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The Good, Bad and Ugly of Oral Sex for Him

Not to be outdone by Oral Sex for Her, the ladies of ERWA decided to put their heads together and blow a few... minds (ha, gottcha). We'd like to share the following thoughts about fellatio with our web readers. Tell us your oral sex experiences. What are your preferences, likes, dislikes about fellatio, blowjobs, or whatever else you want to call it.

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From Anonymous
Let me disclose up front that my favorite orgasms are those that occur through vaginal sex. Having said that, one of the most pleasurable sensations in the world (for me) is a great blow job right up to the point of orgasm.

My wife works very hard and prefers not to have sex during the work week. Sometimes we work on the weekends as well and she gets to feeling bad if she doesn’t “take care of her man”; her words, not mine. One such day was a few weeks past, I had just finished showering and I put my robe on, came down stairs, poured us each a glass of Baileys and sat down on the couch to relax and enjoy the view of the lake behind the house. Without a word my spouse approached me, opened my robe, and began massaging my balls and areas south with her right hand. With her other hand she began playing with and gently pinching my nipples. As my dick hardened I put one hand at the base to stabilize and she covered me with her mouth, pushing me deep into her throat, then pulling back far enough to work over my head with her tongue, and then repeating the process.

I just sat there sipping my Bailey’s and enjoying both the view outside and the one in my lap. She was able to hold me off for nearly half an hour, I came and she did not miss a drop, and then she hung around to lick the residual cum off my cock like an ice-cream cone.
Again, the best thing about her blowjobs is not the orgasms, but the trip getting there. It is one of the most lavish experiences ever. She is the best.

From Tony (L.A.)
Once when my girlfriend and I were camping, I awoke to the most stimulating feeling ever. She couldn't sleep so she decided to give me head as a special treat. The combination of being in a sleep state coupled with her warm mouth swallowing me was the best wake up call I've ever had!

From Anonyman
A long time ago, when the world and I were both young, my first lady love and I were drinking a fair amount of red wine when we decided to get naked and fool around. She ended up dipping my cock in the wine glass, covering the head and much of the shaft in wine. Then she slowly slurped up the wine from my cock, which gave me a wonderfully tingly feeling. I almost came right there. Then she dipped it back in the wine again and slurped some more. The combination of her warm lips and the cool wine put me over the edge; I came in her mouth, and she slurped all that up too. Ah, memories...

From DEE
Performing oral on the man you love can be the most expressive experience imaginable if you allow yourself to drop your inhibitions,and get beyond the negative connotations society impresses upon women who are sexually open! I, for one, love the control I gain over my partner when I put my mouth to work. I have taken him to heights he has never experienced. The proverbial "closed eyes, hand on the shaft, slurping, bob of the head" should be long gone ladies.......If you truly like to please your partner, practice on a finger roll.

From Mc Kuen
A quick tip: The guy may have a big cock and you may want to give your sore jaws relief.  Or, for whatever reason, you just want to get it over with.  There's a ridge of skin that runs from where his balls hang from, to his asshole.  This area is highly erogenous.  If you tickle it with your finger tip while sucking him, he'll quickly come and ejaculate.  There's another advantage to this technique if you can't stand cum in your mouth.  When his orgasm hits, your finger tip will feel his prostate contract signaling the start of his ejaculation.  Act fast!  You have less than one second to get him out of your mouth.  As for where he squirts, you're in control.  You have his cock in your hand.

From Eric
I can't say that I've ever experienced a bad blow-job.  I mean , a woman is sucking my dick.  That usually is enough to make me content.  That said, one particular partner of mine does stand out in terms of her skills.

I knew it was going to be good when, after I suggested that I wear a condom, she told me "not to bother".  I soon stripped nude, and sat at the edge of my bed.  She took her place in between my legs as she pushed me back on the bed.  She initially was hands on, stroking my cock and massaging my balls.  After a minute or two, I feel the warmest breath on my tool that I've ever experienced.  Oh my!!  She then proceeded to alternate between slow licks, and fast paced sucking.  She employed her hands to massage the inside of my thighs, and even wedging them under my ass for a nice massage.  This was my definition of ecstasy.  I don't know how long this lasted, but it wasn't long enough, as I soon shot a load into her mouth that made her gag a little.  I hadn't had sexual release in probably a week at the time, so that is why I suggested I wear a rubber.  She took it like a real trooper, though.

I guess to sum it up, my ideal oral sex encounter involves more than just aimlessly bobbing up and down, eyes closed, just trying to get through it.  If my partner puts some effort and passion into it, I will gladly and eagerly return the favor.

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