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No, I'm not fond of the experience. I don't find having a
fat long thing filling my mouth, bobbing my head up and down like a
jack-in-box, gagging my throat, sucking till my cheeks hurt and lips go
numb, and then flooding my mouth with slimy goo. Not fun. However, I do enjoy having my pussy licked, so what it comes down to
is very simple: fair is fair. If I want mine, alas, then he gets his.
However I have to admit licking that results in a wet chin is a hell of
a lot easier then sucking that results in a mouth full of slimy goo. I
guess life isn't fair after all, and it's still a man's world.
The first blowjob I ever received was on a fine spring afternoon when I was a young man. My girlfriend and I were making out on a hill behind my house, secluded in the woods, as we were wont to do. But this time, instead of just caressing my cock through my jeans or just playing with it, she took it out and held it in front of her face as though she were about to devour it. I knew what was coming, so to speak. I smiled and said, "I like a girl who knows what she wants." and she took me into her mouth. I thought I was the luckiest guy in the world. I had never had a feeling like that before, that warmth, that pleasure. Afterwards, we kissed and I tasted myself on her lips, which just added to the excitement. It was the first of many oral adventures I would have with women.
I love sucking and teasing and kissing my man's cock. I love licking it round the tip and up and down. And rubbing it on my tits and around my mouth, on my face. Oh! I get so wet. Sometimes I just pump it with my mouth while flicking my tongue around at the same time and he comes in my mouth and I swallow.
I would be very disappointed if this aspect of our sex life was gone!
say I'm a prude or uncomfortable with sexuality. And I'm not going to
say I don't enjoy a good blow-job. But I can never get past the feeling that sticking my dick in a
woman's month is damn insulting, for both of us. Watching her head bob
up and down with a mouth full of penis, then spraying sperm down her
throat, for me, seems degrading. Notice I said "for me," so
guys, don't go crazy here. I fully realize and respect 'different
strokes for different strokes'.
And one more thing: porn is fiction and not at all accurate. It's designed, staged, and produced. Nothing
real there, and just like any other well made movie, it's damn fun to
watch good porn. But to learn from, or expect similar reactions to those
in porn? No, it's a movie, not a how-to. All those porn shots of girls on their knees with their mouths open
for the money shot, like new born birds accepting food from their
mothers. It's a male fantasy, and pity the poor young women who think
they need to emulate porn stars in order to be considered sexy.
Sally [see Sally's entry below], I don't think you're weird, I
think you're smart to be concerned about STDs. This is a very real
concern, and everyone should really think twice about who they're going
down on. Unless you're in a monogamous relationship with someone who has
been tested negative for STDs, be sure the guy is wearing a condom
before you go down on him. There's a lot of info on the 'Net about oral sex and STDs. Educate
yourself, then you can make wise decisions. The risk of contracting
HIV/AID via oral sex is relatively low (but not rare). However, Genital Herpes,
Syphilis, Gonorrhea, NGU, and Hepatits A are all easily contracted via
oral sex. For the facts, visit www.pccwichita.org/sexstds/factsaboutoralsexstds
I don't know if I'm just weird or paranoid but I really don't like giving or
receiving oral sex mostly because I'm afraid of diseases. All my friends and guys I know give and receive oral sex and don't
even think about whether they would get a disease or not, but I do. So
when a guy asks to go down on me I refuse, not because I'm self
conscious, but because I'm afraid I'll get herpes or
something and I don't like giving head because I'm afraid I'll get some
oral STD...ahh I'm just weird what do you guys think?
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