Anal Sex for Straight Men
A penetrating question

How many men have a craving to be penetrated, but can't bring themselves to ask for it? I'm not thinking of gay men here, but straight men. Penetration is, semiotically, so full of meaning in most cultures. It is seen as an act of domination. The doer is dominant, the receiver submissive (I'm not talking D/s here - I'm speaking generally). There is also a perception that to penetrate someone is to feminize them.

All this might make it very hard for a man to seek out the experience of being penetrated, for fear of all the implications. Anyone have any thoughts on this?  —remittance girl

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From Mike
I love being fucked in the ass by a cock or a dildo, but when it is a real cock I like the feeling of it throbbing between the cheeks of my ass as it pounds me silly.

From Shorty
I am straight, but consider myself "bi-curious". I have a wonderful gf, but I think about having anal sex with another guy very often. And with the right guy, I'll do it. My first sexual experiences was with the neighborhood boy on our block. Somehow, he talked me into sucking his dick and coming in my mouth. It was an 'oral' relationship with mainly me sucking him. We never did anal.

Now that I'm grown up, I would not mind having a sexual relationship with a man. I find most guys unattractive though. I'm a small guy and my hole is very small. I would favor a young asian guy who is also open minded to fuck me in the ass.  I see nothing wrong with a male to male relationship. As long as no one gets hurt.

From Gee
When my wife and I decided to expand our sexual horizons back in 2006 and look for a guy to join us she asked we look for a bi guy since she wanted to see some 'action' between me and the guy.  I did not object and we eventually found 'Mr Right' and after exchanging emails we decided we were compatible and fixed to meet him. He was in his thirties, ten years younger than us, and did not disappoint.

We all stayed the weekend at a luxury hotel and on the Friday night after a very enjoyable meal we went to our room.  I enjoyed watching him fuck my wife's mouth, pussy and anus and when I thought he was too worn out for more action he showered and returned refreshed.  At my wife's request we sucked each other, his technique as good as my wife's, me shooting within five minutes, he lasting a bit longer before he shot his semen in my mouth, a bit of a shock but a wonderful experience as his milk flavored cum filled my mouth then slid down my throat.

After recovering he lubbed my ass, my wife sucked his cock up hard, then he edged himself inside me.  Slowly he went in deeper, me giving out some noises of ecstasy and some hurt but once he was full in, he began to move in and out and within minutes I was in seventh heaven.  It took about five minutes before he climaxed inside me but what a fabulous experience.  It was the first time a man had fucked me but I knew it wouldn't be the last.

Two years later we have a small network of bi men, single and married, who we meet two or three times a month.  With my wife's support and interaction, providing as well as receiving anal sex is a major item on the menu at each of our meet ups.

From JB
When I was first dating my wife, I had no interest in anal sex. We were separated for a month and she told me she had masturbated and used her small vibrator in her ass for the first time. From that point on I was VERY interested.

When we were back together I took her rear end, a first for both of us. I have always believed reciprocity is just proper decorum, so in addition to loving cunnilingus, I was willing to let her explore me anyway she wanted to. That meant getting doggy style for her while she used her fingers on my rear. Later it meant letting her have my rear with an anal plug.

The best came when she ordered a strap-on without my knowledge and told me we were role-reversing on our date night. She wore my clothes and had bought a skirt, garter belt, garters, male thong, heels and sheer blouse for me. To top it off she put make-up on me and put a wig on my head and we went out to dinner and drinks. It was an interesting experience in how I was treated, but the dressing up like a girl didn't do anything for me, other than give me an appreciation of what it is like for her to dress up with the make-up, clothes and heels to go out.

What did do something for me was her taking over in our bedroom that night. She took off the blouse and hiked my skirt up and bent me over the bed. She proceeded to redden my rear with a sound spanking. Then she put me doggy style while lubing me up. I was expecting the small anal plug, but she used a dildo equal to my size on me. I also have an appreciation of what it is like for her to give her ass to me as a result. I ended up coming on the bed without nary a touch to my penis and now she takes me anally a couple times a month while I take her a couple times a year, both to our mutual satisfaction.

I love her in control and how good she is in fucking my ass.

From Anonymous
My wife caught me at home in the shower one time with one of her dildos. She didn't let me know she had watched me for a few minutes. Anyway that weekend she bought a harness and a 8x3.5 inch dildo and lots of lube. I was very uncomfortable when she made known that she had watched me and had something for me! It was slow going because I was nervous.

Now days she loves for me to suck her cock while she tells me how she is going to use me and rip my ass good while she slam fucks me. I LOVE IT! I've woke up in the early hours of the morning with her sliding up to me with that hard cock. It's such a turn on, I spread my legg and let her fuck me as hard and rough as she wants.

I'm not gay, but I do love having my ass fucked hard and deep!!

From WD
I am a straight man in his forties who has always loved being anally penetrated, either by myself during masturbation or by a female lover. The only lovers who truly satisfied me were those who liked playing with my bottom. I wouldnt have married my wife, whos a wonderful woman in many ways, if she hadn't discovered that it turns her on to lick my anus or to lubricate my anus and insert a finger.

I realize the preconceptions people have, the idea that penetrating is male and being penetrating is female, or that desiring anal stimulation makes a man gay. It's unfortunate that these stereotypes keep people from satisfying their emotional and physical desires. Anal desire has nothing to do with sexual orientation. The fact is that the anus is highly sensitive and erotically responsive to stroking and penetration. Besides, penetration stimulates a mans prostate, which can send him into orbit, so to speakthe sensations are incredible and the orgasms extra intense.

It's wonderful to let yourself be vulnerable and to let someone into your body. I recommend giving yourself a couple enemas (not deepjust cleanse out the rectum), washing well, and using KY Jelly to lubricate (gels are best for anal play). I personally prefer to be naked on my hands and knees with my bottom up when my wife takes me. Theres something about becoming totally vulnerable, with my anus visible. Whether she licks my anus or fingers me, my wife knows my secret desire, a desire that more straight men have than admit. It is awesome having a beautiful woman lick your anus, bite your ass cheeks, spank you, and finger you while you masturbate to orgasm. If that feminizes me, so be it. I love having the tables turned and being on the receiving end for a change.

From R.D.
Recently, my wife and I began "dating" another couple. We got together for the first time about a couple weeks before Christmas. The woman was beautiful and petite. After going down on my wife, she strapped on her dildo and commanded me to bend over their bed. I'd been wanting this woman to do me since the minute I laid eyes on her when we first got together for drinks.

She lubed up my asshole, (while her partner was getting his dick sucked by my wife) and I took all of her 7 inch dildo pretty comfortably. It was thicker than the one my wife used on me. Anyway, it was such a turn on watching her fuck me in the mirror. The contrast of her white thighs pounding against my black ass was awesome. And I loved listening to her talk to me. She had this wickedly seductive Russian accent. She knew how to use that equipment too.

By this time my wife was watching everything while she was getting her pussy eaten. Later she said the sight of watching me getting boned in the ass by another woman was extremely arousing. She didn't know the half of it.

The next time we get together, I think I'm going to ask both of them to do me in the ass while I am tied to the bed. In my mind there is nothing that gets me more excited than taking it up the ass from a woman. My wife has been doing me for 10 years, and it's just a big a turn on to have her watching me getting taken from behind by another woman. I can't wait for our next date with our new couple friends!

From Mike
I have been having sex with another male, and it feels as good or better than hetero sex in most cases, especially after I stretched out my ass, so it slides in as well as cock in a pussy. I don't have gay attributes, but I sure like a well lubed cock banging me til I feel their balls bouncing off my ass cheeks. As they say in the credit card commercial,"Priceless"

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