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From Sarahlynne
My man is in his late 20s and had never had a blow job! One girlfriend told him it was "icky." I fixed that problem on our first date. I made him sit in a chair, eyes closed, hands behind his back, and told him he couldn't talk but could moan if needed. It was so very hot to be his first. He said it was better than he'd imagined. I even swallowed for him. I don't do it anymore because he comes a lot, and it makes my stomach hurt! 

When I lick at the triangle beneath the head, his butt muscle flexes repeatedly. It's so funny. I do a hard suction sometimes that he really enjoys. I'll do it if I think he isn't hard enough, and it helps. I can't do hard suction for long because it makes my cheeks sore. I like to keep him guessing as to what I'll do. I vary the pace, depth, action. 

His favorite part is when I suck the head and use my hand on the shaft so I save that for when I want him to come. I gently rub his balls and lick them once in awhile. I also press on his perineum, but I read not to just press because it will go numb. So, I move in circles or press for short bits of time. I love it when he moans into me while he gives me oral so I do the same to show that I am enjoying it. He doesn't quite understand why I would like giving blow jobs. Well, I like the power of pleasing him. It feels good, and it turns me on, too.

From Ron
I once had a girlfriend that loved giving and receiving oral sex. The biggest turn on, however, was when I was fucking her and she'd whisper in my ear for me, when ready, to pull out of her pussy and come in her mouth.

The first time she said this to me, it made me come almost instantly and she ended up with a trail of cum all the way from her slit up to her mouth—which she greedily began to gather with her fingers and put in her mouth.

The next time, I had her ankles pushed back with my hands and about to enter her pussy when she told me that, when I came, she wanted it in her mouth. Needless to say, watching my cock slide in and out of her, all I could think about was her finishing me off with her mouth. It wasn't long before I felt that first twinge of orgasm. As I slid my cock out of her pussy, you could see that it was covered with her pussy juice and my pre-cum. I moved up onto her chest, my cum on the verge of exploding, and watched as she finished off my orgasm.

There was something about this act that really turned me on—and, ladies, I believe it would turn on almost any man. I think, for the most part, it was the fact that she used her pussy to get me close to coming, but wanted to finish me off with her mouth.

From Rick
My wife of 35 years will usually go down on me, mostly because I need the extra stimulation at my age (62). However she'll work at it for 10-15 minutes including swallowing pre-cum. Then she will either quit (tired) or if I'm lucky enough to get off, she'll push me away and I have to come all over my stomach or the bed. She says she doesn't want any of the "white stuff" (direct quote) on her. Then she will sit on my stomach and rub her crotch over the area full of cum and keep riding until she gets off, even without penetration. I've always been offended and somewhat rejected by the "pushoff" at the ejaculation moment, but she's got some kind of hang up on body fluids, and won't talk about it.

I'm getting something, however infrequent (every month or two), but I'd love to be with a woman who wanted all of me and not just the parts that balance check books and do home repairs.

From Anonnya
I think I need some help. I'm in my mid-30's, happily married with a great sex life. I have great orgasms and so does he. There's only one problem - he hasn't come yet during a blow-job. In the past, I have had no problem giving boyfriends great blow jobs. They cum, I swallowed. I admit that I never learned techniques back then because I wasn't aware they were necessary. Now I am approaching this more seriously and trying to "learn" how to give a proper blow job for my husband. He loves it when I suck him, but he still hasn't come. I would love to be able to swallow his cum one day - believe me, very willingly!

At one point we experimented with him holding back his orgasm while I have him blow jobs every day. It went on for about 3 days. I enjoyed it because he was always hard so I could just jump on him whenever I liked. But in the end, he came inside me anyway. I wonder if having him "hold back until he comes via a blow job" is a good idea, or if there is something else I could try?

From Ghost Rider
I hate to tell you but when I was single, the biggest turn-off I had was to hook up with a woman who would start to give a BJ and spend a few minutes pushing my cock around in her mouth with her tongue. She would then go in to a 30 minute spiel of how she wished she could give a good BJ. 

When trying to give them some pointers on what felt good to me, they completely blew off the help that was offered. However, there were a few I ran into that could literally make the hair stand up on the back of my neck. God, what a feeling.

From Jack
I have to agree with Kim on that one [see Kim's entry below], one of my last girlfriends (who was completely inexperienced with everything) discovered that while I was teaching her. I believe it was her inexperience that led her to try it. The first time she did, I thought I was being deep-throated because she had her hand cupped around the top of my shaft and her cheek against the bottom as she flicked her tongue up and down it. I'm quite experienced but never even knew about that.

She was very attentive and I think that (ultimately) is the secret. She noticed how I spent a considerable amount of time "learning her" and paying attention to her heart rate and breathing, so naturally that became her "view" of sex.

I think the best advice I could give to women is to place your hand very lightly on your man's thigh and feel for tightness or quivering in his muscles. Also their is a major artery in the inner they, press your finger firmly on it and you can monitor his heart rate. A lot of times guys will just moan or make noise to encourage you to continue, not because your doing anything mind-blowing, but his body will not lie.


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