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From Mani
My wife not only sucked my penis, she was an expert in sucking my balls. It is actually a fantastic feeling when individual or both balls are sucked. It's simply mind blowing. The faint tinge of pain adds to the fun. I used to tell my wife to suck as hard as possible. She told me that she loved the softness of the balls. Most of the time she would alternate between my penis and my balls. I in turn returned her favours. We had a lot of fun.

From Dale
I like it real wet and sloppy, with your saliva running all down my shaft, through your fingers and down by my balls and the crack of my ass. The wetter and sloppier the better. Making smacking sounds and/or slurping sounds, yes. Go slowly, too, and moaning is good, real, real good. Personally, I don't like the tongue-in-the-slit thing, ok?

From Jean
Blow jobs don't turn me on, I'm not at all excited or aroused doing the deed. I do it out of obligation (and reciprocity), because I know how good oral sex feels. I'm also careful about how that comes off, because there's no doubt obvious disinterest is a turn-off. I read several books about fellatio to learn how to do a really good bang-up job of it. So I can get my guy off in no time flat with a good blow job. I would truly hate hate to go on and on. A good technique, besides being good for my guy, is also good for me. Would I give someone I don't love a blow job? Hell no.

From Faenia
I'm living proof of the fact that women can change their minds about giving oral sex. I used to hate the idea of a blowjob. I found it degrading and couldn't understand why a man who loved me would want to stick his cock in my mouth. It didn't help, either, that I didn't really like the taste of my man's cock. So one blowjob a year was all he could count on, on his birthday, and a reluctant, out-of-a-sense-of-duty blowjob it was, too.

Then something weird happened. I turned forty and began to realise that I was a much more sexual being than I had hitherto believed. I began to watch porn and to read erotic stories written by women who did like to please their men orally because it gave them such a thrilling sense of power over them. And you know what? I began to understand the appeal. I really did.

I now regularly blow my man, and provided it doesn't take too long, I enjoy it. It even turns me on. It really does.

To the ladies in the audience who are a little disgusted by the act -- ask him to wash beforehand to eliminate unpleasant smells and tastes. This made a HUGE difference to me.

From JS
I had a recent encounter with another man and I was rather surprised how turned on I became with him. We met at a wedding party and I guess both of us had too much to drink. We were sitting in swing on the patio talking and he suddenly reached over and grabbed my cock. My reaction was not one of shock because I rather enjoyed his touch. Pretty soon we were stroking each other through our trousers. He suggested that we move out into the yard where no one would bother us. We did. He knelt in front of me, unzipped my fly, and proceeded to suck and lick my cock, taking it all in his mouth. The fear of someone finding us this way, the feelings of guilt mixed with the most imaginable pleasure of having a man suck my cock heightened the joy.

After it was all over, he stood up, unzipped his pants, pulled out his cock and suggested that I return the favor. To my surprise, I did. I have mixed emotions about the process. I did the best I could, taking it all in until I gagged; but I kept stroking and sucking until he came in my mouth. It seemed like an hour. I cannot say that I found it to be sexually stimulating, in fact thinking about it later was really negative. He enjoyed it, but I didn't. I am really turned off by the thought of giving head to another man. I don't see how anyone can be fond of the experience.

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