it ever. I'm happy to perform oral on a guy though, I like it and my bf really enjoys it too.

From Micky
I find that licking my wife's pussy turns me on almost as much as it does her. Sometimes I go down on her just to help get her wet and a little more turned on before having sex and other times I keep going until I take her over the edge. I think her orgasms are more intense with my tongue than my cock. 

From Susan
One of the reasons I married my husband was because of his "pussy eating" ability. The first time we had oral sex I came so often I thought my heart would give out. This is one of the things he loves to do for me. Once he starts down on me with that tongue of his, I'm know I'm in for it. That tongue just sets me over the edge. His tongue in my pussy and a well lubed finger in my ass, and I'm gone. I come so fast and so hard. I've even hypervenilated a few times. I love that tongue so much I even wrote him a poem about it for a Valentine's gift. He travels a lot, so whenever he reads the poem, he thinks of me, knowing I miss him as much as I miss his tongue.

From Nick
Can I make a plea? It may sound like male chauvinism but I dig ladies who completely shave their pussies. I love cunnilingus, always have done, but not when the pussy is lost somewhere in a forest of thick pubic hair that gets in teeth, on the tongue, at the back of the throat choking me to death! My wife has kept her pussy fully shaven since just after we got married in mid 80s and says her enjoyment is a thousand times better than when she didn't shave. I am able to kiss, lick, suck inside and outside her pussy and please her a lot longer than those awful old hairy days and I've managed to give her orgasms on a number of occasions thanks to my uninterrupted appreciation of her pussy. She says it's fun to check the look of surprise on another guy's face, sucking her through panties to start with, then removing them to find her fully shaven, a sight they obviously don't expect that is both sexy and exciting! From experience I know that my wife's fully shaven pussy mode is not common. So, why are ladies loathed to shave?

[Editor's Note: Nick, check out the entries in To Shave or Not to Shave... for a variety of opinions about shaving.]

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