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From Stephen
Oral or Intercourse?  I'm in my 60s, and my sample size is 4 women.  One long time, almost sexless marriage, two girlfriends, and a second wife, the last in my sampling!  First wife was "uncomfortable" with any oral sex, never initiated lovemaking.  Two girlfriends, one especially, loved it.  They kept themselves very nicely trimmed for me (for themselves!), always eager to open up for my tongue — and loved to love, to linger, to worship my cock to the sometimes bitter end!  Loved the mess, loved to share my cum back to me.  But it didn't end there because they also loved lovemaking, craved holy fucking, eager to occupy both of us for hours.   These two made sex a high priority.  Unfortunately neither of these women were really life partner prospects, both by my own involvement with them, and by their own life histories.

My second wife enjoys lovemaking, is happy to have me down there and gives me a little bit of oral attention as a warm up dish.  But she doesn't make sex a real priority. She talks about it enough, but doesn't make time to "walk the talk".

My conclusions based on my scientifically insignificant sampling?  A lover who wants and gives energized oral sex doesn't stop there, but brings the same eagerness to vaginal sex, and openness to explorations, opportunities, and a risqué passion.   It is a lucky man (and a lucky woman) who finds a strong life partner with racy desires who will also be a person you can depend on through all the ups and downs of life.

From Anonymous
Oral oral oral - yes give me a guy who knows how to kiss a women down under, and straight to bliss. He's a gem of the rarest sort. Afterward he can have all the intercourse he wants, or anything he may want. I'm a gonner, and all his.

From Greg
I enjoy both intercourse and oral sex. But I think right now receiving a blow job to completion is above intercourse. But I think that is because I fuck much more than I get a blow job, so it is something I really want to have a chance to enjoy again. Just thinking of having her lips on my hard cock and her hand stroking me while she uses her mouth is a huge turn on. I would just love to release my cum in her mouth. I don't care if she swallows or spits, I just want to feel a good squirt of cum from oral stimulation.

From ApathyKiss
As with all sexual preferences, it depends on the lover and depends on what I am trying to accomplish. Mainly I would choose oral. As intimate as intercourse is, I also enjoy the intensity of it. But I have to say that a lover's skilled tongue gives me paralyzing orgasms that can't compete with a cock. Especially since I know I don't have to work, I just have to lay back and enjoy. That is what I like about giving oral as well. I can concentrate on the task at hand and not have to worry about if I am going to get off as well. I am only worrying about getting him where he needs to be - enthralled.

From A Man
Hope this forum isn't only for women ... I rather be face down between a women's legs, than dick deep. There is something facinating about women's vulvas, all those folds and lips, clits, such fun to play with. Of course intercourse is good also, a nice way to finish. But not nearly as engaging.

Now as for a blowjob, I'll take that over intercourse anyday, everyday, all day! So yes, my preference is, without a doubt, oral.

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