Anal Sex for Straight Men

A penetrating question

How many men have a craving to be penetrated, but can't bring themselves to ask for it? I'm not thinking of gay men here, but straight men. Penetration is, semiotically, so full of meaning in most cultures. It is seen as an act of domination. The doer is dominant, the receiver submissive (I'm not talking D/s here - I'm speaking generally). There is also a perception that to penetrate someone is to feminize them.

All this might make it very hard for a man to seek out the experience of being penetrated, for fear of all the implications. Anyone have any thoughts on this?  —remittance girl

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From Paul K
I have been enjoying anal sex for many years, since my wonderful wife first used a vibrator on my then virgin ass. After awhile I purchased a strap-on for her to wear, I can honestly say my wife has a large cock. I really enjoy the pounding she gives my ass, but I have had only one real orgasm from anal sex. And I have been trying to figure out how she made me come without me jerking myself off. Well I think I have finally figured it out.

I have been using a ten inch vibe on myself and normally only get the pre cum dripping from my cock, what I have learned is in order to get the actual cum out is I must go deep in my ass with the vibe until it feels like it can't go any further in then bear down as if I were having a bowel movement. That's when I can feel myself starting to come, not just pre cum but the nice thick man creme starts oozing from my cock, the thick tasty stuff.

From Anonymous
When I am first penetrated and my wife's dildo opens my anal ring its feels so good when it slids to the hilt. Then she slowly fucks me. After she works my ass, I grab my cock and start to masturbate. She fucks me faster and deeper and tells me to come.

What a feeling. She loves doing it to me, she really gets into it as she pumps me,  Guys ask, women love doing this to men. Believe Me.

From Brian
I am very excited about it right now. My wife and I have been together for over 20 yrs, tonight she shaved off all of my hair (you know where) and asked me to wear panties and thigh highs. She is excited and I want to try.

From Doug
I can not believe how much I love anal sex, my wife pegs me about once a week. I would never want to be with a man—but my wife wearing a harness and dildo drives me insane. When she fucks me it is so intense. I moan—I tell her I love her over and over. When she first enters me—I go insane until she is done.

It scares me how much I love it. My ass needs to be filled at least once a week. I think I am addicted to it. At first my ass was a little sore a day or two after—but a good sore. Now it is not sore at all.

Guys if you want it from your wives or girlfriends—just ask. I  am so happy I asked. Best thing that ever happened to me. And my wife loves doing it to me. She can't believe how much I love it. I love her.

From Fister
18 years ago, I fell of the back of a truck and landed in a tight "V" position, with my tailbone down. When I hit bottom, the force was enough to drive my tailbone through my anus and sphincter, severing several muscles and leaving me wide open.

I found it hard to distinguish a bow movement and spent several months not going out. It was too embarrassing to run for the restrooms only not to make it and carrying several changes to deal with the problem.

That was before I met two lesbians who were involved in fisting. With a little practice (from both of them) I was soon able to feel the feces moving out of my intestines into the anus and was able to hold it there 'till I made it to the toilet. I may still have the occasional accident, but they are far and few between. I still enjoy being fisted and get tighter each time.

At the end of a fisting session, I perform a sort of fisting kegal exercise. With a large dildo (LA Special) I relax to allow it to penetrate me then tighten up on the withdrawal. My rectum shutters with each movement and I can actually come a second time (the 1st being fisted). I can continue doing this through 3-4 times, before I pass out from ecstasy.

From JB
When I was first dating my wife, I had no interest in anal sex. We were separated for a month and she told me she had masturbated and used her small vibrator in her ass for the first time. From that point on I was VERY interested.

When we were back together I took her rear end, a first for both of us. I have always believed reciprocity is just proper decorum, so in addition to loving cunnilingus, I was willing to let her explore me anyway she wanted to. That meant getting doggy style for her while she used her fingers on my rear. Later it meant letting her have my rear with an anal plug.

The best came when she ordered a strap-on without my knowledge and told me we were role-reversing on our date night. She wore my clothes and had bought a skirt, garter belt, garters, male thong, heels and sheer blouse for me. To top it off she put make-up on me and put a wig on my head and we went out to dinner and drinks. It was an interesting experience in how I was treated, but the dressing up like a girl didn't do anything for me, other than give me an appreciation of what it is like for her to dress up with the make-up, clothes and heels to go out.

What did do something for me was her taking over in our bedroom that night. She took off the blouse and hiked my skirt up and bent me over the bed. She proceeded to redden my rear with a sound spanking. Then she put me doggy style while lubing me up. I was expecting the small anal plug, but she used a dildo equal to my size on me. I also have an appreciation of what it is like for her to give her ass to me as a result. I ended up coming on the bed without nary a touch to my penis and now she takes me anally a couple times a month while I take her a couple times a year, both to our mutual satisfaction.

I love her in control and how good she is in fucking my ass.

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