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The Good, Bad and Ugly of Oral Sex for Him

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From Doug
A male anonymous wondered if all men enjoy bjs and I would have said NO! until last week. My ex-wife of more than 30 years never gave me a bj that was arousing and that didn't give me an UTI, 100% of 3 times. She persisted in sticking the end of her tongue into my urethra and I always got infected, plus it hurt and was totally deflating. She was generally lousy at hand-jobs too. And vaginal sex with her was pretty lousy. We just didn't hit it off sexually. I couldn't stand her taste or flavor so oral sex just wasn't on the menu for either of us. After 20 years I felt totally cheated out of the experience of a good sex life.

Last week my girlfriend gave me a bj that was great, the first one. I have been doing oral on her for several years and enjoying it very much. I find her aroma and flavor to be just fine and dandy. In answer to a female anonymous, I never did oral on her expecting or wanting it in return because of my former experience. I did it because I enjoyed doing so and delighted in having her orgasm wildly in a way I never experienced with my ex-wife. She found stimulation that actually made her engorged and lubricated to be painful. It wasn't until about year 30 that something changed there and her perception of what was stimulating matched what her body found stimulating.

Last week I was lying on my back on the massage table. After a thorough whole body stroking with feathers my girlfriend started stroking my penis. At some point I felt a change in sensation and opened my eyes and there she was with my penis in her mouth watching and listening to my reaction. I was very aroused and was getting quite vocal. After 30 years of dreading oral sex suddenly I can't wait for another round of it and get excited just thinking about it. I'm not sure why it has taken so many years until she has tried it on me the first time. She had always been relatively negative about the idea when we talked about it in a general way and she has never told me why but she acted as if a bad experience. It was obvious that she was enjoying what she was doing and enjoyed making me moan. I'm glad that she has tried it.

From Anonymous
My sweet husband of 20+ years underwent a prostatectomy last year. As soon as he was cleared by his doctor, who performed a nerve-sparing procedure, we began his "rehab". He has minimal loss of sensation, but the erectile part is unreliable. All of the pharmaceuticals seem to require the assistance of more local and concentrated attention to achieve an erection. His doctor gave us the admonition "Be kind to each other," which was insightful in the extreme.

The result has been that I have given more head in the last year than in the prior 20! And I've been loving it! Neither of us were prepared for the fact that we would need to spend time talking together, solving the problems that came up (or didn't!). The result is that I think about sex all the time - can't help it, I have a problem-solving nature.

I had no idea it was possible for a man to have an orgasm without an erection, but I've made it happen for him more times now than I've bothered to count! In exploring ways to make him more aroused, which enhances the effect of the drugs, we experimented with the power of scent. His nuzzling and inhaling the scent my parts gives him a rush I can feel when he is in my mouth!  I love science!

In the years prior to his surgery, I always felt a reserve from him, a reluctance to come in my mouth. Now, I find he is far more willing to surrender and allow me to overload him with sensation until he is pushing his cock into my face with the kind of abandon I had always wondered if he was capable of. It isn't really a matter of what comes out or doesn't so much as it's a matter of being willing to strip away the reserve and show one's true and abandoned self. I'll trade a mouthful of the good stuff for the feeling that he has allowed himself to be at his most vulnerable in my presence any time!

I imagine he'd be horrified if he knew I wrote this, but I find it pretty entertaining that we had to be in our 50's/60's to figure out that a blow job is a thing of much greater power than either of us may ever have thought! We become closer and more sexually entwined each day.  Thank God!

From Slohand
Someone asked about male perspective on handjobs - my 2 cents, not a big fan. In all modesty, I can do it better myself, and why would I want her to do what I can do for me. I know, sounds macho, but that's not. Just a personal thing I guess.

Ironically, my wife prefers my fingers over just about anything else (followed immediately by intercourse). Says I do things she could never come up with on her own. Oh geeeze, now I sound all macho again!

From Dale
Wow! You would not believe how hard my dick is from reading all of these posts! I love the women's' descriptions of their techniques, their reactions, their thoughts and feelings about giving oral sex.

Anyone who wants to arouse/turn on their partner, has to, has to, has to practically worship their body. If/when a woman worships a man, or parts thereof, it's such an erotic turn-on! And the same thing for a man who wants to pleasure and please a woman; worship her body!

For the record, ladies who are asking for men's opinions, I like it real wet and sloppy, with your saliva running all down my shaft, through your fingers and down by my balls and the crack of my ass. The wetter and sloppier the better. Making smacking sounds and/or slurping sounds, yes. Go slowly, too, and moaning is good, real, real good. Personally, I don't like the tongue-in-the-slit thing, ok?

From Toni FROM Illinois
I love giving blowjobs more than I like to have sex. I love to swallow also, I don't do it for the taste...I do it for my hubs reaction to it...that's a turn on for me. I'm very spontaneous, I never stick to any routine, exploring the penis with my tongue and hands. I love the smell of a penis. 

I think a man loves it when you are not afraid to play with his wood and figure out what every inch of it does. Deep throating is very easy if you can relax your jaw and throat. My hub loves the feel of my tongue ring sliding up and down the base and shaft of his penis. Although, I am wanting to experiment more with it (tongue ring)...if anyone here knows of any exciting tongue ring tricks please post

From Brian
I'm a guy who loves getting and sucking cock. I am gay but I also have a straight friend who enjoys sucking my cock once-in-awhile...I have to say, guys really know how to do it with other guys...let me share some secrets for the ladies, or men too...

Make sure the tongue is working underneath and the head is rubbing up on the roof of your mouth...

Go down deep and gently bite down around his shaft, just some pressure, he should tell how much...mind blowing!

The best for a guaranteed orgasm is to get your hand really wet, with your own saliva and preferably some of his pre- cum...wrap your hand around it and use your hand as an extension your mouth. Jerk him off, slowly at first with the wet hand, while at the same time sucking up and down on his cock, go up just far enough to keep his head in your mouth...suck really hard at this point, then go back down while sliding your hand down his shaft...speed up and get a good rhythm. Squeeze and play with his balls, or put some pressure up on that spot between his ass and balls, or if you're adventurous, play with his asshole...

From Karthik
What Cathy said is 100% true [see last entry]. As a single/straight guy, I anticipate exactly what she has written. Every time, when I look a young girl with beautiful face, it always triggers my mind; how nice it could be her lips start sucking my soft, limp dick from the beginning! I always imagine it as a transfer for love-juice to my female partner, when she eagerly takes all my cum and swallows up. I strongly believe that totally I am giving her full power and control of my body to her.

Not only this. I love more on cunnilingus part too! Millions of thanks to Cathy for sharing/expressing her way / method. It should be useful to other young females!

From Anonymous
Sally [see Sally's entry below], I don't think you're weird, I think you're smart to be concerned about STDs. This is a very real concern, and everyone should really think twice about who they're going down on. Unless you're in a monogamous relationship with someone who has been tested negative for STDs, be sure the guy is wearing a condom before you go down on him, or use a dental dam if going down on women. 

There's a lot of info on the 'Net about oral sex and STDs. Educate yourself, then you can make wise decisions. The risk of contracting HIV/AID via oral sex is relatively low (but not rare). However, Genital Herpes, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, NGU, and Hepatits A are all easily contracted via oral sex. 
http://www.managingdesire.org/sfdphoralsex.html 

From Sally
I don't if im just weird or paranoid but I really don't like giving or receiving oral sex mostly because I'm afraid of diseases. I haven't had sex and I'm sure when I do get to that point I will probably only have sex with virgins or people that I know have been tested for every STD. I don't know why I'm so afraid of STDs but I am. 

All my friends and guys I know give and receive oral sex and don't even think about whether they would get a disease or not, but I do. So when a guy asks to go down on me I refuse, not because I'm self conscious, even though I am, but because I'm afraid I'll get herpes or something and I don't like giving head because im afraid I'll get some oral STD...ahh I'm just weird what do you guys think?

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