Oral Sex For Her: Cunnilingus

Talking with your tongue

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From Extacy-G
There is nothing better than eating "kitty;" and not just for the woman, but for the person giving pleasure as well. Funny thing is, when I was young I thought eating pussy was disgusting. Now I think it's absolutely amazing (a solemn thank you to my old buddy Steve from me and my fiancée for telling me about the wonders of going down on a woman).

Think of you and your lover and/or fantasy lover in bed, your head buried between her milky thighs. Imagine her cum drenched all over your face and/or hand, her squirming hips, her eyes going into the back of her head, her moans and/or screams, her sheet-grabbing and her sensual words calling your name over and over again.....now imagine all of these things happening at once. It can be summed up with the two favorite words of the immortal Frank Barone, "Holy Crap!" It's so amazing that it makes even the best porno movies look like a G-Rated flick.

Now a couple flicks of the tongue won't accomplish this, however. It takes a lot more than that. It takes time, the willingness of both parties to spend the time, communication (before and after the session) and of course talent.

Now I want to give you a few pointers myself:

1) Communicate! Let her know that her pleasure is your pleasure. Ask her what she likes and what she doesn't like for that matter. Tell her not to fake it; if something isn't quite working for her, have her let you know. She will be so impressed and happy that you are there to please her that she'll work with you.

2) "Follow the Leader." If you're doing something that's making her react more than at other times, keep doing it. If her hips are moving backward, have your head follow (you also can stop her hips with your hands—make it so she can't move backwards—this can work like a form of bondage, which excites many women).

3) Don't rush! As I said before, take your time. It's a marathon, not a sprint.

4) After she comes, don't stop! That's a mistake many men and women make. Men: a woman is more susceptible to pleasure after she has already been pleasured. Women you ARE capable of coming more than once; and not just because of your body but because of your mind. Let the "pleasure train" ride both physically and mentally until it runs out of track.

5) "Finger Food for thought!" Your fingers can please a woman more than any other part of your body because they can go to places that your other extremities can't. They reach deeper than your tongue and they bend in ways your penis can't. Here are three things you can do with your fingers. 

A) Use the "come hither" motion on the G-Spot! Do this later in the session. Arch the tops of your fingers (2 fingers is usually good) upward and put them about an inch or two inside your partner. The G-Spot will feel a bit like sandpaper. Not only will you know you have hit it by the feel of it, but you will also know by your partner's reaction. Now remember that this area is very sensitive so don't put too much pressure on it. Just rub it softly with whatever motion/speed/etc makes your partner moan louder. 

B) Use the "backwards come hither motion" too! Keep your fingers arched the same way but turn them so they're facing downward. Put them a lot deeper inside until you hit what feels like a very wet ping-pong ball. I believe this is called the cervix but please forgive me if my terminology is incorrect. As the G-Spot, this is a highly-sensitive area. Hitting it too hard will cause pain and not pleasure. But also as with the G-Spot, hitting it right can cause intense pleasure. 

C) Use what I call the "Flow Flicker." This is the last thing you do to your partner before she begs for sex. I would recommend extreme caution if you decide to do this on the G-Spot or Cervix...do not use too much pressure as it could end the session very quickly. Here's what to do: arch your fingers just like you do for section A. Put them midway inside or all the way inside and flick hard and fast. You will feel her cum rushing towards your hand and/or face as well as hear her moan louder and squirm harder than she ever has. Now she's not gonna be able to take this for too long and will soon beg you for sex. Also, because you both will be so aroused, the sex will be incredible too.

Thank you very much for taking the time to read this. I hope it helps your sex life because it has certainly helped mine! Just ask my fiancée!

From Walikeme
I am an older man who enjoys giving oral stimulation to a woman that is clean, with unblemished legs and pretty feet. I am impotent, and achieve my orgasm when she does.

From Suzie
I love it when he licks me, and he loves doing it, but it takes me at least 20 minutes to come, and he says it makes his tongue ache. He tends to lick at my clit in a really regular back and forth way - I love it, but I'm thinking I might suggest a few other things having read this section. I hate being under pressure to come to relieve his aching tongue!

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